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Hrhdujdb:
Y'all be blowing me on this thread I'm not gon lie. A KNOWN TROLL IS DOING HIS JOB AND YALL HAVE A DUTY - IGNORE but somehow that's very difficult, ain't it?

The troll even gave the instance of authors making money like that's a crime but same troll went ahead to show himself consuming some products and in a *furnished* location. Do you think the producers of those things also didn't make profit?

Moreso, don't tell me there're people in here who think knowledge is cheap, heck knowledge of female nature? Smh

If you think those books are expensive, why don't you try being ignorant about female nature and compare the losses? A troll is using a popular carrot and stick method that we supposedly already learnt as a tool in women's handbook. This is now being used by a troll and supposedly ballfull men are falling left and right lol

Humor me

A TROLL IS A TROLL. Just as AWALT, the troll is guilty of being dumb until proven innocent. In this case, it's better he deactivates and come back as a new account if he thinks he wants to join in on the intelligent convo here for all the crimes he's committed against this thread

ubunja:
what's important to note about the 80/20 rule is that it's an instinct or code in every woman. It doesn't mean it will always happen in reality cause there's lots of variables in reality. It's like how men want virgins and hate step mothers -that's in men's DNA, but men still marry non virgins and date single mothers. Cause there's a world of difference between desire and actualization.

Women desire only the 20% of men but it doesn't mean they'll get their heart's desire. While the 80% of men are effectively cut off sex it doesn't mean they're sex starved or incels. It's more about the type of sex they are getting cause The 20 % and the 80% are being given TWO DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX. The 20% get the lust and plenty of sex, while the 80% get the chore sex that's dished out grudgingly and with severe limitations. Yet plenty in this 80% are not getting anything. I don't know if it makes sense? : I remember a video on YouTube where some married men were asked what they wanted for Christmas? And almost all of them said they wished they could get sex. And these are married men! Married but getting scant sex. They're definitely sex starved although once in a while they do get it.

Labadi69:
The troll that is making ‘little sense’ is actually doing very well in life and wants to tell young idiots here how/what to prioritize in life so as not to make life mistakes with nonsense they learn here. A lot of nonsense dey this thread from broke poverty stricken desperados wey get hidden agenda

I repeat, to anyone wey get sense, don’t take shit that these wankerrs try to put in your heads seriously. They are sexually frustrated fools wey lack of toto wan wound them mentally. Especially the Zimbabwean immigrant in SA with him numerous monikers.

Btw, Feels good to be back from a boring business trip somewhere in East Africa. Naija too sweet. No where like home

Streak47:
Yeah, makes lots of sense and very relatable. I've been your ardent & quiet follower wayback from the very time you stepped into Nairaland.

obinna58:
Reached here, going back to page 1 to re digest the undigested ones , keep em coming guys.

I guess Men can never be free from women manipulations no matter who you think you are.
I took my dad to hospital to confirm his health status through series of lab tests, after everything it was time to meet the doctor. We were on the queue waiting to see the doc for explanations when I spot this beautiful MILF, she's probably in her mid-forties but doesn't look like someone who's married or have kids, still in shape, curvy, sexy, beautiful dress, an instant look will make you think she's materialistic due to heavy looking jewelries on her body, looking at how she behaves you'll know she's very impressed with her self look, I got to understand she's one of the senior consultant doctors when she started issuing commands to staffs, securities. Within 3mins on the stand of about 50people she was the most active, noticeable controlling person there(I don't need anyone to tell me how many men is at her feet and why she's so possessive).
Fortunately I was directed to her department and we waited for our turn, on getting to her office, my dad sat, I brought out scan, lab tests and about to explain things she cut me off, asked me to give her the tests results and began analyzing to my dad herself, well her analysis wasn't bad, not so impressive either, along the line I asked a question, she ignored and continued, I wanted to ask again, she looked and asked if I'm dumb and why was I pressing phone when she was talking(that moment I knew I met the wrong doc, I wasn't pressing phone and I was paying attention to her everywords) still ok I kept calm(young quiet innocent looking me wey be peace maker ubanja for don break her head and light the hospital on fire by now ) but that was a bit rude, she told my dad grown ups this days are terrible, though she went back to explain things a bit, after her analysis I took the test results, I won't play with dad's health, I needed to be very sure and I rather be thrown out by the security.
I ask some couple of questions and that was when the problem started,
She said she gave us more time than usual (I no surprise cos people tolerate bulsh!t) and have plenty people to attend to which is true, I raised my voice so people outside office can hear us well, I accused her of being rude and corrected her I wasn't pressing phone, I told her I paid for everything and I deserve a clear understanding about my dad's health which I'm not getting, so this the professionalism I've been hearing about this hospital, why showing more concerned about money than people's health, this time staffs, my dad were already calming me down,2 more doctors rushed in and was like I shouldn't be talking to a doctor like that, she denied my accusations and they try to make things look normal, 3 of them now attending to me, they answered me well and prescribed drugs, the woman now doing damage control telling me they care so about the patients that don't I see 3 doctors attending papa.
Everything went smooth and my dad heightened his respect for me.
Out of the 3 doctors was male, was surprised she was controlling the male too, same level oo, asking him for help in a way as if it's his responsibility, and he was doing it shamefully.

