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Re: settled by Tunjibalogun: 3:03pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA:You must be from Anambra too. It's pressure not pleasure |
Re: settled by Tunjibalogun: 3:04pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA:You're insane. Do the rites, you said your business is shaking yet you're having empty boasting here about how strong your business is |
Re: settled by Crampyblood(m): 3:15pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Marriage is not by force Kings... Marriage doesn't make you a responsible man... Or woman.. Y'all stay away from that sh*t Motor shafts? Check my signature |
Re: settled by SenecaTheYonger: 3:17pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Lvgirl: I don’t understand this stupid statement. So if you use your hand find babe, e mean say them never knack am? |
Re: settled by Sweetvie: 3:21pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
I wonder how u will married someone without knowing their culture... Is marriage by force? Anyway,go and finish what you started You can as well leave her with her family... When they are tired they will send her back shikenan 1 Like |
Re: settled by SGANIVA(m): 3:53pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Am not boasting ,I suspended any other ceremonies till next year but backlash and words am hearing from this people is uncalled for .a person that sells tricycle and even empower youth with it , with more than 30youth empowered can't be boasting Tunjibalogun: |
Re: settled by SGANIVA(m): 4:02pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Bride price paid , with all due traditional rite ,this alone cost 800k ,I wanted settle all this with money but the refused, that the usual traditional marriage ceremony and wedding must take place within this period of a Time because there daughter is pregnant, while I put the date next year but the are threatening to seazed my child imadiyi: |
Re: settled by RomanGreen: 4:05pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Kobicove: Stop lying please, once a lady's bride price is paid, she's officially as good as married. igba nkwo or white wedding is just merriment 5 Likes |
Re: settled by advanceDNA: 4:16pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA: Some inlaws are not family...they are fvckimg parasites from the day one especially from some Nigerian tribes... u will pay and its not paying thats the problem .its the inconsiderate and entitlement behavior thats annoying.... watch how they will still send brother inlaws and sister inlaws to your home for you to sponsor..... 3 Likes |
Re: settled by SGANIVA(m): 4:20pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Before paying the bride price , you have to bring or buy whatever that is on that list , some list go humble you ,igba nkwu and wedding is merriment, and if to say the agreed to collect Cash ,I could have settled them same day knowing fully well is wedding that is remaining ,but my wife became pregnant just under two months , that is why the are giving me this problems, which I don't know maybe is there plan with there daughter. RomanGreen: 1 Like |
Re: settled by Savedday: 4:21pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
See y we say they are useless? Kindly dissolve the marriage, if not, you are on your way to early grave . 9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u. They are nothing but useless. All of them... Know this and know peace 1 Like |
Re: settled by RomanGreen: 4:47pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA: Bros, since your wife is pregnant... you're in he position to dictate the tune, normally them suppose dey beg you to come do the rites and if your supposed inlaws aren't helping cut down the bill, baba check well o, they may be seeing you as a cash cow. Think about it and consider also the attitude of your wife 2 Likes |
Re: settled by RomanGreen: 4:51pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Savedday: Hahahaha, e be like say them don too do you |
Re: settled by SGANIVA(m): 4:56pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
I don't know if many people here even understand what am saying ,I sell tricycle, Keke and also gives out on hire purchase bases here in onitsha,I got married and full fill all traditional rite , now fix my wedding and traditional ceremony next year but with look of things and money that is involved . I approached my in-laws to inform them my plans for ceremony the next year but the refuse because the know there daughter is pregnant already threatening me or all type of foul languages , now with lough calculation this things might cost extra 2milion , first Na season we dey , second as a business man , you will fix things that is convenient for your business , but with all this am afraid to continue with this kind of in-laws and wife ,I don't know maybe the think my business collapse because of the ones we did ,by asking me why I should marry there daughter if I know I don't have money 1 Like |
Re: settled by Tunjibalogun: 4:58pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA:But you just complained you don't have money, hence reason for delay. You're confused speaking from both sides of your mouth |
Re: settled by NoToPile: 5:06pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
I thought once you pay the bride price you are married already in igbo land. I honestly don't understand what the issue is about. Maybe there's something else or their family has some specifications to it. Because I am not understanding. And I know lots of Ibo people do the traditional stuff now and the other white much more later so what's the matter? |
Re: settled by Timmy9999: 5:07pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA:please don't do anything that is inconvenient for your business, don't allow your business to collapse because if it does, they'll eventually collect there daughter from you, carry your people to go and have discussion with them on when you want to do and the reason,if they refuse then leave her with them,till the convenient time for you. 2 Likes |
