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Lol. This shoddily typed topic is what OP wants to hit the front page? LMAO. Nairaland is useless enough to grant his request.

How do the ladies cope? The same way you do. No matter where and how you see yourself in life, the world won’t stop spinning.

Siofra come quickly.

Your expertise is required here

MALIGNANTGuest:
When did MARRIAGE become a world cup trophy and by the way are these ladies complaining and if YES what percentage is complaining?

REST!
Allow Ladies Rest.
Marriage has gone beyond this!

Ogbeni, Leave Sentiments and Pretence!

Marriage is A BIG TROPHY, Especially for them ladies.

Pringles101:
Siofra come quickly.

Your expertise is required here

Darling, I can't relate.

I'm living my best life.

Life begins at thirty.

Being single at thirty means I get to live a longer, stress-free life. No useless man to shorten my life by half.

siofra:
Darling, I can't relate.

I'm living my best life.

Life begins at thirty.

Being single at thirty means I get to live a longer, stress-free life. No useless man to shorten my life by half.

Hmmm..Really?

The Likes of Rita Dominic and Funke Akindele must have said this..

b4 they Started Fishing for a Husband.

emmanuelbrown26:
List of ways single women handles loneliness are
1. They would be in front roll of every church programme
2. They always belong to different groups in d church
3. They are never tired of praying
4. They always want everybody to work from morning till d following day without resy
4. They always visit shiloh every year
5. They love to read motivational books, in fact they love to read
6. They always attend any wedding both invited and uninvited ones.
7. They are always d first in singles fellowship
If u think say I like, Mak u ask @blessedmercy8 and @candidalady dem go tell u as en dey go

I got married in my early 30s. I wasn't broke when I got married. I was interested in building a career first and my hubby despite the significant age difference, waited for me. I don't know but I've always been about a woman must have something tangible to her name, not her hubby's or anyone else.

I have an older friend and colleague who is still unmarried. She lost it at some point and was withdrawn from everyone, but I pulled her out. She's not broke too. She has multiple masters, that was her way of coping. She's a hard worker too. She doesn't go home until late and she's one of the earliest at work. She lives alone so she'd rather not spend too much time at home. I made her go shopping, we go together. I made her get DSTV to reduce boredom, I made her attend parties and church events. Now, she's making her money work for her, she has plots of land for farming among other things at least if husband no come make she see money flex a lil bit.

She was once engaged to a younger man but the mum of the guy refused her and made a scene out of it. She was young then too according to her, we hadn't met then. Since then, men stopped coming. They don't come at all. The few ones that come, they don't hide the fact that they just want to smash and go. I hope she'll be married one day soon cause she's a good girl.

Eleyigidgan:
the 31 year old girl I ask for a relationship has all these 7 points you've listed.
now she is telling me no sex before marriage and she won't visit me in my house, we will only be sitting out

Lolsssssss, so a girl told u that and u accepted such from a girl?
Mehnnnnn!!!! Sometimes I feel ashame of sharing dis generation with some guys like u. I hv being asking this questions and no answer is forthcoming,
where's d manliness in guys dis day?
Does it mean that some fathers failed in training their male children?
Or does it mean that male children hv decided to deviate from d training they got from their fathers?
We hv totally lost d manliness of dis generation, what we hv dis day are just boys in men skin with penis and scrotum, that's all.

placeofallure:
I got married in my early 30s. I wasn't broke when I got married. I was interested in building a career first and my hubby despite the significant age difference, waited for me. I don't know but I've always been about a woman must have something tangible to her name, not her hubby's or anyone else.

I have an older friend and colleague who is still unmarried. She lost it at some point and was withdrawn from everyone, but I pulled her out. She's not broke too. She has multiple masters, that was her way of coping. She's a hard worker too. She doesn't go home until late and she's one of the earliest at work. She lives alone so she'd rather not spend too much time at home. I made her go shopping, we go together. I made her get DSTV to reduce boredom, I made her attend parties and church events. Now, she's making her money work for her, she has plots of land for farming among other things at least if husband no come make she see money flex a lil bit.

