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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Nobody: 11:04am On Oct 20, 2022
peacettw:
A capital no. I have my kids to think of
Your kids can learn in school, your wife is not their teacher if that is what you mean, I have 2 neigbours one is Chinese the other is Indian both cannot speak, English, write or read, their kids from the ages 22 to 25 runs their kebab shop and chinese restuarants.

Even their 6 and 10 years olds translates, reads and write for them on their behalves.


So what is the big deal?

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Habeyy(m): 11:05am On Oct 20, 2022
culf:
Who read or write help, peace of mind is the main thing, later you can enrol her in an adult school, single


Some people that cannot write nor read are more accountable and industrious than others that can.
Sense will not kill you bro

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Drbarmes(m): 11:06am On Oct 20, 2022
VictorUSA:
How can someone who cannot read and write give you peace of mind in this 21st century?
The 21st century that has the highest record of divorce abi

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Slynation(m): 11:07am On Oct 20, 2022
Offpointng:


That's correct, I remember during PTA and other award giving party my Elder sis used to be the one to stand in place of my mother cuz she really din go to school and can't speak fluently

But that doesn't mean I don't love my mother but tbh myself would only marry a woman I will be proud off in public
Yea, you know you won't blame parents of the 80's and below because schooling opportunities wasn't in vogue by then, I remember my dad saying they used to trek distance from home just to attend classes in the 60's and at the end parents can only managed to sponsor one of there sons in higher institution while the ladies especially stay at home...But the world has evolved and things are no longer like that...
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Microwhy: 11:09am On Oct 20, 2022
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.
Can you?
Prior to marriage peace of mind is guaranteed but, no peace of mind is guaranteed after marriage.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Drbarmes(m): 11:10am On Oct 20, 2022
gypsey:
Your kids can learn in school, your wife is not their teacher if that is what you mean, I have 2 neigbours one is Chinese the other is Indian both cannot speak, English, write or read, their kids from the ages 22 to 25 runs their kebab shop and chinese restuarants.

Even their 6 and 10 years olds translates, reads and write for them on their behalves.


So what is the big deal?
Don't mind them. A lot of people are out of touch with reality
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by tunize(m): 11:11am On Oct 20, 2022
Oh yes atleast she can be taught to read and write with much of patient but human attitude something you can't change.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by MrTed(m): 11:11am On Oct 20, 2022
A very big YES with joy and happiness. I'll rather have a loyal, peaceful, loving illiterate wife than an educated karishika witch that is vain, disloyal and devilish.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Bahamas95(m): 11:11am On Oct 20, 2022
I can't!

I want the best for my children so I need someone to assist me package them. If you marry a lady that can't read/write your children would struggle for a while. I can't leave everything for teachers to handle......The best way of packaging your child is from home.

There're also educated women out there that can give you peace of mind.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Fearyourcreator: 11:13am On Oct 20, 2022
DaniWhizbang:
Fair enough. It's his or her choice. Personally, I can't and will never do such
Peace of mind over anything for me

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Nobody: 11:14am On Oct 20, 2022
siofra:
90% of Nigerian men type like this and I can't stand it.

It's annoying, reading chats like this.

Halo beautiful

May I send you a message on email?
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Staru1(m): 11:14am On Oct 20, 2022
nwanne, hence there is peace of mind....al matter solved unless u re part of boys that depends on women for sirvival.......#itiseasytobehappy# not easy to be #joyful#.. u can be happy not joyful...but u can not joyful and not be happy.....
éducation is different from marital course...until u studys it, u re novice
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Umadam: 11:14am On Oct 20, 2022
Pls gimme rest of mind, can get u the best teacher to work on u,
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Habeyy(m): 11:16am On Oct 20, 2022
What do I have to say
Sometimes ,I just feel for the sacrifice of our parents
The things they had forgo to marry each other's
Education..better livelihood ,jobs etc
If some folks here knows the sacrifice the father or mother made to marry each other and the opportunities lost by our parents due to bringing up a family, raising them up.. training them to become someone in life
No one will rush to comment on this
With what m seeing in Vogue now
I will make it a point of sitting my children down and telling them of the sacrifice ,time lost tht can't be recovered back for remaining steadfast and responsible for their lives

