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Emma2Seconds:
Like will the person agree to stay for 6years for three children only and how much will be considered for payment

OGA ,you're approaching this the wrong way besides, baby mama have too many problems especially in Nigeria that the lady might not upheld her own end of the contract.

That means it's a big deal nah??

greenermodels:
OGA ,you're approaching this the wrong way besides, baby mama have too many problems especially in Nigeria that the lady might not upheld her own end of the contract.

Emma2Seconds:
Like will the person agree to stay for 6years for three children only and how much will be considered for payment

lol walai I don't know..na you and the baby mama go agree or haggle d price

No qualm

stacyadams:
lol walai I don't know..na you and the baby mama go agree or haggle d price

greenermodels:
Guys,I'm more than ready to settle but I keep ending up with girls that I later discover very unpleasant things about. I have talked to my married friends about this problem but they would just say that all women are the same so you manage your wife till you become tired. I doubt they're are really happy in their marriages, they're likely managing the situation they found themselves as best as they can, so please I need advice on how to get a potential life partner worth keeping for life,I don't have energy for problematic ladies.

How old are you? I have a friend who should be married now, who's not and she's well behaved.

ucheheart:
Though they are all the same, so they say but there are some that are better.

If you want to get the better ones you must forget about physical beauty, 99.9% of beautiful girls don't make good wives. Their beauty dey enter their head and before you know it they think they are doing you a favour by dating you then they start misbehaving.

Focus on their character, some will hide their true character. But they cant hide it forever.

Never be sentimental when picking a lady based on character, thinking that she will change one day. Devil will always remain devil.

If you love sex don't go for fat girls, I repeat, never go for fat girls. They are not good in bed and they will end up blaming you to cover up their failure. But they love foolishly and they are very humble.

I am writing based on my years of experience in dating and marriage.

Have a nice day.

You married a fat woman?

greenermodels:
Guys,I'm more than ready to settle but I keep ending up with girls that I later discover very unpleasant things about. I have talked to my married friends about this problem but they would just say that all women are the same so you manage your wife till you become tired. I doubt they're are really happy in their marriages, they're likely managing the situation they found themselves as best as they can, so please I need advice on how to get a potential life partner worth keeping for life,I don't have energy for problematic ladies.

Marriage is a mix situation, the joy and sorrow all are mix in the hot breakfast.. so it is how you taste it, enjoy or displeased of it that matter.

greenermodels:
Guys,I'm more than ready to settle but I keep ending up with girls that I later discover very unpleasant things about. I have talked to my married friends about this problem but they would just say that all women are the same so you manage your wife till you become tired. I doubt they're are really happy in their marriages, they're likely managing the situation they found themselves as best as they can, so please I need advice on how to get a potential life partner worth keeping for life,I don't have energy for problematic ladies.

Simple! Just look for a woman who had same upbringing like urs.

Lol.. I thought you said you Nigerian men know how to treat women better.

How come you're failing to keep one? Oh! Wait, that's just a rhetorical question.

Always remember that you're who you attract.

greenermodels:
Guys,I'm more than ready to settle but I keep ending up with girls that I later discover very unpleasant things about. I have talked to my married friends about this problem but they would just say that all women are the same so you manage your wife till you become tired. I doubt they're are really happy in their marriages, they're likely managing the situation they found themselves as best as they can, so please I need advice on how to get a potential life partner worth keeping for life,I don't have energy for problematic ladies.

Samantha123:
Lol.. I thought you said you Nigerian men know how to treat women better.

How come you're failing to keep one? Oh! Wait, that's just a rhetorical question.

Always remember that you're who you attract.

Nice comeback, let's laugh it off.

RedpillAnalyst:
You married a fat woman?

Oh yes I did after the bad experiences I had with slim and average looking girls. Though not obese but plumpy kind of girl that is down to earth with loyalty and humility running in her veins.

I rather have peace of mind than heart attack cos I don't take shit from the opposite sex.

Don't worry, I'm not the kind of a person that kicks a man when he's down.

So, let's laugh it off..

greenermodels:
Nice comeback, let's laugh it off.

Being a slim girl, I always wondered how do men handle fat girls in the other room.

How is it?

And how do you handle her gaining more body fat after giving birth?

ucheheart:
Oh yes I did after the bad experiences I had with slim and average looking girls. Though not obese but plumpy kind of girl that is down to earth with loyalty and humility running in her veins.

I rather have peace of mind than heart attack cos I don't take shit from the opposite sex.

Samantha123:
Being a slim girl, I always wondered how do men handle fat girls in the other room.

How is it?

And how do you handle her gaining more body fat after giving birth?

After child birth , she goes on compulsory slim tea for three months and Early morning exercise. As for sex, it is missionary, cowgirl or doggy pending which she comfortable with at that moment.

Is the slim tea and morning exercises effective though? I mean I've seen fat girls do the same, but as long as they don't change their diet, nothing changes.

