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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Aklee4994(m): 4:15pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:Back to the question Can you marry a single father |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:20pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Aklee4994: You are the one who started this by referring to the womenfolk as being 'old layers'. I am simply returning the favour to you. "Bitterness begets bitterness". You strike me as one dude here, but I'll keep my reservations to myself, 'cause you insulted me and you're now hiding your hands to say you want understanding and peace? Okay. Number 2 pointer is you trying to jam women's heads together. I have another third pointer...but I'll only hit the nail on its head and call you out if you push the right buttons enough. Anyway, there are plenty of sensible women on the forum sha. If you think that is a rarity, then I must question your sanity. The sanity I cannot vouch for that your gender possesses on this forum. Calling random people on the Internet old layers. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Fahvvy: 8:06pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: Too long... Summarize... |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:17pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Fahvvy: You literally could have ignored if you didn't want to continue... But it's fine anyway. Have a good night or until whenever (if) you're able to finish that and respond. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Aklee4994(m): 8:42pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:Lol, peace be unto you and your household. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:47pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
This one wey all of una just dey wish me peace, watin dey sup naw? That one wished me peace on the other thread; ^ this one too. Like, for reallllll? The time that I will be in a chill zone and just being peaceful, that is when you people will be looking for my trouble. Now that I am in an hyper mood, you people are choosing the high road. It's not done that way o. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Kobojunkie: 8:58pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome:LOL... Isn't this exactly what Nigerian men do when they refuse their wives from bringing kids from previous relationships into the home to live with them? It seems it is a Nigerian thing and not a gender-related issue then since Nigerian men are known to do pretty much the same as you have described here to children that are not theirs in a marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Kobojunkie: 9:00pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Brian47:So, why can't the same be said of men? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 10:23pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Av seen a man who trained his wife's daughters up to the university. Though the children knw their biological father they still regard their step father as their real father. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Kobojunkie: 10:39pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome:There are equally examples of women out there who have done similar, but it still remains that a majority out there — men and women alike — look down on the children who were not born of the union. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Fahvvy: 5:14am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: You're not in a position to tell me what I could've (or should've) done ... But hopefully you'll take your own advice and ignore this ... |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Brian47(m): 6:17am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Men and women are not the same |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Kobojunkie: 7:25am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Brian47:So it is OK when a man maltreats a child that is not his but not OK when a woman does the same?, 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Okoroawusa: 7:26am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Ladies that are ready to marry a man of 3 wives and you are talking of single father. Single father na hot cake nah! |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by FAT17(f): 7:42am On Jan 19, 2023 |
it rear for you to see a man without a child or children is either the child or children are dead 2ru abortion or they are alive so when you see a responsible man single father or not that is ready to marry you don't hesitate |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 12:02pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:It's true but the %tage of wickedness in women is higher than that of the men |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by faceLAGOS: 2:09pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
Single dad are okay. If the mother is out of the picture. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Kobojunkie: 4:19pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome:Stop lying! Many men altogether don't even want to use eye see the other child at all once they are married, and it remains that way for the entirety of the marriage in many cases. I know of a grown man — now in his 50s — whose mother had to hide his existence from his step-siblings because the man she married would not even hear of him. Fortunately, the man died over a decade ago, and that was when his mother then invited him over to come to live with her here in the USA where she had lived at that time over 30 years. Is that not wickedness, or do you think wickedness only happens when you live in the same house with an unwanted child? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Chee59(f): 7:33pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Too many stories I've seen on nairaland where the woman married but has to take her child to stay with her parents because the man does not want to see the child nor care for them because they're not his. I know what you're talking about. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Kobojunkie: 12:57am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Chee59:That has in fact been the norm since the days of our ancestors though. I was shocked to find even those of them here in the US do it too. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Minatouchiha(m): 1:35am On Jan 20, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome: They are all thesame. But their wickedness get grade o. Some of this stepmother's na follow come from hell. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Chee59(f): 2:41am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You know as e be. Social media creates this illusion. People focus on women maltreating kids, which is criminal, in my opinion. But forget that some children have been separated almost permanently from their mothers because stepfather said so. That's another evil under the sun. How you dey? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Brian47(m): 4:48am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:MA you're putting words in my mouth, this has nothing to do with the topic at all. Who said it's okay to maltreat a child |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Kobojunkie: 12:55pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Brian47:In your response it is implied that when a man maltreats a child it is not the same as when a woman maltreats a child.... one is more acceptable than the other. Na you talk am. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by pansophist(m): 12:58pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Chee59: Agreed. People with clean slate should start life with others with clean slate. You don't have to proof or justify why you want a single man without kids, it's the norm since the beginning of time. E come be like say this okafor law thingy de fear woman sha 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Chee59(f): 2:50pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
pansophist:But the law is very effective naaa |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
No, I won't... The last thing I want is some baby mama drama in my life. Even if it happens that after getting married, my hubby cheats and ends up having a child outside, the marriage is over. I don't ever see myself being a stepmother or enduring any baby mama drama. Chee59: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Prettygirl200(f): 3:17pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Chee59:I will be manage him if he has a lot of money!!! |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Prettygirl200(f): 3:23pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
obinna58:So bc you men know that women are very emotional that's why u lots use nd toil with them right? U lots lie to women to make dem fall for you just bc u all know that women are emotional. Na wa oo |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by Prettygirl200(f): 3:26pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
obinna58:That is the responsibility of all men and that is what you lots were created for. So stop complaining!!! |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by VendorGB: 3:36pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Single Father? by obinna58(m): 7:19pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Prettygirl200:Glad it’s coming from a lady I wasn’t complaining, if that’s what men are created for then don’t you think this topic/thread is invalid |
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