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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:01pm On Dec 27, 2022
Fatherless behaviors you shouldn’t take into 2023.

—Paying for private snaps.
—Sending women money to reply your DM.
—Commenting under every good looking woman’s picture you see on the internet.
—Sending women Tfare to come see you.

If you’re not loved at home, love yourself.

Credit: itsSh0la

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Gobengroup(m): 8:19pm On Dec 27, 2022
JESHAL:
Remember that no girl is worth your personal happiness, don't allow any girl make you beg, simp, depreciate, act like a fool, don't live your life thinking that pleasing women is the only way for them to like you, don't ever try to buy a woman's love/ loyalty with money, always aim for greenlights, always aim for genuine desire, don't tolerate disrespect and nonsense from any girl even if she is very attractive or you have feelings for her, don't build your esteem on pussy( sex), don't allow lust control your thinking ( life), never loose focus and abandon your dreams because of woman, don't keep female friends they are not useful and can never understand masculinity.


# Complement of the season
#Merry Christmas
# Stay redpilled

I've read ubunja thread on being the Choosen and waiting for greenlight but I'm confused on something...
After greenlights, I'm always confused or uninterested in approaching.. I may like a girl before and conceal it but the moment I noticed she want me back, my likeness for her will reduce drastically..
Is this normal or something is wrong with me??

I've lose a lot of girls that want me with this attitude..
I've got girls wanting something with me maybe because of my looks or general carriage but I always find it hard approaching them...
Pls how do I stop this...

Ubunja..
CaveAdullam..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 8:29pm On Dec 27, 2022
Zarzah:


Nowadays I make sure I listen to Okwaraji by Blaqbonez everyday, when I wake and before I go to bed.....


The lyrics below is End of the Road by Boys ii Men.....

After listening to this song, I went down on my knees and asked God to forgive me, then I deleted the rubbish.

Okwaraji should given best song of this year
But organizers wouldn't look at the side blackbonez not to talk of the song.
Man i must say neighbors girls don't like me when i play the song.
Damn it's cold grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by chikasnight: 8:47pm On Dec 27, 2022
Shola Dey worry ohh angry grin grin grin


IwasNeverGone:
Fatherless behaviors you shouldn’t take into 2023.

—Paying for private snaps.
—Sending women money to reply your DM.
—Commenting under every good looking woman’s picture you see on the internet.
—Sending women Tfare to come see you.

If you’re not loved at home, love yourself.

Credit: itsSh0la

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:51pm On Dec 27, 2022
chikasnight:
Shola Dey worry ohh angry grin grin grin


I love that gee cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by chikasnight: 8:55pm On Dec 27, 2022
I have these same issues personally, sometimes by the time a girl I’m asking out agrees to date me I’m already uninterested, I think it just gets better as you get older. Me I didn’t have to apply any thing or techniques but my attraction to girls lasts longer than it did five years ago

Gobengroup:

I've read ubunja thread on being the Choosen and waiting for greenlight but I'm confused on something...
After greenlights, I'm always confused or uninterested in approaching.. I may like a girl before and conceal it but the moment I noticed she want me back, my likeness for her will reduce drastically..
Is this normal or something is wrong with me??

I've lose a lot of girls that want me with this attitude..
I've got girls wanting something with me maybe because of my looks or general carriage but I always find it hard approaching them...
Pls how do I stop this...

Ubunja..
CaveAdullam..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 9:20pm On Dec 27, 2022
Respect to Men

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 9:28pm On Dec 27, 2022
See her using the r@pe card.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RikudoSennin: 9:47pm On Dec 27, 2022
Trying to fill out a form to start a LLC and will you look at this?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 9:54pm On Dec 27, 2022
RikudoSennin:
Trying to fill out a form to start a LLC and will you look at this?



Are women now a community, like LGBTQ?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RikudoSennin: 10:05pm On Dec 27, 2022
dontai:
Are women now a community, like LGBTQ?

I guess. They should have added children and pets too cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Gobengroup(m): 10:24pm On Dec 27, 2022
chikasnight:
I have these same issues personally, sometimes by the time a girl I’m asking out agrees to date me I’m already uninterested, I think it just gets better as you get older. Me I didn’t have to apply any thing or techniques but my attraction to girls lasts longer than it did five years ago

I get girls a lot but I alway end up not making a move 100% of the time... Some later hated me or see me as weak... It's really disheartening... cry

The only girls I ever had are the ones that make the first move after being tired of giving greenlight..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by stacyadams: 11:18pm On Dec 27, 2022
grin angry grin Toto dey work 365 days a year,no vacation, no rest ,no holidays. Na till owner of Toto die before Toto go get rest grin grin. Una well-done.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nyascobar1414: 12:22am On Dec 28, 2022
Guys who are on facebook should follow Paul Elam..

