Unrelated rant but I don't know where else to put this
I'm tired of the redpill.
No, that's not quite right.

I'm tired because that is the effect the redpill has been putting on me these past days or weeks

The redpill is the truth. 100%.
I came across it back in my senior secondary days, and it's been proven before my eyes time and time again in this university.
But I'm just tired.

The redpill just makes me feel hopeless and defeated. There is literally no way to win this game
What's the fucking point of it all? Why does it have to be so complicated? Why does it have to be so hard?

What tf am I supposed to do? I study long hours (12 hours today) and I just feel like shit when I go to bed. Only parents call. No money or shishi to show for anything. No chats from friends or anything

No girl is even looking my way to elevate ones spirits every once in a while. I'm tired of doing my things alone.

I wish I could just go back to my blue pill days when I was blissfully ignorant. But now, if i try to get with a girl, the slightest attitude from her will push me far from her. I'm even tired of myself at this point

The last 3 girls stopped talking to me cause I admitted that I was living on a tight budget on campus.
Without money, it seems it's all hopeless

I'm 21, and studying to become a medical doctor if you were wondering

heartofcity12:


You’re right. That song is one of the most simpish songs there is..

What about Falz's song... GENTLEMAN.

That song is so simpish, and the video is so ironic.

WinningEleven:
Unrelated rant but I don't know where else to put this
I'm tired of the redpill.
No, that's not quite right.

I'm tired because that is the effect the redpill has been putting on me these past days or weeks

The redpill is the truth. 100%.
I came across it back in my senior secondary days, and it's been proven before my eyes time and time again in this university.
But I'm just tired.

The redpill just makes me feel hopeless and defeated. There is literally no way to win this game
What's the fucking point of it all? Why does it have to be so complicated? Why does it have to be so hard?

What tf am I supposed to do? I study long hours (12 hours today) and I just feel like shit when I go to bed. Only parents call. No money or shishi to show for anything. No chats from friends or anything

No girl is even looking my way to elevate ones spirits every once in a while. I'm tired of doing my things alone.

I wish I could just go back to my blue pill days when I was blissfully ignorant. But now, if i try to get with a girl, the slightest attitude from her will push me far from her. I'm even tired of myself at this point

The last 3 girls stopped talking to me cause I admitted that I was living on a tight budget on campus.
Without money, it seems it's all hopeless

I'm 21, and studying to become a medical doctor if you were wondering

You're not happy with yourself, but you want happy people around you

So much for a logic

When a weak, fearful and insecure guy meets a new attractive lady,

Here's what goes through his head:

* She's out of my league.
* I'm not good looking enough for her.
* She prefer guys who own cars
* she only roll with rich Yahoo Bois
* I'm obviously not her spec.

Then he chicken out and avoid her.


What goes through my head when I meet a new attractive lady:

*Is this girl cool enough for me.
* Does this girl likes to Bleep.
* I wonder if she can ride cock well.
*Hopefully this chick can give Mouth Action like a pro.
* Hopefully this girl isn't a drama queen or a weirdo.
* This girl probably hasn't met a highly self-assured guy like me before.
* Is this girl into me or is she just a bunch of
time waster

Well, let me FIND OUT.....I confidently initiate a conversation with her.

Women want sex with a high quality guy...so if you want sex, don't focus on desperately trying to get sex. Instead focus on becoming a high quality guy, or at least demonstrate that you are a high quality guy.

When dealing with women, less is more.

Compliment her less, see her less, talk to her less, call her less, stay on the phone with her less, chat her less....

When you put in less efforts, she assume you have other more important things to do with your life, then she becomes curious and more interested.

Learn a skill, Join a gym, get an interesting hobby, get involved in engaging activities, or whatever...

The point is, don't let your life revolve around women. This is very important.

You ask a lady out, she rejects you:

The community dude: You were not alpha enough.

Random blogger: You didn't make her feel special enough.

Feminist: You didn't behave like a Nice caring guy.

Society: You didn't say the right thing... you made the wrong move.

Here's the problem with all that feedbacks- they are treating her like she's some fuckin prize to be won or some trophy.

First of all, here is what those fellas don't realize: if she's not interested, then it doesn't matter whether you are alpha enough or you made the perfect move... If she isn't interested in you, then you don't really have a chance with her; it doesn't really matter whether you made her feel special or you were nice to her.

