Ohislee:
1- White wedding came with Christianity. As a Christian, one feels fulfilled been joined in the church.

2- Ladies always insist even when men are not interested thereby increasing the wedding budget.

HomeTutorsPro:


It's a good feeling to be married in the church as a Christian.
What I have always preached against is the idea of a "Christian" getting married twice.
They'll have their traditional marriage aka trad., then go ahead to have a church marriage aka white wedding.
A Christian doesn't need a trad.
Traditional marriages are for people who aren't Christians.

kingthreat:
Nigerian women insist you must do 4 kinds of weddings with them.
The engagement, the traditional wedding, the white wedding and the court wedding.
All financed by the man. At the end, una go dey claim feminist for house.
Too much pressure on the Nigerian man

phemmyfour:
It's what it is

Religion is one of the major reasons. White wedding is one of those religion practices induced by culture

Lawnre:
Funniest thing is all these so called weddings, are not divorce proof.... ���


Nigerian women insist you must do 4 kinds of weddings with them.
The engagement, the traditional wedding, the white wedding and the court wedding.
All financed by the man. At the end, una go dey claim feminist for house.
Too much pressure on the Nigerian man.

vickydevoka:

No lady will agree unless she's above 30

benqo01:
Men might not even like loud wedding,but u see ladies ehn

phemmyfour:
It's what it is

Religion is one of the major reasons. White wedding is one of those religion practices induced by culture

bibbiana:

So, there won't be an engagement rite, or it will be included in church program

Mild5:
That's very unnecessary, but I don't understand why we do that

NOETHNICITY:
Yet most of those pussiesssss have been fucccccked by others.

Goldbw122:

In theime in memorial the black want to be like the white people yeah, in style, way of life, manners, every black want to travel overseas to experience green pastures even when the cost is high..

Blacks want to drive the latest care not caring if is the last naira on their pocket

They just like anything that the white are doing they just want to be like the white, speak like the white... So many things they are willing to forsake their own religion, faith and say of life to be in the atmosphere of the white culture.

I hope we don't forget our heritage and rich culture.

Stankovic22:
I have had this discussion with ladies and I have had to walk out from two relationships because of this and in my present relationship my woman already knows my stand. You either accept it or we go our separate ways. Not me trying to be imposing but for both of us to have sense by force.

You cannot be asking me to blow away life savings just because I want to impress people who won't go through the storm with me when they come. I have never seen anyone given an award for the best wedding, never!

I have friends that did lavish wedding and after that marriage has been from hand to mouth rushing to borrow from me a single.

I gave my partner two options.

White wedding with reception with no business for you or we just go for church blessings and money meant for reception will be used to invest in your business?

When the offer was laid, she accepted business. I proceeded to discuss with her parents who already knew we are together and told them that I am only coming go fulfill all traditional rites after that we just go for church blessings, no party no noise

The mom was like, no nah! This is our first daughter and we need to at least celebrate it.

I understood clearly but we cannot kill ourselves to prove a point.

Both families are not strong, I am a struggling young man who remembers my root and what it means for a child to sleep hungry.

I told the mom, mummy, you already know my root and your root too. Which will you prefer? We prove a point and hope God blesses us tomorrow or we save the money, invest it for your daughter and her children not to go hungry?

I already have my business thriving, I wouldn't want to do anything that will affect me and when we get married, we will now be stressing the business. Outside the business capital I have some nice savings and part of it is what I am setting outside for the marriage rites. The rest is set aside for my wife's business and other unforseen events. Business capital must never be touched.

The father spoke and said he supports our decision and it's a wise one.

So the decision has been made. Come March 2023 we will be tying the knot. In a low key way and continue our together forever life.

RestructureNig1:
Africans have their own wedding but spend a lot doing European weddings and wearing fake hair. Africans are shameless have low self esteem. Tụfịakwa

I watch one on IG some couple of days ago, it took place in Tennessee . the priest prayed for them near a small river they put ring on theirself kissed each other and went Straight to their car . whites live a very small and simple life thou not all of them .
In my mind I was like this kind wedding na only Jesus fit split them , cause them no cast theirself. Wedding these days in Nigeria is just like paparazzi and show off to me

businesshub101:
Christianity has its root in Israel and Turkey. But yet we don’t do our wedding in the Hebrew way. They traditionally wed at night.

Colonialism is the reason for most European wedding

Mild5:
That's very unnecessary, but I don't understand why we do that

kingthreat:
Nigerian women insist you must do 4 kinds of weddings with them.
The engagement, the traditional wedding, the white wedding and the court wedding.
All financed by the man. At the end, una go dey claim feminist for house.
Too much pressure on the Nigerian man

businesshub101:
Religion isn’t a major reason. Even your pastor will tell you traditional wedding is the most essential. Then go to church for pastoral blessings.