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VERTEX1:
This is the most valuable thread for me since I found it because every life aspect is discussed in disguise.
Please I've better problem, I'm very thin not slim. I've tried doing weight lifting, push-ups and press ups but would always result to body pain, making me not to concentrate on money ventures following days after the gym.
I'm not that short atleast 5.8 ft. but I'm very skinny like It's hard wearing shorts and polo in order to cover my bones *lol. One girl I've bedmatics plan for just told me that I don't look like I've strength, that in short I'm not strong. How do i manage my situation o.

You need to eatt more regular food and get more calorie intake before building muscle.

Food helps you gain weight
Gyming and weight lifting is just to shape your weight .

leocollins:
I know bro, just that it kinda annoying bro, cuz on Friday i noticed some funny attitude while greeting some neighbours , the way they were looking at me was just suspicious..
Thanks for the advice between

shun Dem ,if they continue stop kwanu , respect is reciprocal

If you are in the friend zone of a woman you really want to bed

Do this three things and you shall have her

1) stop orbiting around her, let her come to you

2)pay her less attention and let her earn whatever attention you give her

3) flirt more and pass all her shit tests

*copied

Men
Only a woman can give you sex

Only you can give her relationship

Friend zoning is a relationship you allowed
If she doesn't wanna have sex with you
Then withdraw the friendship

You did not lose more than her
To women, relationship is greater than sex


*COPIED

Paternity fraud (why does it happen)
A woman is obligated to find a husband whether she likes it or not (biology clock)
So since she can't get the man she wants,
she will settle for the dependable weak man
but when it comes to sex only a woman can give it to you, therefore no matter how ugly a woman is, she holds the key to sex and even the most alpha male wants sex

On the other side the man holds the key to relationships and commitment, Simply put, a woman fuks whoever she wants but marries what is available

A man fuks what is available but marries whoever he wants, the exception is beta males, they marry the way they have sex (whatever is available), so the woman settles for the beta male and since she can fuk whoever she wants, she will go and get pregnant for a particular alpha, jerk the weak man knows not and she will make the weak man raise the alpha's children.

Paternity fraud is a way of women eating their cakes and having it

JESHAL:
Sleeping with prostitutes is a quick fix to a long term problem, you won't even enjoy the sex, it's one sided, no emotional bonding afterwards, it's transactional and negotiated, you get the poorest quality sex even if you spend heavily, you are on a time clock, the hoes sees you as a useful thirsty idiot, the hoes disrespect you, it's better to endure sexlessness.


Sadly many beta males are getting this kind of sex or no sex at all, based on the condition that they provide value is the only way their wives would endure and tolerate fucxking them,their wives see them as useful idiots they settled with, no love, just duty and chore sex.

Hahahaha , reality is that many of these men are after their orgasm...make dem cum den dislodged the bitch in peace.

Nothing concerns them with emotional bonding...
Infact after they cum the , woman looks useless in their eyes.

Sucre6:
Yeah she was really, after the first round, she bleed, hymen broken, I would eventually forgive her, but I want to register it in her head that I am the Alpha in the Pack and I call the shots.

She go disturb you tire... Most women hardly forgets the man that disvirgned them...

I admire your stance...kudos

IwasNeverGone:
No mincing of words; eat, rest, work on ur body, get a dumbbell and stop giving excuses for you being lazy.

lwkm
thanks so much my lazy gee

Kindly assist me with any amount.

Really broke right now 2097664080 UBA

Do everything you like but don't date low; like people with nothing to loose.

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virginboy1:
She go disturb you tire... Most women hardly forgets the man that disvirgned them...

I admire your stance...kudos

No kidding bro

dontai:
I'm forced to believe wizkid is � red-piller. All his moves and actions are quite well calculated, Relationship and work wise. With all his baby mamas, they know not to fvck with him, even the one with him, he pulled the I'm now "single" card sharply, and it really put her off guard, before she would come out with damning accusations (she even said wizzy is playing one kind (emotional) games, only to come out the following day to profess her love for him). Imagine an actress coming out to say wizkid is not for one woman, can that be said of Davido?
He put himself on the pedestal, and people accept/like him like that. He doesn't give a fvck about awards or A-list artist, even if he does he never showed it!

