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Emma2Seconds:
Boss how does that baby mama stuff works out, like who will agree to born for you and you pay her off and number of pikin the person will agree to born and also breastfeeding the babies, will ladies agree to all these and get paid after??

What you need is a sorrugate, there are women ready to do that.

greenermodels:
Guys,I'm more than ready to settle but I keep ending up with girls that I later discover very unpleasant things about. I have talked to my married friends about this problem but they would just say that all women are the same so you manage your wife till you become tired. I doubt they're are really happy in their marriages, they're likely managing the situation they found themselves as best as they can, so please I need advice on how to get a potential life partner worth keeping for life,I don't have energy for problematic ladies.

you can't escape problem from a lady but just have the ability to understand them

greenermodels:
Thanks for the advice but these qualities you listed are common sense qualities that an average Nigerian lady wanting to be married would also display, spend enough time with her and you realise she's faking it. Imagine a lady in her thirties that can't cook even basic soups like eqwusi but would rather die than admit it upfront, the girl would eat up the meat in the soup while eating and would rather argue endlessly than stop it among other even more serious red flags.

the way you talk to her was not good

Sofialuv:
you can't escape problem from a lady but just have the ability to understand them

I know but there's a big limit to what I can endure, i recently had to issue a quit notice to a tenant over his wife's behaviour and utterances. I would die of hypertension if I have a wife like his. Imagine looking for a house in this economic situation when he's owing months of rent already due to recent financial problems facing the family?

greenermodels:
I know but there's a big limit to what I can endure, i recently had to issue a quit notice to a tenant over his wife's behaviour and utterances. I would die of hypertension if I have a wife like his. Imagine looking for a house in this economic situation when he's owing months of rent already due to recent financial problems facing the family?

atimes peace of mind is necessary not a lady that will put you into high pressure

U mean if I need the sorrugacy today that I will get the ladies for it without much time wasting

detectivejones:
What you need is a sorrugate, there are women ready to do that.

Sofialuv:
the way you talk to her was not good

I talk to her with respect because I was afraid of her quarrel, cohabiting with her was hellish.

greenermodels:
Guys,I'm more than ready to settle but I keep ending up with girls that I later discover very unpleasant things about. I have talked to my married friends about this problem but they would just say that all women are the same so you manage your wife till you become tired. I doubt they're are really happy in their marriages, they're likely managing the situation they found themselves as best as they can, so please I need advice on how to get a potential life partner worth keeping for life,I don't have energy for problematic ladies.

Op the truth is that, most of the qualities we want or expect from our wives, are not the qualities we encourage or our parents try to imbibe in there daughters. Failed parenting is one of the major problems we have in nigeria and is often not talked about. Is perfectly OK for you to demand these basic qualities from a human being you plan to live with, for the rest of your life. If you have the means, check other countries.it shouldn't be too difficult to find a decent opposite sex

greenermodels:
you're right, almost all the beautiful ladies I've been with ended up having serious behavioural problems or existing hidden children. Honestly, I'm not after beauty anymore but I often end up with them. At my age, any lady that I'm getting involved with already knows that it would likely end up in marriage soon, some mere female friends would outrightly ask me to marry them or indirectly say that I should marry.

Most of the ladies you call beautiful here, are very basic/normal girls in other countries, with no shitty attitude

Is there any hospital that specializes on that??

detectivejones:
What you need is a sorrugate, there are women ready to do that.

I'm from Polokwane, but I currently reside in Durban.

I'm an introvert, so I spent most of my free time indoors either watching some documentaries, movies, crocheting because I'm also a crochet designer, even though I just take it as a hobby, but I'm also hoping of turning it into a business in the nearest future, I also do freelancing during my spare time just to make that extra cash.. , and I'm currently busy writing my first book, it's not easy, but I'm excited at the same time.. so I'm an author in the making..

As for work, I'm a law graduate, but I'm currently working as a legal administrator because after graduation, I decided that I needed a break from school and books in general because some of us never really liked school.. .. So, I'm taking a break from school for at least 2 or 3 years, after that, I'll then further my law education and become an advocate.

greenermodels:
lol, reminds of the expression 'a cat and dog relationship', if you don't mind me asking, can I know more about you, like your town of residence, interests and hobbies, works etc?

Samantha123:
I'm from Polokwane, but I currently reside in Durban.

I'm an introvert, so I spent most of my free time indoors either watching some documentaries, movies, crocheting because I'm also a crochet designer, even though I just take it as a hobby, but I'm also hoping of turning it into a business in the nearest future, I also do freelancing during my spare time just to make that extra cash.. , and I'm currently busy writing my first book, it's not easy, but I'm excited at the same time.. so I'm an author in the making..