Her character, attitude, and the way she talks are very intimidating, 100% full of herself, I won't be surprised she has downed so many men on her life path (simps) which gave her such possessive nature like she deserves everything.

ubunja:
I'm here man,, and you're right on the money.

Guys come here and diss the thread saying we're too focused on women ,personally I don't know why they can't create the threads they need as you have mentioned. Cause it's simple. If this thread is not what you're looking for you can just go create the one you feel is sorely needed. And guys will visit and contribute if they like it. Simple.

KingZaddy:
There is a lot guys dont understand about females


i told a beautiful girl "i dont like you and i dont trust you" she couldnt sleep, she was used to men worshipping her beauty. it was the beginning of her falling for me.



brothers, i only have one prayer for you now that you know the truth, may the truth set you free.


happy sunday

Datedoboy:
This reason is why women think they are smarter than men. Ladies even in my workplace will say they can't marry a poor man but if a guy says he can't marry a non-virgin they get angry.

Some even ask if the guy is a virgin too. If it is a virgin girl that asks this question, I won't be angry but i have observed that it is non virgins that asks this questions the most.

If you ask these same girls if they are rich too before asking for a rich man, their face will change again.

So I wonder, Wealth and virginity which is easier to have?

All girls inherit Virginity from birth but not all boys inherit wealth from birth. So it's easier to have virginity but do most girls keep it? Nooooo.

Many women don't care to keep what they came with for their husbands which is (virginity) but they expect men to keep what they did not come with? Which is (riches).

Men should set the standards but sadly today,it is women that sets their partial standards. Partial because most of them can't keep it.

Any girl that wants value must bring value. Like what a guy said in another thread, you cannot withdraw without deposit.

Any girl who asks for rich guys b4 marriage when she has thrown away what she already has, is like someone who did not save any money but visits different ATMS looking for free money. Such person is a robber and sadly some guys just like a strange ATM will give out cash even when the account balance of the withdrawer is zero

ubunja:
all women have backup plans, that's in the female nature cause to women in relationships, Men = Survival. So depending on one man without a backup plan is not going to work. As someone elsewhere has said, Your girl may not cheat, but she definitely knows who comes after you. This is something men need to learn and master as well. Having backup plans. Too bad normal friendzones don't work on women and about the only way you keep a woman warm for yourself even though you may not be with her, is to make her a babymama. But that's something most guys are not prepared to do because morality. They'd rather be played than play anyone.

sinfultrust:
Been a redPiller for almost a year. I was going through heartbreak when I stumbled upon this thread and everything in my life changed drastically. It wasn’t easy but the results are massive. I bought my first car 3 days are ago, something I never thought possible. Last girl I dated was 27 and she pressured me to marry her by all means. I don’t have much but I was doing ok by myself before I met her. After few months of dating I found myself solving all her financial problems to the extent of supporting her family with financial aid. I’m an average Nigerian youth scraping to survive, I was blind to the fact that the only exchange I get in return for all my sacrifices was sex. Yes, I’m not gonna lie there were times she lend me money like 10k, 20, 5, 7 etc it goes on and on. Compared to what I’ve spent, I know I was on the losing end. Our relationship was hitting rock bottom fast because her demands was becoming outrageous and I was constantly broke to the extent of not having airtime or data. Come middle of last year she told me she’s going to NYC camp. That was when I started having guts feeling that our union is over or something crazy is about to happen. Before she leave for camp I got sick and she didn’t visit. Even though she knows I’m a lone wolf I’ve got no friends whatsoever she still didn’t visit. I was admitted at the hospital for a week, while I was going through WhatsApp status on hospital bed I saw a video of her in a party having the time of her life with friends. Honestly, that evening I cried, I felt betrayed I felt so many things I don’t even understand. I had no money for hospital bills so I told her to assist me with half of it if possible and she came through with half of it sent to hospital account. When I got out we talked for 3 good days on phone before I stumbled on this thread because I was already going crazy about the whole thing. I was searching the internet for answers, I was helpless and desperately in need of what to do next. Because, at the time I thought exiting the relationship would be childish or make me look immature. Long story short, this thread changed my life. I stopped contacting her and blocked her on both lines but not WhatsApp. I was expecting her to react but she didn’t contact me too. Months past, It was almost a year before she contacted me on WhatsApp on day, and said she just gave birth to a baby girl. I didn’t reply for 2 days and when I did reply it was just one word “congratulations” then she started asking how I’m doing, if everything is great and so on. My brother I didn’t respond. I know some of you think this thread is a joke but it’s not. In just a year of not being in any exclusive relationship I’m seeing transformers in my life. Nothing good comes easy, you wouldn’t know if you don’t try. My best and most reliable friend and partner is money and my skill to make money. I treat my hustle the way I used to treat girls, I don’t play with her. As a man my worth my beauty my affluence and everything goes down to what I have. So, if you’re here to fight and argue with others, you’re doing yourself more harm than good. I reversed my game with women I deal with. Strictly making all my dealings with them transactional. This is the best way for me, It might not work for you and of course everyone is different. The way you deal with Y is gonna be different from the way you deal with Z. But, whatever I do, I do it transactional. If she wants a favor from me that I can offer. Then, I want something from her too. No matter how small, she must do something in return except she’s family. Universal blessings to all brothers in the house and enjoy your weekend. Thank you

