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| Relationship Advice Needed Pls by krebdawise(m): 8:01pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
I need your advice guys.. Some months ago, I met a lady on Facebook, she's in USA. We both start out as friends chatting and talking oftentimes... After a while, we start liking ourselves.. we both talk about our dreams of getting together and building our world. (I like her too!!) She want me to do better... She even ask me to take some Tech courses here in Nigeria, which I did. The issue is that, before we met online. Her parents have wanted her to marry someone here in Nigeria; a family friend I think. They've been pressuring her into the relationship with the guy. The funniest part the last time they talk is July...... Then she wanted to come to Nigeria to see him around July then, the guy said he's going to be busy, that she should not come. The guy seems un-serious with her and she didn't like him too. This has caused a lot of issues within their family. They want the girl to beg the guy... And from here too ..seems the family don't want us together, they want the guy.. I need advice guys.... |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Aspirila: 8:03pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
krebdawise:Do u need us to clear your doubt say true true she be your tunnel to Yankee? 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by krebdawise(m): 8:05pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Aspirila: Pls, I need advice |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Aspirila: 8:09pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
krebdawise:Now she needs u more than ever, she need your love and trust because she's stuck in BTW you and that guy and from your narrative she do prefer to be with u and I want u to know American ladies are stubborn whenever they make decisions bro it's final when they been assured of what they want...my advice to u is keep faithful to her and try hard to make her trust enough to always open up to u and most of all speed up her invite to come meet your fam |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Nazgul: 8:09pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
I'm going to be very honest with you... Chats and calls is totally different from reality. You don't know anything about this girl, you've never met her before, you don't know if she's the kind of woman you can cope with, you don't know what gets her angry or how she handles anger, you don't know if she has a partner(s) over there (I hope you know that Nigerian girls brought up in USA are different from Nigerian girls brought up in Nigeria). Some people are telling you to use her as your tunnel to the US, I'd say kill that though. Even if things work out and she brings you over there, she can still kick you out into the streets if things go south, and believe me, you'll be worse than how you were in Nigeria cos from your narrative, her family doesn't support your union. My advice is for you to keep the communication lines open. If she eventually comes to Nigeria, meet with her one on one and know if she's the kind of girl you want to be with. If she is, fire on, if she isn't end things, cos if you try to play a fast one on your fellow naija babe to get US permit, it would backfire cos her family would ensure they deal with you legally. (You know that we Nigerians can be wicked towards one another) 7 Likes |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Aspirila: 8:12pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
krebdawise:Bro can I know more about the tech package I would like to have experience in that |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by krebdawise(m): 8:21pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Aspirila: Thanks bro 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Hamzaaaaaaaa(m): 8:26pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Well my advice is that, you should find a means of building yourself using the influence that she's in USA,let her open opportunities for you and have it in mind that anything can happen at the end of the relationship,but make sure you are not on the loosing side |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Solofresh2: 8:32pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Advice on what exactly Having feelings for someone you are yet to meet in person  Are you mad or something |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by krebdawise(m): 8:47pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Solofresh2: Small small boss now |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Aspirila: 8:51pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Solofresh2:As u can see he's not mad it obvious you are the one insane because op asked for advice he didn't mention u. |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Solofresh2: 8:54pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
krebdawise:Look,you are a man.You should limit the way you have feelings for a woman.It will help you a lot because they are a lot of things attached to this things. Dont come and cry here if later find out she has two kids already oo |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by Solofresh2: 8:58pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Aspirila: |
| Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by JustPowerApps(m): 9:31pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
krebdawise: You've been communicating with yahoo boys  #REST1 Like |
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