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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 5:24pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
Since you said my answers are wrong, please sir, teach me how to answer by answering my question
Did you answer in the manner you're supposed to? grin
It's like someone asking for your name but instead of saying your name you go ahead to describe how your parents had you.
You already know this but fear won't let you answer accordingly. I seriously have no problem telling you that it's okay for a chief commander to kill children. I'm not the one practicing any religion, neither am I the one upholding the rules of any religion. Your "morals" are being put to test. Either you answer the way you should or chicken out as usual.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 5:25pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
So why are you dancing up and down instead of showing me how it's done by answering my question with superior logic
Dancing how?
You neva answer my question you dey find answer. grin I'll definitely answer your question, just don't be a chicken and answer mine first the way you should.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 5:33pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
I promise, if you answer both of my questions directly, I'll answer yours sincerely.
I'm an athiest and you are religious. You uphold religious rules. If I kill an innocent person does that mean that it's justified for you to kill an innocent person too? grin
Don't you get it?
I have answered your question but you rejected my answers. I gave two scenarios and gave answers for both but it wasn't good for you. If you're the teacher and I'm the student and I have supposedly failed my classwork thrice, won't you do correction for me to learn ? grin grin

I don't ever think all atheists are evil or bad. I actually think that most atheists are some of the most intelligent people I've met. It takes intelligence to question what you have been indoctrinated with instead of following sheepishly wether you understand or not.

I understand many atheists were victims of wrong doctrines just like I was. However, my issue with some atheists is that some of them are simply anti -christian and talk against the Christian God more than the Christians themselves. Somehow these set of atheists forget that Allah, Krishna, Buddha etc are also deities people worship. grin grin grin

I'm very logical, I won't bend the truth to score cheap points. I told you that I will not hesitate to kill if my life is threatened and that in war, infanticide is collateral damage. But minus war or threat to life. I won't even think of killing.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 5:40pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
Did you answer in the manner you're supposed to? grin
It's like someone asking for your name but instead of saying your name you go ahead to describe how your parents had you.
You already know this but fear won't let you answer accordingly. I seriously have no problem telling you that it's okay for a chief commander to kill children. I'm not the one practicing any religion, neither am I the one upholding the rules of any religion. Your "morals" are being put to test. Either you answer the way you should or chicken out as usual.
I have answered your question as well unless you're trying to say that because I'm a Christian, In a war where I was attacked first I must not kill children in my revenge attack.

My religion forbids unprovoked killing.
My religion teaches karma that what a man sows he reaps and he who kills by sword dies by the sword
My religion doesn't forbid self defense
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 5:47pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
I have answered your question but you rejected my answers. I gave two scenarios and gave answers for both but it wasn't good for you.
I didn't ask you to give me scenarios, I asked you to agree whether it's right or wrong which you have been avoiding out of fear.
Like I said, it's like being asked your name but you go ahead to give a scenario of how your parents had you. Answer and stop being scared. cheesy
If you're the teacher and I'm the student and I have supposedly failed my classwork thrice, won't you do correction for me to learn ? grin grin

I don't ever think all atheists are evil or bad. I actually think that most atheists are some of the most intelligent people I've met. It takes intelligence to question what you have been indoctrinated with instead of following sheepishly wether you understand or not.

I understand many atheists were victims of wrong doctrines just like I was. However, my issue with some atheists is that some of them are simply anti -christian and talk against the Christian God more than the Christians themselves. Somehow these set of atheists forget that Allah, Krishna, Buddha etc are also deities people worship. grin grin grin

I'm very logical, I won't bend the truth to score cheap points. I told you that I will not hesitate to kill if my life is threatened and that in war, infanticide is collateral damage. But minus war or threat to life. I won't even think of killing.
Long sermons again that has nothing to do with the questions asked. Whether you find atheists intelligent or not is irrelevant.
And if you don't think that people who say "there is no god" are not always evil, then it means your Bible was either lying or it was written by someone who wasn't logically sound, because it clearly stated that they're evil and do no good. grin
Abeg answer that question so I can do you a Favour of answering yours. No fear, I'll be easy on you. cheesy
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 5:51pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
I didn't ask you to give me scenarios, I asked you to agree whether it's right or wrong which you have been avoiding out of fear.
Like I said, it's like being asked your name but you go ahead to give a scenario of how your parents had you. Answer and stop being scared. cheesy


