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PoliteActivist:
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Prettychild:
He disrespected the Mother by punishing the child because of a beef he had with the ex. It’s a sign of disrespect to the other party to involve one’s child in the beef you have with your partner.

Did you guys read the conversation at all?

How did he punish the child? He already got the gift. But he wants to personally bring them. The kid suggested that their mum will bring them over to collect the gift, but the man said he prefers to bring them himself when he's free, because the woman was not initially cooperating when he called to ask for their sizes.

Richy4:
The dad was totally wrong... If indeed he wanted to get something for them, he would have called or texted the kids to ask their mother for their measurements instead of their mum... It's not rocket science...

In my opinion, the last comment of that kid was disrespectful.. I wonder why the mother was so proud of sharing that instead of cautioning him...It might backfire on her someday if she continues to indulge that kind of comment... He might also say that to her someday if not corrected at this early stage.

Exactly what I was going to say
That boy will say worse than that to her someday.

pocohantas:
The boy is/was disrespectful to the dad.
He is already treading on the wrong path and the mum, rather than caution him, is praising his actions. This tells a lot about her. That is not to say that the father is any better for accusing her falsely.

They all have a lot to learn, but I can tell they are AAs. They won’t learn and the cycle continues.

There are no good feminist so, I won't still call you a good person because of this comment. You better look beyond your pride and ago and get married. I can assure you that you will make a better [good] mother.

PoliteActivist:
Y'all missed the kid was just being sarcastic. The dad was the first to say "when I'm free". He was just sarcastically returning it to him!

You people are still finding it difficult to understand how the bitter single mothers behave.

I can assure you that she was the one typing those messages. She was extremely bitter and couldn't getting over her ex. The son is innocent about the messages.

agabusta:
Did you guys read the conversation at all?

How did he punish the child? He already got the gift. But he wants to personally bring them. The kid suggested that their mum will bring them over to collect the gift, but the man said he prefers to bring them himself when he's free, because the woman was not initially cooperating when he called to ask for their sizes.

Richy4:
The dad was totally wrong... If indeed he wanted to get something for them, he would have called or texted the kids to ask their mother for their measurements instead of their mum... It's not rocket science...

In my opinion, the last comment of that kid was disrespectful.. I wonder why the mother was so proud of sharing that instead of cautioning him...It might backfire on her someday if she continues to indulge that kind of comment... He might also say that to her someday if not corrected at this early stage.

I'll bet he didn't buy any gift yet - and the kid could sense it. And it wouldn't be the first time.
I used to know this divorced family - their father kept promising them he'd come. They'd dress up in their Sunday best and wait and wait for him, and he never showed up. One excuse after another

What else do u expect from a child brought up by single mothers. The bitterness has been transferred to them. NEVER MARRY FROM A BROKEN HOME!

masterflowx:
There are no good feminist so, I won't still call you a good person because of this comment. You better look beyond your pride and ago and get married. I can assure you that you will make a better [good] mother.

Look beyond your ego and pride to seek common sense. I can also assure you it would spare you from coming off like an ediot in a public space. Who cares what you call me?

MansoryMX:
Bro nor answer that fool. She keeps on venting her frustrated and wretched life on everyone who sees the baby mama as a Manipulator because she herself na baby mama. I can tell she is one shameless HOE of a babymama for different men, hence the reasons for her stupidity all over this thread, throwing insults on her family thinking she is insulting people here.

Many thanks bro. I didn't even know that the idiot is a lady. She is indeed a very frustrated used and dumped HOE !

pocohantas:
Look beyond your ego and pride to seek common sense. I can also assure you it would spare you from coming off like an ediot in a public space. Who cares what you call me?

Nah that guy is crazy, dfkm.

Wtf is this statement "You better look beyond your pride and ago and get married.".

Does he know you in person or what is his business with that.

Las Las e lo min ti ya werey.

Sulele04:
Nah that guy is crazy, dfkm.

Wtf is this statement "You better look beyond your pride and ago and get married.".

Does he know you in person or what is his business with that.

Las Las e lo min ti ya werey.

Best believe that is how stupid they are here. The topic of the thread is clear for all to see, but they must always find a way to make it about me.

The mom had the kids phone and was the one replying the dad, reason why she didn't pick when he called the phone. Some women can be horrible.

agabusta:
Did you guys read the conversation at all?

How did he punish the child? He already got the gift. But he wants to personally bring them. The kid suggested that their mum will bring them over to collect the gift, but the man said he prefers to bring them himself when he's free, because the woman was not initially cooperating when he called to ask for their sizes.

I doubt if you read the conversation to understand, did you read what the father wrote at all?

MansoryMX:
Didn't you read the part he said he called to ask after his kids shoe size? And the woman keeps giving him attitudes! Who do yall always turn a blind eye to things. Women eh!

But did you also read where the boy told the father that he saw the text wherein the mother sent him their shoe sizes?

Cantonese:
Absolute rubbish. The father over did it, agreed, but a rude son must not be allowed to thrive with his rude ways.

The stupid mum already taught the son how to be rude to his father. The boy protected his mum and followed his mum’s instruction to be rude to his father. The same stupid mum shared the screenshot of her irresponsible ways on social media.

No wahala. What you sow you reap. The mom has sown a mannerless son. Very soon she will reap the rewards.

