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realtalk19:
Even with fertility test,it's still not a guarantee for pregnancy. Couples can be okay medically and still not get pregnant either for a long time or might get pregnant if they both end up with someone else.

Thank you for the information

Dgamezzz:
We have been dating for 4 years , living together for 2 years we are planning to wed next year .

We been having unprotected sex 2 to 3 times a week but no sign of pregnancy so far. I haven't given her any condition for her to be pregnant before marriage neither we are trying to conceive just being curious if she is fertile or not hence why I am trying to mpregnant her without her consent . If she becomes pregnant during the process it will not be a problem for me.
I am a responsible person the baby will not lack anything.
My baby mama was pregnant 4 months into the relationship my daughter is 7 years . I am worried that she is not fertile because i want to have 3 to 4 more kids . I don't want to marry her to divorce her later because of the inability of her to conecive. I only want to marry once in my life.
I want us to go for fertility test before the marriage but I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Please fams help me out I am getting depressed, as I don't know what to do. Please no insult please

So it's after 4yrs.. you are now saying this?

And who says you are not the one with the problem?

Check yourself first. Inform her of your decision and you both work on it

NeoWanZaeed:
So it's after 4yrs.. you are now saying this?

And who says you are not the one with the problem?

Check yourself first. Inform her of your decision and you both work on it

I don't have any problem , I have a 7 years old child. I am not cheating on her but I believe that If I met someone else I can impregnate her in seconds it is just an example I will not do it. I just don't understand why her case is different. I will talk to her about the test and we will do it together

Dgamezzz:
I knows when she is menstruating and her ovulation time. Her cycle is 28

Ok then, keep firing, God will answer your prayers

True love should be

1. Without deceit
2. Unconditional

You fail on both counts.

Dgamezzz:
We have been dating for 4 years , living together for 2 years we are planning to wed next year .

We been having unprotected sex 2 to 3 times a week but no sign of pregnancy so far. I haven't given her any condition for her to be pregnant before marriage neither we are trying to conceive just being curious if she is fertile or not hence why I am trying to mpregnant her without her consent . If she becomes pregnant during the process it will not be a problem for me.
I am a responsible person the baby will not lack anything.
My baby mama was pregnant 4 months into the relationship my daughter is 7 years . I am worried that she is not fertile because i want to have 3 to 4 more kids . I don't want to marry her to divorce her later because of the inability of her to conecive. I only want to marry once in my life.
I want us to go for fertility test before the marriage but I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Please fams help me out I am getting depressed, as I don't know what to do. Please no insult please

You have to Carry her along with your plans

Let her know that you want both of you to go for medical check up to know your health status

That includes fertility test on both of you

If she queries you about it
Tell her that you are wondering if you are still potent and you want her too to run fertility test to know when you guys can start having babies

If she refuses to don't force her, you can pull out of the relationship

If she accepts you let it be open test and open test results for both of you before the Doctor who will interpret the results

If it's your own fault, you work on yourself

If it's her own fault you guys will join her and work on her

And if both of you are satisfied ok, then you plan for pregnancy immediately

You have to be open with your partner in your relationship to avoid secret fears

FromOuterSpace:
True love should be

1. Without deceit
2. Unconditional

You fail on both counts.

How ? Explain please

frozen70:
You have to Carry her along with your plans

Let her know that you want both of you to go for medical check up to know your health status

That includes fertility test on both of you

If she queries you about it
Tell her that you are wondering if you are still potent and you want her too to run fertility test to know when you guys ca the start having babies

If she refuses to don't force her, you can pull out of the relationship

If she accepts you let it be open test and open test results for both of you before the Doctor who will interpret the results

If it's your own fault, you work on yourself

If it's her own fault you guys will join her and work on her

And if both of you are satisfied ok, then you plan for pregnancy immediately

You have to be open with your partner in your relationship to avoid secret fears

Thank you so much

Wawelexy:
Ok then, keep firing, God will answer your prayers

Amen thank you so much

Ride on

If she's not on birth control she must be sterile

Dgamezzz:
We have been dating for 4 years , living together for 2 years we are planning to wed next year .