She was once engaged to a younger man but the mum of the guy refused her and made a scene out of it. She was young then too according to her, we hadn't met then. Since then, men stopped coming. They don't come at all. The few ones that come, they don't hide the fact that they just want to smash and go. I hope she'll be married one day soon cause she's a good girl.

She hasn't told u d raw truth why she's yet to get married. And d earlier she start telling u d raw truth d better for her bcs of d good advice u might dish out to her.
D nature of my hustle made me to easily know people from afar

Dailyparrot:
I have a sister in law that was living with my sister's husband before he got married to my sister.

She continued to live with her brother and my sister for several years until my sister felt it was time she got her own apartment.

Less than 2 years after getting her own self contained apartment, she took in a young man as a roommate with an excuse that the man is homeless and needed accommodation.

This lady is currently in her fifties and unmarried. A well known church woman but loneliness na your mate?

It isn't easy for any gender both male and female.

Men can easily manage loneliness far better than women. D only class of men that don't know how to manage loneliness are d broke ass men, introverts and sadist, aside that men get plenty thing to kill time

siofra:
Darling, I can't relate.

I'm living my best life.

Life begins at thirty.

Being single at thirty means I get to live a longer, stress-free life. No useless man to shorten my life by half.

How do you feel being a few years from menopause? ( If it comes early like 35)

Blunttruth:
Same way single men in their 30s with married friends cope

Not the same thing

siofra:
Darling, I can't relate.

I'm living my best life.

Life begins at thirty.

Being single at thirty means I get to live a longer, stress-free life. No useless man to shorten my life by half.

They say all these on the outside but cry every night on the inside

why didn't her story propel u to go back to her n marry her

Quality20:
why didn't her story propel u to go back to her n marry her

Because She is too Sexually Exposed and Wild!

I Cannot Can, Abeg!

siofra:
Darling, I can't relate.

I'm living my best life.

Life begins at thirty.

Being single at thirty means I get to live a longer, stress-free life. No useless man to shorten my life by half.

Wait till u r 45...you will understand that God wu created you for a man had a perfect idea. Some ladies are making are just repeating circles they once mocked people for

placeofallure:
I got married in my early 30s. I wasn't broke when I got married. I was interested in building a career first and my hubby despite the significant age difference, waited for me. I don't know but I've always been about a woman must have something tangible to her name, not her hubby's or anyone else.

I have an older friend and colleague who is still unmarried. She lost it at some point and was withdrawn from everyone, but I pulled her out. She's not broke too. She has multiple masters, that was her way of coping. She's a hard worker too. She doesn't go home until late and she's one of the earliest at work. She lives alone so she'd rather not spend too much time at home. I made her go shopping, we go together. I made her get DSTV to reduce boredom, I made her attend parties and church events. Now, she's making her money work for her, she has plots of land for farming among other things at least if husband no come make she see money flex a lil bit.

She was once engaged to a younger man but the mum of the guy refused her and made a scene out of it. She was young then too according to her, we hadn't met then. Since then, men stopped coming. They don't come at all. The few ones that come, they don't hide the fact that they just want to smash and go. I hope she'll be married one day soon cause she's a good girl.

I have a big phallus for hire over the weekend

Blunttruth:
Same way single men in their 30s with married friends cope

This one most be a joker. Do you think a man worries about being single in his 30s. When he has money on his mind . They is drink,football, ashawo, smoke .friends clubs. If he has kid or kids already. That dude is a lucky guy...

siofra:
Darling, I can't relate.

I'm living my best life.

Life begins at thirty.

Being single at thirty means I get to live a longer, stress-free life. No useless man to shorten my life by half.

Tah. Lie lie fake girl.. You nova Bleep for one year and you deh happy. Abi you deh finger yourself ?