The comment section will tell you more bout the western world of Intersexual dynamics

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 12:36am On Dec 28, 2022
chigomiced:
Grandfathers are going extinct.

Whenever you see "4 or 5 generation in one" photo, they are all women.

We need to prioritise our health as men.

Absolutely.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HellVictorinho6(m): 6:04am On Dec 28, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Guys who are on facebook should follow Paul Elam..

The comment section will tell you more bout the western world of Intersexual dynamics




You're not any better than a waste of time on Nairaland at least since you conclude that a person you have never seen face to face is a kid for a useless reason.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:59am On Dec 28, 2022
CaveAdullam:


1. Things are hard for modern men because they set unreasonable goals for themselves + under unfavorable societal laws, orders, and policies.

Thinking big is good, but life is a gradual, complicated zig-zag process you can't unfurl in a space of 30 minutes of thoughts and imagination.

Take the gradual steps and see where life leads you. Be consistent. Seek Truth, knowledge, and understanding.

2. Men are meant to build. You will hate your life if you are not building. You feel like committing suicide because you are not building.
Build a book.
Build a business.
Build a career.
Build a program.
Build a good reputation. Not chatting and whining like women.
Build good connections by talking and sharing quality information and knowledge.
Build anything.

3. All men are on different paths but will arrive at one end: the good of mankind.

Don't see the paths of others as more important than yours. In the aerial view of things, everything connects no matter how minuscule you are, even if you are a dot.

Purse your mission with zest.

4. Women have many things running through their minds daily. A woman rejecting you doesn't mean you are bad. Try other women. Better if you deal with women that have organic desire for you.

The litmus test: if men don't respect you as a man, then, the problem isn't women. Men judge by going deep, and women judge by looking at the surface. Should you be found wanting, upgrade yourself.

5. Best way of approaching women is by invading their space. It allows you to have connections with other women while pinning for the one you desire.

In that space, some will like you for your dress sense, others for your personality, intelligence or physique or status, etc. It erases that hurt when you approach them singularly.

6. At the end of the day, women will always get what they want even though not the full package. There will always be men to sweep them off their feet.

7. As a man, nobody is coming to help you at the end of the day. That's why you must fight tooth and nail, every day to reach the apex or at least reach the point you can be confident about yourself and not be under the influence of every Tom, Díck, and Harry.


DAY 361, REDPILL 2022


Authority: Upgrade.
true, as a man no one is coming to help you.

That's the thing about the Male Peak Sexual Value, it's in his own hands. a teenage girl will simply wake up hot one day, signalling the start of her prime, nature has no such free gifts for men. A man's value he creates himself with toil and sweat. While women's peak sexual market value is almost always guaranteed, men's own is never guaranteed and many men never fully actualize it cause they fail to make something meaningful of their life. Hence a man's 20s will always be important cause the moves and the decisions he makes here will have an impact on how his 30s turn out. His 30s are when he's supposed to be in his prime. But with no success his prime won't happen. Since a man's prime is never Sexual but financial.

Now many guys may feel a type of way cause their prime is delayed while women's own comes first,, but it's actually better this way.

When women hit their prime between 17 and 25ish, they're hot and everything but most don't even capitalise on it cause even though physically they're everything men want and desire, the girls at that age are clueless about the game. They have the assets but without the wisdom to benefit the most out of the assets. Hence most end up just squandering the gold on good for nothing jerks and by the time the women hit their 30s they've nothing to show for it - just phones and clothes. And once gone, the peak never returns.

But men's peak is thankfully delayed as they go through the trials of life. They gain much needed insights and wisdom on female nature and life. Such that by the time the men hit their 30s and life starts going their way, men have a useful understanding and appreciation of women and the game and are better positioned to make better use of their own prime sexual market value.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by OffsahBoye(m): 8:05am On Dec 28, 2022
IwasNeverGone:
Fatherless behaviors you shouldn’t take into 2023.

—Paying for private snaps.
—Sending women money to reply your DM.
—Commenting under every good looking woman’s picture you see on the internet.
—Sending women Tfare to come see you.

If you’re not loved at home, love yourself.

Credit: itsSh0la
Point 1,2 and 3 I agree

But not sending tfare to a girl that wants to visit you especially from a far distance
Na OYO you Dy bro

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ahuitzotl: 8:10am On Dec 28, 2022
ubunja:
true, as a man no one is coming to help you.