Too many young adults are damaged mentally ..emotionally to be something meaningful when they grow up
What a life
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by ogunmourinho(m): 11:16am On Oct 20, 2022
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?
yes i can...in fact they are my preference
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Fearyourcreator: 11:17am On Oct 20, 2022
If you don marry you go understand
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Parachoko: 11:18am On Oct 20, 2022
MeaslesMumpsRub:


Better still employ her a Very Good Male Maths Teacher.
You may then realise the importance of peace of mind. Mind you, You go collect lesson Teacher for the kids cause "mummy doesn't know it"
I don't mind
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 20, 2022
Drbarmes:

Don't mind them. A lot of people are out of touch with reality
They are ignorant.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by kenchop: 11:25am On Oct 20, 2022
THE INABILITY TO READ AND WRITE ON ITS OWN IS A KILLER OF ANY KIND OF PEACE OF MIND.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by juman(m): 11:30am On Oct 20, 2022
Not so good idea.
But if you live in your country the challenges are not too big.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by CaptMarvel(m): 11:31am On Oct 20, 2022
I'm not sure one can teach someone how to give them peace of mind in marriage.

Peace of mind is very crucial in marriage. The best people that can tell you this are those that have none of it in their marriage. When a man leaves home and decided not to return back home to his wife then you'll realize what peace of mind is in the home.

You can take her/him to adult class to read and write. But that peace of mind is non-negotiable.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by mywells: 11:35am On Oct 20, 2022
That's trading in hell, it's just crazy, you have to be tolerance,have to over look,and above all don't hesitate to let him learn, it's tough trade. Saying from experience.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by HODAnson(m): 11:35am On Oct 20, 2022
My girlfriend once told me that "when it comes to marriage both the man and woman are supposed to be selfish in choosing a life partner".

Selfish in the sense that you have to ensure you choose the BEST especially in Character, Intelligence and Beauty.

Don't just marry for the sake of Love, marry for your happiness, growth and peace of mind.

So for me I cannot marry someone who cannot read and write.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by DJInfluence: 11:38am On Oct 20, 2022
Nothing better than having peace of mind in your house. Literacy can be taught. You can always send her to adult school to learn to read and write. So yes I will.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by frozen70(f): 11:39am On Oct 20, 2022
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

I will humbly marry a man who can't read and write

So far i will have absolute peace and he will give me attention


I will write his speech and he will introduce me as his wife to read it

I don't care what people think about it

I am after what makes me happy

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by heysquare(m): 11:41am On Oct 20, 2022
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?
Nothing better than peace of mind. That's exactly what I'm experiencing now after my marriage with so called literate crashed. I never regret marrying her. She has been enrolled for adult education and I do teaches her at home any time I'm less busy

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Dshocker(m): 11:41am On Oct 20, 2022
siofra:
90% of Nigerian men type like this and I can't stand it.

It's annoying, reading chats like this.

Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by donmik: 11:42am On Oct 20, 2022
Parachoko:
Yes

I will pay a teacher to teach her how to read and write.

People underestimate the importance of Peace Of Mind a lot.

Please, are you married?

I like learning from people who have practical experience.

Thanks
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by hojico: 11:46am On Oct 20, 2022
Reading & writing is necessary. It does not require lot of money & time.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by donmik: 11:48am On Oct 20, 2022
SmartPolician:


Let me tell you something about life.

Some people are humble while most people are humbled. What makes some people appear good is that they see their deficiencies and know that they cannot compete with people who have worked on themselves in all areas.

They try to make up for their failings with good character. Just like ugly girls having good character because they know they cannot compete for men with the beautiful ladies.

Give people what they lack and you will see the beast in them manifest. However, this is not 100% the case, but that's what happens in most cases.

So, that so-called lady who gives peace of mind appears to do so because she knows her embarrassing weakness. The day she conquers it, you will see her true colours.

Hmmmm...
Your experience in perspective, I believe
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by hush15: 11:49am On Oct 20, 2022
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?


Absolutely Yes, I will ensure that she is very enlightened tho cos that's very important

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