Re: settled by Nobody: 5:10pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA:Having paid the bride price, which is traditionally recognized by custom, the marriage had been sealed, and she's your wife. The traditional ceremony, otherwise known as refreshment in the social cycle of aggrandizement, can be postponed and later done at a convenient date. However, it is very paramount in the eyes of your in-laws and the public, because it command respect. Here are your possible solution: 1. If they insist, tell them you don't have much, and you would like to do it in a smaller form. When meeting with them, It will be wise for you to involve some senior members of your family. 2. Since your wife decided to stay back with her parents/family, it means she had taken side with them. In this case, go to the family, tell them you need to register your wife for prenatal/antenatal. If they insist on having their way, go to a competent lawyer, file a legal action for endangering your unborn child. This case is possible even if their daughter is not customary or legally married to you, as far as the seed in her womb is yours. Note: this may caused you your relationship with the family. But it's very effective. After giving birth, you may decided to dissolve the marriage if the relationship becomes sour. Among the two possible solution above, I will advise you to go for the first. Even if it's a small gbedu, just give it to them as their last supper. 5 Likes |
Re: settled by SGANIVA(m): 5:14pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Thanks, imadiyi: |
Re: settled by klonboi: 5:17pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA: Brother please calm down. Please note that every Igbo home takes marriage very serious even if their daughter is wayward All those advicing you to divorce your pregnant woman Don't mean well att all. You see eh! I don't want to call it pride from the side of the parents but it's like a norm in most Igbo communities. Believe me, your wife and her parents loves you but they are acting in such manner because they are scared you might dump their daughter tomorrow, so a traditional marriage at least would have saved you from most of this bashing. Try as much as you can to initiate at least the traditional Marriage an see how everyone would be happy. Please don't leave the girl as suggested by some bachelor's here 2 Likes |
Re: settled by SGANIVA(m): 5:27pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
The are doing this at of pride ,there positions in church and pride in there village, but the knows all this and insist I buy all the things in the list without removing even a single Kobo , with just little above 800k I spent , adding small money or a million could have settled all this klonboi: |
Re: settled by Kobicove(m): 5:27pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
RomanGreen: See him claiming to be Igbo yet he's calling it "Igbá nkwo" instead of "Igbá nkwú". Where and when is the bride price paid if not during the Igbá nkwú? Go back and check the OP's original post and show me where he stated specifically that he has paid the bride price! |
Re: settled by 2dice01: 5:44pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA:Like i use to say without problems men are nothing The deed has been done Options ¹ Finish what you started (suffer pro max) well men love suffering ² Stand on your ground ( at worse they will likely claim your wife child and the baby will bear their name) The ball is in your court |
Re: settled by Karlifate: 5:52pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Lvgirl: ASUU never call off strike. |
Re: settled by Karlifate: 5:54pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
lanre9ja: Exactly! Bad in-laws will render your life useless faster, than a bad wife. |
Re: settled by swarley75(m): 6:09pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Sucre6: Some men are just daft, if I say my mind now they will say I am rude. I am sure OP is the kind of man that can't talk or toast a lady. Na men dey desperate for marriage now no be women again |
Re: settled by Enny2013(f): 6:16pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Marriage and plenty palava... I dnt even know what to say. |
Re: settled by SGANIVA(m): 6:19pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Chai relationship or courtship is very important but not my line |
Re: settled by Sleekcode: 6:24pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Mr poor man... u haven't paid complete for the package yet you're fuckiiing and straffiing their daughter all the styles u know and can think of U even went a step further to impregnate her Pay complete or get lost sir |
Re: settled by klonboi: 6:28pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
SGANIVA: Brother Please when it comes to marriage 800k is money for yoghurt and it's not something you drink and tell the whole world. Though I don't know your level of income but please stop emphasizing on the 800k you paid, you did it for your wife and she deserves more than that sef. Also whatever ceremony you do regarding your union is done just once in life, you don't repeat traditional marriage or white wedding. Finally their is pride in bringing up a child to a marriageable level, trust me their are so many ladies that don't want to get married rather they prefer keeping several men or sampling several dks, I had one sometime ago. you found someone that wants to marry you please appreciate their parents for bringing her Up to be a wife. this you will find in every Godly home. Please appreciate the parents by doing at least a traditional celebration |
Re: settled by InfinityFabric: 6:29pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
Life of a SIMPle man. It's a misery all-round. Ehya, sorry ehn |
Re: settled by InfinityFabric: 6:33pm On Oct 10, 2022 |
klonboi:Which kind nonsense be dis ? Op! Be proud of every Naira and Kobo of that 800K, people who spent less than 50K are having peace. You deserve the peace especially in these times of rarely serious men (even tho you're still ignorant). I think now you'll be forced to learn about female nature and how it will affect you. 5 Likes |
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