Pakwel:
This one most be a joker. Do you think a man worries about being single in his 30s. When he has money on his mind . They is drink,football, ashawo, smoke .friends clubs. If he has kid or kids already. That dude is a lucky guy...

That's just the Point of this Post.

Single Guys have lots of Stuffs to take out Loneliness. e.g. Watching Football, Patronizing Oloshos, Going out with Friends, etc..

But For a Single lady, Her Friends will likely Abandon her once they Get Married.

Vinnie2000:
I Wanted to call somebody Today But Mistakenly Dialled the Number of one of My Ex Babe's Whom i Dated in 2018!..

She is around 29,30 Years now..

She Completed her HND in Delta State Polytechnic in Ogwuashi-ukwu recently.


She was like 'SweetHeart' how far nah, I am Still in Ogwuashi-ukwu here o. ' Maybe The Husband when go Marry me nah here he dey'..

She Sounded so Sad, Lonely and Depressed and I Really Felt for her.


SO REALLY, How Do Single Ladies Cope when Most of Their Friends are Married?



Nplfmod.

I am a professional counselor
Pls do give me her number
I offer free counselling

emmanuelbrown26:
Lolsssssss, so a girl told u that and u accepted such from a girl?
Mehnnnnn!!!! Sometimes I feel ashame of sharing dis generation with some guys like u. I hv being asking this questions and no answer is forthcoming,
where's d manliness in guys dis day?
Does it mean that some fathers failed in training their male children?
Or does it mean that male children hv decided to deviate from d training they got from their fathers?
We hv totally lost d manliness of dis generation, what we hv dis day are just boys in men skin with penis and scrotum, that's all.

Calm Down, How many fathers actually Fathered their Male Sons

How Many Fathers are Actually Father

How Many Fathers are Actually Masculine themselves

If you don't have adequate Mentors transition from Boy to Man(Adult Male) is the most Difficult Transformation in this Life Because Some Men are still Boys even in their Sixties(60) Simply because the education for Manhood is not there ...

Only a Foolish Man causes Trouble for Female by Impregnating Her and Run especially if the baby turns out to be Male ...

A Son without Father figure shall be Run by Street and Street is Cruel Except You can hold your Own .

The Cycles continue till Men Manned Up and Do their Jobs!

DonroxyII:
Calm Down, How many fathers actually Fathered their Male Sons

How Many Fathers are Actually Father

How Many Fathers are Actually Masculine themselves

If you don't have adequate Mentors transition from Boy to Man(Adult Male) is the most Difficult Transformation in this Life Because Some Men are still Boys even in their Sixties(60) Simply because the education for Manhood is not there ...

Only a Foolish Man causes Trouble for Female by Impregnating Her and Run especially if the baby turns out to be Male ...

A Son without Father figure shall be Run by Street and Street is Cruel Except You can hold your Own .

The Cycles continue till Men Manned Up and Do their Jobs!

What u stated is not accurate sir. There are many guys without father and they survived d world

emmanuelbrown26:
What u stated is not accurate sir. There are many guys without father and they survived d world

Lol, if that true the world wouldn't have been this Loopsided ! ... How many guys survive and How many guys are still struggling even in 40s

Visit Northern Nigerian See Almajiri Children everywhere fresh ground for bokoharam recruits

Same goes for Southern Nigeria and everywhere ...

Fvck finish, Run to another girl same lamba same line of lies got her pregnant and run to next girl with same lamba and lines of lies .. No Responsibleness no law holding men to be responsible for their Woes until it become better !

Many products of dysfunctional homes !

DonroxyII:
Lol, if that true the world wouldn't have been this Loopsided ! ... How many guys survive and How many guys are still struggling even in 40s

Visit Northern Nigerian See Almajiri Children everywhere fresh ground for bokoharam recruits

Same goes for Southern Nigeria and everywhere ...

