Well, in recent times there has been an increase in the number of single mums in the society who are looking for "kind men" to look their way.
I must say I find some of them attractive. Here are reasons why men find it difficult settling down with them despite the attraction.

1 They bring liability: Some of these ladies have 1- 5 children. Since the economy is bad, it would be difficult to fend for the extra mouths she's bringing.

2. Infidelity: She already has children which she had with someone else. It would be silly for you to accuse her of cheating since you already accepted another man's child.

3. Inconvenience: As a newly married couple for the first 1-2 years or more in case of delayed conception, you have the house to yourselves and can even walk around/play naked but this would be difficult as her child would be a distraction.

4. Impotent stigma: In case of delayed pregnancy after the wedding, you as the man would be blamed as being impotent. Why not since she has already proved herself as fertile by conceiving already.

5: Ex Interference: Don't suppose that she's done with the father of her children even if she tells you so because Okafor's law is still valid. She can go back to him anytime to either collect one round or money as the guy still knows her mumu botton.

6: Misunderstanding: You can't even interfere, correct or send her children on errand without her seeing it that you hate her children. You will have a lot to prove that you don't do otherwise.

7. Wasted Effort: The children could go back to their real father no matter how many millions you spent in their upkeep. Your wife can equally go back to her ex. because deep inside her, she still loves him.

8 Sleepless Nights: Since you already know that you are building a house in the air, how can you sleep? The law of gravity would drag the house down, it's just a matter of time. The uncertainty when it would be is enough to give you sleepless nights.

9. Jealousy and Competition: When you eventually have your own children with, as the children gets older, there's likely going to be that jealousy and competition between them as each of them jostles for attention and dominance. This could affect your relationship with your wife if unchecked.

10. Reduced Self Esteem: You will feel inadequate knowing that you are marrying another man's leftover (apologies) but that's what it is. You'll feel people are gossipping about you whether true or not. That can make your ego as a man to suffer.

zedegit:
Well, in recent times there has been an increase in the number of single mums in the society who are looking for "kind men" to look their way.
I must say I find some of them attractive. Here are reasons why men find it difficult settling down with them despite the attraction.

1 They bring liability: Some of these ladies have 1- 5 children. Since the economy is bad, it would be difficult to fend for the extra mouths she's bringing.

2. Infidelity: She already has children which she had with someone else. It would be silly for you to accuse her of cheating since you already accepted another man's child.

3. Inconvenience: As a newly married couple for the first 1-2 years or more in case of delayed conception, you have the house to yourselves and can even walk around/play naked but this would be difficult as her child would be a distraction.

4. Impotent stigma: In case of delayed pregnancy after the wedding, you as the man would be blamed as being impotent. Why not since she has already proved herself as fertile by conceiving already.

5: Ex Interference: Don't suppose that she's done with the father of her children even if she tells you so because Okafor's law is still valid. She can go back to him anytime to either collect one round or money as the guy still knows her mumu botton.

6: Misunderstanding: You can't even interfere, correct or send her children on errand without her seeing it that you hate her children. You will have a lot to prove that you don't do otherwise.

7. Wasted Effort: The children could go back to their real father no matter how many millions you spent in their upkeep. Your wife can equally go back to her ex. because deep inside her, she still loves him.

8 Sleepless Nights: Since you already know that you are building a house in the air, how can you sleep? The law of gravity would drag the house down, it's just a matter of time. The uncertainty when it would be is enough to give you a nights.

9. Jealousy and Competition: When you eventually have your own children with, as the children gets older, there's likely going to be that jealousy and competition between them as each of them jostles for attention and dominance. This could affect your relationship with your wife if unchecked.

10. Reduced Self Esteem: You will feel inadequate knowing that you are marrying another man's leftover (apologies) but that's what it is. You'll feel people are gossipping about you whether true or not. That can make your ego as a man to suffer.

well said sir. Hope baby mamas and evening newspaper will not come for you

Spot on!

Creamypie:
well said sir. Hope baby mamas and evening newspaper will not come for you

We dey wait for them, most especially @blessedmercy8

Marrying a single mom is akin to excess luggage

Well analysis

Everyday Single mother this and that......


Omoh romance section needs overhauling ooh....


I pray non of you ever puts a woman in that situation....

Well it's easy for y'all men to run with your third legs in-between while leaving a shattered woman pregnant and with dreams cut off untimely...

She stays with her child na wahala cause she be single mother....

She will abandon the child or throw same child inside the gutters then she is an evil woman ....

Omoh Women dey suffer ooh...