That's the thing about the Male Peak Sexual Value, it's in his own hands. a teenage girl will simply wake up hot one day, signalling the start of her prime, nature has no such free gifts for men. A man's value he creates himself with toil and sweat. While women's peak sexual market value is almost always guaranteed, men's own is never guaranteed and many men never fully actualize it cause they fail to make something meaningful of their life. Hence a man's 20s will always be important cause the moves and the decisions he makes here will have an impact on how his 30s turn out. His 30s are when he's supposed to be in his prime. But with no success his prime won't happen. Since a man's prime is never Sexual but financial.

Now many guys may feel a type of way cause their prime is delayed while women's own comes first,, but it's actually better this way.

When women hit their prime between 17 and 25ish, they're hot and everything but most don't even capitalise on it cause even though physically they're everything men want and desire, the girls at that age are clueless about the game. They have the assets but without the wisdom to benefit the most out of the assets. Hence most end up just squandering the gold on good for nothing jerks and by the time the women hit their 30s they've nothing to show for it - just phones and clothes. And once gone, the peak never returns.

But men's peak is thankfully delayed as they go through the trials of life. They gain much needed insights and wisdom on female nature and life. Such that by the time the men hit their 30s and life starts going their way, men have a useful understanding and appreciation of women and the game and are better positioned to make better use of their own prime sexual market value.
This applies truly in an ideal world but come to our society and you see that's barely the norm as most men especially in their 30s are as clueless of their SMV as a 17 year old neophyte, in some cases, it has gotten worse as upto 40s and 50s blue pilled men are going after 20s women even teenagers with money and their influence ( 20s men have never had it so bad in a millennial)..In Nigeria, every man wants to get laid. So we have thrown away our SMV and given power to the pussy whether used,abused or virgin.... Although nowadays guys have started to take notice somewhat but I just believe that's a by-blow of the relative depressing state of our socio-economy...If things start to improve, wealth is evenly spread and the middle-class makes a resurgence then we will all go back to default blue pill settings.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:33am On Dec 28, 2022
OffsahBoye:

Point 1,2 and 3 I agree

But not sending tfare to a girl that wants to visit you especially from a far distance
Na OYO you Dy bro
If she's really interested in you,she can even book a flight for herself to and fro without seeking for your help....

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:39am On Dec 28, 2022
A woman will respect you more if you focus on your goals and success,

Instead of being clingy and giving her attention all the time.

Kings,

Always put your purpose and goals first.

No woman is worth sacrificing these things for.

Always remember that a woman can leave you at any time.

Focus and prioritize your life.

Good Morning.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:46am On Dec 28, 2022
ubunja:
true, as a man no one is coming to help you.

That's the thing about the Male Peak Sexual Value, it's in his own hands. a teenage girl will simply wake up hot one day, signalling the start of her prime, nature has no such free gifts for men. A man's value he creates himself with toil and sweat. While women's peak sexual market value is almost always guaranteed, men's own is never guaranteed and many men never fully actualize it cause they fail to make something meaningful of their life. Hence a man's 20s will always be important cause the moves and the decisions he makes here will have an impact on how his 30s turn out. His 30s are when he's supposed to be in his prime. But with no success, his prime won't happen. Since a man's prime is never Sexual but financial.

Now many guys may feel a type of way cause their prime is delayed while women's own comes first, but it's better this way.

When women hit their prime between 17 and 25ish, they're hot and everything but most don't even capitalize on it cause even though physically they're everything men want and desire, the girls at that age are clueless about the game. They have the assets but without the wisdom to benefit the most from the assets. Hence most end up just squandering the gold on good-for-nothing jerks and by the time the women hit their 30s they've nothing to show for it - just phones and clothes. And once gone, the peak never returns.

But men's peak is thankfully delayed as they go through the trials of life. They gain much-needed insights and wisdom on female nature and life. By the time the men hit their 30s and life starts going their way, men have a useful understanding and appreciation of women and the game and are better positioned to make better use of their own prime sexual market value.

1. The thing about getting something for free is that you don't value it until you struggle to get it. It happens every time. Free things aren't treated with dignity and respect. Ditto for women.

2 ...at the commencement of life, the stars fall on pleasant places for them. People desire them. Double credit for the beautiful ones. They see it as a norm and some even become arrogant as a result of the applause. They didn't work for it, so they don't know how it operates not to talk of protecting it or leveraging it at an early stage.