The first mistake most men make is trying to convince a woman who has no interest in them to become interested. Big mistake.

There are only two kinds of girls: girls who are interested in you and girls who are not..

When meeting a girl, the goal isn't to try to be alpha enough or try to make her feel special enough or try to act like a Nice caring guy or whatever. But rather the goal is to quickly find out her if she's interested.



When interacting with a new girl, there's no attempt on my part to make her like me or make her laugh or make her think I'm an amazing guy... instead, my first goal is to quickly check if she's into me or she's just a bunch of waste of time.

That is all.

I Immedaitely start testing her to see if she someone I should even be rolling with.

I do the "shit" testing. Not her.

This automatically put me in the Position of Power.

What she thinks, says or do doesn't really matter to me.

What matters is that I know what I want; I want to know if she also want it. If she's not interested...fine, on to the next girl.

Never be desperate...if she's not giving you the vibe you want, move on to the next girl.

One thing I've learned is that, you actually have a better chance of getting her back by "moving on Immedaitely" than by trying to desperately convince her to accept you.

Always remember that being alone is better than being with a woman who doesn't respect or appreciation you.

Put yourself on pedestal...not her.

Emotionss:
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I am against rape and strongly advocate that rapists should be castrated, then they should be force to drink hot Asphalt or they should be boiled alive starting from the waist down and in a public place...

Back to the topic.

I PERSONALLY BELIEVE

Only a Nymphomaniac or a sex starved freaking freak of a person will experience orgasm while being Raped...

If you say she got wet while being Raped that may be understandable because wetness might be her Virgina protecting itself from injuries. But orgasms ? Na. Only a sex freak will experience that under such conditions.

I think the husband is angry mainly because since he has been sexxing madam she has never experienced orgasm at least genuinely.

As unfortunate as the "Rape" maybe, the truth is that it brought out the True Sexual preference of the wife and exposes her as someone that loves hardcore sex.

Oga thought that madam is an innocent gentle wife that love only missionary style.
Only for the armed robbers to expose her as the harder harder, chock me and spank me kind of woman.

The husband is understandable angry because the armed robbers were able to brought out the freaky freaky side of madam in a very short short time and in an unfortunate situation.

Something he has been unable to achieve under Normal circumstances.

Thanks for your perspective

LordAdam16:


Read @ubunja take.

That is accurate.

A woman who is being raped can orgasm. Biology does not distinguish between consented or forced c*ck, especially when the lady has resigned to her fate and understood that the only way she and her family will survive is to put as little resistance as possible.

You also don't know what the robber was packing. Maybe na DreddXXX doppelganger.

I'm not sure why you'll accept she can get wet involuntarily, but not c*m involuntarily. Na from clap them dey take enter dance.

The husband's response is normal. Even if she c*ms multiple times and is a squirter under normal conditions, his ego was badly bruised. A fellow man like him forced him to watch his wife get f*cked in front of his kids and did it so well she loudly came while he was helpless. Dude, you can't unsee that nor shake the feeling of being emasculated.

The MIL's response is just as normal. Every woman will react disgustingly to this episode until they're the one with legs spread and orgasming at the top of their lungs. Then they'll ask not to be judged. Na their way.

The woman should take Plan B pills. The man can marry a second wife if he wants. Or divorce. Can't tell a man what to do under such circumstances. Truth be told, that woman will never forget that experience. It is forever in her Spank Bank Hall of Fame. Moreover, scientific literature show there is significant association between sexual abuse and hypersexuality. So that's something else to keep in mind if you're staying with a woman who orgasmed while raped in front of her family.

I feel compassion for the woman in question. IMHO, she bears little, if any fault in this scenario. Plus she's the rape victim, her kids are traumatized, her husband will never look at her the same way, her dignity has been trashed (this became national news), and she's likely to lose her marriage.

By the way, wives get raped by bandits in different parts of rural Nigeria. So this hits close to home.

-Lord

Insightful perspective

lajid:
Omo I don’t understand again, what’s with girls and billing.

You can’t just have a flawless convo without them tryna Bill you.

Its freaking annoying, I’m going to be doing a lot of blocking and ignoring these days.

Interesting. How recurrent do you guys think attemps to bill men are in Nigerian/African society?

ubunja:
let me look at it. Sorry took so long to respond to this...

