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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by donprayer900(m): 8:58pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
This thing happened to me after my father's demise, just came back from service, I was living happily with my mom and my siblings till this wicked uncle played the good man to my mother, my mom fall for him being that she is a civil servant that my father trained, this man gave his generation hell not me, I and my mom became serious enemies. I don't wish anybody to experience what I pass through. I left my father's business I was running with millions, pack from his compound, the man came to the house and was living with my mom in my father's 3 bedroom flat while I live in d 2 bedroom flat, but I still pack out because of problem |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Pringles101: 8:59pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
BarackRonaldo, messi1, VictorUSA, victordivine ... I see you Jeon will not like this |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by greggng: 8:59pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Devonelle: This is not the best of advice You can't run away from your problem . If is true the mother is saving for her marriage then is the mother that has to live that house to join her new husband ...not the opposite . Is she planning to be living with the new husband in her former husband house ? This is an abomination . There should be elders in there village ..they need to be communicated this abomination about to happen . I don't know how old or the gender of the person that posted this .. I still believe if he or she is old enough to work ..let him or her work to make a living ...as per the house ...the mother has to live that house b4 the spirit of her former husband start chasing her up and down 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by wirinet(m): 9:00pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
GistFullGround: What then happens if she has children for the new man? Will the children start dragging property with him. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Hespee93: 9:02pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
If this story is true, I'lk advice you that you pack out for now for your safety and for you to properly plan your move on how to get your father's house in your possession. If your mum can can shout at you and say you should pack out of your fathers house just bcause of the prick she'is fucking, expect the worse to come. I believe that the said man knows about the action of your mum towards you, and if you decide to proove sturbon, the man might arrange for you assasination at the end you loose everything including your life. If the marriage is successful, the man will later claim the property and chase your mother away after successfuly transferring property ownership to his name leaving your mother to a regrettable life. So a situation like this requires diplomatic action. So this is my piece f advice to you. 1. Leave the house for the sake of your life and your fathers property 2. Try as much as possible to get the original copy of the document of your fathers house before leaving. 3. Get a good lawyer to be on standby incase the man wants to claim he is the owner of the house, cos that would surely happened if they get married. 4. You can also report the case to the police against any impending issue that might arise in the future. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by JOHNFBOSCO(m): 9:03pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Greattestman: I will really like you to update us on how the matter ends, this is really an interesting situation..that one need to learn from |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by qtguru(m): 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Different mothers dey sha. I can't imagine a parent chasing a child out for a man. The new man no even get shame sef. Some Woman do this, especially when they are mostly illiterate or village mentality. My step-brother's mother re-married and never told the father she had a son, she abandoned my step-brother, and sadly he abandoned his kids not willingly but via unfortunate circumstances, do you have relatives you can reach out to? I hope this story is true, call your Father's people or brother . Modified: I saw VictorUSA on one of your posts, and that name is known for fabricating stories, candidlady is he legit? OP are you not the same one complaining about your uncle telling you not to come to his house? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by noble2faith(m): 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Victoronah1: What are you driving at? That it is right for the woman to chase her son out of his father's house, his own inheritance, because his mother wants to remarry? Are you in your right frame of mind at all? If you had said this to me face to face, I would hit you with something hard on your head so that you would think like humans! BTW, 99.9% of African cultures is patriarchal in nature. Know this and know peace! |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by emmabest2000(m): 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Greattestman: You are supported Stand on your ground Don't give any 4cking gigolo a chance to inherit your father properties 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by noble2faith(m): 9:08pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Victoronah1: Ko ni dá fun ẹ! In fact, o ni ku re! 