₦airaland Forum

ubunja:
1. married men are usually financially stable and 2. to an extent, good at sex, since they get to practise everyday; this automatically puts him miles ahead of single men.
3. Also married men tend to be healthier than single men , and good health adds to sex appeal.

Pukkalolo:
Never come across as if you're "thirsty" or "desperate" for a woman sexual companionship. That's a huge turn off.

The thing is, I don't necessarily encouraging faking; but when it comes to this aspect, it's better to "act" or "fake" like you have other women who actually want to Bleep you.

Women prefer to Bleep a man who already has other women in his life than to Bleep a lonely sexually desperate man.

A Woman's attraction for you increase when she feels that other women also want you.

Ekakamba:
1-99% of our girls will take a married man serious because of your first point, not because of the second and third. 99% of the remaining 1% will still consider his pocket first before the other 2 points.

Another motto of theirs: Why take the risk if you ain't getting paid (I like this phrase and I've used it & will continue using it when the need arises too )

Happy Church day

ProphetJeroboam:
There’s this ongoing discussion about Nigerian women and their obsession with food dates. Personally I’ve observed the same thing with African American women.

Nigerian girls just want to go on food dates and post monthly photo dumps. It’s a hustle, the main guys fvcking them don’t take them to Radisson Blu to eat Chicken Pasta bolognese. It’s you who wants to impress them that shoulders the responsibility of feeding the less privileged. Your reward will be a side hug while she posts photos of herself with you obviously missing from said photos. A girl that truly loves you will not ask or hint to you that she wants an exotic food date.

This brings me back to my old write-up about demographics and location affecting women’s choice in mates. In a financially unstable community, the women gravitate towards mates who can feed, clothe and take care of their financial needs. In a financially stable community, the young women fvck guys based on appearance, raw feelings , game etc

I have been in both situations and this is facts, not a theory. The white girls in my city will fvck you because they think you’re cute, funny or just straight up sweet and nice. I have never in my interactions with them spoken about food dates nor do they obsess about food dates, you will never hear bullshit like “my love language is food or see I am a foodie“ boldly written on their social pages, you’re dealing with hungry girls in Nigeria and I am not shaming them, it’s the reality, they’re not used to eating good so food becomes luxury.

I quickly noticed that the Nigerian girls in clubs in my city go home with guys who spends the most on drinks in the club and the White girls go home with the guy who dances with her and gives her a good time inside the club.

I am not in anyway glorifying white girls, I am just pointing out some notable differences. I hope y’all get the chance to experience the best of both worlds. I have some friends who got white girls for serious relationships and in a month or two you’ll see the whites girls learning how to prepare Nigerian dishes and trying to communicate in pidgin English, all they care about is making you happy. I’ll mention, just don’t get caught cheating on them

CaveAdullam:
7. Even Christ Jesus made a parable similar to this sexual game: he who has, more will be given, and he who has nothing, even the little he has will be taken from him. So, for you to gain, you must have, and if you lack, you can't gain.
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ubunja:
single men also have money sometimes. But they don't get chose more. So it's not all down to money. Don't be too blinded by the money thing. If women only fucced for money then by the rate of whóring more women would be rich. But they're not.

Emotionss:
Loneliness is hurtful but being alone is good.
It is Far more better than being surrounded by Simps/weaklings and Manipulators.

To be a successful Redpiller, you must learn and Be willing to Walk Alone.

ubunja:
single men also have money sometimes. But they don't get chose more. So it's not all down to money. Don't be too blinded by the money thing. If women only fucced for money then by the rate of whóring more women would be rich. But they're not.

JESHAL:
Women innately know the older they get the uglier they become, every additional year is misery for every woman on planet Earth, no matter how much make up they use, how beautiful they dress, the amount of cosmetic surgery the undergo, women innately know their value is their sexuality ( pussy and beauty), that's how they survive, that's how they can extract resources from men,that's how they can gain his commitment and attention, a woman that is ugly is a miserable woman, she has to become masculine to survive as she envy her beautiful peers.

Pukkalolo:
Real talk brother.

Jesus wasn't a simp: women were spending huge on him NOT the other way round.

A woman rub a very expensive oil on his feet that even got his disciples pissed off. After she finishing washing Jesus feet with her hair, the woman began kissing his feet. The woman’s kissing of Jesus’ feet was a striking expression of affection.... and then she anointed his feet with the expensive perfume.

The woman’s actions could have put Jesus in a very bad light. Some might be stupid to think, "is there something going between Jesus and this woman behind the scene?"

