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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by nedekid: 7:30pm On Nov 10, 2022
post=118284623:


....... prolly the same way Pandora O started also tongue tongue
The current champion of lying in Africa as a whole cheesy grin cheesy
So you don't think some folks can afford to send 300k to just 1 relative monthly?
Guy, 300k to some people is like 300 naira to others. 50m is like 50k to some people.
Abi you no see how PDPs Ayu shared 1.4 b for accommodation for a hand full of people.
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Successfulben: 7:31pm On Nov 10, 2022
You just motivated me, sir.
Davidave:
NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING,LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OFF IT
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Zeal0000007(m): 7:37pm On Nov 10, 2022
Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.
bro what kind of lying is this, we go run for u, did u mean 30k or 300k , pls expantiate

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by jessylaurel(f): 7:38pm On Nov 10, 2022
captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

If it will get you the money keep lying. Since he doesn't wants to be of help. My 2cent

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by dominique(f): 7:40pm On Nov 10, 2022
Glue:
Even some parents are like that. They don't believe you need money

Shiando how market? I'm sure you know a thing or two about faking illnesses to swindle money from people grin. Quote me, I want to see something, hopeless pathetic beggar

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by sisisioge: 7:41pm On Nov 10, 2022
Is he your parent? Na wa o. Do you even know how he fends for himself too? Africans and their sense of entitlement! Tufia!

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by zoroby(m): 7:42pm On Nov 10, 2022
Can you imagine the entitlement mindset. So your brother no get his own problems to solve? What nonsense
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by nedekid: 7:42pm On Nov 10, 2022
GoodIsGod:


As correct and on point as your post is, it is still not completely correct.
We are in this world to be our brothers' keeper especially if you are siblings. Life is unpredictable. That person who has nothing today in the midst of your own aboundance could be your only last hope in the next couple of hours.

If you have closed your eyes to his needs today, when the table turns don't come and be preaching forgiveness sermon to him.
Yorubas say "Gba mi lójò kí ngbà ẹ lẹẹrun nile aiye" meaning -- Life is like, if I need your help during the raining season you might need my help during the dry season.

Not that I don't understand your point though. But life is not supposed to be like that.
Well said!
So many folks on this forum seem to be minors have little life experiences, so just talk crap.
What if the parents intentionally focused all their little resources on the first child, knowing they were going for broke, in the hope that child will support to train the 1 other kids? As in last retirement money or they sold property. It is done in parts of the country.
That aside, blood is thicker than water, no matter what, siblings must drag themselves up! Go and look at emoney and his older brother kc. No matter what shit they have their hands into, they pull themselves up.
I cannot have money and my siblings do not. Even if they have nothing going, try to make them comfortable to your best ability and help them start up something.

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by phlame(m): 7:46pm On Nov 10, 2022
captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

Why don't you ask Atiku or Tinubu for Money?? Ewu!
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by DadaHammed: 7:50pm On Nov 10, 2022
Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

300k? How much go be her salary if she start work for Nigeria?
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by AfonjaConehead: 7:51pm On Nov 10, 2022
post=118284518:

Atleast, he is a good brother,
He doesn't want you to die.
He believes in your future.
It is well.

You will soon be through with school and start making your money.
Hold on tight our darling OP.
We've been there before,
now, God don dey fill and feed us all ova wink
It's only a matter of time.
We hope you are encouraged by this?
Abeg shut up ya mouth,thank you very much
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Toriagirl(f): 7:54pm On Nov 10, 2022
Sometimes you just have to lie to save your life.
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by HappyDolphinRea: 7:54pm On Nov 10, 2022
Keep the good work
Before you finish schooling make sure
You publish a book with title
How to tell lies to your brother and never get caught: A complete step by step guide to get anything including money from your siblings grin
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Techm8: 7:58pm On Nov 10, 2022
Even our parents, we had to lie sometimes to squeeze some money out of them. When you begin to make your money you'll understand how hard it is and you wouldnt just be giving your money at every ask

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by PrinceJoeWan(m): 7:59pm On Nov 10, 2022
Pls sir, I'll appreciate whatever you can help me with, it's only clearance that remain for me.
Thanks





Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by godofuck231: 8:00pm On Nov 10, 2022
captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.
you are a low life get a life and stop looking for chump change for a living
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Clinghton: 8:01pm On Nov 10, 2022
Very unfortunate, is your mom aware?
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by doneback04: 8:01pm On Nov 10, 2022
Go and find something in school to be earning money, I can remember in school back then I do assignment and report practical for those yahoo boy and runs babe and was pay heavy that was how I used and sustain myself with the little my parents was sending for me

Don't make it sound like ur brother is owning you any money, u have other options to choose from before embarking on school, he too have is own issues and challenge he is handling

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by clockwisereport: 8:05pm On Nov 10, 2022
You even get brother way dey give you money if you lie to him. During my own days, my elder brother only gives me advice. I left him and started hustling on my own. The hustle helped me even after I left school.

You don't need to depend on your brother. Start doing something to earn extra cash no matter how small it is.

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by clockwisereport: 8:10pm On Nov 10, 2022
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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Sleekfingers: 8:15pm On Nov 10, 2022
captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.


Your brother don't owe you anything....
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by optimistcandyboy(m): 8:16pm On Nov 10, 2022
what do you do at the moment?
would you send money to you, if you were your brother?
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Olaolex: 8:16pm On Nov 10, 2022
post=118284542:

SECONDED!!

End Of Thread.


Thank you Big Brother Nigeria.
We don hear.
Thanks for this evening LAMBA.
NL LAMBA of the Day! wink cheesy wink
YOU ARE VERY MAHDDD
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Terry44: 8:16pm On Nov 10, 2022
cry
Op Such is life. Don't mind those shouting entitlement mentality, the essence of family is to protect, unite, empower when in need. For your brother things may be tough for him also, at least he gives when he see it extremely important.



Try help yourself and don't be too dependent on him.

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Igbodicool(m): 8:17pm On Nov 10, 2022
post=118284623:


....... prolly the same way Pandora O started also tongue tongue
The current champion of lying in Africa as a whole cheesy grin cheesy
Nothing good comes out from pathetic urchins.

You shall end in life like APC government!
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by BABANGBALI: 8:17pm On Nov 10, 2022
Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.
300k every month? Bros you sabi lie o. Abeg small small biko
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Olaolex: 8:18pm On Nov 10, 2022
Zeal0000007:
bro what kind of lying is this, we go run for u, did u mean 30k or 300k , pls expantiate
Why are you guys draging wahala like this?
Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by neoG(f): 8:18pm On Nov 10, 2022
If this is true. There will be no need graduating from school. Na to dey get carryover dey go. Keep deceiving yourself with lies
Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

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Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by BABANGBALI: 8:20pm On Nov 10, 2022
DadaHammed:


300k? How much go be her salary if she start work for Nigeria?
no mind am. Na lie him dey lie, him wan form big boy for girls on nairaland

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