Mercury12:

If it happen I will go and hustle and built a mansion that surpass that of my father. My father hustle to have his properties and as a man I will struggle to do same and even surpass him so he can be proud of me wherever he is. . .

Your problem is seeing your mom with another man and you can't stand it. You hate it and it same for many boys. But what can you do?
Stand your ground against your mom and get poison or you mistakenly harm her or your future step daddy? The constant back and forth between yall will be toxic and life threatening so the earlier you move out the better for everyone...
Nobody is taking away your right or claim to the property because no can take that away if that is your fear

In as much I don’t like commenting on NL due to fact a lot of teens and fools have over taking the forum but am forced to ask you this question

Does it make sense for a woman to remarry and bring the man to her late husband house…….even if Jesus Christ was the woman son he won’t take it.

Is she not meant to move to the man house or is that how it done where you come from?? Telling the guy to go hustle is not reasonable cos you don’t know is age or if he is still in school…..even if he starts hustling now he still needs supports from her.

You are meant to ask him questions before giving him this your advice and I really doubt if you a matured guy.

Mercury12:
then advice him on what to do. Perhaps kill his mom or the step daddy.
I don't know how else y'all wanna get around this other than berate the mom and tell op to stand his ground against his mom. If he choose that path he should also expect the unexpected.
Life is about making choices.
Choices with good bad outcomes.
Everyone is free to make their choice anyway

You attacking the guy is bad. Does it make sense to you what the mother is trying to do. If the guy allows it, she might regret it in the future. By then the house might have being sold or something else happened. I guess you are the type of man that can do what the supposed man wants to do. How can you send your only son away because another dick is coming . Who does that if not a foolish woman

Mercury12:
then advice him on what to do. Perhaps kill his mom or the step daddy.
I don't know how else y'all wanna get around this other than berate the mom and tell op to stand his ground against his mom. If he choose that path he should also expect the unexpected.
Life is about making choices.
Choices with good bad outcomes.
Everyone is free to make their choice anyway

he does not have to killlll anybody he only need to threaten them seriously that will make them fear or report the issue to the police , but if I'm the one i won't report to any police will fight the Like a man , when i don break somebody head they will understand my message clearly ,I will @speak to them in the language they understand,i will first lock the woman out of the house for like 10 days ,I will show them I'm not looking for solution rather i'm looking for problems theeeis will compel them to provide solution .

The truth is that in this life no body respect a gentleman , to get what belong to you, you must prove you are a tyrant

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

I would advice you to move out without hesitation before she plots your killing. Your life is better.

But the mother is supposed to move to her husband's house after being married, not to bring him into her late husband's house. And if it was built by both of them, which is likely, she shouldn't send you out though.

On her end, sending you out may be a way of making you sit up and not to be too comfortable waiting for inheritance. Is she marrying the man or the man is marrying her. Op, you should probably involve your dad's family, I am sure those ones won't agree or let the house be sold, you collect your dad's share, she collects hers and everyone goes their separate ways atleast you both will rest.

Calvary247:
I would advice you to move out without hesitation before she plots your killing. Your life is better.

why are African like this, you are advising him to leave his father's house to go and be sleeping under bridge for another man to enter because he is afraid of death.

Shey u no Sabi cause trouble ni? Tell her to leave the house for u.. as u be small guy, do small findings n location the man, talk to him and if he no want hear u out just come here to quote me, I'll teach some ika wickedness..

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

Don't do what will put your life at risk but just sit her down and talk to her.

faithfull18:
let the house be sold, you collect your dad's share, she collects hers and everyone goes their separate ways atleast you both will rest.

So u sabi small vawulence like this.... u go come dey pretend lile say u be saint

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

Boss Mynd44 pls take this to the front page for biger audience and better advice as this issue is not a child's play; it's very complicated.

Strange

Sey your father divorce your mother and it's transfer of aggression since she don see another man

Abi wetin happen

Your father married her to his house now she wants to marry and bring to the house... your mother needs to be put in her place report to your father's family nobody will take that rubbish,if you're in your 20s do this but if you're in your 30s I think you should move out but make sure her husband doesn't move into your father's house be a man...get a room for yourself if possible ask for a room to put tenants so you can get money to do things for yourself....

Greattestman:
All these unreasonable advice irritates me like hell. Will I build the house with my mouth? Is it easy? Can you bear that?

