Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

Did God or the Bible recommend any particular style?

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

May God help us. Those sex styles emanated from pornography. We as a Christian should not be involved in it.

Why are we fixated bout this sex sef!

To be balanced, there are plenty of archeological evidence (drawings/carvings on rocks, scrolls, karma-sutra positions etc) that suggests the ancient folks did more than what you're thinking, so it's not authoritatively from porn like you assumed.


https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/sex-poses-close-kamasutra-scenes-on-772254223

peterbello:


OP, you are an extremist. You would have been a BH if you were a Muslim. Why don't you continue using tablets, scrolls and papyrus as used in the Bible. You dey fall youths hands terribly because the other older women reason better than you.

What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

Look how the guy is linking sex with glorifying God,this topic is not what Christian should be discussing in d church it is a private matter....nowhere is sex style taught in the Bible,no father ever taught his son how to insert his preek into a vj...it is inborn,any style is naturally allowed...the first style Adam practice is doggy style because he learnt it from the animals.

Bahamas95:
"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.

You are right people love bad things, but you are also making it controversial and becoming Judgmental too. Couples can do other styles, as long as it will not harm their bodies, or cause pain, Sex is healthy and good for couples. Doing other safe styles, is not bad.

You are becoming a follower of the law, you are not under law, but grace. They are human, and they are also a couple, and they can agree to do other safe styles. its not wrong. However, for couples who feel it is bad, they can desist from doing such, since their minds sees it as bad.

The followers of the law are always making more laws, yet they cannot follow them all, they burden themselves with so many law, and become a prisoner of the law, which leads to death.

Blessedmercy8:


What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy bad things a lot and if you try to tell them to stop that bad thing, because it's sweet to them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

dannex4adx:


May God help us. Those sex styles emanated from pornography. We as a Christian should not be involved in it.

I wonder o. The world has crept into the church. Too bad.

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

This is what I call mumu talk


You can knack each other any style .

If you like don’t enjoy yourself while young u will be a bitter couple in old age.

First time I see good reasons with U

Righteousness2:
When it comes to KNOWING yourselves as couples, GOD ALMIGHTY left Husband and wife to Know themselves. He didn't ask them to use this style or that style.

As long as you are legally married, Husband and wife should KNOW themselves as they desire.

As Humans, GOD gave us knowledge to know what is abnormal and what is not.
There is the right and Healthy channel to KNOWING your spouse.
However you wanna KNOW your spouse, do it through the right channel and to the Glory of GOD.

There are no styles the married couple cannot engage in so long it's not anal. Do as the occasion demands.

SeriouslySense:
You are right people love bad things, but you are also making it controversial and becoming Judgmental too. Couples can do other styles, as long as it will not harm their bodies, or cause pain, Sex is healthy and good for couples. Doing other safe styles, is not bad.

You are becoming a follower of the law, you are not under law, but grace. They are human, and they are also a couple, and they can agree to do other safe styles. its not wrong. However, for couples who feel it is bad, they can desist from doing such, since their minds sees it as bad.

I didn't judge anyone in my OP. I put a disclaimer there that it was all my opinion but instead of them sharing their thoughts they were busy calling me names and bashing themselves.

I'm a gracefull christian and don't live by the laws cos I can't fulfil all but that shouldn't erase our sense of judgement of good and evil. Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? God forbid!

Allow someone love you and stop being rigid @blessedmercy
You dont expect a man to be on top his 8mth preggie wife.Other styles come to play and BTW God didn't specify any sex style.
Humans did

See argument. Una no get work

What happens when a man wants to make love to his pregnant wife? He should use the missionary style too going by your assertion?
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Blessedmercy8:


Oh.. I see you're a cave man to know they had different styles.

Abeg, park one side. Your own no dey follow way.

and you are a cave man to know they did not?

Octopusssy:
See argument. Una no get work

das why they call it the MISSIONARY position na

Kobojunkie:
I don't need to be a cave man to be able to put two and two together as far as humans and sex is concerned. Before even the Kamasutra was written, humans had been having sex in various positions for thousands of years before. To conclude that pornography is the only reason why folks don't use the one position during sex one has to abandon all ability to properly reason these things out.

even animals that dont watch porn have different styles. So cave men would have behaved as animals doing doggie and co

No we should not sin but stay always in Christ and stay connected to the vine. Since it sanctifies us and keeps our feet clean.

But sex is a good thing, its not bad, when its between couples. It sharing, caring and bonding, and it should be done in agreement and understanding respecting the bodies, ensuring it does not cause harm or pain. It something couples should talk about and appreciate.