We been having unprotected sex 2 to 3 times a week but no sign of pregnancy so far. I haven't given her any condition for her to be pregnant before marriage neither we are trying to conceive just being curious if she is fertile or not hence why I am trying to mpregnant her without her consent . If she becomes pregnant during the process it will not be a problem for me.
I am a responsible person the baby will not lack anything.
My baby mama was pregnant 4 months into the relationship my daughter is 7 years . I am worried that she is not fertile because i want to have 3 to 4 more kids . I don't want to marry her to divorce her later because of the inability of her to conecive. I only want to marry once in my life.
I want us to go for fertility test before the marriage but I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Please fams help me out I am getting depressed, as I don't know what to do. Please no insult please

The bed should be left undefiled before marriage

Dgamezzz:
How ? Explain please

You trying to impregnate her "without her consent" is an act of deceit. I think you should know that without being told. It could also be considered criminal since you're not married.

FromOuterSpace:
You trying to impregnate her[b][/b][/b] [b][/b]"without her consent" [b][b][/b][b][/b]is an act of deceit. I think you should know that without being told. It could also be considered àqqàqyou're not married

Thank you

Dgamezzz:
We have been dating for 4 years , living together for 2 years we are planning to wed next year .

We been having unprotected sex 2 to 3 times a week but no sign of pregnancy so far. I haven't given her any condition for her to be pregnant before marriage neither we are trying to conceive just being curious if she is fertile or not hence why I am trying to mpregnant her without her consent . If she becomes pregnant during the process it will not be a problem for me.
I am a responsible person the baby will not lack anything.
My baby mama was pregnant 4 months into the relationship my daughter is 7 years . I am worried that she is not fertile because i want to have 3 to 4 more kids . I don't want to marry her to divorce her later because of the inability of her to conecive. I only want to marry once in my life.
I want us to go for fertility test before the marriage but I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Please fams help me out I am getting depressed, as I don't know what to do. Please no insult please

- Is your baby mama different from your current girl?

- If yes, is she married or have a family of her own?

- Is she happy wherever she is?

Please note that you have to settle with the mother of your current child first if she is still single this is because she would never be happy with you if she's left single.

*Single girls never see husband talk more of single mothers *



For your current girl...

Her experience in previous relationships might cause her to prevent you from impregnating her especially since she knows you have a baby mama because no woman wants to be a baby mama.

Davidave:
If she's not on birth control she must be sterile

She is not

MissLAP:
- Is your baby mama different from your current girl?

- If yes, is she married or have a family of her own?

- Is she happy wherever she is?

Please note that you have to[b] [/b][/b][b][/b]settle with the mother of your current child [b][b][/b][b][/b]first if she is still single this is because she would never be happy with you if she's left single.

*Single girls never see husband talk more of single mothers *

Settle her with what na?

MissLAP:
- Is your baby mama different from your current girl?

- If yes, is she married or have a family of her own?

- Is she happy wherever she is?

Please note that you have to settle with the mother of your current child first if she is still single this is because she would never be happy with you if she's left single.

*Single girls never see husband talk more of single mothers *

What does my ex got to do with my life? she has already expired. I don't care whether she is happy or not . What matter is the child is well taken care of

[quote author=MissLAP post=118438535]- Is your baby mama different from your current girl?

- If yes, is she married or have a family of her own?

- Is she happy wherever she is?

Please note that you have to settle with the mother of your current child first if she is still single this is because she would never be happy with you if she's left single.

*Single girls never see husband talk more of single mothers *



For your current girl...

Her experience in previous relationships might cause her to prevent you from impregnating her especially since she knows you have a baby mama because no woman wants to be a baby

Smh

Dgamezzz:
What does my ex got to do with my life? she has already expired. I don't care whether she is happy or not . What matter is the child is well taken care of

This might be your problem or be a problem in due time.

Believe me, no woman would want to be a baby mama especially knowing the fact that the baby father is planning marriage with another woman and she's left single.

Imagine in a society like Nigeria today, single mothers find it difficult to find a man, if it were in developed nations a single mother might still have hope of finding a man.

You saw the big SA politician who despite her old age opened her legs for a man on live video. That's probably because there's no man or she doesn't have a man.

Dgamezzz:
I don't have any problem , I have a 7 years old child. I am not cheating on her but I believe that If I met someone else I can impregnate her in seconds it is just an example I will not do it. I just don't understand why her case is different. I will talk to her about the test and we will do it together

My point is, you may be the one with issues. Having father a child isn't a guarantee on fertility test.

And you can both be fertile but the time for the kid to come is not yet.

