₦airaland Forum

BarrElChapo:
Of course you can be a social smoker.

Do you drink alcohol ? If yes are addicted to alcohol if your answer is no, then best believe you can smoke weed and not be addicted to it.

Agrees .... I'm a typical example...

This is a total turn off for me.

You finish work abeg...

Jakumo:
It is a cultural thing. In The EU or USA weed smoking does not carry the enormous social stigma that it still does in Nigeria and in a diminishing number of other Third World countries.

For most North Americans and Eurozone residents, it matters little whether one's girlfriend gets high on the weekend while doing well in college or in her career. Occasionally partaking of weed in moderation makes an American or European woman no more or less desirable than would be the case if she enjoyed an occasional glass of wine at the day's end. Moderate cannabis use is socially acceptable over much of the West, as well as across several African nations more recently.

On the other hand, in ANY country such as Nigeria where weed consumption carries heavy CRIMINAL charges that could result in jail sentences imposed, it is perfectly valid to presume that anyone spotted boldly smoking a marijuana joint in a public place, has little or no regard for the legal consequences of getting arrested with that cannabis cigarette by a police officer. Being unafraid of arrest is definitely a gigantic red flag that COULD mean the smoker is a hardened criminal best avoided. The smell of weed in Nigeria often means one is in real danger from criminals lurking very close by.

Dating a girlfriend who happens to enjoy an occasional toke of weed is socially acceptable in the West where cannabis legalization is becoming the norm. Conversely, a woman who confesses to getting high on cannabis in Nigeria, where the taboo against FEMALE cannabis use is downright fanatical, would be branded as a hhooker or worse by 80% of the adult population.

In short, while I do love partaking of connoisseur-grade cannabis flower for the sheer pleasure of such indulgence, I would NEVER associate with any woman in Nigeria that I know to be a stoner, despite the fact that virtually all of the women I ever dated outside Nigeria enjoy weed in moderation as I do. The social and cultural setting is thus the determining variable for me, as to whether I would be attracted to a weed-smoking woman, or fearful of her to the extent of steering well clear in the interest of my personal safety.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EABEPpvo12E

Blupen:
Lols, once in a while abi??
that's smooth....

Yeah once in a while...learnt it's actually unhealthy...it's even better to stop completely for d sake of one's health

GorgeousAF:
Yeah once in a while...learnt it's actually unhealthy...it's even better to stop completely for d sake of one's health

Since you are not addicted to it, you can easily withdraw totally from it

Blupen:
Since you are not addicted to it, you can easily withdraw totally from it

Of course

Sure thing I can marry a lady that smokes in a discrete manner tho

Husband and wife + kids, nice chimney

My favorite bad girl is weed-loving Merrica who puts out youtube videos that all include footage of her partaking in massive rips of weed smoke or vapor.

I'd marry a girl like this in a heartbeat, even if my consumption rate is way lower than hers haha.

Here is a typical Merrica video of her getting high in the car which is a big no-no, even with legal weed in Cali, but hey, she is a bad girl and the rules get broken now and then along with a few hearts no doubt.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbOmKMNLg-s