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by alizma: 9:08pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Greattestman:I will sound a little harsh or too explicit, but just focus on the key points that will benefit you. First of all, irrespective of age, some women can throw their children away just to enjoy good dik. From what you just type here, you are already facing such case and I want you to be very very careful with your life, yes I mean your life could be in danger any moment from now, why do I say so? It is obvious your mum's intention is to get that particular man who has what she wants, that is why she is the one saving money for the wedding and making arrangements for the accomodation which happens to be your supposed inheritance, unfortunately you are going to be an obstacle to that and I can tell you if you don't apply wisdom, you can start counting your days from the moment it becomes clear to her that you won't let go of the house. Now my advice is this, you need to secure a source of income from where you can get your daily bread, then you need to call her for a meeting of both of you and her brother, let her know you are aware of her plan to remarry, you are in support of anything that makes her happy but you will appreciate if she take off any intention to bring in any man into your father's, and by inheritance, your house. Reason being that first of all that is an insult to your father and a spit on his grave which you don't think he had done something wrong while alive to deserve such treatment. Then right in her presence, go on your kneel for her brother, which is your uncle and tell him to please talk to his sister because he wouldn't like your actions should anything go contrary to this peaceful arrangements you lay before them. Then stand up and thank him and your mother for giving you their time for the meeting. Thereafter, travel out of turn for a week or thereabout without giving notice and when you return, take full responsibility of your needs, mainly food and other things she used to do for you, become a man of few words but maintain their respect whenever you have reasons to discuss anything with any of them and watch how things go your way. Note, everything is never going to be the same again, you have lost your mum that you used to know, just respect her choice while you protect what belongs to you and the respect for your late father. Above all, be a good man that your father will be proud of, even in his grave. Be strong bro 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by maureensylvia(f): 9:08pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Greattestman: Agu Nwayo!!! |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Victoronah1: 9:09pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
noble2faith:if you were to see me, you would have been greeting me. He should work and move out. As long as the mother is alive, there is nothing he can do. There is. Nothing like inheritance. Since the people who built the foundations is still alive. Get that In Your skull. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by MarkJnr: 9:10pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by maureensylvia(f): 9:11pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Calvary247: Plot killing ke How do u people reason sef |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Melissa16: 9:12pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that That house belongs to you. Don’t live. If your mom decides to marry, fine, let her follow the new husband to his house. It’s even a taboo for her to marry a man into the same house, she shared with her late husband. If possible go and tell your father people her plan, how she intend bringing in her new husband and chasing you out. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by maureensylvia(f): 9:13pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
faithfull18: I couldn't have said it better myself |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by wildkat: 9:13pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
fineboynl: Take this advice! The best u can get here. Your mother has no right to kick u outta your dada’s house |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by phemmyfour: 9:13pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Devonelle:I doubt if she's his mother |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by wildkat: 9:13pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
othermen: With the absence of the father, he owns that house. He’s the man in charge. He should man up and show his mum who’s boss |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by noble2faith(m): 9:14pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Victoronah1: Greet an adult who thinks like a child! Or an adult who is culturally bankrupt! From which tribe are you? 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by jeanexx7(m): 9:18pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Your Mother remarrying is her choice, however, she should move into the Man's House and not the Man moving in with her. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Unrated900(m): 9:20pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Are you in anambra or owerri Cos This is common amidst igbo women. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by MissionaryArchi(m): 9:22pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
HomeTutorsPro:Since she's getting married does it make sense to you using that phrase? 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Senator777: 9:23pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
So your useless mother want to marry another man put inside your father's house. Kayefi nla. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by ibinaboonline: 9:28pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Why are you waiting "for it to happen" before you can go and hustle and build a mansion that surpass your father's? Why not go and build it now? Mercury12: 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by fykes(m): 9:32pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Greattestman: Hahahahahaha. Almost cursed me to hell.. Una no go Kee me |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Galaxydon1(m): 9:37pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Greattestman:please be a man, don't leave ur father's house cos of a stranger, fight for your right, |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by turok: 9:37pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
For me, she don't have to back out rather let her marry and move to her new husband house. Not her staying her in late husband house. Greattestman: |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Tinsim: 9:45pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Greattestman:He should report the mother to the father's family and stop eating the mother's food. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by kunkelhanspeter(m): 9:52pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
othermen: How can you allow your mother to bring another man to your fathers house and then ask you to leave ? To where? She should be the one leaving to meet the man not chasing the guy out. No nah not possible |
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