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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by donprayer900(m): 8:58pm On Nov 25, 2022
This thing happened to me after my father's demise, just came back from service, I was living happily with my mom and my siblings till this wicked uncle played the good man to my mother, my mom fall for him being that she is a civil servant that my father trained, this man gave his generation hell not me, I and my mom became serious enemies. I don't wish anybody to experience what I pass through. I left my father's business I was running with millions, pack from his compound, the man came to the house and was living with my mom in my father's 3 bedroom flat while I live in d 2 bedroom flat, but I still pack out because of problem
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Pringles101: 8:59pm On Nov 25, 2022
BarackRonaldo, messi1, VictorUSA, victordivine ...


I see you grin grin grin

Jeon will not like this grin
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by greggng: 8:59pm On Nov 25, 2022
Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

This is not the best of advice
You can't run away from your problem . If is true the mother is saving for her marriage then is the mother that has to live that house to join her new husband ...not the opposite . Is she planning to be living with the new husband in her former husband house ? This is an abomination . There should be elders in there village ..they need to be communicated this abomination about to happen . I don't know how old or the gender of the person that posted this ..
I still believe if he or she is old enough to work ..let him or her work to make a living ...as per the house ...the mother has to live that house b4 the spirit of her former husband start chasing her up and down

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by wirinet(m): 9:00pm On Nov 25, 2022
GistFullGround:


Your mom's man-friend wants to collect your father's property.

She has to sign an undertaking/power of attorney stating that should anything happen to her, the property belongs to you. Meet a lawyer for guidance...

Men who want to reap where they did not sow MUST be stopped in their track!


What then happens if she has children for the new man? Will the children start dragging property with him.
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Hespee93: 9:02pm On Nov 25, 2022
If this story is true, I'lk advice you that you pack out for now for your safety and for you to properly plan your move on how to get your father's house in your possession.

If your mum can can shout at you and say you should pack out of your fathers house just bcause of the prick she'is fucking, expect the worse to come.

I believe that the said man knows about the action of your mum towards you, and if you decide to proove sturbon, the man might arrange for you assasination at the end you loose everything including your life.

If the marriage is successful, the man will later claim the property and chase your mother away after successfuly transferring property ownership to his name leaving your mother to a regrettable life. So a situation like this requires diplomatic action.


So this is my piece f advice to you.

1. Leave the house for the sake of your life and your fathers property

2. Try as much as possible to get the original copy of the document of your fathers house before leaving.

3. Get a good lawyer to be on standby incase the man wants to claim he is the owner of the house, cos that would surely happened if they get married.

4. You can also report the case to the police against any impending issue that might arise in the future.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by JOHNFBOSCO(m): 9:03pm On Nov 25, 2022
Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

I will really like you to update us on how the matter ends, this is really an interesting situation..that one need to learn from
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by qtguru(m): 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2022
Different mothers dey sha. I can't imagine a parent chasing a child out for a man. The new man no even get shame sef. Some Woman do this, especially when they are mostly illiterate or village mentality.

My step-brother's mother re-married and never told the father she had a son, she abandoned my step-brother, and sadly he abandoned his kids not willingly but via unfortunate circumstances, do you have relatives you can reach out to?

I hope this story is true, call your Father's people or brother .

Modified: I saw VictorUSA on one of your posts, and that name is known for fabricating stories, candidlady is he legit? OP are you not the same one complaining about your uncle telling you not to come to his house?

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by noble2faith(m): 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2022
Victoronah1:
but a man who is a widow can do it. Double standard

What are you driving at?
That it is right for the woman to chase her son out of his father's house, his own inheritance, because his mother wants to remarry?

Are you in your right frame of mind at all?
If you had said this to me face to face, I would hit you with something hard on your head so that you would think like humans!