What did you think of it?

Dabronze:
No time to waste time!

Is that new bride a virgin? Does she have his best interest? Or is she just another h0e plotting from the dark to take the wife's position and slowly implement her implicit rule?

I don't see any win here. He just jumped from one wh0re to the next. He wanted to show the woman that he is an Alpha man who can get any woman he wants and replace her as fast as light. But is this going to make his life less miserable?
The real win would be if he left the woman to be by himself even if there are other women that throw themselves at him (that he may screw from time to time without any real commitment if he wants to.)

What's wrong with this guy?
Which kind white knight/ beta/ simp/ bluepilled idiot is he?
Why does he want men to be the retirement plan for women past their prime years?
What is his definition of maturity?
Does he not understand the sexual market place?
Does he not understand epiphany phase?

At the end of the day,

it's not about counting the years,

it's about making the years count

if u like

Kipaji:


Interesting. How recurrent do you guys think attemps to bill men are in Nigerian/African society?

Very recurrent, any little thing that makes you mention money or food they use the avenue to Bill you.

Only two girls haven’t done that to me, our discussion are about career, checking up on each other amongst a range of others.

But you see the rest, their slogan “lemme send account for Christmas” “buy me pepper soup” “my birthday is coming, what will you give me”

I find it quite annoying.

I have a friend (girl), in fact she does the calling to me with her airtime and we can talk for minutes.

The others just want to take money from you and not like I’m benefiting anything from them, purely chat buddies nothing more.

Sickening man

WinningEleven:
Unrelated rant but I don't know where else to put this
I'm tired of the redpill.
No, that's not quite right.

I'm tired because that is the effect the redpill has been putting on me these past days or weeks

The redpill is the truth. 100%.
I came across it back in my senior secondary days, and it's been proven before my eyes time and time again in this university.
But I'm just tired.

The redpill just makes me feel hopeless and defeated. There is literally no way to win this game
What's the fucking point of it all? Why does it have to be so complicated? Why does it have to be so hard?

What tf am I supposed to do? I study long hours (12 hours today) and I just feel like shit when I go to bed. Only parents call. No money or shishi to show for anything. No chats from friends or anything

No girl is even looking my way to elevate ones spirits every once in a while. I'm tired of doing my things alone.

I wish I could just go back to my blue pill days when I was blissfully ignorant. But now, if i try to get with a girl, the slightest attitude from her will push me far from her. I'm even tired of myself at this point

The last 3 girls stopped talking to me cause I admitted that I was living on a tight budget on campus.
Without money, it seems it's all hopeless

I'm 21, and studying to become a medical doctor if you were wondering

you're doing about average. For us guys the 20s are the coldest harshest most horrible time of our life. Your female age mates are having the time of their life but your own life sucks major balls. Do these 3 things: 1) deal with your courses to get your career going, 2) soak up all the game and wisdom about women NOW. No matter if you can't understand it all, just read read read read read - one day your brain will connect the dots 3) watch out for the girls who like you and only deal with them. Never stay away from girls cause if you tell yourself you'll start to talk to girls when you've everything in order, you'll find that you don't even know how to.
I'll let others add their own.......

Let us all take a moment to appreciate the movie that actually gave us SYMBOLISM for this movement...

This was before Hollywood started it's Feminism and LGBT bull crap.

Even it's newest sequel MATRIX RESURRECTION was not left out.

Vulcanheph:
Let us all take a moment to appreciate the movie that actually gave us SYMBOLISM for this movement...

This was before Hollywood started it's Feminism and LGBT bull crap.

Even it's newest sequel MATRIX RESURRECTION was not left out.

Morpheus the baddest guy. When I used to watch this movie as a child, I didn't understand the movie.

WinningEleven:
Unrelated rant but I don't know where else to put this
I'm tired of the redpill.
No, that's not quite right.

I'm tired because that is the effect the redpill has been putting on me these past days or weeks

The redpill is the truth. 100%.
I came across it back in my senior secondary days, and it's been proven before my eyes time and time again in this university.
But I'm just tired.

The redpill just makes me feel hopeless and defeated. There is literally no way to win this game
What's the fucking point of it all? Why does it have to be so complicated? Why does it have to be so hard?