Well, he doesn't give a shit about their opinion and thought. Jesus was a redpill fella.

The alpha guys get kissed and respected by women.... While the simps kiss women on their feet and chase after them and begging for pussy and affection.

Jesus was asked a “trick question” by some manipulative fellas.

Trick question is a kind of question that doesn't have a correct answer; which means you're automatically wrong no matter how you answer it.

They threw this trick question at him: "The Romans are occupying power. Should we, the good Jews submit to them by paying their taxes?"

Jesus instantly knew the game they were trying to play. They wanted to trap him.

He smartly asked, "whose image is on the coin of Roman money?"

They answered: “Caesar's”

Then Jesus said,

"Then give to ceasar what belongs to Caesar and give to God what belongs to God."

His answer confused, surprised and render them speechless. They never predicted that response. Jesus escaped their trap.

If you want to get together with attractive women, you've got exhibit "Unexpected” behavior NOT boring behavior.

Boring and Expected response:

Woman: "my birthday is next week, what gift are you giving me"

Man: "Hmm, hmm, what do you want. I'll give you anything you want.

Woman: "you are such a sweet heart and a darling."

Unexpected and Surprised response

Woman: "my birthday is next week, what gift are you giving me"

Pukkalolo: "I'll give you the best possible orgasm."

Woman: [playfully hit me on the shoulder] "I hate you. You are such an Asshole"

Once a woman can predict your behavior, she'll find you boring.

Always remember that women are attracted to unexpectedness and unpredictability. Use that to your advantage.

Jesus was teaching at temple, then some teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.

Then threw a "trick question" at Jesus. They said, “Teacher this woman was caught in the act of adultery. The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

Jesus instantly knew the game they are trying to play. They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him.

If he said they should stone her, they'd use that against him, accusing of encouraging murder and all. If he said they should free her, they'll accusing him of supporting adultery.

That was a tricky situation.

So Jesus smartly bent down and wrote in the dust with his finger. He use that to gathered time so he can think of how to respond to them.

But the mofos kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said,

“All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”

Then he bent down again and wrote in the dust, waiting for their response.

When the accusers heard this, they walked away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman.

Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

She said, “No, Lord.”

And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

Jesus was never judgmental. Although he never support adultery. But he believe that only God has the right to judge.

Like I always say, once a lady perceives that you are the kind of judgmental guy that label some women slut or whor_e and label some other woman good girl or proper woman, she will never want to give you the pussy easily. Because in her mind, if she give you the pussy easily, you'll assumes she's a slut.

Jesus wasn't a wimpy guy. When he went into the temple, he saw some marketers selling stuffs there. He has low tolerance for bullshit. He began to scatter and throw out their stuffs and he drove them.

He said, “It’s written in Scripture, My house is a house of prayer; You have turned it into a den of thieves.”

Those fella must have been really upset with him for doing that. Well, unfortunately, he didn't came to the world to please everyone. He had a purpose.

He takes lots of gut and confidence to do that. Jesus had fearless confidence.

I always say, "Fearless confidence' is #1 non-physical traits that makes a man appealing to a woman. And I always say, You CAN'T achieve fearless confidence if you are scared upsetting women.

You have to lose the battle to win the war: If you want to be admired by some people, then you must be willing to be disliked by some other people.

I had to learn the hard way that if I really wanted get attractive and fun women, then I was going to have to upset couple of women in the process. There are no two ways about it.

This is not just with women, but also life in general.

Stay blessed brothers

Pukkalolo:
Real talk brother.

Jesus wasn't a simp: women were spending huge on him NOT the other way round.

A woman rub a very expensive oil on his feet that even got his disciples pissed off. After she finishing washing Jesus feet with her hair, the woman began kissing his feet. The woman’s kissing of Jesus’ feet was a striking expression of affection.... and then she anointed his feet with the expensive perfume.

The woman’s actions could have put Jesus in a very bad light. Some might be stupid to think, "is there something going between Jesus and this woman behind the scene?"

Well, he doesn't give a shit about their opinion and thought. Jesus was a redpill fella.

The alpha guys get kissed and respected by women.... While the simps kiss women on their feet and chase after them and begging for pussy and affection.



Jesus was asked a “trick question” by some manipulative fellas.

Trick question is a kind of question that doesn't have a correct answer; which means you're automatically wrong no matter how you answer it.

They threw this trick question at him: "The Romans are occupying power. Should we, the good Jews submit to them by paying their taxes?"

Jesus instantly knew the game they were trying to play. They wanted to trap him.