He's a Cancerian; they're quite stingy with emotions & money, just like Virgos.

Ketapu:
Know this now: The longer you wait before initiating sex with a lady, the higher the chance you will never have sex with her, at least before marriage.

That was my experience with ladies before I came across the red pill.

Also, kill that mentality of her being a virgin. I doubt she is. I have seen a lady swear with God's name that she's a virgin only for her to be caught a few days later fucccking a guy who she has been close with for a long time.

That your ex was just playing head games with you probably because she considers you to be a husband material. If a lady tags you as husband material, she will do her best to appear as a good girl so that the chance of you marrying her will increase. I have seen guys who married their wife because she told them she is a virgin.

The guys only found out it was all a lie after marriage. By then, it was kinda too late. They quarreled for some time over the issue but later settled it. I have seen 2 of such cases in which the pastor was even supporting the lady and encouraging the guy to forgive and forget.

The lady won. How, you may ask? Well, those ladies had it all planned out.

First, she decided to lie she's a virgin so that you will marry her.

She then plans that once you know the truth after marriage, she will bombard you with apologies. She knows you will first get angry but you will eventually forgive her. If you want to prove stubborn and not forgive, she will involve people that can control you such as your religious leaders. Once the pressure to forgive is much, you will eventually forgive her.

Shikena. She won. She ate her cake and still have it.

That is a manifestation of Law 29 of the 48 Laws of Power which states that: Plan all the way to the end.

Never ever fall for the scam of "I'm a virgin." That scam is as old as man. I'm not saying she is not a virgin but I'm saying you should confirm her claim. How you do that is left to you. Don't just fall for her words.

It seems you don't have a lot of experience with ladies. You are likely a religious guy that is easily moved by the religious appearance of people, especially ladies.

We are living in a Machiavellian jungle. Learn the rules of the jungle.

Exactly!

You said it all.

The poster you quoted should not just jonse himself.

monerozi5590:
What has what you said got to do with Davido? Must you drag Davido into this. Why is it that you people like putting Davido and Wizkid side by side?

That's one of the bias of human nature.

Even you, do indirect comparison, from time to time.

For example:

When we mention rice, the idea of beans comes up...

When we mention pounded yam, the thought of semolina/semovita spring up...

When we mention sheep, you innately view a goat at its side, even if it's not there...


If we do compare non-living things, how much more human beings like yourself...

Karlifate:
That's one of the bias of human nature.

Even you, do indirect comparison, from time to time.

For example

When we mention rice, the idea of beans comes up...

When we mention pounded yam, the thought of semolina/semovita spring up...

When we mention sheep, you innately view a goat at its side, even if it's not there...


If we do compare non-living things, how much more human beings like yourself...

What does " Can that be said of Davido" mean?

Must the comparison always be of opposite poles?

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Karlifate:
He's a Cancerian; they're quite stingy with emotions & money, just like Virgos.

You must be Virgo to know we Virgos are stingy with emotion and money.
I just like wizzy maybe because he behave like Virgo Sha.

luvyaself95:
You must be Virgo to know we Virgos are stingy with emotion and money.
I just like wizzy maybe because he behave like Virgo Sha.

LMAO!

Well, I'm not a Virgo.

virginboy1:
Hahahaha , reality is that many of these men are after their orgasm...make dem cum den dislodged the bitch in peace.

Nothing concerns them with emotional bonding...
Infact after they cum the , woman looks useless in their eyes.

Karlifate:
LMAO!

Well, I'm not a Virgo.

I guess you have study alot Virgo and read alot about them.
Or maybe You're cancerian yourself

luvyaself95:
I guess you have study alot Virgo and read alot about them.
Or maybe You're cancerian yourself

I'm neither of the two.