You know everything the mother did just by reading the conversation between an insulting man who has taught his son to be just like him?

Did you read the content of their conversation, or is this another sentimental battlefield?

Prettychild:
But did you also read where the boy told the father that he saw the text wherein the mother sent him their shoe sizes?

No male read that part. They're busy diverting and looking for how his mother tutored him to hate the deadbeat.

The forum is full of idiots, that much is clear.

Emeskhalifa:
Exactly what I was going to say
That boy will say worse than that to her someday.

But he will be good to his father because...?

A lot of you have some patriarchal misogyny embedded deep in your DNA.

All 3 are completely in the wrong.

TWoods:
All 3 are completely in the wrong.

The boy did no wrong ! Children, like you, also feel hurt when you lie to them

agabusta:
Did you guys read the conversation at all?

How did he punish the child? He already got the gift. But he wants to personally bring them. The kid suggested that their mum will bring them over to collect the gift, but the man said he prefers to bring them himself when he's free, because the woman was not initially cooperating when he called to ask for their sizes.

Lol

How can you believe he got the gift, but you believe the mother didn't cooperate with him after reading their chat till the end?

CoronaVirusRelo:
Those thunderous slaps from our mums would have thrown your brain into reset.

Slap that would mute you for 10 seconds, before you start crying, and when you start, you will be changing gears cry and finally end up vomiting.

Indomie generation kids would never understand.

They don't know shishi...

God bless u for this comment

Foodqueen:
If u know how bittered single mothers are, you will know she type that shit herself.

ExAngel007:
A boy's conversation with his father about his Christmas gift has been shared online by the boy's mother and this has started a debate.

In screenshots of their chat, the boy asked his father if he got him and his siblings anything for Christmas and the father said he did.

The boy then asked his father how they can get the gift but the father said they will get it when he is "free" because their mother did "too much" and she made him "mad".

The boy hit back and asked his father why his mother making him mad should have anything to do with his kids.

The boy also told his father that it's fine if he didn't get them anything for Christmas but insisted his father shouldn't blame it on his mother.

The father then called the son and asked him to pick the call but he refused and replied to his father, "I'll call you when I'm free."

Sharing the screenshot, the boy's mother wrote: "And my son handled their deadbeat daddy very well! He think he can tell my 13 year old anything! He outspoken, not disrespectful."

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/12/boys-converstaion-with-his-deadbeat-dad-about-christmas-gift-sparks-debate-2.html

Obviously the mum master minded the whole conversation.
What's it with people these days?

My thoughts exactly. � �

LadySarah:
All I got to say is that Nigerians are paying for ielts while I'm reading this mumbo Jumbo.

Our leaders have wrought wickedness on us.

masterflowx:
You people are still finding it difficult to understand how the bitter single mothers behave.

I can assure you that she was the one typing those messages. She was extremely bitter and couldn't getting over her ex. The son is innocent about the messages.

Foodqueen:
If u know how bittered single mothers are, you will know she type that shit herself.

MEGAdime:
God bless u for this comment

You folks are not thinking this through. SHE POSTED IT ON SOCIAL MEDIA! How difficult would it be for the 13 y.o. son to blab it wasn't he that wrote it? Or tell his dad. Or tell his friends. Or blackmail his mum he'd tell. No mother would ever fake like that AND post it! She wouldn't even want her son to find out!

MansoryMX:
Bro nor answer that fool. She keeps on venting her frustrated and wretched life on everyone who sees the baby mama as a Manipulator because she herself na baby mama. I can tell she is one shameless HOE of a babymama for different men, hence the reasons for her stupidity all over this thread, throwing insults on her family thinking she is insulting people here.

You are referring to your mother, because surely,its your hatred for your mum that turned you to a woman hater. Oponu oshi

dahmie2013:
Nothing was wrong with the last comment. The child was simply angry and did not want to pick his call. The child even did well to want to return the call.

Those kind of calls don't end well. Sometimes it's best not to answer when tensions are high.

MansoryMX:
A smart woman won't post her family issues on social media. Let alone tryng to look like a saint or make her bady daddy look like a deadbeat in the eyes of her kids when her bad character and attitudea pushed him to a point dude is even afraid to come visit his kids for fear of drama from the likes of you! I guess you are too dumb and stupid to notice that in my comment. Now geddifokoff. Bring my my mom into this really means my comment rip you off. Ode

Your hatred for your own mother made you look for a way to blame the mum for thee stupi*dity of the man. The yeye man couldn't even think of an excuse than to keep disrespecting the teens mum. "Dad where is my gift" its your mum's fault that I don't have any gift for you", Lolz. Also, you are so dumb that you think the mum taught him to disrespect his dad. How about if he was present in his life,maybe he would have taught him better, but nah, he will uselessly walk about and say shit

The single mother has already brainwashed the innocent boy against his father.

The least he should have done is to pick his father's call and hear him out.

This is why I believe that law that gives the woman the advantage in custody law is hoax.


In the end, this could all be a fabrication though.

Their mum sure has twisted their mind against their Dad.

staga:
Those kind of calls don't end well. Sometimes it's best not to answer when tensions are high.

The part that got me laughing was "I'll call you when I'm free" since the father will get them gifts when he is free.

The man is wrong, and children are copiers.

They copy your behaviour, what you give is what you get.

My child will never talk to me that way, but then I'll never give him or her such an opportunity.