Long sermons again that has nothing to do with the questions asked. Whether you find atheists intelligent or not is irrelevant.
And if you don't think that people who say "there is no god" are not always evil, then it means your Bible was either lying or it was written by someone who wasn't logically sound, because it clearly stated that they're evil and do no good. grin
Abeg answer that question so i can do you a Favour of answering your. No fear, I'll be easy on you. cheesy
Asking me if infanticide is right is a broad question but using 1Samuel 15 as a scenario.
I have answered you that I won't hesitate to kill children if I feel it's necessary.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 5:53pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
I have answered your question as well unless you're trying to say that because I'm a Christian, In a war where I was attacked first I must not kill children in my revenge attack.

My religion forbids unprovoked killing.
My religion teaches karma that what a man sows he reaps and he who kills by sword dies by the sword
My religion doesn't forbid self defense
That's why I'm asking you if you agree that it's right to rape and kill children or babies whose parents have committed these crimes.
Answer with "Yes I agree that it's right", "no I don't agree". Simple! Why are you making things so difficult for yourself? cheesy
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 5:56pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
Asking me if infanticide is right is a broad question but using 1Samuel 15 as a scenario.
I have answered you that I won't hesitate to kill children if I feel it's necessary.
It's not a broad question if I'm asking you within a particular context.
It's been established that those kids posed no harm to fully armed men but they were killed unprovoked for something they don't know jack about. And you kept bringing up China war crimes, boko haram and all sorts of acts carried out by the US government as if that makes things any better. grin
Or you expected me to support the US killing children? Abeg answer my questions jor.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 5:57pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
That's why I'm asking you if you agree that it's right to rape and kill children or babies whose parents have committed crimes.
Answer with "Yes I agree that it's right", "no I don't agree". Simple! Why are you making things so difficult for yourself? cheesy
I keep answering you that my action will depend on the scenario. How difficult is it for you to understand?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 5:58pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
It's not a broad question if I'm asking you within a particular context.
It's been established that those kids posed no harm to fully armed men but they were killed unprovoked for something they don't know jack about. And you kept bringing up China war crimes, boko haram and all sorts of acts carried out by the US government as if that makes things any better. grin
Or you expected me to support the US killing children? Abeg answer my questions jor.
It's war and you can't establish that attempting to spare their life won't cause harm to the soldiers because you weren't there.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 5:59pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
I keep answering you that my action will depend on the scenario. How difficult is it for you to understand?
So is it right to rape and kill children depending on the scenario? Answer.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 6:00pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
It's war and you can't establish that attempting to spare their life won't cause harm to the soldiers because you weren't there.
What harm does a 5 months old baby want to cause to a fully grown man with a sword and Armour? grin
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 6:01pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
So is it right to rape and kill children depending on the scenario? Answer.
I'll bite. It isn't

Edit: I'd like to say that by adding depending on the scenario you automatically make the question have more than one answer, and that doing so without defining said scenario stops you from streamlining your answer
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:02pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
What harm does a 5 months old baby want to cause to a fully grown man with a sword and Armour? grin
What if they're used as human shields
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:03pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
So is it right to rape and kill children depending on the scenario? Answer.
I never said rape is right in any scenario.

Killing children in war should be done if it's necessary.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:04pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
It's not a broad question if I'm asking you within a particular context.
It's been established that those kids posed no harm to fully armed men but they were killed unprovoked for something they don't know jack about. And you kept bringing up China war crimes, boko haram and all sorts of acts carried out by the US government as if that makes things any better. grin
Or you expected me to support the US killing children? Abeg answer my questions jor.
Nothing was established anywhere. You weren't there.

A long range attack could have been used. The enemies could have been attacked with poisoned arrows.
The men could have used children as human shields
The city could have been impenetrable and the approaching army could decide to rain down fire on them via burning arrows and trebuchets.
They could even be an infant army
Or suicide bombers.

