₦airaland Forum

Stevo35:
In churches, especially down here in the east, I’m sure seeing couples with their little helps saddling big big bags and babies during service, isn’t new.


My parish, a lot of families come to church with their helps…how do i know they are helps?

Their outfit, carriage and responsibilities, gives them out godu.

The couple usually dress to kee na impress.
Their children dresses sweetly as well; pretty hairdos and nice haircuts mana their helps…


They are clothed in drab cloths and most of the time, spot freshly shaved bololo instead of a hairdo.

As i was putting finishing touches around the altar steps, a couple stepped in with their kids…one look and i knew who the help was.

They located somewhere and sat…kids from ages 3 to 9 go upstairs but since the help was carrying a toddler, she had to sit with her guardians.

The bigger child, went upstairs to the kids department. I didn’t think much about it…I see such, every Sunday at Mass.

Now when Mass started proper, I went upstairs to sit with the kids…i like going upstairs because i get to see everything happening during Mass, at once.

That particular help, started going in and out of the church…they stayed just close to the side door.

Now babies cry in church…not new but each time the toddler cried, the help, takes her out then comes back in when she has stopped.


The toddler would always want to come down from the helps laps but she’d grab her to sit…toddlers don’t like sitting still.

I watched keenly like say na wetin dem send me go church go do…i am a very curious person.

Now when the toddler tried to get down again, she missed her step and since the help couldn’t grab her on time, the pretty baby landed on the floor, on her face.

She wailed and everyone at Mass paused.

Her mother got up, carried her and signalled for the help to follow her…they went outside.

Something told me to go straight to the window and what i saw when i looked down, made my blaad run cold.

As she was rocking her baby with one arm, she used the other hand to lift the helps ear, to the high heavens.

Bent her over, locked her head in-between her thighs and in quick succession, land three slaps to her back.

The help came up for air, writhing with one arm frantically massaging her back to meet another uppercut, to the face.

Me: I was like holy mary!

Do you know why i found what she did nauseating?

She Beat that child then rocked hers sweetly till she stopped crying.

When she came into the church, that is, when she passed the door into the church, she genuflected!

Catholics genuflect to the crucifix when they step into the church!

This woman genuflected after almost splitting a poor girls back!

Jesu Ovie!

sreamsense:
Alaigbo gets many aggressive women than any others in this country. They are usually bittered towards their maids. When Biafra is realized, only name will change from Nigeria to biafra, but individual character and behaviour may be worse due to impending economy failure. Aggression will be on increase, human trafficking and baby factories will increase due to inhuman to man activities. Imagine what would have happened to the maid if it were not happen in the church? Who knows wheather the maid will be punished or beaten again on getting home? Igbo women always like to oppress others especially if they get money. Self-inflicted slavery will continue on getting biafra

drololaaof:
Wao we can only pray for God forgiveness on such mothers,and that they realise that, that behaviour is bad and unwarranted.
It is not good to scold house help to sooth our children ,some of them are evil possessed that attack the children spiritually before you know it will too late

CaptainFM1:
The Bible
Those that carry it, don't read it!
Those that read it, don't understand it!
Those that understand it, don't practice it!

Those that practice it neither carry it nor read it. They just show love to their fellow humans. They are the ordinary/common people in the society.

Raalsalghul:
For the life of me, I can't understand why Nigerian women are so wicked to their maids.

wirinet:
Why will you have a 14year old as a house girl? Is that not child abuse or rather child exploitation?

Forget hair, cosmetics and hygiene, all those are to sooth your conscience. A child should never never be a maid.

Me, I have never had a maid. I have a washing machine and the cloths that cannot be washed by the machine is given to my dry cleaner.

My wife has someone come clean my house once a week.

My wife does all the cooking (she is a caterer anyway).

Never liked the idea of a live-in house maid not to talk of a minor one.

MNDY:
I don dey with the 3 major tribes wella so I know what I am saying. Igbo own wickedness nor even get exemption of fellow Igbo brother/sister, talkless of a non-Igbo person.

Your people in my place dey coordinate themselves well sha, based on fear. Na tolerant Yoruba people una dey follow drag Lagos with. Na Hausa match una wella with any craze wey una tink say una get.

