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Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by yemex04(m): 2:55pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie: @the Bolded you are wrong....She will always get the fact of this statement on the internet..Proper sex education is better & the consequences of premarital sex with Life experience illustration can be emphasized all the time in Homes, schools or public gatherings.. Parents equally need to be ready to provide all their spiritual,physical & emotional needs.Their Lifestyle & Education could be designed in a regimented way so that they can graduate Early enough for them to start making an informed choices consequences of which would be cleared to them. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Lollz(f): 3:26pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie: I feel like insulting you but I won't even waste my time!! Look here you mysogynistic fellow, Marriage involves two people so what ever ridiculous measures, methods or advice you have should go for both the man and the woman not just the woman!!!! Enough with the bias please! |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Nobody: 6:34pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Fahvvy:As a matter of fact she is in the best position to counsel her little girl(s) because she experienced it first hand. Mistakes don't make people. It's what u do after that matters because we all have our different shortcomings. From her actions it's obvious she means we'll for her child and probably doing better than a lot of parents who shy away from such discussions with their teenage girls. She is doing well so far. Try not to judge too quickly based on people's past mistakes |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Fahvvy: 6:51pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Elchapo212: Sir... Children don't learn from what you say, they learn from what they see you do ... And if she indeed does mean well for her daughter like you say... Then she ought to stop her daughter from being involved with a guy in this manner... She allowing her daughter to go for family planning at 16 could give the impression that she's giving her daughter the leeway to have sex... You'll agree with me that the biggest deterrent to a bad action is consequences... Once consequences are removed, what's to stop a child from carrying out the act? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by aisha1314(f): 7:50pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Sanmel: I don't see anything wrong with a 16 year old being on family planning. After all the age of consent in many countries is 16. I don't see how this is such a big deal that it should be on the news. In my opinion, sex should never be seen as something that is bad, dirty, shameful or immoral but just as a normal and healthy part of life and living. There's nothing wrong with sex as long as it's safe and consensual. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by eyinjuege: 8:02pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
joyandfaith: Nobody is saying abstinence is not the best. We all know that's the best and that has been the advice even before you were born. Has that stopped abortions or hookups? If anything at all, it's increasing. If that's not a viable option, why not go for the next best thing to prevent unwanted pregnancies? Or you would rather they abort instead of contraception? Even if the mother refuses abortion, the 16 year old girl with no money or access to good healthcare will rather go to a quack where she may end up dead. A dead child or one on contraception? Choose your poison. 1 Like |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Nobody: 8:05pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Fahvvy: Yea kids pick up what they see u do around them. We don't know if she's living right or wrong or are u judging her by her having kids out of wedlock? I understand consequences but then harsh realities probably influenced her options. It's also better she exposes her to sex education at least if she's not going to be chaste she should know what she's getting into. At 16 girls are already into guys and sex so and now there's internet it's easier to connect with like minds from the confines of her room even without leaving the house. So her decision to enlighten the girl ain't all that bad if u ask me. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Nobody: 8:10pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
aisha1314:just because u are sex addict stop assuming everyone is 2 Likes |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Fahvvy: 8:50pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Elchapo212: 1. Sir... A mother who gets scared to the point where she's pushed to suggest family planning for a 16year old girl prolly knows she didn't do a very good job raising, don't you think so? ... From the write up, one can infer that she suggesting family planning for her daughter wasn't because of any se.x education of some sort, it is out of something called "damage control" ... It's more like she's trying to mitigate risk, that's how I see it ... 2. I don't think se.x education should include phoning the nurse to give your permission for family planning for your daughter ... Teach your kids about se.x... yes Tell them it's consequence... Yes But calling a nurse to give permission? Nahhhh... That's overboard if you ask me ... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by fkj950ax(m): 9:19pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Sanmel: That’s a drawback of NL. Once a comment is quoted, the author has lost control of it. I work with EHR software and I know the hoops we jump through to keep Pt info confidential. I’d delete my mention of your post to play my part on your behalf 1 Like |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by felzokugo(m): 9:50pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Ooohkay...i see. Has the decadence ended or is it gonna be faster than d speed of sound?? Guess u lived b4 the last 40 years..(jus a thought). |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Kobojunkie: 9:54pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