Martinez39s:
Another funny thing, if you haven't noticed, is the way some come here, look at our many discussions and insights into female nature and act like our many discussions are just us constructing too many unnecessary dogma and cumbersome rules in an attempt to attract/handle women and have sex. They make us seem like people who are confused, inexperienced and misled, and people who are just confabulating or regurgitating tons of unnecessary, unrealistic, dogmatic and irrational maths/theories in this regard. I won't even discuss those who act like our discussions are just disgruntled musings and rage of unsuccessful, inexperienced and sexually frustrated men, neither will I discuss those that make it seem like our many discussions are 24/7 time-wasting activities of unproductive men who have nothing to do than to be obsessed with women.

They do this disingenuous or ignorant nonsense just to make the point that the principles of attracting women and having sex isn't too hard, that it's just simple. Well, they should tell us where we said it's hard or made it way too hard like climbing seven mountains and seas. They make this point as they raise their shoulders and act like they have the experience and knowledge, and things in this regard are very easy for them. You know, like they know the way, the smart and simple way... no stress, while we are the ones haphazardly roaming in confusion and ignorance, like headless chickens, with our silly dogmas and theories. What cheap nonsense! Do they think this silly game will score them points? You see ehn, the need to make a good point by any means and chase relevance/attention will make many become clowns before smart folks who don't fall for cheap games and can see through people.

We have discussed how all roads leads to sex (I am sure most of them are unaware and don't get the context), but our many discussions involve manifold subject matters, other than getting sex, that are in line with the purpose of this thread.

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If they can't pick want they want from this thread's rich buffet and leave the rest, that's their business.

If they really think we are forming a religion or cult with this red pill stuff and imposing dogmas and doctrines on everyone, they should leave us alone with our "religion" or "cult." After all, we are not forcing anyone to join the red pill and there many other threads to go to. They can even create their own threads.

If they think they can do things better, let them simply create their thread.

TainyLite:
Amazing!!!

TainyLite:
Amazing!!!

CaveAdullam:
This poor mental form of reasoning always starts and ends with being a damaged h0e or prostitute - they are the only ones that have access to the holy communion.

If that should be the case, what about male - murderers, pedophiles, fraudsters, and every male in prisons worldwide? They need to be set free because they have been hearing religious sermons weekly, however, their case is in hell.

Women always come up with asinine thoughts like this to save face after they messed up the whole place. They know they don't stand a chance and can't win the existing structures. Rather, they create one and persuade people to see reasons with them and get them hoodwinked.

Men who don't know this will praise God, shout for joy, and shed tears for finding a good wife. Meanwhile, God in heaven is cringing for such a dumbfounded man.

Sigh.

TainyLite:
Amazing!!!

Martinez39s:
A common reset button that fools bluepilled fellows.

ubunja:
thanks man, it's been a journey hey! And I doubt if there's another Red Pill thread like this one anywhere in Africa. This may very well be Africa's biggest manosphere thread out there. I may be wrong but I don't think I am.

Streak47:
Yeh. It is.

The 80% again. All what you said today. S*x starved.

princekami:
Sad truth

Labadi69:
This guy is always talking trash. The biggest idiot amongst all men is a man that thinks impregnating a woman is the best way to keep her. What kind of nonsense misyearn is this? Being a baby daddy and going through hell just to keep a woman? Yamayama fall any idiot that takes this stupid advice!

Guys if you know what is good for you don’t listen to this Zimbabwean immigrant that is here to fukk up your lives. A word is enough for the wise!!

Ballzproblemm:
61 likes ,omo people they visit here o ,just that many are ghost readers

Vulcanheph:
Everything you said is correct... Sue to the high number of simps, this has led many women to think all guys can be manipulated.
This post reminded me of an experience I had last month at a Suya spot ....
I had gone there to buy Suya and the aboki was already atttending to two girls (that couldn't make up their mind about how much Suya they wanted to buy).
I started selecting my own and paid for it, while I was waiting for it to get prepared, I started making small talk with the girls, out of the Blue, one of them said that I should buy for them too, in my mind I was like "because I don smile and talk with una, una think say I be mugu".... I simply and firmly told them no that I won't pay for them , collected my Suya and left.
What really disgusted me was the manner and tone they used to ask me to pay, as if it was a God given right.
I was asking myself , How can you meet a total stranger and just start making demands ?.
TRP way is the only way.

ubunja:
We say women control sex, and it's true,