BTW, 99.9% of African cultures is patriarchal in nature. Know this and know peace!
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by emmabest2000(m): 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2022
Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

You are supported

Stand on your ground
Don't give any 4cking gigolo a chance to inherit your father properties

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by noble2faith(m): 9:08pm On Nov 25, 2022
Victoronah1:
lol. seems you have a myopic reasoning.as long as your mother is alive, she has more claim over you. Can an you imagine the nonsense coming from your mouth. She was the one who birthed you. Did you know the suffering she went through with your late father to get to this stage. And because you're her son you now feel you have a right. Yes you do, but only when she is dead

Ko ni dá fun ẹ! In fact, o ni ku re!

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by alizma: 9:08pm On Nov 25, 2022
Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!
I will sound a little harsh or too explicit, but just focus on the key points that will benefit you. First of all, irrespective of age, some women can throw their children away just to enjoy good dik. From what you just type here, you are already facing such case and I want you to be very very careful with your life, yes I mean your life could be in danger any moment from now, why do I say so? It is obvious your mum's intention is to get that particular man who has what she wants, that is why she is the one saving money for the wedding and making arrangements for the accomodation which happens to be your supposed inheritance, unfortunately you are going to be an obstacle to that and I can tell you if you don't apply wisdom, you can start counting your days from the moment it becomes clear to her that you won't let go of the house.
Now my advice is this, you need to secure a source of income from where you can get your daily bread, then you need to call her for a meeting of both of you and her brother, let her know you are aware of her plan to remarry, you are in support of anything that makes her happy but you will appreciate if she take off any intention to bring in any man into your father's, and by inheritance, your house. Reason being that first of all that is an insult to your father and a spit on his grave which you don't think he had done something wrong while alive to deserve such treatment. Then right in her presence, go on your kneel for her brother, which is your uncle and tell him to please talk to his sister because he wouldn't like your actions should anything go contrary to this peaceful arrangements you lay before them. Then stand up and thank him and your mother for giving you their time for the meeting. Thereafter, travel out of turn for a week or thereabout without giving notice and when you return, take full responsibility of your needs, mainly food and other things she used to do for you, become a man of few words but maintain their respect whenever you have reasons to discuss anything with any of them and watch how things go your way.
Note, everything is never going to be the same again, you have lost your mum that you used to know, just respect her choice while you protect what belongs to you and the respect for your late father. Above all, be a good man that your father will be proud of, even in his grave. Be strong bro

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by maureensylvia(f): 9:08pm On Nov 25, 2022
Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

Agu
Nwayo!!!
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Victoronah1: 9:09pm On Nov 25, 2022
noble2faith:


What are you driving at?
That it is right for the woman to chase her son out of his father's house, his own inheritance, because his mother wants to remarry?

Are you in your right frame of mind at all?
If you had said this to me face to face, I would hit you with something hard on your head so that you would think like humans!

BTW, 99.9% of African cultures is patriarchal in nature. Know this and know peace!
if you were to see me, you would have been greeting me. He should work and move out. As long as the mother is alive, there is nothing he can do. There is. Nothing like inheritance. Since the people who built the foundations is still alive. Get that In Your skull.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by MarkJnr: 9:10pm On Nov 25, 2022
1Sharon:
If the house is rented, how is it your fathers house?


And what's your business if she wants to remarry? If you're over 18, start trying to assist yourself financially.
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by maureensylvia(f): 9:11pm On Nov 25, 2022
Calvary247:
I would advice you to move out without hesitation before she plots your killing. Your life is better.

Plot killing ke
How do u people reason sef
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Melissa16: 9:12pm On Nov 25, 2022
When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that


That house belongs to you. Don’t live. If your mom decides to marry, fine, let her follow the new husband to his house. It’s even a taboo for her to marry a man into the same house, she shared with her late husband. If possible go and tell your father people her plan, how she intend bringing in her new husband and chasing you out.
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by maureensylvia(f): 9:13pm On Nov 25, 2022
faithfull18:
But the mother is supposed to move to her husband's house after being married, not to bring him into her late husband's house. And if it was built by both of them, which is likely, she shouldn't send you out though.

