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To wed an akwa Ibom girl, just to be ready to spend close to N3m.

Don't come here and say it's not true. Cos I m speaking from experience.

The bride' people will ask the groom to buy generator, motorcycle, wrappers, and may even add renovation to ur list, plus ladies machine nko?

Heard some relatives do this out of greed or just to frustrate the bride, by demanding so much from her husband to be

Nor be lie.



Thats why the women get very old not marrying just like madamvennesa with her old kpetus tight like pocohatas own

Oga focus on making money first, what's 3M to spend for your woman. Wedding is just ones in a lifetime... to me is just a celebration of oneness. Two becomes one.

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uzohrome:
Oga focus on making money first, what's 3M to spend for your woman. Wedding is just ones in a lifetime... to be is just a celebration.

Notorious SIMP's like this can borrow huge amount or sell their fathers land just to marry and please one overused girl.

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I am not surprised. They know what you stand to benefit when you eventually take her home. Good food, good care and the other room activity,na you go run.

OP, nor worry,you get the value of your money in full.

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uzohrome:
Oga focus on making money first, what's 3M to spend for your woman. Wedding is just ones in a lifetime... to me is just a celebration of oneness. Two becomes one.

If no vex oh....But you're mad...

Why should marriage be this expensive? Why should a man spend much to marry and how many youths out there will be able to afford even 1m to marry?


Here in the North, marriage is the simplest thing a man could worry about. With 50k you will marry a girl of your choice and the parents of the girl will equip your house with house-items from your parlour to your bedroom.

Marriage is a union between a man and woman. But these people just turn in to tradition and the church look the other way.

Islam doesn't permit the bride's family to touch the bride price...That is paid in the mosque and handed over to the girl directly because it's her money. But as a girl, you won't even smell it.

Anambra elders sat over and stopped that over pricing and reduced the cost of marriage to a minimum.... Now, youths can marriage early and begin to take responsibilities.

Abeg no the talk this nonsense.

I want to marry from Cross River, any beautiful decent girl from there on nairaland?

uzohrome:
Oga focus on making money first, what's 3M to spend for your woman. Wedding is just ones in a lifetime... to me is just a celebration of oneness. Two becomes one.

What's the essence of wasting that amount for just marriage, who you wan impress?

We put ourselves under unnecessary pressure in Africa because we like to show off too much. This is the reason why you see many unmarried women in the society today, men are scared of billing......If families can stop these annoying excess billings in Nigeria paying of bride price won't be a problem.

If not for procreation most men won't bother getting married.

tooth4tooth:
I am not surprised. They know what you stand to benefit when you eventually take her home. Good food, good care and the other room activity,na you go run.

OP, nor worry,you get the value of your money in full.

is that all? If this is what I stand to benefit then I will pass. Something ordinary girlfriend dey do.

Adexgentle005:
is that all? If this is what I stand to benefit then I will pass. Something ordinary girlfriend dey do.

If na the girlfriend wey you fit marry,no wahala.

Una no go kee person

JayyXXX:
Notorious SIMP's like this can borrow huge amount or sell their fathers land just to marry and please one overused girl.

I can look for one for u,I stay in cross river.

Tinububalls:
I want to marry from Cross River, any beautiful decent girl from there on nairaland?

Louis8796:
I can look for one for u,I stay in cross river.

I'm serious. Thanks man.

Get me your phone number

Tinububalls:
I'm serious. Thanks man.

Louis8796:
Get me your phone number

Let me email you.

OK,this is my email address (unimashilouis @gmail.com).

Tinububalls:
Let me email you.

Louis8796:
OK,this is my email address (unimashilouis @gmail.com).

Done.

No mata how I love the woman, if your people don’t like me I will run.
Yes, cus if say u like me u no go use bill put me and ur daughter for dept.
If I use 3 million just for traditional rights, how much u cun think say go be the white one? And you know all dis gals, to do white marriage dy freak dem like fvk. Na dis kind over spending dy make some ppl marry finish cun enter “financial mental disorder “
newly wed go just pick up act of vawulence give the order partner, no be cus say u no love ur wife o, but how u tink say d man go dy alright when em dy pay bills and gbese at same time?
To make the matter worst, she no cun be virgin (wtf), so all the spending self na waste. If na brand new, yes e worth all the money. How I go use money for brand new product, go buy used product (e make sense for ur ear?)
And u knw for Nigeria here, anytin 2nd hand no dy always be 2nd hand, infact 10th hand self.

family wer I go wn marry from, them cun knack me dat kind bill, sorry o I no marry again. I no go use because of love cun dy pay back gbese all cus say I wn marry.
Traditional rights spending for me, highest 1m. Anything more than that, then it’s a rip off from a hungry family.

OK.

Tinububalls:
Done.

uzohrome:
Oga focus on making money first, what's 3M to spend for your woman. Wedding is just ones in a lifetime... to me is just a celebration of oneness. Two becomes one.

that's the problem we're having today, as men are now focused on making money, our girls are ageing in thier father's house cos of some stupid and greedy tradition. Anyways, men have nothing to lose, we can marry at any age.

incandescentena:


Nor be lie.



Thats why the women get very old not marrying just like madamvennesa with her old kpetus tight like pocohatas own

Laff wan kill me

if the girl is a virgin,I won't mind,but if she isn't...one of her ex's should marry her.

What of Rivers girls they are expensive

So people are now "selling" their daughters?
Wonderful but weird and strange. I don't see someone like Otedola "sell" his daughters though. Even some families that aren't that rich still don't sell their daughters as long as the husband to be assure them of their daughter safety and wellbeing and there is love between the couple then they good to go. They will get all support from every members of the family.

Life is not suppose to be that hard to make the marriage plans a difficult one.
All they doing is frustrating someone son with excessive and ridiculous billings. It is called a wedding union for a reason

Is true

UyaiIncomparabl, we necessity your confirm or disapproval

Louis8796:
I can look for one for u,I stay in cross river.

I need one too, I like to marry from there although I’m an Igbo guy... the girl should be a homely girl thanks

uzohrome:
Oga focus on making money first, what's 3M to spend for your woman. Wedding is just ones in a lifetime... to me is just a celebration of oneness. Two becomes one.

dem suppose tie a big stone around your neck and throw you inside Atlantic ocean. At least one simp have been removed from the world that way