What tf am I supposed to do? I study long hours (12 hours today) and I just feel like shit when I go to bed. Only parents call. No money or shishi to show for anything. No chats from friends or anything

No girl is even looking my way to elevate ones spirits every once in a while. I'm tired of doing my things alone.

I wish I could just go back to my blue pill days when I was blissfully ignorant. But now, if i try to get with a girl, the slightest attitude from her will push me far from her. I'm even tired of myself at this point

The last 3 girls stopped talking to me cause I admitted that I was living on a tight budget on campus.
Without money, it seems it's all hopeless

I'm 21, and studying to become a medical doctor if you were wondering

you are lucky to be studying a good course...



Bro,you read for 12 hrs,that is nice.it shows your career is also your priority.

Last week,I didn't have a 2hrs sleep for 3 good days.test all through and I didn't resume early due to hustling.


I also met harddon, then ilegend and ubunja the great before I entered the university.


U see,we are almost in the same shoes...


This is what I do differently, I engaged girls in tutorials to get money,no matter how beautiful you are,I beal you silly and I teach very well...


I only give free help,by not covering my papers in exams,apart from that,anyother thing,u pay.


I am not ashamed to advertise myself,I am also funny and act larger than life.


To bring those happiness you crave for,u need to be that happiness yourself.


Bro just try and bring value to your class mates,act fine,move like there is money and have many options,in fact go down and teach lower levels.


Bring them to your class and let others see u...


All this counts bro

If you want to grow as a man...

Learn how to become non-reactive.

Credit: Masculine Peak

WinningEleven:


1. What tf am I supposed to do? I study long hours (12 hours today) and I just feel like shit when I go to bed. Only parents call. No money or shishi to show for anything. No chats from friends or anything

2. No girl is even looking my way to elevate ones spirits every once in a while. I'm tired of doing my things alone.

3. I wish I could just go back to my blue pill days when I was blissfully ignorant. But now, if i try to get with a girl, the slightest attitude from her will push me far from her. I'm even tired of myself at this point

4. The last 3 girls stopped talking to me cause I admitted that I was living on a tight budget on campus.
Without money, it seems it's all hopeless

5. I'm 21, and studying to become a medical doctor if you were wondering

1. The sooner you realize that it's all man for himself and no one owes you Anything, the sooner you'll have peace of mind. Expectation is most times the gateway to disappointment, keep an open mind. So what if no one calls you today, add value to your life, believe me, you'll soon be the one ignoring calls from people.

2. I understand your point, but remember this is just a phase, from your write-up, it seems evident that you see close to nothing in yourself, so how do you expect others to see something in you. Even if they come, trust me, you'll still push them away.

3. You wish to go back to your ignorant days because of girls, common bruh.

4. I'm going to keep it real with you, without money it's going to be a rough ride. They stopped talking to you and you think it's a bad thing. Mehn to hell with them, your happiness shouldn't be based on who's talking to you or not. Since they left because you lack money, that should tell you that if they stayed, it would be because of the money they would've been getting off you.....They are leeches ( probably )

5. At 21, I wonder why you are even beating yourself up because of the other gender. Man up, focus on your life, you see the way you're not getting girls now because you're in a rough position, well I'm glad to tell you it'll continue that way unless you sit yourself down, get your priorities right. These girls can come later.



Being Redpilled isn't limited to being a woman Magnet. In my opinion it's about improving yourself in all ramifications, That way you become a magnet to both men and women who will add more value to your life.

Vulcanheph:
Let us all take a moment to appreciate the movie that actually gave us SYMBOLISM for this movement...

This was before Hollywood started it's Feminism and LGBT bull crap

Even it's newest sequel MATRIX RESURRECTION was not left out.

Photos below of the Wachowski brothers;writers and directors of the 1999 movie The Matrix.
Before and after transitioning to the Wachowski sisters

There's a lady I had been friends with. I asked her out twice but she said no.

She still kinda trys to make friends with me and all sort.
she revives the feelings I have for her and makes me make bad decisions

So, I told her point blank that she needs to stop making contact with me etc.

She didn't really till I restricted her on WhatsApp (I use GB WhatsApp).

So I observed she doesn't have my number again I guess she deleted when she thought I had blocked her. And also she doesn't greet me again when she sees me physically.

I don't know if I did something extreme. Or bad?

I know she wanted friendship. But I am NOT in a relationship now. I would just die if jealousy if
I allow it continue.