Whatever, please do not leave her. Work it together

4yrs ain't beans o

FromOuterSpace:
You trying to impregnate her "without her consent" is an act of deceit. I think you should know that without being told. It could also be considered criminal since you're not married.

It is not a act of deceit or a criminal offence because I will marry her next year

MissLAP:
The bed should be left undefiled before marriage

Having sexual intercourse is a personal choice since we are both adults and we are happy doing it before marriage

MissLAP:
This might be your problem or be a problem in due time.

Believe me, no woman would want to be a baby mama especially knowing the fact that the baby father is planning marriage with another woman and she's left single.

Imagine in a society like Nigeria today, single mothers find it difficult to find a man, if it were in developed nations a single mother might still have hope of finding a man.

You saw the big SA politician who despite her old age opened her legs for a man on live video. That's probably because there's no man or she doesn't have a man.

Is she the only single mother in the world? she was a adult i i didn't held a gun in her head or raped her we were both having consented sex. The pregnancy wasn't plan , if she didnt want to end up a single mother she should have closed her legs and wait until shes married .
She is even lucky she had a responsible man like me I have accepted the pregnancy and the child is living with my mother she doesn't lack anything . She hasn't contributed anything for the child upkeep, she is free to remarry if she likes because she is not my type and my fiance is better than her.

NeoWanZaeed:
My point is, you may be the one with issues. Having father a child isn't a guarantee on fertility test.

And you can both be fertile but the time for the kid to come is not yet.

Whatever, please do not leave her. Work it together

4yrs ain't beans o

I understand you. That's why I want both of us to go for fertility test to know if one of us has a problem or not. Incase one of us has a problem and I believe that every problem has a solution so if the problem is treatable I will pay for the treatments.

What happened to asking her first? Many girlfriends are willing to get pregnant for their guys. I know a fiancée will go the extra mile. Don’t forget to to put a ring on it midway into the pregnancy. Seeing your child in her womb is known to reduce affection for a female.

meobizy:
What happened to asking her first? Many girlfriends are willing to get pregnant for their guys. I know a fiancée will go the extra mile. Don’t forget to to put a ring on it midway into the pregnancy. Seeing your child in her womb is known to reduce affection for a female.

Thank you

Dgamezzz:
I understand you. That's why I want both of us to go for fertility test to know if one of us has a problem or not. Incase one of us has a problem and I believe that every problem has a solution so if the problem is treatable I will pay for the treatments.

My man. I pray everything gets alright bro

Dgamezzz:
Is she the only single mother in the world? she was a adult i i didn't held a gun in her head or raped her we were both having consented sex. The pregnancy wasn't plan , if she didnt want to end up a single mother she should have closed her legs and wait until shes married .
She is even lucky she had a responsible man like me I have accepted the pregnancy and the child is living with my mother she doesn't lack anything . She hasn't contributed anything for the child upkeep, she is free to remarry if she likes because she is not my type and my fiance is better than her.

- Consented sex and now you are blaming her for not closing her legs.

- If she hadn't given it to you then , you would have begged her to baby please na, open it!

- After childbirth she's no longer your type.

This is the reason your present woman is scared, after pouring your cum into her she goes and wash it off.


Meanwhile find means to make your ex happy without putting emotions into it. Because she has a stake in your home and infact she's more legal as a wife than your present woman

NeoWanZaeed:
My man. I pray everything gets alright bro

Amen thank you

MissLAP:
- Consented sex and now you are blaming her for not closing her legs.

- If she hadn't given it to you then , you would have begged her to baby please na, open it!

- After childbirth she's no longer your type.

This is the reason your present woman is scared, after pouring your cum into her she goes and wash it off.


Meanwhile find means to make your ex happy without putting emotions into it. Because she has a stake in your home and infact she's more legal as a wife than your present woman

I am not blaming her but you are blaming me as if the sex and pregnancy was my fault , I didn't held a gun in her head to open her legs she had the right to refuse. I have dated a girl who didn't want to sex before marriage no matter how much I begged her she was adamant no sex before marriage and I respected her decision we broke up. She is happily married and I am also engaged to be married by next year. If she said no I wouldn't have forced her I would have let her go like I did with the other girl .

A lot of single mothers with 1 or more children are getting married without any problem and the child is not in her custody she is a free woman and she is free to get married because the man who will marry her will not cater for my child and if she is not lucky to have find someone else since 2016 we break up , she should check herself because I owe her nothing and her happiness doesn't rely on me because I am a human she should find happiness in christ