Na you sabi Mr. Prophet that can read the mind of a man getting married!

gypsey:
You think you know men, yea right! men can pretend, only him knows why he is marrying her. Besides, that man may look excited to you but he doesn't look excited to me. ofcourse would look excited to you, you are a woman!,

joyousever:
Na you sabi Mr. Prophet that can read the mind of a man getting married!

No, i cannot. Neither can you, that was why i said doesn't LOOK LIKE and ONLY HIM KNOWS, but hey! You either chose to ignore that part of my comment or you didn't understand it. As it appears you didn't understand the whole of my comment

All I have to say is congratulations to her, she should protect her marriage.

Cypress042:
One of the most difficult thing a woman can't handle well in this life is fame

Congratulations to her though.

Queen Elizabeth 11 handled it relatively well

jessylaurel:


Explain

You self dey mind am... He wanted to sound intelligent but at the end of his submission, he sounded the opposite.

E D don drop quote for him mind like that

AnonymustME:


“I couldn’t agree less” means you don’t agree… what you mean to say is “I couldn’t agree more”

Common Nigerian mistake

Thank you.

meobizy:
I remember the late nineties and early two thousands when she was an it girl. Back then she graced every social event, looking “takeaway.” Now nobody send her again, there are too many young babes flooding Nollywood. Genevieve can’t cope with the fact she’s no longer in demand, that one don catch mental issues. Shakara don end, true true.

Repeat after me,
My bad mouth won’t kill me
And say AMEN after that

Her husband must be loaded...

Creamypie:
the way Nigeria is, d only,, I repeat, only marketable courses are medicine/surgery(100%), law(78%), pharmacy(100%), nursing(95%), English(50%), econs and statistics(68%),computer science/engineering (90%) the rest are 10% possibility of employment.

The rest of 10% possibility is not entirely correct.
Education courses are marketable, Accounting, Insurance...etc have a lot of opportunities....

mariahAngel:


A man is never fully accomplished without a woman.
A male is considered a MAN when he has married a woman!

A man is only considered a responsible man when he marries.
He's not considered as never fully accomplished without a woman....the world doesn't think that way...men are rated as accomplished by wealth, value and influence

gypsey:
The greatest trophy of a woman is marriage, you may not like that statement but it is fact. Women are ussually the ones who are overly excited about marriages especially when they are old wrinkled and outdated.

I know of some wrinkled old men, they crave for marriage and are even desperate too. Life is hard bro

Women this, women that. Someone is having her wedding, why not just say congratulations and move on? When she's not not married, she's called names, and now that's married, y'all still find a way to call out women. Do you people ever get tired? Nawa o.

gypsey:
The greatest trophy of a woman is marriage, you may not like that statement but it is fact. Women are ussually the ones who are overly excited about marriages especially when they are old wrinkled and outdated.

Having a family of his own is also most men's dream. Simply say congratulations and move on. All this gender dichotomy is for teenagers.

etrange:
Women this, women that. Someone is having her wedding, why not just say congratulations and move on? When she's not not married, she's called names, and now that's married, y'all still find a way to call out women. Do you people ever get tired? Nawa o.

If any topic posted on nairaland doesn’t talk about women… Some folks here will bring it up they must make sure women issue is brought to the table.

BennyDGreat:


A man is only considered a responsible man when he marries.
He's not considered as never fully accomplished without a woman....the world doesn't think that way...men are rated as accomplished by wealth, value and influence

Of what use are those to a man without a woman?
Infact, a man with those without a woman is looked upon questionably.

(Nothing makes a man more proud than spending his money on the woman he loves.)

A man is accorded his full respect even by men, when he's married to a woman and heads a home.
A man's greatest achievement in life is marrying a good woman who's devoted to him and gives him children.

Relixy2k:
Reason I never mock anyone is because in life you never know what next. All you have can be wiped off in few days, all you never had can manifest in no time. Why will I mock someone now when I don't know or can't fully control what can happen next to me the supposed mocker.

Most sensible comment I've read so far

Hi

gypsey:
You think you know men, yea right! men can pretend, only him knows why he is marrying her. Besides, that man may look excited to you but he doesn't look excited to me. ofcourse would look excited to you, you are a woman!,

May lord save us

Stargurl20:
Hi
May lord save us

If you say so..

etrange:

Having a family of his own is also most men's dream. Simply say congratulations and move on. All this gender dichotomy is for teenagers.

Naturally some men do. Again i repeat, he only knows his reasons for getting married, I don't owe them any congratulations, i am not obligated to and if they bring their business on social media teenagers will air their opinions, there is nothing wrong with being a teenager, most teenagers are quite knowledgeable vastly than some adults, what is with the criticsm of teenagers opinions?

MyAmericandream:


I know of some wrinkled old men, they crave for marriage and are even desperate too. Life is hard bro

You are right and I never said it is only women who are or do, this guy getting married probarbly falls into that category

If you know Jesus Christ enough, then you should know that he (Jesus) doesn't judge.
OK. who then will judge you and I?
It is Moses!! yes! Moses. we all should go and obey the laws in the book of Exodus before we die!.Be wise, Open your eyes!!

GOFRONT:
Hmmmm........The greatest Trophy of a woman is Marriage.