Karlifate:
Exactly!

Safety first
Just like the motto in the construction industry.

I've adopted the motto, long time ago.

That's how it should be.

Don't miss this thread fellas:

https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1600182102317842432?s=20&t=CoHEEErACUlBI2FcE1hgMQ

tepes:
Good morning redpillers. I've been a follower of this thread from the early days. Thanks for all your inputs.

I want to share my current experience that happened to me with you all so you can observe one or two things. It will be lengthy

I had a girlfriend who was a friend during my school days. From friendship, we grew into something else over the span of 7 years. We started dating this time last year. This lady chose me not because I did anything special or have lots of money to spend on her. She barely demands a thing from me. I was at my lowest financially but she was there to encourage me. In my heart, I prayed to God to ease things for me so I can settle down with her though I know there's nothing in for a man when it comes to marriage but I'm not a fan of baby mama stuffs.

My girl is not the usual type you find around. She's a strong believer in God and she's quite the modest type. Beautiful, tolerant, understanding and to some extent thinks things from logical perspective. Above all things, she's a virgin which I've confirmed myself.

Now before she met me, I've been in several relationships where I've been sexually active even with virgins and all that. I got the looks you could easily rate me over 9. From a young age, women has never been my problem. They flock around me even the married ones but I'm not the type of guy to go after everything in skirt. We are in crazy times and the statistics of HIV in this country is quite crazy. One has to be wise.

My girl lives in another state and works in a bank so there's practically no time for her to come over. At one point she was with me and things happened she had to relocate back home. I opened a business with the intention of her managing it while I focus on my fx journey with the possibility of travelling out if she could handle things without me.

Recently she said she would relocate back next year but she won't be staying with me because she's not too comfortable with it. I felt a lil bit embarrassed by that statement cux for me I'm trying to fix things so she won't have to over stress herself because she's not the physical strong type. Well whatever works so far she's comfortable in her crib then there's no big deal.

It's been a year we saw eachother. My business wouldn't permit me to move an inch cux of terrible staffs and her banking job won't let her due to lots of restrictions. Our sexual life is zero. The last time we tried to even have sex, it took alot of talking . I'm not the guy used to such cux my belief is if a woman is into/chose you, she won't stress you. The sex didn't happen so I left her virginity intact cux I'm not the one to pressure.

So she made a statement yesterday while we were chatting about how she likes hugging others but she finds it weird and hard doing it around me. So I asked her why it so then she was like she has these bad stuffs in her head and she's a child of God. She pulled the religious card on me and trust me I'm not a fan of over religious people. It's a huge turn off for me. There should be a balance. I told her since she's a child of God, I am of the devil. Light and darkness cannot meet so why even bother been with me?. How long I'll stay in this sexual hibernation?. I told her blank that on the long run this won't work cux I'll go outside to satisfy my sexual side which is basically cheating.

Now if she was not selfish and tried to put herself first, she would have asked what we could do to remedy the situation since relationships is all about understanding. She didn't even make any efforts or such. She just said its okay, she won't get in the way of my happiness so our relationship became over. I didn't initiate that conversation to end the relationship, but from her reaction, it looked like the relationship didn't mean anything to her though she was saying emotional things but for her to just accept things like that shows the level of her commitment and how much she desired me.

The moral lessons I got from this relationship that ended is quite intoned with the redpill we all preach here daily.

1. Sex before anything else.

2. Her actions will always speak louder than any emotions

3. She can choose you and still put herself first.

4. A woman doesn't really love you.

5. As a man, always show that sexual side. If they don't want or accept that, then move on to the next. It's not ideal to keep her around if she doesn't please or satisfy you. Always make sure you are getting something from her.

6. Value should begets value. Avoid a one sided relationship.

7. Never be afraid to walk away no matter the bond or history if your needs as a man is been neglected.

8. Get them to commit thier sexual side. That's basically their trump card. A woman that has been with you sexually can't easily walk away. To her, she has invested in you.