Don't you sometimes wish you could carry her, throw her onto the bed and do some crazy things to her?

ucheheart:
After child birth , she goes on compulsory slim tea for three months and Early morning exercise. As for sex, it is missionary, cowgirl or doggy pending which she comfortable with at that moment.

Samantha123:
Is the slim tea and morning exercises effective though? I mean I've seen fat girls do the same, but as long as they don't change their diet, nothing changes.

Don't you sometimes wish you could carry her, throw her onto the bed and do some crazy things to her?

Who carrying help? Those that I carried in the past, where are they today? I ended up not marrying any of them. We do crazy things indoors but carrying her is not one of them and I don't feel bad abt that. If she even volunteer to carry me, I will gladly accept. Marriage is a two-sided relationship. So she completes me and vice versa.

Wow! Good for you..

I'm slim, but I can't imagine myself with a fat guy.. he doesn't have to have six pack, as long as he's slim, I'm good.

I just can't imagine myself with fat guy... But I wish you all the best.

ucheheart:
Who carrying help? Those that I carried in the past, where are they today? I ended up not marrying any of them. We do crazy things indoors but carrying her is not one of them and I don't feel bad abt that. If she even volunteer to carry me, I will gladly accept. Marriage is a two-sided relationship. So she completes me and vice versa.

Samantha123:
Wow! Good for you..

I'm slim, but I can't imagine myself with a fat guy.. he doesn't have to have six pack, as long as he's slim, I'm good.

I just can't imagine myself with fat guy... But I wish you all the best.

Sometimes what you wish in life is not what you get but in case it happens that way, learn to adjust and move on. That's is how I take life.

Fortunately, I'm engaged and my fiance is a slim guy.. In fact, he's obsessed with keeping fit.

We've been together since I was in high school.

ucheheart:
Sometimes what you wish in life is not what you get but in case it happens that way, learn to adjust and move on. That's is how I take life.

Samantha123:
Fortunately, I'm engaged and my fiance is a slim guy.. In fact, he's obsessed with keeping fit.

We've been together since I was in high school.

Engaged is not marriage but I wish you success in your engagement.

Samantha123:
Don't worry, I'm not the kind of a person that kicks a man when he's down.

So, let's laugh it off..

lol,you my friend, likes trouble.

I didn't know I was in trouble..

greenermodels:
lol,you my friend, likes trouble.

Samantha123:
I didn't know I was in trouble..

you aren't, you just like giving it to others. If I had your phone contact, I'll save it with the name 'BullyMax'

Samantha123:
I didn't know I was in trouble..

I just checked your profile picture, you're quite younger than I thought. And you have a cat

I'll take that as a compliment..

greenermodels:
you aren't, you just like giving it to others. If I had your phone contact, I'll save it with the name 'BullyMax'

I have two cats..

Don't let the baby face deceive you..

greenermodels:
I just checked your profile picture, you're quite younger than I thought. And you have a cat

Samantha123:
I have two cats..

Don't let the baby face deceive you..

I love cats and dogs although I don't have any now because I live upstairs in a flat. As for the baby face, you're definitely a young lady, I'm an ancestor ( in my late thirties)

Good luck having the both of them when you finally get to live in an open space.

I'm in my late 20s.

greenermodels:
I love cats and dogs although I don't have any now because I live upstairs in a flat. As for the baby face, you're definitely a young lady, I'm an ancestor ( in my late thirties)

Greenermodel u said u cant date a girl that cant help become a better person .Have u tried helping her.To become a better person

Mermaid123:
Greenermodel u said u cant date a girl that cant help become a better person .Have u tried helping her.To become a better person

that's the major problem, most of them have this 'accept me as I am' mentality, they're not willing to change to a better person, they expect you to accept them with their good and bad sides,I want somebody that is willing to grow rather than remaining stagnant. An example is a lady that doesn't just like to study as a university student, pushing her hard to adopt a better studying habit is bound to fail as long as she doesn't want to improve regardless of what she's saying otherwise, forcing a lady to study for 40 straight minutes against her consent would only attract her resentment, what she wants is where to spend her evening catching fun not studying.

greenermodels:
that's the major problem, most of them have this 'accept me as I am' mentality, they're not willing to change to a better person, they expect you to accept them with their good and bad sides,I want somebody that is willing to grow rather than remaining stagnant. An example is a lady that doesn't just like to study as a university student, pushing her hard to adopt a better studying habit is bound to fail as long as she doesn't want to improve regardless of what she's saying otherwise, forcing a lady to study for 40 straight minutes against her consent would only attract her resentment, what she wants is where to spend her evening catching fun not studying.

nice! I like you

Samantha123:
Good luck having the both of them when you finally get to live in an open space.

I'm in my late 20s.

lol, reminds of the expression 'a cat and dog relationship', if you don't mind me asking, can I know more about you, like your town of residence, interests and hobbies, works etc?