Starkz9898:
ain't going to lie your post cracked me up,you are just being real telling folks about reality..I can't imagine myself staying here all day reading all these stuffs just because i want to understand woman like wtf.Being alpha can not be achieved in a day,it is a gradual process.The more successful a man is the less of a simp he becomes,because he will always have option infact woman will be throwing themselves at him....He only needs common sense to avoid being played by women,when a woman knows you have got option they tend to be well behaved.

fattprince:

You are the stupid one if you think all readers and posters are here all day, everyday. Is that even possible to your half baked brain.

Starkz9898: The more successful a man is the less of a simp he becomes,because he will always have option infact woman will be throwing themselves at him....

Martinez39s:

ubunja:

[b]it's true, men achieve through conflict. Conflict with self and conflict with the world. Nothing is given on a silver platter. This conflict is what builds character. Usually for most men that conflict is during their 20s while they discover themselves, finish their education and try to carve out a career. It's also a man's loneliest and most bitter time filled with frustrations of all kinds from sexual to financial. But a man is to persevere. Cause it's his rite of passage. The essential lessons of patience, persistence and relentlessness gained during this period are what will make him the Rock that his women and children will depend on. The ability to not be overwhelmed by the odds, the ability to persist under utter discouragement and the ability to retain hope while nothing is going his way is what will make a man the Head that people in his life can follow with confidence and trust. It's called The School of Life. Circumstances are the teachers.

Being a man is never going to be easy. It would be nice to inherit a softer existence. But that's not what destiny has planned for us. Ours is a bloodstained path sprinkled with sweat and tears. No easy mode. No cruise. No dodging consequences. No hiding behind excuses. No nothing. You stand up straight and you take it. And survive it.
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hopefulLandlord:


Some rolex are worth over $70,000. more expensive than many cars bro. For perspective $70,000 is around NGN50,000,000.

Meedon:



No matter how you do, you will still collect if you are destined to collect. If you like act nice or arrogant, you will still collect.

chigozienwigbo:
Good day everyone. I'm a silent reader here. I must confess that you all are doing a great job. Most especially ubunja, martinez, caveabdullam, the phansophist and other redpillers. You all are really helping the male gender. Thumbs up.

chigozienwigbo:
Good day everyone. I'm a silent reader here. I must confess that you all are doing a great job. Most especially ubunja, martinez, caveabdullam, the phansophist and other redpillers. You all are really helping the male gender. Thumbs up.

ubunja:
you're really welcome and have a good day. Don't mind the jobless guy who has responded negatively to your comment. He's just miserable and wants everyone to be miserable just like him.

ubunja:
you're really welcome and have a good day. Don't mind the jobless guy who has responded negatively to your comment. He's just miserable and wants everyone to be miserable just like him.

ubunja:
you're really welcome and have a good day. Don't mind the jobless guy who has responded negatively to your comment. He's just miserable and wants everyone to be miserable just like him.

heartofcity12:
It’s why I don’t pity them when they’re suffering in relationships or marriages, they all had their chances to be with good men that would have treated them right.

ubunja:
problem is genuinely good men don't turn these women on. A lot of the good guys rely on CHARACTER as their selling point. But arousal and attraction has nothing to do about your character. Why? Cause what a woman first sees when she looks at you is YOUR BODY not your personality, not your behaviour, not your character. Your body is the first attraction. The bait. That's what affects her pucc first. Your personality she'll only learn when she starts talking and interacting with you. Good guys oftentimes lose from the get go cause their presentation- body, dress, mannerisms- scream "gentleman" when it must scream "I'll tear that pucc up.!"

You need to look like you can fucc a woman's brains out. just by the way you look, dress and act. Sadly good men don't give that vibe. Cause they appear too nice, too caring, too considerate. A woman has a hard time imagining him tossing her around the bed, pinning her to the walls and folding her in 20 different positions. He seems too gentle to be that freaky. But that's the freaky sex that women dream about. When women look at a gangster or a thug, his fierceness and his passion and aggressiveness,, all they can think about is "damn if only he brings this fury to the bedroom, he'd surely murder this pucc!"
It's why women think men who are always angry are good in bed. And it's why your woman will sometimes provoke you or start a fight with you just before bed - she's trying to get that raw passion out via your anger so that you'll really handle her, like be really aggressive with her. But a gentleman could never.

heartofcity12:


Spot on!!

ubunja:
been seeing your posts on Instagram. Good work man.