You haven't established anything
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 6:04pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
I won't hesitate to kill children if I feel it's necessary.
Chai!
The things religion makes us say and do.
embarassed cry cry

Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 6:06pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
Chai!
The things religion makes us say and do.
embarassed cry cry
I don't see how it relates to religion if even those who don't believe will also do it

Edit: Casual fallacy
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 6:06pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
I never said rape is right in any scenario.

Killing children in war should be done if it's necessary.
Oh, so murdering children is okay, but raping them is a no no? Nawa! What kind of moral are you upholding?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:08pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
Chai!
The things religion makes us say and do.
embarassed cry cry
Lol, but you also admitted that you would do the exact same thing
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Ebukaboss(m): 6:08pm On Oct 28, 2022
NeckingNgulping:
I'm an atheist, and I found that I'm incapable of dating women who are particularly religious. I could go out on a date with a religious woman, and that's usually solely by merit of me pretending the whole time as though I'm truly in for it.

Since long term relationship with these women would have necessitated that i make pretence a hobby, logic sets in and we inevitably part ways.

In a highly religious country like ours, it's quite hard to find a woman who's an atheist as me, let alone a decent one.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 6:09pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:
I don't see how it relates to religion if even those who don't believe will also do it
She's clearly fine with justifying all sorts of acts simply because her religious text permits it.
She would defend the indefensible simply because of her religion. cry
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:10pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
Oh, so murdering children is okay, but raping them is a no no? Nawa! What kind of moral are you upholding?
The soldiers kill if it's necessary, rape isn't necessary.
Show us where the bible supported rape. Don't put words into my mouth
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:11pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:
I don't see how it relates to religion if even those who don't believe will also do it
They have nothing else to say.

They accepted that they'll do the exact same thing in the similar circumstances but the Christians must not do it because they are christians.

Argument point don finish grin grin grin
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 6:12pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
Lol, but you also admitted that you would do the exact same thing
I did not admit. I told you I wouldn't mind answering you with that particular response if that were to be what I had in mind, because you thought asking me that question would make me deflect or abandon the argument.
I haven't answered your question, remember?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:12pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
She's clearly fine with justifying all sorts of acts simply because her religious text permits it.
She would defend the indefensible simply because of her religion. cry
Self defense has nothing to do with religion.
You also justified children killing in war so is the problem now that a Christian did the same?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 6:13pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
Self defense has nothing to do with religion.
You also justified children killing in war so is the problem now that a Christian did the same?
I justified it where? Abeg point me to it. grin
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:13pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
I did not admit. I told you I wouldn't mind answering you with that particular response if that were to be what I had in mind, because you thought asking me that question would make me deflect or abandon the argument.
And why would you answer me with that particular response if that's not what exactly you'll do in that scenario
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 6:15pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
The soldiers kill if it's necessary, rape isn't necessary.
Show us where the bible supported rape. Don't put words into my mouth
What if it was necessary for them to satisfy their sexual urges? I mean if they can hold a 5 months old baby and slaughter it into different pieces, then they probably won't have an issue doing other things to it.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 6:16pm On Oct 28, 2022
jasminer:
And why would you answer me with that particular response if that's not what exactly you'll do in that scenario
I said show me where I justified it. You don start.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 6:16pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
She's clearly fine with justifying all sorts of acts simply because her religious text permits it.
She would defend the indefensible simply because of her religion. cry
That's definitely not what they said
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 6:16pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:
I justified it where? Abeg point me to it. grin
Isn't this you here few minutes ago grin grin grin

kingxsamz:
Did you answer in the manner you're supposed to? grin
It's like someone asking for your name but instead of saying your name you go ahead to describe how your parents had you.
You already know this but fear won't let you answer accordingly. I seriously have no problem telling you that it's okay for a chief commander to kill children. I'm not the one practicing any religion, neither am I the one upholding the rules of any religion. Your "morals" are being put to test. Either you answer the way you should or chicken out as usual.
I added a screenshot Incase you quickly edit your response.

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