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Give400:
My gf is going for service beginning of next year. I'm planning of getting her pregnant so that she can still be mine. Yes I have planned to make her my wife and I was the one that disvirgined her.
I just want to be sure if I am not rushing thinhs. At the same time I don't want her to go to the camp and get exposed and later change. What should I do guys?

PS: I never told her this. Because if I tell her she will probably decline and tell me to wait till she gets back. I just want everything to happen like it's unexpected. We have been doing contraceptives and she is a woman they can change in a second

If she is the kind of woman that can change in a second, why then are you with her? Why do you have to get her pregnant to secure her loyalty? If you plan to make her your wife, does she plan to make you her husband? If she could change in camp, what makes you think she hasn't changed already and it's you that haven't found out? A woman can cheat on you despite having kids for you. She can cheat on you while pregnant for you.

You are either insecure or she is disloyal, or both. Maybe you have spotted certain red flags in her. Don't get her pregnant. It's not worth it man. It's not worth it for you. It's not worth it for the kid. It's not worth it for the future you that will spend 20+ years paying school and feeding fees.

Give400:
My gf is going for service beginning of next year. I'm planning of getting her pregnant so that she can still be mine. Yes I have planned to make her my wife and I was the one that disvirgined her.
I just want to be sure if I am not rushing thinhs. At the same time I don't want her to go to the camp and get exposed and later change. What should I do guys?

PS: I never told her this. Because if I tell her she will probably decline and tell me to wait till she gets back. I just want everything to happen like it's unexpected. We have been doing contraceptives and she is a woman they can change in a second

are you financially ready for marriage..? if yes, y not...? again know dat her chances of a decent good paying job will fall to 20% after marriage......

Samantha123:
What kind of contraceptives are you guys using?

you want to be using it too?

Yes..

FREDCLSSICO7:
you want to be using it too?

Samantha123:
Yes..

Lol
you don't need it na. Besides it might later give side effects which maybe injurious to ur health..

Give400:
My gf is going for service beginning of next year. I'm planning of getting her pregnant so that she can still be mine. Yes I have planned to make her my wife and I was the one that disvirgined her.
I just want to be sure if I am not rushing thinhs. At the same time I don't want her to go to the camp and get exposed and later change. What should I do guys?

PS: I never told her this. Because if I tell her she will probably decline and tell me to wait till she gets back. I just want everything to happen like it's unexpected. We have been doing contraceptives and she is a woman they can change in a second

NYSC has been ending relationships since 1967. Know these and know peace.


Just comot ur mind. You can't keep a lady who doesn't want to be kept. Even if she is 6months pregnant.

I'll cross the bridge when I get there..

FREDCLSSICO7:
Lol
you don't need it na. Besides it might later give side effects which maybe injurious to ur health..

Give400:
My gf is going for service beginning of next year. I'm planning of getting her pregnant so that she can still be mine. Yes I have planned to make her my wife and I was the one that disvirgined her.
I just want to be sure if I am not rushing thinhs. At the same time I don't want her to go to the camp and get exposed and later change. What should I do guys?

PS: I never told her this. Because if I tell her she will probably decline and tell me to wait till she gets back. I just want everything to happen like it's unexpected. We have been doing contraceptives and she is a woman they can change in a second

She no dey exposed for sch, na 3week orientation camp she wan dey exposed?

Samantha123:
I'll cross the bridge when I get there..

You sure gonna like some hot and wild fun

Don't worry I'll tell you some contraceptive to use when crossing the bridge

Of course you're a man and you know nothing about female contraceptives..

FREDCLSSICO7:
You sure gonna like some hot and wild fun

Don't worry I'll tell you some contraceptive to use when crossing the bridge

anthonyuncle:
don't marry or pregnant a girl because you are scared of others snatching her.

Tell am o.. Pregnant wives still dey cheat o. That camp so.. Hmmmmm. Op comot mind.. Na my own advice be that..

Give400:
My gf is going for service beginning of next year. I'm planning of getting her pregnant so that she can still be mine. Yes I have planned to make her my wife and I was the one that disvirgined her.
I just want to be sure if I am not rushing thinhs. At the same time I don't want her to go to the camp and get exposed and later change. What should I do guys?

PS: I never told her this. Because if I tell her she will probably decline and tell me to wait till she gets back. I just want everything to happen like it's unexpected. We have been doing contraceptives and she is a woman they can change in a second

You dont need to panic because being pregnant doesn't make any difference, men will still find her attractive

Some married women still cheats

A woman that have a good reason to cheat must cheat

Left to me, leave her let her go and come back, it's another opportunity for you to study her more

But if you can't wait, then go to her family for a small marriage introduction

Samantha123:
Of course you're a man and you know nothing about female contraceptives..

Lol
you've gat to be kidding me
you don't have to be a woman before
knowing about female contraceptives.
besides, you don't need these contraceptive
you could use protection or better still withdrawal method

You guys can be stubborn, so as a woman, it's only fair that I find ways to protect myself without having to rely on a guy.

Many women put their faith in their guys to use protection or withdrawal method, but unfortunately, they're now baby Mamas.

And the last thing I want right now is a crying baby that's going to disturb my sleep at night.

FREDCLSSICO7:
Lol
you've gat to be kidding me
you don't have to be a woman before
knowing about female contraceptives.
besides, you don't need these contraceptive
you could use protection or better still withdrawal method

[quote author=Samantha123 post=118807241]You guys can be stubborn, so as a woman, it's only fair that I find ways to protect myself without having to rely on a guy.

Many women put their faith in their guys to use protection or withdrawal method, but unfortunately, they're now baby Mamas.

And the last thing I want right now is a crying baby that's going to disturb my sleep at night.

Exactly
you're right
you won't blame most of the guys not that we're actually stubborn
the truth is that the sweetness of it will make us not to be able to withdraw quickly and the protection aspect most guys prefer it raw cus it makes intimacy more pleasurable.

@Bolded
Lol
why don't you want a baby
are you too young for that or you just want no disturbance to your sleep

I blame everyone because it takes two to tango.

I'm not ready to have my sleep disturbed and at the same time, I'm not yet married.[quote author=FREDCLSSICO7 post=118809499][/quote]

Samantha123:
I blame everyone because it takes two to tango.

I'm not ready to have my sleep disturbed and at the same time, I'm not yet married.

You don't want disturbance right?
but when you get married and it's time for you to start giving birth to kids hope you won't complain of your sleep been disturbed by your baby?

The possibility of me getting a night shift nanny is high..

FREDCLSSICO7:
You don't want disturbance right?
but when you get married and it's time for you to start giving birth to kids hope you won't complain of your sleep been disturbed by your baby?

Get her pregnant if you wanna keep her.