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JustcallmeFavou:
All those saying leave her, run, bleep her, and leave her ..hmmm, may you not be mocked or used when you are in a desperate situation or dare need in life.

What I see here is the case of a spiritual spouse in play. If you don't want to have a relationship with her. Help her break free from it by, encouraging, and helping her go for strong deliverance. Who knows, she might be the star of that family. And God wants to use you to set her free.

Every family no matter how good they look on the outside have one issues or another troubling the family. Some family issues are more deeper than the others because, one doesn't know what ones ancestors did prior to this modern day, or the circumstances surrounding ones pregnancy or birth.

Some might not believe it, but spiritual spouses exist and operates or affects their victims in different degrees.

Her mother having 5children from 6 different men, and still ended up single, only shows there's a spirit being she's married to maybe unknowingly who didn't make her enjoy her first/second marriage. Hence her moving around, and still ending up single. The spirit being simply wants her ALONE to itself.

Help her break free from the circle OP! And she will forever be grateful to you!

All the best, and God help you and the lady in question.

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Ikennaford:
Then your story is fake

tsmith:
Yorubas have a saying, ninu ikoko dudu nii eko funfun tin jade. (White pap comes from darkened heartened pots).

Also reminds me of the illustrations of a drunken no good father with twins. 1 mirrored the father because that's all he saw and knew and the other turned out totally opposite and was very upright because he saw the devastating dangers of alcohol on his family and was determined to change his narrative.

It's not what's happened to her in the past that matters, it's who she is now. What's her reflection and views of all these. Is she intentional about changing the narrative for herself?

Your girlfriend should also not be responsible to bear the drudge of families woes.

That been said, I'd be surprised if yourself and your entire family line is without blemish. Count yourself lucky if life has been kind 100% to you and your lineage.

Which i truly doubt, I sense you're setting a standard for her without truly reflecting inwards at yours.

arantess:
You women are incapable of loving unconditionally, save a mother.

Take away all the attributes you see in your husband/ boyfriend currently, do you still love him?

UyaiIncomparabl:
You must be mistaken. I don't know the women you have been with or know, but women love wholeheartedly when they want to.

Everything isn't black and white the way you think.

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

chris51:
The family get as e be.

purejustice36:
Any babe wey no get anything to add for your life except kuntus na red flag �

AbdulMagaji:
The bolded is very scary, Some women get mind Sha!

To be honest this matter hard brother!, But this is a typical[b] American lifestyle[/b].

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

BISHOPCHARLIE:
No, naija

MyVILLAGEpeople:
I have been in a couple of relationships so I know what I'm talking about! Infact sometimes the truth just play out itself. If she is acting too smart, I will make her get drunk (before then I must have known the password to her phone lool) check her chats. This is where you will find out everything you need to know. That's how I discovered my Ex who told me about her uncle and they used to talk on the phone like family members were actually fvcking. He isn't her uncle but sugar daddy and I discovered she also has a kid. Naso I for marry her if I know wise.

ToniBlaize:
Sorry bro.. i will have to disagree.. it has everything to do with her.. Austin French said in his song" picture this.. a little coming home from school.. worried sick cause he doesn't what kinda mood his dad will be in... He further said... THE KINDA HOME YOU FROM CAN DO A NUMBER ON YOU..."MUM AND DAD BROKE UP AND I GUESS "I" BROKE TOO.. I GREW UP THINKING NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM A CHILD LIKE ME".... FaMily plays a lot of role in our lives growing up..in every possible way.. i was brought up by a strict mum.. who never wanted me to do things on my own.. she made many life and future determining decisions on my behalf right from small.. it made be rebellious before i even enter Secondary school.. Seeking freedom even before i finished.... to some it can make them seek validation at every interval.. don't say that... That track record of 6 children with 5men.. might be a curse of sort.. might also be something she might not be able to shake off given the psychological, emotional and mental impact.. only few people happen to break such circles.. but if i was to give a candid take.. don't settle for such a lady.. most women with stable home who stick with their husbands through the thick and thins of life.. watched their mom do it with their dad... They learnt love right from the home from small.. Girls from this kinda family background don't know how to love probably/completely.. they best know hoe to survive...they lived through hardship most of their lives so what they best know is hustling the available and surviving through every case scenerio... people who end up settling with them are just means to an end... You are only in luck.. if she breaks away from her mother.. but if she's into her.. sorry bruh... Aside bad role modeling.. bad advise bad leadership.. you will battle btw her and her mum at some point....

JustcallmeFavou:
All those saying leave her, run, bleep her, and leave her ..hmmm, may you not be mocked or used when you are in a desperate situation or dare need in life.

What I see here is the case of a spiritual spouse in play. If you don't want to have a relationship with her. Help her break free from it by, encouraging, and helping her go for strong deliverance. Who knows, she might be the star of that family. And God wants to use you to set her free.

Every family no matter how good they look on the outside have one issues or another troubling the family. Some family issues are more deeper than the others because, one doesn't know what ones ancestors did prior to this modern day, or the circumstances surrounding ones pregnancy or birth.

Some might not believe it, but spiritual spouses exist and operates or affects their victims in different degrees.

Her mother having 5children from 6 different men, and still ended up single, only shows there's a spirit being she's married to maybe unknowingly who didn't make her enjoy her first/second marriage. Hence her moving around, and still ending up single. The spirit being simply wants her ALONE to itself.

Help her break free from the circle OP! And she will forever be grateful to you!

All the best, and God help you and the lady in question.

satandeterrible:
Bla Bla Bla
As if you'll advise your brother to settle down with such baggage.

You're such a terrible human being.

Nyascobar1414:
A real man loves and cherish his woman no matter how her past is /was...

Kindly worship the ground she walks on simp..

jimmychang:
Nobody is blaming her.Life dealt her a bad hand.He didn't rape her,I think it was consensual.Women like her dey quick looseguard.Any form of love like this dem don open leg.
If they don't love you,and you love them you go suffer.Their choice of men is usually trash.
She should go and fix herself first before she enters a relationship with him.