Carry her go radio station, inform your father's people worst involve lawyer

Your father's portion make dem give you

This story if true left a sour taste in my mouth.
Is it for loneliness
Is it for money
Is it for PR..ck
On which ground will she have the heart to send her son away because of a new husband?
I'm not understanding.
Is she not supposed to pack into her new husbands house ?
I'm saying because she's just opening new doors of huge responsibility that will dwarf whatever she suffered before.

Mercury12:

If it happen I will go and hustle and built a mansion that surpass that of my father. My father hustle to have his properties and as a man I will struggle to do same and even surpass him so he can be proud of me wherever he is. . .

Your problem is seeing your mom with another man and you can't stand it. You hate it and it same for many boys. But what can you do?
Stand your ground against your mom and get poison or you mistakenly harm her or your future step daddy? The constant back and forth between yall will be toxic and life threatening so the earlier you move out the better for everyone...
Nobody is taking away your right or claim to the property because no can take that away if that is your fear

When a fool thinks he is making sense.So in your own wisdom now his mother is supposed to remarry into his father's house?

Godoverevery:

In as much I don’t like commenting on NL due to fact a lot of teens and fools have over taking the his forum but am forced to ask you this question

Does it make sense for a woman to remarry and bring the man to her late husband house…….even if Jesus Christ was the woman son he won’t take it.

Is she not meant to move to the man house or is that how it done where you come from?? Telling the guy to go hustle is not reasonable cos you don’t know is age or if he is still in school…..even if he starts hustling now he still needs supports from her.

You are meant to ask him questions before giving him this your advice and I really doubt if you a matured guy.

Ignore ppl like them.Only on Nl you see ppl who made it without support from friends and family.

advanceDNA:


So u sabi small vawulence like this.... u go come dey pretend lile say u be saint

I be saint oh, but vawulence is needed once a while na, even the kingdom of God suffereth vawulence and the vawulent takes it by force, God forgive me

If the house is rented, how is it your fathers house?


And what's your business if she wants to remarry? If you're over 18, start trying to assist yourself financially.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

It is obvious that your mother is taking advantage of age to perpetrate wickedness.

1Sharon:
If the house is rented, how is it your fathers house?


And what's your business if she wants to remarry? If you're over 18, start trying to assist yourself financially.

Did he tell you the house is a rented apartment?

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

Leave the house for her and never return.

Justbehave:
Did he tell you the house is a rented apartment?

No. That's why I'm asking.

1Sharon:


No. That's why I'm asking.

You were putting it to him like he said so not like you were asking a question.

Justbehave:
You were putting it to him like he said so not like you were asking a question.

You're kind of right but I'm likely to be correct.

1Sharon:


You're kind of right but I'm likely to be correct.

Lol. Ok. You made me start thinking you were his mom he is referring to. You were too forward in reminding him that the house is rented and not his fathers.

The fact that your mother wants you out is suggestive of the fact that she wants to bring in the man she's having an amorous relationship with. This actually speaks volume of the kind of man he is and your mom's mindset. She is supposed to be the one to move into the man's house. I see an irresponsible man. Irrespective of that, whatever you do, don't do what will make her curse find a purpose in your life. I suggest you move out for now. I'm very sure this can only be for a short time. Every thing will align with time.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

If it is a house your father built with his hard earned money, then you are not going anywhere.


Stay put, get something doing or learn a skill depending on your age and education.


Your mother is being controlled by the new man. So, it's your job to maintain the sanity in the house.



If a woman is getting remarried as a widow, she should leave her former husband's house and move in with the new one.



Call your father's family and raise alarm immediately. You are not going anywhere.

Don't move an inch, stay put in your father's house. The money you would use to rent a house, use it to do business or get a land. Why should your mother want to chase you out of your father's house when she knows you don't have much? For what reason? Avoid her totally and demacate your room/toilet/kitchen from her, even if it means doing a kind of renovation in the house.

Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

You just hit the nail on the head.

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

Call your father's family, they will support you.


Your mother is wrong in this case.

Greattestman:
Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2 pls move my thread to front page, I need more advice even young generation will learn from this. It's real big situation. Thank you.

Don't mind all those fools telling you to run away from your father's house. You are a man and it's your mum who wants to remarry that should leave. If she remarries,she has seize to be your late father's wife and has a new family with a new name. Don't be afraid. Be a man and take the war to her.