On her end, sending you out may be a way of making you sit up and not to be too comfortable waiting for inheritance. Is she marrying the man or the man is marrying her. Op, you should probably involve your dad's family, I am sure those ones won't agree or let the house be sold, you collect your dad's share, she collects hers and everyone goes their separate ways atleast you both will rest.

I couldn't have said it better myself
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by wildkat: 9:13pm On Nov 25, 2022
fineboynl:
Did your father build the house? If yes the house belongs to you and she has no right to send you away. Stop touching her things or money. Stay put there but spend yoir money for feeding and other things don’t use her things.

If she plans to bring a man into that house never allowed it. Destroyed the marriage and give reasons why it shouldn’t hold. Except they plan to rent house. Never allowed that in that house.

Take this advice! The best u can get here. Your mother has no right to kick u outta your dada’s house
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by phemmyfour: 9:13pm On Nov 25, 2022
Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start
I doubt if she's his mother
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by wildkat: 9:13pm On Nov 25, 2022
othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

With the absence of the father, he owns that house. He’s the man in charge. He should man up and show his mum who’s boss
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by noble2faith(m): 9:14pm On Nov 25, 2022
Victoronah1:
if you were to see me, you would have been greeting me. He should work and move out. As long as the mother is alive, there is nothing he can do. There is. Nothing like inheritance. Since the people who built the foundations is still alive. Get that In Your skull.

Greet an adult who thinks like a child! Or an adult who is culturally bankrupt! From which tribe are you?

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by jeanexx7(m): 9:18pm On Nov 25, 2022
Your Mother remarrying is her choice, however, she should move into the Man's House and not the Man moving in with her.
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Unrated900(m): 9:20pm On Nov 25, 2022
Are you in anambra or owerri
Cos
This is common amidst igbo women.
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by MissionaryArchi(m): 9:22pm On Nov 25, 2022
HomeTutorsPro:

Her own husband's house you mean?
Since she's getting married does it make sense to you using that phrase?

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Senator777: 9:23pm On Nov 25, 2022
So your useless mother want to marry another man put inside your father's house.

Kayefi nla.
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by ibinaboonline: 9:28pm On Nov 25, 2022
Why are you waiting "for it to happen" before you can go and hustle and build a mansion that surpass your father's? Why not go and build it now?
Mercury12:

If it happen I will go and hustle and built a mansion that surpass that of my father. My father hustle to have his properties and as a man I will struggle to do same and even surpass him so he can be proud of me wherever he is. . .

Your problem is seeing your mom with another man and you can't stand it. You hate it and it same for many boys. But what can you do?
Stand your ground against your mom and get poison or you mistakenly harm her or your future step daddy? The constant back and forth between yall will be toxic and life threatening so the earlier you move out the better for everyone...
Nobody is taking away your right or claim to the property because no can take that away if that is your fear

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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by fykes(m): 9:32pm On Nov 25, 2022
Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

Hahahahahaha.

Almost cursed me to hell..

Una no go Kee me
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Galaxydon1(m): 9:37pm On Nov 25, 2022
Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!
please be a man, don't leave ur father's house cos of a stranger, fight for your right,
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by turok: 9:37pm On Nov 25, 2022
For me, she don't have to back out rather let her marry and move to her new husband house. Not her staying her in late husband house.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Tinsim: 9:45pm On Nov 25, 2022
Greattestman:
Which stupid side of the story permits a mother to send her son to go and suffer while she brings in a useless street dick to enjoy the son's father's hard labour? You don't know how irritating it is that is why you are running your mouth like water tap. Wait until it happens to you.
He should report the mother to the father's family and stop eating the mother's food.
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by kunkelhanspeter(m): 9:52pm On Nov 25, 2022
othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

How can you allow your mother to bring another man to your fathers house and then ask you to leave ?
To where?
She should be the one leaving to meet the man not chasing the guy out.

No nah not possible

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