dettolgel:


Whether they handle to calmly or not is their perogative. The bottom line is that the girl and the abusers both need help. Covering will do more damage than harm.

ibkayee:

Lol should we turn up with a fruit basket as well?

Different people deal with things differently. I will never try to ‘govern’ or criticise anyone for having a strong emotional reaction to news of the possibility of their child being harmed.

nairamaniac:


It's not toooo late for you to control your emotions irrespective of the magnitude of the sudden shocking news.


Your first proprity should be *FINDING OUT THE TRUTH*.

NEXT should be *EXPOSING THE TRUTH*.

Be surrounded with people that are more result-oriemted than Drama-oriented.

So their opinions are not currupted with a desire for Drama.

One thing that works for me, is that I never unjustly instigate even against my enemy. It makes me sleep well at night.
Yes, Turn up with a bouquet of flowers .

Cos that Op in that other thread handled things in a much better way. Even the father of the molested child wd never have gotten such positive closure without handling things the way he did.

dettolgel:


Whether they handle to calmly or not is their perogative. The bottom line is that the girl and the abusers both need help. Covering will do more damage than harm.

ibkayee:

Ok ooo nairamaniac

nairamaniac:

Okay, .

You are still one of the most adored ones here.

I hail

ibkayee:

Aww thank you, nothing wrong with a bit of a debate, that’s what this platform’s for

nairamaniac:

My father is my wardmate in the hospital.

My father is Bloody Simp.

Why didn't just quote me instead rather than patronising someone else?

Naa me you want take get fans for here.

My father is Bloody coward.

Just realized you even quoted me.

That Makes my father worse than a coward and simp sef.

nairamaniac:


So advocating for calm and tactical approach towards extended parties of an offender makes one an idiot?

dalass:


You dey reply a maniac?

Meaning he's a psychiatric case

Engrjamjam:
May all your daughters be raped and molested at 4 and may you have nothing to say or do than watch. Id1ot!

Engrjamjam:
The guy dey sick!

nairamaniac:


Oya start lobbying for teammates all over the thread.

Coward that can't do his insuls&fighting alone.
You need help from fellow loosers.

Engrjamjam:
The guy dey sick!

nairamaniac:


Keep on editing my post inorder to suit the ego of your bipolar-other-half.

U contributed nothing positive or intelligent to the thread besides insults.


I believe the topic is beyond you level of reasoning&intellect.
But if it's to wear pants and fight on the tread, naaa there we go see you.


Very big fool.

Using insults to disguise his intellectual deficiency.

We know your type.

nairamaniac:


You came late to the party.

We have all moved done our banters here and moved on.

It's now you are coming with fight when people here have moved on from banters and hoping the op obtains a satisfying level of closure either in or outside this thread.

Don't derail her thread.

Go and create your own thread for bastards like you that are willing to fight.


Leave op thread go create your own thread for fight and insults.

nairamaniac:


You came late to the party.

We have all moved done our banters here and moved on.

It's now you are coming with fight when people here have moved on from banters and hoping the op obtains a satisfying level of closure either in or outside this thread.

Don't derail her thread.

Go and create your own thread for bastards like you that are willing to fight.


Leave op thread go create your own thread for fight and insults.

nairamaniac:
Please don't derail this very sensitive thread.
Show some respect to her.
I know it means nothing to you


We have created a very fresh thread for you to come display your foolishness.

Hope you know op still has hope to get the best out of this her thread.

Pls we have cleared a very biig land somewhere else for you to build your own self-admitted psychiatric hospital.

https://www.nairaland.com/7511339/new-thread-animal-called-engrjamjam#119742725

Engrjamjam:
You're talking to your useless parents!


Bastard!


Nobi rape them use born you? Aniamal

nairamaniac:
. Habaaa, come to that other thread naaa to do alll these you are doing here.


And you were someone pretending to be caring towards the op's case.

Now you are doing everything to derail and pollute her thread.


Come, we have created a fresh thread for you.

Engrjamjam:
I will go to the other thread when your stupid father stop fucking your anus.

Engrjamjam:
I will go to the other thread when your stupid father stop fucking your anus.

nairamaniac:


Show some respect for other people here. Even if you don't respect me.
U have been acting like a hooligan from your very first quote here.

Nothing productive came from u, apart from insults.

Even if you have anything against my opinions, you should have done better than me by *being productive*.

It shows that no matter what you say of me here, you are still very inferior to me in any criteria you look at things.


Leave another person thread, make we go your new mental home go watch you display.

nairamaniac:
Show some respect for other people here. Even if you don't respect me.
U have been acting like a hooligan from your very first quote here.

Nothing productive came from u, apart from insults.

Even if you have anything against my opinions, you should have done better than me by *being productive*.

It shows that no matter what you say of me here, you are still very inferior to me in any criteria you look at things.


Leave another person thread, make we go your new mental home go watch you display.

I have nothing else to say to you here.

Engrjamjam:
I will go to the other thread when your stupid father stop fucking your anus.

nairamaniac:


Show some respect for other people here. Even if you don't respect me.
U have been acting like a hooligan from your very first quote here.

Nothing productive came from u, apart from insults.

Even if you have anything against my opinions, you should have done better than me by *being productive*.

It shows that no matter what you say of me here, you are still very inferior to me in any criteria you look at things.


Leave another person thread, make we go your new mental home go watch you display.

ibinaboonline:
I hope what you mean by being Stern and getting it out of her baby's head isn't to suppress the memory. It will backfire. It's better to address it once and for all and then move on. The little girl should be taught it's not the end of the world and that she is powerful, beautiful, and capable of achieving all her dreams. It's what she needs reinforced instead of forcing her to suppress the memory of what happened as if it didn't happen. It will backfire in the future. Also, make no mistake, religion and baptism are not indicators of true godliness.

arantess:
my inlaw once told me "dont be angry my brother, but my children are not coming for holidays anywhere"

i understood him perfectly and same goes for my daughter.....she will NEVER go for holidays to any relation's house..

cant risk some randy neighbors or cousins destroying her

VirileNelly2420:

Sometime ago, fostering boy of around 10-11yrs lied against me in d past. Told his friends (also family members) dat I brought a certain gal into d house who even slept over... Dat d gal saw him d following morning and threatened to deal with him if he ever opens up, also promised to buy him something wen coming next time. D gossip had to spread till it got to d ears of d innocent gal. The gal took it up, came to our house and d silly fostering boy claimed he was only joking with it. I was just mad! I dealt with him in a way he would never forget.

But here, even wen anything is possible, I think 4yrs is 80% closer to the truth. And d story says d gals family has acknowledged and apologized for d crime, d bone of contention here is da she and her daughter were left out in d bargain and she thinks da her consent and that of her daughter matter.