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aisha1314:
People should be judged by their behavior and the way they treat others. Not by their virginity or their sex life.

advanceDNA:
No one is selling anybody....cultural practice exist everywhere even in civilized/morally degraded climes

Chenult:
Sequel to this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7414144/lot-marriages-now-crashing-within


I have noticed that most of the ladies (offline) and on this forum easily flare-up at the mention of the word, Virgin

Why is it so please?

Romanoff:
I don't get angry as long as the man is also a virgin.

Virginity isn't only for women so don't expect what you can't give.

capnies:
THERE IS NOTHING LIKE A MALE VIRGIN. MEN START HAVING WET DREAMS FROM TEENAGE AGE, NO HYMEN.
THE PRIDE PRICE A MAN PAYS IS FOR A VIRGIN, THAT IS WHY WOMEN USE VEIL ON WEDDING DAYS FOR THE MAN TO UNVEIL. IF YOUVE LOST YOUR VIRGINITY YOU HAVE NO PRICE TAG.
GO BACK TO THE MAN THAT PIERCED YOUR HYMEN PERIOD!!

aisha1314:
Because the way people talk about virginity in women is just downright sexist and misogynistic. People act like the only thing that matters about a woman is whether or not she is a virgin and not her character as a person. As long as someone is a nice, well mannered person, whether they're a virgin or not is totally irrelevant. After all, there are many women who are virgins but have very nasty personalities.
People should be judged by their behavior and the way they treat others. Not by their virginity or their sex life.

aisha1314:
Because the way people talk about virginity in women is just downright sexist and misogynistic. People act like the only thing that matters about a woman is whether or not she is a virgin and not her character as a person. As long as someone is a nice, well mannered person, whether they're a virgin or not is totally irrelevant. After all, there are many women who are virgins but have very nasty personalities.
People should be judged by their behavior and the way they treat others. Not by their virginity or their sex life.

Flamemignon1:
Culture isn't static,it's a dynamic concept that evolves overtime especially when the masses sees that some people are discriminated by it

MDK777:
is the Man also a virgin??

odinson1:
You remind me of a certain podcast on YouTube

1Sharon:
Why do men get enraged when women want to date rich men?

teebagy:
Which podcast

advanceDNA:
Says who?? U??
There are cultures that have remained for centuries even in the west...people started them....its a choice

Flamemignon1:
Are you sure you read what I wrote well because I gave a condition in mine

advanceDNA:
Dont be condescending...its rude......u implied that culture isnt static but dynamic.....

And i said who made the rule....Who said it has to be dynamic.?? you...??..

Flamemignon1:
And I ask again who said it had to be static?

advanceDNA:
Nobody.....culture isnt a state or democratic law ......if u dont want to pay bride price u dont have to....u can marry a tribe that doesnt ask for it....

aisha1314:
Because the way people talk about virginity in women is just downright sexist and misogynistic. People act like the only thing that matters about a woman is whether or not she is a virgin and not her character as a person. As long as someone is a nice, well mannered person, whether they're a virgin or not is totally irrelevant. After all, there are many women who are virgins but have very nasty personalities.
People should be judged by their behavior and the way they treat others. Not by their virginity or their sex life.

Gerrard59:
Does that apply to poor men as well?

aisha1314:
Because the way people talk about virginity in women is just downright sexist and misogynistic. People act like the only thing that matters about a woman is whether or not she is a virgin and not her character as a person. As long as someone is a nice, well mannered person, whether they're a virgin or not is totally irrelevant. After all, there are many women who are virgins but have very nasty personalities.
People should be judged by their behavior and the way they treat others. Not by their virginity or their sex life.

odinson1:
Fresh and fit

teebagy:
U mean those two weirdos

advanceDNA:
Whats your point?? So wht if the male is not a virgin??

Poor marry rich
Lame marry the able bodied
The blind marry those that can see...
Whos making rules that only virgins must mary virgins.... again i ask ...whats your point?

MDK777:
my point is that people should stop saying marry virgin when they know very well that the person they are advising to marry virgin has been s*xing from one person to another, it's time to settle down and you are advising him to go for virgin, what happened to the ones he has been defiling all these while

advanceDNA:
U dont have point bros....
The people having swx all around ...did anybody rape them?? Its their decision to have sex...let every one face the consequences of their decisions..... u cant say people should stop having choice....

If you dont have 2.1 and a company says that they want 2.1....even though the owner doesnt have 2.1..its their policy and your loss.....u will win from another company that wants u with your 3rd class or pass degree....

Not everyman wants a virgin...why is someone's choice paining you?? I dont get

MDK777:
do to others what you want from others, if you disagree with that rule, that means you are a Hippocrate and you deserve an honour killing

advanceDNA:
.honor killing?? Na so e dey pain u say u no be virgin again?? No body made the decision for u...u decided to spread legs .....what choice pple make is totally up to them

MDK777:
Let Virgin To Virgin , Let Those That Are Not Virgin Not Making It A CompulsoRy Addit To Marry Virgin . Again I Ask Are You Virgin ? If No Why Must You Say You Must Marry Virgin? Do You Want To Be StoneToDeath?!

advanceDNA:
Lol......no vex oooo....i'll help u tell all the men they have no right to make a choice..... they must marry women 20 other men have slept with.... are u hapoy now ??

advanceDNA:
Lol......no vex oooo....i'll help u tell all the men they have no right to make a choice..... they must marry women 20 other men have slept with.... are u hapoy now ??

MDK777:
That Is Not What I Mean If You Know That You Are Not A Virgin Just Learn To Be Fair In Your Decision Making , If You Are Stil LuCKY To Have A Virgin Good But If You Are Not DonT Feel Bad Wide HOLES Are Also For Marriage Purpose

advanceDNA:
Of course someone will marry those retired prostitutes 100 men have slept with..it could even be your son and brother......everyone has their choice to make... weda u like it or not.....

if you son brings home a prostituté hundreds of men has slept with with sevrral abortions to match...please smile and pat him on the back for doing so well.....

I have noticed people like u dont like to give the same advice u give to others to your own