You just want to invite hostility. This comment is unnecessary- it cuts both ways.

gypsey:
Naturally some men do. Again i repeat, he only knows his reasons for getting married, I don't owe them any congratulations, i am not obligated to and if they bring their business on social media teenagers will air their opinions, there is nothing wrong with being a teenager, most teenagers are quite knowledgeable vastly than some adults, what is with the criticsm of teenagers opinions?

You don't owe them a congratulatory message, but you owe them a reminder that one of a woman's greatest trophies is marriage, right? And when you're reminded that that same marriage is also one of men's greatest fulfillment, it then occurred to you to use the word "some" and that his reasons for getting married is unknown to you. However, the lady's reasons for getting married is very known to you. Smart pants.

Don't even try to make this about teenagers and thier intelligence or lack of thereof. I never criticized nor applauded them.

Relixy2k:
Reason I never mock anyone is because in life you never know what next. All you have can be wiped off in few days, all you never had can manifest in no time. Why will I mock someone now when I don't know or can't fully control what can happen next to me the supposed mocker.

What a very paranoid and fearful way to live, i mean, don't critic people, don't tell people they are fat, don't tell people they are poor, old, ugly even when it is obvious they are. lie to them that everything is fine and beautifull when it isn't.. Just because you are afraid you may end up like them?

What exactly is it in your life that you can't not control? Would you make a bad life decision or business descision? Knowing that they are bad decisions Because you cannot control them? Come on! Your life is what you make it, how you make your bed you lie on it, ever heard of those phrases?

mariahAngel:


Of what use are those to a man without a woman?
Infact, a man with those without a woman is looked upon questionably.

(Nothing makes a man more proud than spending his money on the woman he loves.)

A man is accorded his full respect even by men, when he's married to a woman and heads a home.
A man's greatest achievement in life is marrying a good woman who's devoted to him and gives him children.

A man's full respect doesn't come from when he's married to a woman and heads a home. Neither is his greatest achievement in life is marrying a good woman who's devoted....that's not the way the world thinks...

Marriage isn't a great achievement for men as the world considers it...Na why u go see men who are wealthy and influential still not having a woman in their house. E.G Dangote...how many people dare disrespect him?

Value ni....VALUE

Consider Dangote a woman, some people won't give 'her' space cos she ain't married.
They will assume a lot about her and would cut off ties with such a person

meobizy:
I remember the late nineties and early two thousands when she was an it girl. Back then she graced every social event, looking “takeaway.” Now nobody send her again, there are too many young babes flooding Nollywood. Genevieve can’t cope with the fact she’s no longer in demand, that one don catch mental issues. Shakara don end, true true.

Everybody gets there own problems. Have you finished solving yours? Why highlighting people's life to the world? Cho cho cho like parrot!

etrange:


You don't owe them a congratulatory message, but you owe them a reminder that one of a woman's greatest trophies is marriage, right? And when you're reminded that that same marriage is also one of men's greatest fulfillment, it then occurred to you to use the word "some" and that his reasons for getting married is unknown to you. However, the lady's reasons for getting married is very known to you. Smart pants.

Don't even try to make this about teenagers and thier intelligence or lack of thereof. I never criticized nor applauded them.

Fine, you caught me out, clever clog! but come on! why is it that when ever there is a wedding coming up women are USSUALLY the ones panicking, worried, stressed about the wedding dress, cakes, shoes, food. Worried that the wedding might go wrong?


What is it about then? Do you think teenagers don't get married or not in marriages already? why LABEL people teenagers in the first place? even though you frown at GENDER dichotomy as you put it.


Hey! Did you know that a man do not have to be married thesedays to have a family or children? Trust me I know from experience.

Congratulations to you Rita

GOFRONT:
Hmmmm........The greatest Trophy of a woman is Marriage.

Not when she’s the spender o.

CaptainFM1:


Everybody gets there own problems. Have you finished solving yours? Why highlighting people's life to the world? Cho cho cho like parrot!

Have you finished solving yours? go get on with solving yours...

vickydevoka:

Not when she’s the spender o.

It can still be even when she is the spender, co's she could have bought, spend on something else instead of marriage.

gypsey:
Fine, you caught me out, clever clog! come on! why is it that when ever there is a wedding coming up women are USSUALLY the ones panicking, worried, stressed about the wedding dress, cakes, shoes, food. Worried that the wedding might go wrong?


What is it about then? Do you think teenagers don't get married or in marriages already? why LABEL people teenagers in the first place? even though you frown at GENDER dichotomy as you put it.

Just remember to say SOME women just like you gave the men the courtesy of saying some men. That's all. These women you speak don't just run around to make things perfect on thier wedding day, they also do it on children's birthday celebrations, on thier wedding anniversaries, on thier child naming ceremonies, etc. It is naturally part of them to make sure food, decorations, etc are perfect whenever they're celebrating anything. On the other hand, they're women who would rather wed on a weekday and invite few guests. They are women satisfied with just court marriage. To each their own.

Asking why teenagers are labeled teenagers is like asking why octogenarians are called octogenarians or why elderly people are called elderly people. Again, I didn't say teenagers don't get married. I said gender dichotomy is something you should have outgrown after your teenage age.