felzokugo:The point is within the last 40 years, not only have Nigerians gotten more religious, but equally more depraved as a society and Nation. So, suggesting the preaching of your many mogs and pastors have had positive impact on existence in Nigeria amounts to wearing blinders during a terrible storm while at the same time proclaiming the weather is gorgeous. 2 Likes |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by skedy1(m): 1:00am On Nov 29, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Beautiful piece! 3 Likes |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Kobojunkie: 5:57am On Nov 29, 2022 |
joyandfaith:Abstinence isn't a godly approach. There will be many virgins in Hell at the end, so don't be deceived by soundbites and noise which ultimately have nothing to do with God. 2. Worldly approach yet the vast majority of Nigerians have over the last 40 years turned to religion. Don't you see that the root of that which you consider worldly seems to branch at the same time from the many religious practices of the people? 3. Children born out-of-wedlock are a nuisance yet statistics in Nigeria reveals they pose as much a burden to society as those who are born to both father and mother? |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by joyandfaith: 6:22am On Nov 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Godly approach is not the same thing as r eligious approach. What God wants from you is simple. Abstinence is the best approach. Nothing can change that. Children from dysfunctional homes are nuisance to society. They are evils who even influence Children from good homes. Take 10 thugs/armed robbers/cultists/prostitutes, 9 are from dysfunctional homes. The most important cause of dysfunctional home is sexual immorality. Mere mortals can not be wiser than his creator in deciding what is good and bad. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Kobojunkie: 6:36am On Nov 29, 2022 |
joyandfaith:1. But God never asked you for abstinence so why offer to Him that which He never desired from you to begin with? Or what meaning would that be? 2. How many of those children from good homes do you meet on a regular basis in that country? Even the children of your pastors and mogs are counted by some are children from dysfunctional backgrounds. So who are you to decide who is good enough and who is not? 3. Problem here is you continue to confuse what are your personal delusions and hangups with that which is of God. Is there really anything more dysfunctional than that? |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by joyandfaith: 6:50am On Nov 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: 1. Read your Bible well to meaning of sexual immorality. 2. Families of pastors are not gold standards. Some could be of good examples. Bible is the standard. Family is the basic unit of society. Bad homes bad society. If humans ignore Godly principles, they would repeat it. Gal 6:7. 3. You don't know God and his words. That is the reason for your confusion and ignorance. It doesn't belong to man who is walking to direct his own step . Jer 10:23 |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Kobojunkie: 7:06am On Nov 29, 2022 |
joyandfaith:1. You must be reading the book upside down because nowhere did Jesus Christ, the one who God sent to even you, inform you that abstinence holds any meaning with God. As I said earlier, His teachings make it clear that Virgins do dey Hell plenty. 2. There is no scriptural standard for the family. So, you must be smoking something to assume such exists. 3. Again, none of what you have claimed so far is of scripture so how can you sit and pretend you can judge mu knowledge of God? |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by joyandfaith: 7:07am On Nov 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: See my signature |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Kobojunkie: 7:08am On Nov 29, 2022 |
joyandfaith:I see a foolish person pointing fingers instead! |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by joyandfaith: 7:11am On Nov 29, 2022 |
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Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by bukatyne(f): 7:40am On Nov 29, 2022 |
NoToPile: I don't understand how people think policing one sex on an activity that involves both sexes makes sense & would work. Every heterosexual man sleeps with a woman. Every heterosexual adulterous husband sleeps with a woman. If every man thinks it is ok to have multiple sexual partners in/outside marriage, I don't understand how they expect sexual purity/ virginity from the women. It is either men & women zip up or everyone zips down. We tried policing women in the past, it did not work and it never will. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by bukatyne(f): 7:44am On Nov 29, 2022 |
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Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by bukatyne(f): 7:46am On Nov 29, 2022 |
stedan: Well said. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by NoToPile: 10:45am On Nov 29, 2022 |
bukatyne: I wonder too. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Mamijoh(f): 12:30pm On Nov 29, 2022 |
I will do the same, if I were the mother 1 Like |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by LordReed(m): 1:37pm On Nov 29, 2022 |
Sanmel: Bold move by the mum, it's difficult to acknowledge deficiencies sometimes so for her to do so in this case is commendable. I only hope it has the desired effect. 2 Likes |
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