Caveadullam ubunja gidtheredpiller

LordAdam16:


This thread was born out of the West's misandry. That's the cautionary tale we highlight on every other thread page.

You can hate the civilized world's treatment of men and dislike certain laws in other jurisdictions. There is no contradiction.

I was spurred to react because I'm a humanist. The Battle of the Sexes has derailed our civilization but in societies that have struck a healthier balance, there is always the danger of going off the ledge.

For the love of all things sacred, I cannot see the benefit of creating a society where 50% of adults can't perform a simple arithmetic. Maybe you think our current civilization runs on fairy dust.

I recently watched a documentary on China's rise to becoming one of the world's primary tomato paste producers even though it isn't generally part of their diet. The CCP moved poor people from the hinterlands to the tomato fields to pick tomatoes at pennies per bag working double-digit hours per day. A man and his wife working side by side. When she returns home (a makeshift tent) she'll still perform virtually all of the manual housework. That's one of the unseen hands behind China's rise, behind the cheap loans they can offer to Africa for our infrastructural renaissance.

That is not an oddity mind you. Gender roles are clearly defined in China, as in the rest of Asia, and 70+% of the planet. So why f*ck with education when you have a traditional society with strict social pressures? Qatar, the richest country by GDP per capita in the Middle East just hosted a world cup. Zero unemployment amongst citizens. Their women can comfortably outspend 80% of African men. Adult literacy rate is 97%. The gender ratio in post-secondary education is 5:1 in favor of women. And yet men run the country entirely. There are strict male guardianship laws and rules. Strict dress code. But ask any well traveled person about the shopping habits of Qatari women. The kind of cars they drive or are driven in. Their lives are just as opulent as Western women, but without the debauchery.

This is why I called the Taliban ban on educating females excessive. Because clearly, and has been proven in Qatar, UAE, Bahrain, Jordan, you can have a trad patriarchal society with educated women who are for the most part satisfied with their quality of life.

Now, I understand the sentiments about not fighting for Afghan women. But we're intellectuals here having a debate about the societal effect of blanket rules as is our natural imperative. Men are custodians of the planet and if we can point out the idiocy of misandrist policies in the West, we can at least acknowledge the problematic complications of certain ill-advised policies in the Global South. That should not be misconstrued as White Knighting.

-Lord

Respect bruv.
Respect.

AyoII:
.....

Amazing stuff

WinningEleven:
Unrelated rant but I don't know where else to put this
I'm tired of the redpill.
No, that's not quite right.

I'm tired because that is the effect the redpill has been putting on me these past days or weeks

The redpill is the truth. 100%.
I came across it back in my senior secondary days, and it's been proven before my eyes time and time again in this university.
But I'm just tired.

The redpill just makes me feel hopeless and defeated. There is literally no way to win this game
What's the fucking point of it all? Why does it have to be so complicated? Why does it have to be so hard?

What tf am I supposed to do? I study long hours (12 hours today) and I just feel like shit when I go to bed. Only parents call. No money or shishi to show for anything. No chats from friends or anything

No girl is even looking my way to elevate ones spirits every once in a while. I'm tired of doing my things alone.

I wish I could just go back to my blue pill days when I was blissfully ignorant. But now, if i try to get with a girl, the slightest attitude from her will push me far from her. I'm even tired of myself at this point

The last 3 girls stopped talking to me cause I admitted that I was living on a tight budget on campus.
Without money, it seems it's all hopeless

I'm 21, and studying to become a medical doctor if you were wondering

You remind me of my younger years in medical school. I know how stressful it can be with the studies and all, coupled with the fact that you now have knowledge of the red pill, you'll have quite a few problems with girls. Girls will only be attracted to you because of your intelligence or money or look. Lack of money in Medical school is a very big issue, tackle that first and forget about girls, girls are always available but take care of yourself first.

For me, when I was damn broke, girls came through for me because I knew the game well but nothing beats having your own money. I wish I can give you some tips but I'm quite busy these days. You just remind me of my younger years, wishing you the best in your medical journey.

Vicboy1:
Caveadullam
girls like sex like men just that the have the abilities to pretend and hide it
And i want u to have in mind that every prostitute, ashawo have a particular guy that bleeping her without paying a dime

you are absolutely spot on, they consumed about 90% of the sexx toy available in the market. If we may asked what are they using it for?