3. You see many of them wasting their beauty, time, and age for frivolity. Because this is an inherent value, they think it will last forever. Nothing in nature lasts forever, except the immaterial - life is stopped by death; young age by old age, etc. Even the immaterial have contradictions - mountains and lowlands; sunshine and rainfall.

4. That's why many of them get frustrated when they hit the wall. Attention reduced drastically. Options reduce. Fertility reduce. Suitors reduce. Beauty declines.

But the plot twist here is that many don't get frustrated or angry because they have hit the wall. There may be some form of resentment but they still got the package. And that package is that they will always get a man that will commit.

5. On the flip side, success isn't guaranteed for men. Whereas, security and provision are guaranteed for women. Women have options but men don't.

6. The only grace men have is that since they are stronger and more risk-taking than women, as they age, they may hit a goldmine. But this is not guaranteed. As we age, our energy declines, and testosterone declines. And life is unpredictable.

7. Men don't have any down payment or future security. They work by trial and error expecting the best from all of their endeavors. It's a sad reality.

8. This is where parents become vital in the lives of children. The essence of a strong family is to guard the child as he/she moves toward adulthood.

The father and mother already have the experience, therefore, the right lessons to coach their kids. Daughters will not waste their prime chasing clouds. Sons will not wait till 25 before they start figuring things out.
The family is a solid ground the young woman and young man can get things right.

The family is the last resort that's capable of bringing stability and normalcy. Religion also has a big role to play. State laws too. However, in our contemporary world, all these, have fallen apart. Ergo, the instability among young men and women and the high level of degeneracy.
A society where a divorce is an option for a flimsy excuse. Where virtues and morality are scorned. And where people trespass laws with impunity.

9. The problem is now on a macro-dominant scale. (Almost) nothing we can do. Hence, we must put ourselves first as we swim through this polluted ocean to the other side.

May our energy reap good fruits in the end.

DAY 362, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be calm. Keep moving.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 9:27am On Dec 28, 2022
OffsahBoye:

Point 1,2 and 3 I agree

But not sending tfare to a girl that wants to visit you especially from a far distance
Na OYO you Dy bro
Typical simpish behavior embarassed

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:09am On Dec 28, 2022
I'm a Man so I can relate to this.

Sometimes we get so blinded by love that we ignore obvious red flags when choosing a partner. We think we can change them once we are in a relationship with them.

I'm not here to condemn anyone who's in such a relationship. I have just once advice for you.


***If you can't change your girl , then you need to change your girl.


Do whatsoever you please with this info.....

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tekahashi: 10:13am On Dec 28, 2022
OffsahBoye:

Point 1,2 and 3 I agree

But not sending tfare to a girl that wants to visit you especially from a far distance
Na OYO you Dy bro
na only you dey happy to see am ni? reason it like this brother, ladies can spend 10k to buy a single dress but cannot use 1k as tf to come see you.. that means the dress has more value than you then

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dpsychologist: 10:22am On Dec 28, 2022
cool
No thread better than this

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 10:26am On Dec 28, 2022
Tekahashi:
na only you dey happy to see am ni? reason it like this brother, ladies can spend 10k to buy a single dress but cannot use 1k as tf to come see you.. that means the dress has more value than you then
No better explanation bruv......u nailed it grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by XshegzzyeeiX: 10:33am On Dec 28, 2022
grin

If you no wanna dey wise, women will teach you, albeit wickedly.
Tekahashi:
na only you dey happy to see am ni? reason it like this brother, ladies can spend 10k to buy a single dress but cannot use 1k as tf to come see you.. that means the dress has more value than you then

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 10:53am On Dec 28, 2022
At the same time women out here complaining they want equal pay in soccer while also fighting the sport.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by chenny360(m): 11:11am On Dec 28, 2022
Although.. everyman want good lady that have good shape. Curvy and all of that... but Nigeria men re too obsessed with those stuff in a woman. Not minding maybe she could be a potential olosho. Men want the beauty nd shape.. that's how a 22 year old Togo tiktoker Kelly Rose to fame because of Nigeria men love for yansh. Niger men too over do things abeg. Until the simp start looking beyond yansh and outer beauty.. breakup! Heartbreak and breakfast won't come to an end anytime soon.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JayOnly(m): 11:17am On Dec 28, 2022
Dpsychologist:
cool
No thread better than this
Dpsychologist

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JayOnly(m): 11:17am On Dec 28, 2022
Dpsychologist:
cool No thread better than this
Dpsychologist your threads changed my life.. it's been a while bro hope you are doing good

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