Blessedmercy8:


I didn't judge anyone in my OP. I put a disclaimer there that it was all my opinion but instead of them sharing their thoughts they were busy calling me names and bashing themselves.

I'm a gracefull christian and don't live by the laws cos I can't fulfil all but that shouldn't erase our sense of judgement of good and evil. Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? God forbid!

dannex4adx:


May God help us. Those sex styles emanated from pornography. We as a Christian should not be involved in it.

what style did adam and eve use? What style did the bible recommend?

Righteousness2:
When it comes to KNOWING yourselves as couples, GOD ALMIGHTY left Husband and wife to Know themselves. He didn't ask them to use this style or that style.

As long as you are legally married, Husband and wife should KNOW themselves as they desire.

As Humans, GOD gave us knowledge to know what is abnormal and what is not.
There is the right and Healthy channel to KNOWING your spouse.
However you wanna KNOW your spouse, do it through the right channel and to the Glory of GOD.

Sir righteousness, God bless you. You just make my mind sweet me now. Cos i wonder how dis religious hypocrites go just sitdan begin conclude for God. Me wey dey like to suck pussy, one idiot go say make i no suck my wife's pussy, why? I wud satisfy my wife anyway and anyhow she wants it so that she won't go hunting for satisfaction outside.

Who told you that the porn stars are the creator of different sex styles ?

As long as the sex styles is between a husband and wife and there's a mutual agreement between the two, I think there's no crime in it.

Sex is sacred:
It's none of someone business on how it's done between a husband and a wife.

Immediately after the fall in the book of Genesis, the bible say: Adam knew his wife.

Did God instructed Adam on how to have sex with his wife ?

Adam named all animals. He even named the woman.

Did God tell him how to do that ?

For those saying Anal.

Anal sex is a type of sex; just like MouthAction, penetrative sex, and not a sex style.

Hence, God's given us the knowledge to know between good and bad. Therefore, common sense should tell you if the type of sex you want to engage in Is healthy or inimical to you and your spouse.

Blessedmercy8:


Where did I say couples should not have sex at all? Are you as dumb as you look? My guess is right.

If this is the only response you could give to a simple question, then your mind is as ugly as your ugly looking self.

Bittered bitch! You are so beautiful that you remained unmarried even in your late 40's?
Cry yourself a river!
You are so bittered that you think attacking my looks we scare me? You so crave attention even at your age that you practically live on naira land and seek validation for your own opinion.

As long as the pen-is enters the vjay and no other place.
Wether from the back, from the front or the woman sitting on top. It is holy.

Pen is only meant for the vjay alone not the anus.

Tell me where is it written in the bible where God instruct followers to have sex in a certain position?

Islam the religion of pieces

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Oh... You seem to be in the category of those who think marriage is a do or die affair? Lol...

Look, I chose when I'll marry because I have all it takes by the grace of God whenever I'm ready and not out of pressure but as for you, pressure is naturally mounting on you because you really have nothing going for you. Even with your queen mother wig at your "young" age , you still look trashy. Lol....

I've been letting all your snide remarks pass because you no reach but you now want to make it a habit of mentioning me for rubbish at will. You miss road?

Hhhh

Blessedmercy8:


Oh... You seem to be in the category of those who think marriage is a do or die affair? Lol...

Look, I chose when I'll marry because I have all it take by the grave of God whenever I'm ready and not out of pressure but as for you, pressure is naturally mounting on you because you really have nothing going for you. Even with your queen mother wig at your "young" age , you still look trashy. Lol....

I've been letting all your snide remarks pass because you no reach but you now want to make it a habit of mentioning me for rubbish at will. You miss road?

You belong to the gutter, no need exchanging words with you... Your use of language is a turn off! Won't reply you again...

the fact that you keep attacking my looks shows you are threatened!

Eve was created for Adam not the other way,and man is the head of the home ,so a man been on top is the only style approved by God.
Every other style is the property of jezebel and whoever does those styles are going to hell.

I speak mystery beyond your human reasoning.. until you have visited heaven and hell then don't argue what you don't know.
What you don't know is senior to you.

Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

Modified.
What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

What's so dirty about different sex styles apart from missionary style? You are just arguing with your macro initiative.If I may asked you.What is idea of having sex?I know what comes to your folly mind is having babies,but sex is more than that.
Consult positive school for more understanding, because God that create genital organs for both male and female is not nut.

GloriousGbola:


das why they call it the MISSIONARY position na

The argument is senseless. So of all the sins that condemn one's soul to hell, it is what sexual position I and my lawfully wedded spouse adopt in the bedroom that will condemn me?

Shior