Labadi69:


You this hungry Zimbabwean immigrant in SA, how can I be miserable when I am doing well in life. I am good looking, have money and get women cos I put in the work when I should instead of wasting my youth vexing for women. And even though I can’t be stupid when it comes to my dealings with women, I still realize that women will always be women until Jesus comes. Know this and know peace. Ain’t nothing wailing about women will do to change that.

ubunja:
problem is genuinely good men don't turn these women on. A lot of the good guys rely on CHARACTER as their selling point. But arousal and attraction has nothing to do about your character. Why? Cause what a woman first sees when she looks at you is YOUR BODY not your personality, not your behaviour, not your character. Your body is the first attraction. The bait. That's what affects her pucc first. Your personality she'll only learn when she starts talking and interacting with you. Good guys oftentimes lose from the get go cause their presentation- body, dress, mannerisms- scream "gentleman" when it must scream "I'll tear that pucc up.!"

You need to look like you can fucc a woman's brains out. just by the way you look, dress and act. Sadly good men don't give that vibe. Cause they appear too nice, too caring, too considerate. A woman has a hard time imagining him tossing her around the bed, pinning her to the walls and folding her in 20 different positions. He seems too gentle to be that freaky. But that's the freaky sex that women dream about. When women look at a gangster or a thug, his fierceness and his passion and aggressiveness,, all they can think about is "damn if only he brings this fury to the bedroom, he'd surely murder this pucc!"
It's why women think men who are always angry are good in bed. And it's why your woman will sometimes provoke you or start a fight with you just before bed - she's trying to get that raw passion out via your anger so that you'll really handle her, like be really aggressive with her. But a gentleman could never.

Starkz9898:
ain't going to lie your post cracked me up,you are just being real telling folks about reality..I can't imagine myself staying here all day reading all these stuffs just because i want to understand woman like wtf.Being alpha can not be achieved in a day,it is a gradual process.The more successful a man is the less of a simp he becomes,because he will always have option infact woman will be throwing themselves at him....He only needs common sense to avoid being played by women,when a woman knows you have got option they tend to be well behaved.

ubunja:
bro if you don't get your blue pill mindset off this thread.....

ubunja:
problem is genuinely good men don't turn these women on. A lot of the good guys rely on CHARACTER as their selling point. But arousal and attraction has nothing to do about your character. Why? Cause what a woman first sees when she looks at you is YOUR BODY not your personality, not your behaviour, not your character. Your body is the first attraction. The bait. That's what affects her pucc first. Your personality she'll only learn when she starts talking and interacting with you. Good guys oftentimes lose from the get go cause their presentation- body, dress, mannerisms- scream "gentleman" when it must scream "I'll tear that pucc up.!"

You need to look like you can fucc a woman's brains out. just by the way you look, dress and act. Sadly good men don't give that vibe. Cause they appear too nice, too caring, too considerate. A woman has a hard time imagining him tossing her around the bed, pinning her to the walls and folding her in 20 different positions. He seems too gentle to be that freaky. But that's the freaky sex that women dream about. When women look at a gangster or a thug, his fierceness and his passion and aggressiveness,, all they can think about is "damn if only he brings this fury to the bedroom, he'd surely murder this pucc!"
It's why women think men who are always angry are good in bed. And it's why your woman will sometimes provoke you or start a fight with you just before bed - she's trying to get that raw passion out via your anger so that you'll really handle her, like be really aggressive with her. But a gentleman could never.

CaveAdullam:


Another noticeable problem is that guys are scared of upsetting women. They think acting sexually is a criminal activity. They don't want women to judge them wrongly or be seen as a bad fate. However, I do understand their concern from a moral/religious angle, his reputation must be protected. It is difficult to find this balance, the majority of men are on the nice guy side of the scale while few are on the jerks' side of the scale. Balance is incredibly rare.

But a man needs to pull some sexual innuendos when dealing with women; make suggestive sexual remarks; touch her. Rather, they reject themselves even before they start interacting with the woman in question. You don't tell her, let her reason it herself, doing so you can easily separate yourself when she wants to hold you accountable for any move.

For example:

Him: "You disturb me a lot these days. I will flog your ass mercilessly the day I find you".

Her: " I will scream r*pe".

He has laid a sexual suggestion in her and she has picked it too. Both are trying to dissociate but the game just started.

This is why LDR or online game is a no for me. Better to deal with one woman in proximity than 100 women far off, and as the proverb goes "a bird at hand worth more in the bush".

Guys need to learn to pull the strings and lead. Expecting women to be what they can never be is the root of men's problems in sexual relationships.

Man has bestowed the leadership trait, he must lead in all corners.

heartofcity12:
Ok