He smartly asked, "whose image is on the coin of Roman money?"

They answered: “Caesar's”

Then Jesus said,

"Then give to ceasar what belongs to Caesar and give to God what belongs to God."

His answer confused, surprised and render them speechless. They never predicted that response. Jesus escaped their trap.

If you want to get together with attractive women, you've got exhibit "Unexpected” behavior NOT boring behavior.


Boring and Expected response:

Woman: "my birthday is next week, what gift are you giving me"

Man: "Hmm, hmm, what do you want. I'll give you anything you want.

Woman: "you are such a sweet heart and a darling."



Unexpected and Surprised response

Woman: "my birthday is next week, what gift are you giving me"

Pukkalolo: "I'll give you the best possible orgasm."

Woman: [playfully hit me on the shoulder] "I hate you. You are such an Asshole"




Once a woman can predict your behavior, she'll find you boring.

Always remember that women are attracted to unexpectedness and unpredictability. Use that to your advantage.



Jesus was teaching at temple, then some teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.

Then threw a "trick question" at Jesus. They said, “Teacher this woman was caught in the act of adultery. The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

Jesus instantly knew the game they are trying to play. They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him.

If he said they should stone her, they'd use that against him, accusing of encouraging murder and all. If he said they should free her, they'll accusing him of supporting adultery.

That was a tricky situation.

So Jesus smartly bent down and wrote in the dust with his finger. He use that to gathered time so he can think of how to respond to them.

But the mofos kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said,

“All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”

Then he bent down again and wrote in the dust, waiting for their response.

When the accusers heard this, they walked away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman.

Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

She said, “No, Lord.”

And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

Jesus was never judgmental. Although he never support adultery. But he believe that only God has the right to judge.

Like I always say, once a lady perceives that you are the kind of judgmental guy that label some women slut or whor_e and label some other woman good girl or proper woman, she will never want to give you the pussy easily. Because in her mind, if she give you the pussy easily, you'll assumes she's a slut.



Jesus wasn't a wimpy guy. When he went into the temple, he saw some marketers selling stuffs there. He has low tolerance for bullshit. He began to scatter and throw out their stuffs and he drove them.

He said, “It’s written in Scripture, My house is a house of prayer; You have turned it into a den of thieves.”

Those fella must have been really upset with him for doing that. Well, unfortunately, he didn't came to the world to please everyone. He had a purpose.

He takes lots of gut and confidence to do that. Jesus had fearless confidence.

I always say, "Fearless confidence' is #1 non-physical traits that makes a man appealing to a woman. And I always say, You CAN'T achieve fearless confidence if you are scared upsetting women.

You have to lose the battle to win the war: If you want to be admired by some people, then you must be willing to be disliked by some other people.

I had to learn the hard way that if I really wanted get attractive and fun women, then I was going to have to upset couple of women in the process. There are no two ways about it.

This is not just with women, but also life in general.

Stay blessed brothers

Dabronze:
MJBOLT And Martinez come and see your wife baba ibeji Cave use to warn you too much of hollandia milk see the result nah!

Dabronze:
MJBOLT And Martinez come and see your wife baba ibeji Cave use to warn you too much of hollandia milk see the result nah!

Herbworks:
The reason why it seems guys are behaving like dogs and running after every beautiful gurl is cos girls nowadays are dressing half naked portraying their shapes. Imagine if guys with big Divks starts wearing tight trousers or guys with six packs starts walking without shirt on?

Haven’t you watched the recent cucumber pranks and how girls behave when they see a big dick? If you want a girl to frolic with you even if she’s married or in a relationship tell her how big your D is and how you will take her to cloud nine.

Most girls are starved of good sex

Herbworks:
The nature of women

JESHAL:
Women are always fucking, they might not fucxk you, they might not fuxck me but they are being ploughedd, don't be naive and decieved because Nigeria is a religious society that pushes morality and traditional values, they have alpha bad boys and boyfriends drilling their pussies, don't ever be exploited of your attention and resources in the friendszone, don't let any girl waste your time especially if you want sex.

Pukkalolo:
Real talk brother.
Jesus wasn't a simp: women were spending huge on him NOT the other way round.

Herbworks:
Another one

ubunja:
don't overshare too soon....

Rillycool:
How can someone be mysterious with women or maintain mystery when interacting and dealing with ladies?

