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What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Stephen2324(op): 10:00pm On Jan 19, 2023
What really scares you about marriage?
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Jashub: 10:03pm On Jan 19, 2023
Being stuck with one pussy everyday cry
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by virginprincess(f): 10:20pm On Jan 19, 2023
The idea of commiting to one man scares me,not like i can't do it but i keeping wondering how i won't be allowed to admire the opposite sex,keep male friends, go out with them and so on,that shit really scares me huh huh.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Jashub: 10:29pm On Jan 19, 2023
Make I see werey comments grin
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Jashub: 10:30pm On Jan 19, 2023
virginprincess:
The idea of commiting to one man scares me,not like i can't do it but i keeping wondering how i won't be allowed to admire the opposite sex,keep male friends, go out with them and so on,that shit really scares me huh huh.
You can keep your male friends and enjoy the hoe phase of your life . But don't come back 10years later with trauma saying all the good guys have gone . And lastly don't come back with fatherless babies!
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Raalsalghul: 10:39pm On Jan 19, 2023
Financial responsibilities: having to perform consistently for about 20 years.

I've seen more people become poor in marriage than become rich.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by virginprincess(f): 10:41pm On Jan 19, 2023
Jashub:
You can keep your male friends and enjoy the hoe phase of your life . But don't come back 10years later with trauma saying all the good guys have gone . And lastly don't come back with fatherless babies!
What is this one saying undecided undecided?
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Jashub: 10:51pm On Jan 19, 2023
virginprincess:
What is this one saying undecided undecided?
The bitter truth that young women like you don't like to hear
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by PerfectStranger(m): 10:57pm On Jan 19, 2023
Jashub:
Being stuck with one pussy everyday cry

Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Moniya4Real(m): 11:01pm On Jan 19, 2023
virginprincess:
What is this one saying undecided undecided?
He is obviously saying the truth… my dear, after going through what you typed up there, I strongly advise you stay clear of anything called marriage. You stated some of the worst things any lady who intends to marry shouldn’t even think about,
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Jashub: 11:09pm On Jan 19, 2023
Moniya4Real:
He is obviously saying the truth… my dear, after going through what you typed up there, I strongly advise you stay clear of anything called marriage. You stated some of the worst things any lady who intends to marry shouldn’t even think about,
Help me amplify it . Girls like these want to enjoy the hoe phase of their lives and believe that they'll settle down with one man who will love and marry only them . But they fail to realize that karma comes knocking when they least expect
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Nyascobar1414: 11:15pm On Jan 19, 2023
How a sane man think of committing to an adult(wife) in the name of love amazes me..
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by PellsKodak: 11:21pm On Jan 19, 2023
Wondering how to cope when marrying a boring lazy okpo like Siofra , Abkayee and Sheistoopretty
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Light78: 11:28pm On Jan 19, 2023
virginprincess:
The idea of commiting to one man scares me,not like i can't do it but i keeping wondering how i won't be allowed to admire the opposite sex,keep male friends, go out with them and so on,that shit really scares me huh huh.
You are not serious.


You would be the one that would get annoyed if you saw him with another woman.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:44am On Jan 20, 2023
The man cheating.

Especially when he starts lusting after women like someone who has no home training or self control.

I cannot be married to an undisciplined man biko. My womanpower no reach that level
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Sniper101(m): 12:48am On Jan 20, 2023
My probable ability to not cheat.
My doubt that she'll remain faithful.

...shit scares the shit outta me angry
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 1:39am On Jan 20, 2023
Stephen2324:
What really scares you about marriage?
Nothing! undecided
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 1:39am On Jan 20, 2023
Sniper101:
My probable ability to not cheat.
My doubt that she'll remain faithful.

...shit scares the shit outta me angry
Why live in fear of something you can do nothing about? undecided
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Gerrard59(m): 2:06am On Jan 20, 2023
Raalsalghul:
Financial responsibilities: having to perform consistently for about 20 years.