I can't wait to have men tasting a bit of what they have been dishing out to women for centuries now...

The time is coming and I will drink y'all tears for pleasure when the women folks actually take over the World again.

You find them attractive? .

Shame.

The second reason doesn't make sense.

zedegit:
Well, in recent times there has been an increase in the number of single mums in the society who are looking for "kind men" to look their way.
I must say I find some of them attractive. Here are reasons why men find it difficult settling down with them despite the attraction.

1 They bring liability: Some of these ladies have 1- 5 children. Since the economy is bad, it would be difficult to fend for the extra mouths she's bringing.

2. Infidelity: She already has children which she had with someone else. It would be silly for you to accuse her of cheating since you already accepted another man's child.

3. Inconvenience: As a newly married couple for the first 1-2 years or more in case of delayed conception, you have the house to yourselves and can even walk around/play naked but this would be difficult as her child would be a distraction.

4. Impotent stigma: In case of delayed pregnancy after the wedding, you as the man would be blamed as being impotent. Why not since she has already proved herself as fertile by conceiving already.

5: Ex Interference: Don't suppose that she's done with the father of her children even if she tells you so because Okafor's law is still valid. She can go back to him anytime to either collect one round or money as the guy still knows her mumu botton.

6: Misunderstanding: You can't even interfere, correct or send her children on errand without her seeing it that you hate her children. You will have a lot to prove that you don't do otherwise.

7. Wasted Effort: The children could go back to their real father no matter how many millions you spent in their upkeep. Your wife can equally go back to her ex. because deep inside her, she still loves him.

8 Sleepless Nights: Since you already know that you are building a house in the air, how can you sleep? The law of gravity would drag the house down, it's just a matter of time. The uncertainty when it would be is enough to give you sleepless nights.

9. Jealousy and Competition: When you eventually have your own children with, as the children gets older, there's likely going to be that jealousy and competition between them as each of them jostles for attention and dominance. This could affect your relationship with your wife if unchecked.

10. Reduced Self Esteem: You will feel inadequate knowing that you are marrying another man's leftover (apologies) but that's what it is. You'll feel people are gossipping about you whether true or not. That can make your ego as a man to suffer.

There is an increase in single Moms, but there is no increase in numbers of single and deadbeat dads, because those women impregnated themselves abi?


Your celebrity role models, your uncles and fathers are roaming round the country leaving behind thousands of women to cater for children all by themselves.


Your redpill gangs are going the baby mama way.


Yet somehow, those women are your problems?




They don't deserve to be loved because they are taking up the responsibility of two people?


Ah, I remember, you said those children are a distraction for you, right?



Say amen to my prayers this morning:

May God remove "distractions" of children from your life, may you never hear the cry of that "distraction" in your household


May you marry a woman that will never be able to "distract" you with children.


May your household be neat and void of those "distractions" for as long as you are alive.


May the Angels bringing those "distractions" always avoid your household.


May God repay you for the hatred you have shown all aye this morning. Every woman you have brought pain to, may your pains be returned double on your head.



Say Amen.

Saintmary:



There is an increase in single Moms, but there is no increase in numbers of single and deadbeat dads, because those women impregnated themselves abi?


Your celebrity role models, your uncles and fathers are roaming round the country leaving behind thousands of women to cater for children all by themselves.


Your redpill gangs are going the baby mama way.


Yet somehow, those women are your problems?




They don't deserve to be loved because they are taking up the responsibility of two people?


Ah, I remember, you said those children are a distraction for you, right?



Say amen to my prayers this morning:

May God remove "distractions" of children from your life, may you never hear the cry of that "distraction" in your household


May you marry a woman that will never be able to "distract" you with children.


May your household be neat and void of those "distractions" for as long as you are alive.


May the Angels bringing those "distractions" always avoid your household.


May God repay you for the hatred you have shown all aye this morning. Every woman you have brought pain to, may your pains be returned double on your head.



Say Amen.

LOL

This girl is on fire!

Hathor5:


LOL

This girl is on fire!

Don't mind them,


They will make a woman spend the rest of her life paying for 3 minutes of sex that she didn't even get an orgasm from, coming online to run their gutter mouths is the height of it!

Who will blame those women aborting pregnancies on a steady? Hian

Jennyclay no go like OP

Saintmary:


Don't mind them,


They will make a woman spend the rest of her life paying for 3 minutes of sex that she didn't even get an orgasm from, coming online to run their gutter mouths is the height of it!

Who will blame those women aborting pregnancies on a steady? Hian