Tonnyray:
Wrong caption.
More like the nature of women you always look out for.

ubunja:
by encouraging her to share most of the times (women are narcissistic and love talking about themselves) meanwhile yourself be giving her only breadcrumbs about your life. And remember the more private/confidential/personal the information a woman shares with you the closer she feels to you and the more she bonds with you.

ubunja:
the only problem is that you want to go from zero to smooth conversations with pretty girls. Doesn't work like that. You've to start at the bottom bro. You can't run before you can walk. You can't walk before you can crawl. You can't crawl before you can sit.

How do you begin at the bottom?

If you're like any typical gent you're aiming for the top pretty girls that catch your eye. Which is actually where you're getting it wrong. The secret to smooth conversations with the ladies is how RELAXED you yourself are. The more relaxed you are the more fire will be your conversation. Now ,the pretty girls intimate you. Which makes you anxious. Which kills your conversation.

I propose that you forget about these very cute girls for a moment.

Aim a little lower.

You know those girls that you hardly look at twice.cause they're not your type and class? Who you don't have any approach anxiety with. Who you can be free around and you can say anything to without any fear? Those are the girls you need to practice on. Hang out with them and use them to sharpen your skills. (Mind you, these are the same type/class of women you must be [secretly] screwing as target practice- but that's a story for another time)

You can't go from being terrible at talking to girls to having a flawless mouthpiece all in one go. Conversation skills, like all skills, must be cultivated through patient practice. And you don't practice on the very girls you want cause failure here will deal a blow to your confidence and self-esteem. Begin way down the ladder with girls you have nothing to lose with. Then as you become good at it start rising up the ladder engaging with better and better girls.

We live in a fast world and people want quick fixes and shortcuts. But given that a smooth mouthpiece is something you'll benefit from your whole life, it's worth it to invest your time and energy in perfecting it the right way.

BUTTTTTT.......
If my advice is too much and you're more after quick solutions, then your best bet is in fact to move FASTER. Approach anxiety is down to OVERTHINKING. The antidote is SPEED. the moment you spot your target you move in swiftly before your brain catches up and starts throwing up rationalizations: she's too pretty, you don't stand a chance etc.
The moment you see a lady you like quickly walk over and talk to her. The more you wait and hesitate the more your logic gets in the way.
And as counterproductive as it may seem, Go in with a blank mind. No questions pre-loaded, no topics prepared. Create space for a conversation to grow organically and naturally. Cause guess what? If the vibe is right you and the girl will click. And when you click with a stranger the conversation moves better cause the both of you will put in equal effort cause you both enjoy it.

Just don't go in with the express intention to shoot your shot, or even to build sexual tension. No. Rather go in with the express intention to have a great conversation. But be ready to go anywhere it may lead. Cause sometimes a vibe can be so good that you end up asking the lady to have a drink with you in a nearby shop, and even then the chemistry intensifies until you invite her to come chillax at your place. All in one day.

Now let me go off topic......But this is where a lot of guys mess it up:
If you're out with a girl and the conversation is flowing and the vibe is awesome, plenty of guys will ask for her number and part ways so they can talk to the girl later on. And they're shocked the girl who was vibey earlier is now cold and distant and uninterested on WhatsApp! Here is the deal: WOMEN ARE CREATURES OF EMOTIONS.
If you and a lady are vibing and the atmosphere is lit and she's clearly having a great time with you NO MATTER YOU JUST MET HER, NO MATTER SHE'S A STRANGER, NO MATTER SHE MENTIONED SHE HAS A BF, escalate escalate escalate. Cause right there, at that moment, in that instance, the iron is hot. The emotions favour you. The winds are blowing in your favour. The train is moving your direction. There's absolutely no reason to stop now. No reason to ask for her number. No reason to ask for her WhatsApp. Cause at that moment you're in a position to get something better than her contacts --her coochie.

A lot of guys don't believe in same-day puccy.
But that shít exists. A girl you just met can fucc you if the vibe is right and you look fuckable (clean, well groomed, fresh breath, neat clothes, nice deodorant). It boils down to the vibe. And how far you're willing to push it. Things can move from a great convo in the park to a shop having a cooling drink to you inviting her to come check out something at your place to you asking to take a shower then coming back with a towel around your waist asking her to put lotion on your back cause you can't reach --- then BOOM! And if you been putting in work in the gym it's DOUBLE BOOM!
You just have to build on the connection and keep the momentum going as soon as you click out in the street. Don't stop, ask for her number and go. No no no. Later on WhatsApp she'll have cooled down and will be uncooperative. This is the biggest mistake guys make. Everyone is so fixated on phone numbers they'll miss golden opportunities.