Igbos, una go just dey feel unaself say na una stubborn/wicked pass. What a very mumu feeling.

Focusmind:
She does absolutely nothing in my house. We took her in just to relieve her poor parents the burden of raising her and her five other siblings. She's just an adult figure that will stay with the kids when I or myself goes out. She doesn't cook neither does she do laundry. She knows how to operate the washing machine and goes on small street errands for my wife. She is not your typical house help girl

Stevo35:
In churches, especially down here in the east, I’m sure seeing couples with their little helps saddling big big bags and babies during service, isn’t new.


My parish, a lot of families come to church with their helps…how do i know they are helps?

Their outfit, carriage and responsibilities, gives them out godu.

The couple usually dress to kee na impress.
Their children dresses sweetly as well; pretty hairdos and nice haircuts mana their helps…


They are clothed in drab cloths and most of the time, spot freshly shaved bololo instead of a hairdo.

As i was putting finishing touches around the altar steps, a couple stepped in with their kids…one look and i knew who the help was.

They located somewhere and sat…kids from ages 3 to 9 go upstairs but since the help was carrying a toddler, she had to sit with her guardians.

The bigger child, went upstairs to the kids department. I didn’t think much about it…I see such, every Sunday at Mass.

Now when Mass started proper, I went upstairs to sit with the kids…i like going upstairs because i get to see everything happening during Mass, at once.

That particular help, started going in and out of the church…they stayed just close to the side door.

Now babies cry in church…not new but each time the toddler cried, the help, takes her out then comes back in when she has stopped.


The toddler would always want to come down from the helps laps but she’d grab her to sit…toddlers don’t like sitting still.

I watched keenly like say na wetin dem send me go church go do…i am a very curious person.

Now when the toddler tried to get down again, she missed her step and since the help couldn’t grab her on time, the pretty baby landed on the floor, on her face.

She wailed and everyone at Mass paused.

Her mother got up, carried her and signalled for the help to follow her…they went outside.

Something told me to go straight to the window and what i saw when i looked down, made my blaad run cold.

As she was rocking her baby with one arm, she used the other hand to lift the helps ear, to the high heavens.

Bent her over, locked her head in-between her thighs and in quick succession, land three slaps to her back.

The help came up for air, writhing with one arm frantically massaging her back to meet another uppercut, to the face.

Me: I was like holy mary!

Do you know why i found what she did nauseating?

She Beat that child then rocked hers sweetly till she stopped crying.

When she came into the church, that is, when she passed the door into the church, she genuflected!

Catholics genuflect to the crucifix when they step into the church!

This woman genuflected after almost splitting a poor girls back!

Jesu Ovie!

uche393:
i don't know why some Yorubas don't like hearing anything "Igbo" if Igbos start our own hatred e go Will be bad.

does it mean that these house helps leaving in my former neighbourhood who are Yorubas and are maltreated not from SW? or the one that that I gave 10k for her transport to go back to her parents, or the one that usually give clothes which his madam burns them?
not to mention the girl a saved recently that was accused of being a Witch.



bad women are found in all tribes but Ona no go use ear hear Igbo... so bad

I have supervised a building project where we 80% of our workers are Yorubas, not because we don't have capable Igbos.

Kvvngkhalifa202:
My Brother if you ever grow up in a polygamous home when your mom is not in the marriage anymore you will know this one self nah child’s play

Baba my mom always talk say who born pikin nah suppose care for am,cos my thing and our thing nah two different things

MNDY:
Una Igbo people too wicked! Hian!!!!!

From personal experiences with una and apart from this maid domestic violence your tribe is very notorious for, una just too harsh in other ways too.

The only good thing about you guys is your hardwork, business acumen and business administrative skills which I am supporting Peter Obi for, for him to reflect in governance.

How can a tribe have terribly aggressive women like this. I have observed it among plenty other Igbo women around too. Igbo's are generally too forward for my liking.

I just dey wait for the day one of una go cross me make I nack am beta juju as an Igala-man with Number 1 level in juju as a tribe.