Fvck finish, Run to another girl same lamba same line of lies got her pregnant and run to next girl with same lamba and lines of lies .. No Responsibleness no law holding men to be responsible for their Woes until it become better !

Many products of dysfunctional homes !

U are deviating from d topic sir

emmanuelbrown26:
Lolsssssss, so a girl told u that and u accepted such from a girl?
Mehnnnnn!!!! Sometimes I feel ashame of sharing dis generation with some guys like u. I hv being asking this questions and no answer is forthcoming,
where's d manliness in guys dis day?
Does it mean that some fathers failed in training their male children?
Or does it mean that male children hv decided to deviate from d training they got from their fathers?
We hv totally lost d manliness of dis generation, what we hv dis day are just boys in men skin with penis and scrotum, that's all.

Why are u jumping into conclusion? Mr apha male, ehhh did the guy state in his comment that he accepted her conditions, you just dey here dey yarn dust yen yen yen yen, senseless alpha male

Vinnie2000:
I Wanted to call somebody Today But Mistakenly Dialled the Number of one of My Ex Babe's Whom i Dated in 2018!..

She is around 29,30 Years now..

She Completed her HND in Delta State Polytechnic in Ogwuashi-ukwu recently.


She was like 'SweetHeart' how far nah, I am Still in Ogwuashi-ukwu here o. ' Maybe The Husband when go Marry me nah here he dey'..

She Sounded so Sad, Lonely and Depressed and I Really Felt for her.


SO REALLY, How Do Single Ladies Cope when Most of Their Friends are Married?



Nplfmod.

Wait so u mean at age 30 for a woman, becomes lonely? If that's the case I won't get married at age 28 again oooo I don shift am go 26, no 25.

Vinnie2000:
Ogbeni, Leave Sentiments and Pretence!

Marriage is A BIG TROPHY, Especially for them ladies.

Thank God you corrected yourself by saying for the ladies. I don't see how marriying one woman benefits a man. Solomon had 1000 women. Are you wiser than Solomon?

Prettygirl200:
Wait so u mean at age 30 for a woman, becomes lonely? If that's the case I won't get married at age 28 again oooo I don shift am go 26, no 25.

So you will be the one to Marry the Man or wat

Vinnie2000:
So you will be the one to Marry the Man or wat

How this your answer take ryme with my question oga? Bc your reply dey confuse me

Eleyigidgan:
the 31 year old girl I ask for a relationship has all these 7 points you've listed.
now she is telling me no sex before marriage and she won't visit me in my house, we will only be sitting out

that was how I met one short Jennifer like that some years back in Uniport.

After 6 months of occasional chyking, she finally agreed with a condition that there will be no sex, I said no p, but that everybody would be responsible for themselves.

So, I invited her like 3 times she refused to come, I lost appetite and gave her number to a friend to try his luck. Lo and behold the same girl that refused to visit my house, Visited my friend she has never met before in her life in my apartment. A guy she only spoke with on phone! Since that day I started fearing women.

My friend fvcked her the same day Mehn.. when he was done, he gave me a call to come over, I went over and she was shocked, speechless and dumb founded.

My only speech was "so you finally visited me
after all the shakara" with laughter and smiles.

Immediately she started crying and heaped all the blames on the DEVIL.

I stood up and told her ok, just take care. while I was making my way to the room she held my hand and was like she is sorry, it was the devil.

Immediately I landed a deafening slap on her.
And told her to get out of my house immediately. I was like, see this ashawo wan whine me ooh....?

She left with the biggest shame of her life.


See, any woman that you have not confirmed is a virgin, has no moral right to tell you no sex until after marriage. Only virgins can demand and deserve that condition.

If she like make she be prayer warrior!
Don't fall for it, it's a trap.

emmanuelbrown26:
Men can easily manage loneliness far better than women. D only class of men that don't know how to manage loneliness are d broke ass men, introverts and sadist, aside that men get plenty thing to kill time

Cancel that introvert abeg ... I enjoy my alone time