9. Avoid the over religious. That "holy than thou attitude". It never ends well.

10. Any sex that's withheld is not worth it. Life's full of uncertainty. You dont want to be that guy that builds women for others to wife. If she's saving herself and wants you to still play the role of a provider all in the promise of a union someday before you get to lay with her, then you are walking into a trap. I find these type of ladies with this mindset highly manipulative and unreliable.

11. She will never fully give you authority in the union. She tried to sell that no sex crap to me in hopes that I'll commit to her. I wonder what would the future would look like cux majority of the times I'm certain she would want to control the sex in the home because I would have actually given her that power during dating. I actually wanted to wife her up but the logical side of me can't look past these things. My sister would always say that a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. So in all, I thank God for the outcome.

Men out there please be wise. These ladies will always put themselves at an advantage. I'm thankful I didn't overdo things financially due to my redpill exposure. It would have been a mess. No matter how much you love her, open your eyes to the truth standing in front of you and never fail to vet her. Always have options so you dont fall for their manipulations. Keep focusing on you kings.

Cheers

I felt the pain when you said she didn't make any effort so you both could solve the problem
I had one even when she's making the effort (she even cried) you'll realise it's only for her selfish interest. Even when they claim to love so much their actions speaks otherwise. Always selfish.

The Gospel is the same...............From East,West,North or South,TRP preaches the same

Lovely thread. I wish I knew this before a lowlife put me in a pot and cooked me for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Wakes up without greeting me, yet seat on the L.shaped sofa I am still paying for monthly.

I am on my way out, but this thread will show me how not to fall into another ditch.

Keep up the good work

She used to call me her best friend, and no one else completes her. I transported her ungrateful self abroad, pay for the food she eats, the bed she sleeps on, and the house she lives in, now she calls me useless man.

Women can fake orgasm, I believe many women do. Take heed. I did her only good, but she paid me back with wickedness and evil.

sgtponzihater1:
Lovely thread. I wish I knew this before a lowlife put me in a pot and cooked me for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Wakes up without greeting me, yet seat on the L.shaped sofa I am still paying for monthly.

I am on my way out, but this thread will show me how not to fall into another ditch.

Keep up the good work

She used to call me her best friend, and no one else completes her. I transported her ungrateful self abroad, pay for the food she eats, the bed she sleeps on, and the house she lives in, now she calls me useless man.

Women can fake orgasm, I believe many women do. Take heed. I did her only good, but she paid me back with wickedness and evil.

Now that you've woken up it's not your fault brother, women were schooled in the art of deception way earlier than men, when we were playing hide and seek with our fellow guys back then, the womanhood were teaching their daughters how to prepare for the day ypu would get resources so they can use their illusions to drain them from you.

I hope it doesn't make you too bitter cause in the end you can't blame a snake for being a snake, it's what makes them who they are and it's your duty to be the snake charmer

sgtponzihater1:
Lovely thread. I wish I knew this before a lowlife put me in a pot and cooked me for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Wakes up without greeting me, yet seat on the L.shaped sofa I am still paying for monthly.

I am on my way out, but this thread will show me how not to fall into another ditch.

Keep up the good work

She used to call me her best friend, and no one else completes her. I transported her ungrateful self abroad, pay for the food she eats, the bed she sleeps on, and the house she lives in, now she calls me useless man.

Women can fake orgasm, I believe many women do. Take heed. I did her only good, but she paid me back with wickedness and evil.

Throw more light.
We can learn from your experience.

As a man have standards, I don't care whether you are not getting abundant or any sexual intimacy at all, I don't care whether you are lonely and you want feminine vibes, your commitment is golden, your attention is supposed to be reserved for only women that give you greenlight, same way they don't want a broke guy, don't commit to non-virgins, post wall women, single moms, materialistic women.

Karlifate:


I'm neither of the two.

Really how come you know all these are an astrologer?