As for work, I'm a law graduate, but I'm currently working as a legal administrator because after graduation, I decided that I needed a break from school and books in general because some of us never really liked school.. .. So, I'm taking a break from school for at least 2 or 3 years, after that, I'll then further my law education and become an advocate.

you forgot to add that your favourite hobby is online trolling and trouble making , well, I'm a restless spirit and trying to explain myself would need a book written. I'm a secondary school teacher and building designer who have dabbled into a few side hustles and hobbies in my lifetime, I'll explain more about myself with time and I like school . For a start I'm currently learning software engineering on my spare time, I want to retire early to a small farm producing irrigated vegetables and fruits, fishes,poultry and pigs. That seems to be my current obsession . What's your book about?

Emma2Seconds:
U mean if I need the sorrugacy today that I will get the ladies for it without much time wasting

I think you put out the advert and thoroughly screen any lady that tick your box, and then the legal work

Emma2Seconds:
Is there any hospital that specializes on that??

There are fertility hospitals that specialize in this depends on your location

I don't like online trolling and trouble making, you guys are the ones pressing my buttons and I don't like having my buttons pressed because I'll react..

But sometimes I'll just ignore because I don't always have the energy to be going back and forth with someone.

Even if you check my profile, I stated that respect is earned, you don't just give it away to someone who's not worthy of it.

As for the book, I can't reveal the details of it yet because I'm waiting for the right time to do it, I haven't even told my family back at home about it.. only my best friend and fiance know the details of it.

greenermodels:
you forgot to add that your favourite hobby is online trolling and trouble making , well, I'm a restless spirit and trying to explain myself would need a book written. I'm a secondary school teacher and building designer who have dabbled into a few side hustles and hobbies in my lifetime, I'll explain more about myself with time and I like school . For a start I'm currently learning software engineering on my spare time, I want to retire early to a small farm producing irrigated vegetables and fruits, fishes,poultry and pigs. That seems to be my current obsession . What's your book about?

One mistake you would make is looking for a wife. Them nor de look for better wife. It will come by itself then you will know this is the one and knows what to do next.

This one you are in hurry looking for wife you will enter one chance oh.

Calm down and forget about you he wife thing and focus on yourself

fineboynl:
One mistake you would make is looking for a wife. Them nor de look for better wife. It will come by itself then you will know this is the one and knows what to do next.

This one you are in hurry looking for wife you will enter one chance oh.

Calm down and forget about you he wife thing and focus on yourself

I'm almost forty,age is not on my side anymore.

Oh legal agreement deh involve??

detectivejones:
I think you put out the advert and thoroughly screen any lady that tick your box, and then the legal work

Emma2Seconds:
Can't it be done without the public/too many ppl being aware of it??

Oga, message me lets talk business

So I can get the hospitals in part of east or south South??

detectivejones:
There are fertility hospitals that specialize in this depends on your location

ucheheart:
Who carrying help? Those that I carried in the past, where are they today? I ended up not marrying any of them. We do crazy things indoors but carrying her is not one of them and I don't feel bad abt that. If she even volunteer to carry me, I will gladly accept. Marriage is a two-sided relationship. So she completes me and vice versa.

Gosh, that woman is lucky to have you sha

greenermodels:
I talk to her with respect because I was afraid of her quarrel, cohabiting with her was hellish.

so wat do you intend to do

greenermodels:
I'm almost forty,age is not on my side anymore.

But I thought its we women that worry about getting to a particular age without being married, i never knew men also worry this much

Dear are you a man or woman??

Ayooade:
Oga, message me lets talk business

Sofialuv:
so wat do you intend to do

I left her, I had no choice.

Emma2Seconds:
Dear are you a man or woman??

I wouldn't tell u to msg me if i was a man.
Abi se man fit carry belle ni

Go to the village, like visit ur parternal or maternal home with a disguise identify/ low profile, hopefully, a good girl would come around.

greenermodels:
I left her, I had no choice.

looking for a right partner is not easy

Emma2Seconds:
Oh legal agreement deh involve??

You don't want some woman after being paid to come claim mother. Legal documents shows its a contract thats all.

Emma2Seconds:
So I can get the hospitals in part of east or south South??

I don't know of those locations, but there are fertility hospitals in Abuja

Samantha123:
Lol.. I thought you said you Nigerian men know how to treat women better.

How come you're failing to keep one? Oh! Wait, that's just a rhetorical question.

Always remember that you're who you attract.

I am beginning to think you are a troll or some fake sh*t claiming south African with the way you are all over nigerian things