I've seen more people become poor in marriage than become rich.
That has to be a Nigerian phenomenon. Abroad, married people are wealthier/more solid middle class than single people. There are even tax advantages to being married than single. An issue might be divorce settlement, but there are more married people than divorced folks.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Autobot05: 3:22am On Jan 20, 2023
Having to share my personal space with a woman ( esp the fact that shes not my mum or sis )

Walai I will run away occasionally to stay by myself..prolly tell her I'm going for an outside job for a week or 2 grin cheesy
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kobojunkiee: 4:19am On Jan 20, 2023
Autobot05:
Having to share my personal space with a woman ( esp the fact that shes not my mum or sis )
Walai I will run away occasionally to stay by myself..prolly tell her I'm going for an outside job for a week or 2 grin cheesy
Please do not bother to get married at all as what you just described is more than enough confirmation that you are not meant for marriage at all. undecided

Marriage is not meant for everyone and that is very much an OK thing.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Winterhaven(m): 4:48am On Jan 20, 2023
The inevitable conflicts that will pop up every now and then. The see finish, the disrespect. I could go on but let me stop here.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by seanery: 5:07am On Jan 20, 2023
Having to be feeding a grown up adult.
Tht shit lawds me
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Autobot05: 7:26am On Jan 20, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
Please do not bother to get married at all as what you just described is more than enough confirmation that you are not meant for marriage at all. undecided

Marriage is not meant for everyone and that is very much an OK thing.
Marriage is not in my agenda .. but if I see someone I like fr I can consider it.
That wont stop me from running away occasionally tho cheesy and the running away isn't permanent na .just a week or 2. It doesn't stop me from loving the person. I think better and reason better when I'm alone and i think it's natural
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by StrongAlphMale: 7:39am On Jan 20, 2023
virginprincess:
The idea of commiting to one man scares me,not like i can't do it but i keeping wondering how i won't be allowed to admire the opposite sex,keep male friends, go out with them and so on,that shit really scares me huh huh.
Oloshos everywhere!

You should be ashamed of yourself for displaying your oloshoism lifestyles here on NL. But of course, does an olosho have shame? na your over used damaged kpekpus you wan go give man for marriage? Na the SIMP man wey go Marry you i just dey Pity. U Better remain single
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kipaji: 8:06am On Jan 20, 2023
Being a woman's puppet.
Being with an unfaithful woman.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by SaiOba: 8:28am On Jan 20, 2023
That crazy moment When you found out you married the devil
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Nobody: 8:43am On Jan 20, 2023
Stephen2324:
What really scares you about marriage?
pucccccccci sir....yoou will be trap with juss one puccccccci (no oofeinse) angry
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Ahuitzotl: 8:53am On Jan 20, 2023
StrongAlphMale:
Oloshos everywhere!

You should be ashamed of yourself for displaying your oloshoism lifestyles here on NL. But of course, does an olosho have shame? na your over used damaged kpekpus you wan go give man for marriage? Na the SIMP man wey go Marry you i just dey Pity. U Better remain single
Light78:
You are not serious.


You would be the one that would get annoyed if you saw him with another woman.
Moniya4Real:
He is obviously saying the truth… my dear, after going through what you typed up there, I strongly advise you stay clear of anything called marriage. You stated some of the worst things any lady who intends to marry shouldn’t even think about,
Jashub:
You can keep your male friends and enjoy the hoe phase of your life . But don't come back 10years later with trauma saying all the good guys have gone . And lastly don't come back with fatherless babies!
[color=#1986BC] When is it an offence for a female to air her opinions up in here....All these abuse is highly unwarranted and simpish..[/color]
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Jashub:
Ahuitzotl:
[color=#1986BC] When is it an offence for a female to air her opinions up in here....All these abuse is highly unwarranted and simpish..[/color]
So telling the truth is simpish abi? What would you do if your sister said such...? undecided
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by nicerod(m): 8:59am On Jan 20, 2023
Divorce
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by virginprincess(f): 9:02am On Jan 20, 2023
StrongAlphMale:
Oloshos everywhere!

You should be ashamed of yourself for displaying your oloshoism lifestyles here on NL. But of course, does an olosho have shame? na your over used damaged kpekpus you wan go give man for marriage? Na the SIMP man wey go Marry you i just dey Pity. U Better remain single
It is your sister that will remain single,just jumping into senseless conclusions, mumu.
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