Martartins:
We no dey drag anything with a minorities like Igala.... An Igbo man will fight evil even when it comes from his tribe.... Na why una dey say we no like ourselves. Now you don push am say we stubborn. My brother, no be Igbo cause your misfortune for the juju business o...

arantess:
Instead of you to focus on church you got yourself distracted

Zoharariel:
Y-eebo women? Go to Anambra & Enugu, you will hardly see Landlords. Why? Because their women always kill their husbands to become Landladies.

In Nigeria, anytime cases of human-trafficking or housemaid-maltreatment come up, 9.5Million out of 10Million cases, the perpetrators are always Y-eebo women.

God is very mighty & wonderful. How he match-make the hate-filled Cocaine-trafficking Y-eebo-men with the wickedly-callous Y-eebo-women so that they can become one - and live together under the same roof is indeed very wonderful.

I pity any non-Y-eebo man going into any relationship with these wicked lots.

The only thing they’re good for is bending over & giving you Doggie or WheelBarrow in the brothel and immediately Ben Johnson-ing away from them, otherwise na your grave you wan dig by yourself.

Please, kindly go back and read the OP’s narration once again.

He said “the wickedly bastard woman was beating that poor house-help with one hand, while gently & sweetly rocking her own child with the other hand.”

Meanwhile, she was in the Church for only God knows what? instead of her to just relocate jejely back to her witchcraft coven or cauldron.

Look, if any Igbo person becomes the Nigerian President, I will relocate to Zimbabwe or Rwanda - I’m not joking.

Lama70:
"Dear, I don't understand what is going on in this house again o".

"It's not that I don't trust you o, but why are you growing so fond of Blessing, our house girl? "

Botking:
I have noticed pride, mostly from ibo women especially if their husbands get money

budaatum:
I was informed yesterday that once one believes in Christ, one is righteous, and nothing one can ever do can reduce one's righteousness. I said, a God who accepts such a definition can not be righteous itself.

This is a clear example of how we delude ourselves.

Stevo35:
In churches, especially down here in the east, I’m sure seeing couples with their little helps saddling big big bags and babies during service, isn’t new.


My parish, a lot of families come to church with their helps…how do i know they are helps?

Their outfit, carriage and responsibilities, gives them out godu.

The couple usually dress to kee na impress.
Their children dresses sweetly as well; pretty hairdos and nice haircuts mana their helps…


They are clothed in drab cloths and most of the time, spot freshly shaved bololo instead of a hairdo.

As i was putting finishing touches around the altar steps, a couple stepped in with their kids…one look and i knew who the help was.

They located somewhere and sat…kids from ages 3 to 9 go upstairs but since the help was carrying a toddler, she had to sit with her guardians.

The bigger child, went upstairs to the kids department. I didn’t think much about it…I see such, every Sunday at Mass.

Now when Mass started proper, I went upstairs to sit with the kids…i like going upstairs because i get to see everything happening during Mass, at once.

That particular help, started going in and out of the church…they stayed just close to the side door.

Now babies cry in church…not new but each time the toddler cried, the help, takes her out then comes back in when she has stopped.


The toddler would always want to come down from the helps laps but she’d grab her to sit…toddlers don’t like sitting still.

I watched keenly like say na wetin dem send me go church go do…i am a very curious person.

Now when the toddler tried to get down again, she missed her step and since the help couldn’t grab her on time, the pretty baby landed on the floor, on her face.

She wailed and everyone at Mass paused.

Her mother got up, carried her and signalled for the help to follow her…they went outside.

Something told me to go straight to the window and what i saw when i looked down, made my blaad run cold.

As she was rocking her baby with one arm, she used the other hand to lift the helps ear, to the high heavens.

Bent her over, locked her head in-between her thighs and in quick succession, land three slaps to her back.

The help came up for air, writhing with one arm frantically massaging her back to meet another uppercut, to the face.

Me: I was like holy mary!

Do you know why i found what she did nauseating?

She Beat that child then rocked hers sweetly till she stopped crying.

When she came into the church, that is, when she passed the door into the church, she genuflected!

Catholics genuflect to the crucifix when they step into the church!

This woman genuflected after almost splitting a poor girls back!

Jesu Ovie!

ObalendeCMS:
I just can never like those people; their male & female. Set of savage folks.