₦airaland Forum

falcon01:
Eliza101

The reality is yes it is boring having sex with one partner through out your life and loosing your virginity after all these years, you'll feel so this bullshit I've been holding on my whole life is overhyped? And from there you might start getting hungry for other diks. Bruh, enjoy your life if you wanna have sex do it but only with people you feel are worthy of you just be smart about it and don't turn into a hoe, have class and respect yourself do what you want and live life before you settle down.

JOACHINpedro:
In summary, you're tired of keeping your hymen but too scared to appear promiscuous to your future hubby.

Eliza101:
Not really, I just want to experience life more and my sexuality, plus I want to feel grown up.

BlackMan6969:
Since you were able to stay up till this age without doing it, then do it. My twin sis got married a virgin at 29yrs. Blive me when i say this, it comands a great deal of respect 4rm ur husband.

JOACHINpedro:
Sex makes people feel grown up
You've been terribly misinformed
Happy fucking

Lamanii22:
Why not pray to God to give you someone that would love you forever instead of thinking about the unknown…. When you start sleeping with two or four men you wouldn’t know when you will graduate to 20, the best thing is to stay with one man, you’d also save yourself from risk of diseases…

bigbauer:
Which states get unity for Nigeria like this? Abeg I for like know. Firstly, your grammar gave you away, secondly you're either a male looking for another male to defraud, or you're a jobless female in need of clients to expand your corporate prostitution business..

Whatever be the case, I would strongly suggest that you get yourself a legitimate high income skill. You could improve on your grammar and become an author, you seem to have flare for fiction.

Best of luck.

It's just a type error, I didn't proof read it and what is wrong with my grammar?? I do surround myself with a lot of Nigerians so maybe that's why....and by the way I am self employed.

Eliza101:
So what you're saying is, if my future husband finds out I'm a virgin through our first intercourse, he will greatly respect me.

Eliza101:
Thank you for your reasonable answer, I am 26 years old and I just want to try something new. How will I know how good my husband is if I don't try others first. I know about about contraceptives and condoms, and yes, I just have to be careful, but don't turn into a hoe, e.g having sex for money in return, which is something I will not do. No offence to anyone who is a sex worker , because you need to make your money, I'm just speaking for myself.

falcon01:
Eliza101

The reality is yes it is boring having sex with one partner through out your life and loosing your virginity after all these years, you'll feel so this bullshit I've been holding on my whole life is overhyped? And from there you might start getting hungry for other diks. Bruh, enjoy your life if you wanna have sex do it but only with people you feel are worthy of you just be smart about it and don't turn into a hoe, have class and respect yourself do what you want and live life before you settle down.

Sukkyy2010:
So are actually giving this advic?, it's obvious you're living your life as you wish not as God which. Though I'm not holy but the way people lately live life contrary to God will is very alarming.

So the best advice you can give to your fellow sister who's about to defile herself sexual is for you to encourage her in gratifying her flesh and lustful desire. That exhibit there's no single word of God dominating your life and I'm not a surprise that such advise emanated from you because you probably give away you virginity too earlier

Eliza101:
Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have always thought about something that's been bothering me lately , as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .

Eliza101:
Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have always thought about something that's been bothering me lately , as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .

Eliza101:
Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have always thought about something that's been bothering me lately , as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .

Eliza101:
Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have always thought about something that's been bothering me lately , as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .

DaddyCK:
are u lightskin??

Divoc19:
Yes. It is bad please

Das1mama:
I think and feel i'm the right plug for you. 6years of being a single father without an attachment or committment with any woman till date. Funny enough aswear i don't even know what sex with a woman looks like anymore. MEN no dey be VIRGINS but HONESTLY I FEEL LIKE A VIRGIN. will you give me the HONOUR OF BREAKING IT AND USHERING YOU INTO MOTHERHOOD?

Eliza101:
I thought so, and what if my husband end up breaking up with me, so it'll be like , I waited until marriage to have sex , ended up losing my virginity to this one person and now he has left me , because he doesn't want to be my husband anymore..... Plus I'm 26. I need to enjoy my life and having sex with multiple partners doesn't necessarily mean I'll be a hoe ( I know you didn't say that), because a hoe will have sex for money, they will have sex with someone who they're not attracted to, they can even sleep with their best friend's man....Plus having sex with just one man in my entire life, will make me too clingy/attached to the person and he might find that annoying.

Eliza101:
Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have always thought about something that's been bothering me lately , as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .

Divoc19:
You have said it all. Experiment on these things before marriage my opinion. Even those married virgins are bored but they can't spill just as most married couples pretend to be happy in public.

I know alot of men that complain about a boring bedroom life because their wives are virgins and virgin wives imagining what the difference is like being with another dixk.

Let me stop here. This life deep abeg..

Eliza101:
LOOL, I just want to have sex, not get pregnant.

Das1mama:
Lolz! how do u want it 2 be?

Eliza101:
Sex with protection of course and contraceptive pills.

Eliza101:
Thank you, for your reasonable answer, I think men tend to want to sleep with women who are youthful looking, when a woman gets older most men will not want to sleep with her anymore....I think I should take pride of my youth, I'm still young.

Another question I'd like to ask is, have you tried anal sex, If so , is it painful and did it cause troubles with defecation. Is it a taboo in your Nigerian culture? and is it pleasurable?

Divoc19:
Men like to sleep with attractive ladies old or young, just look attractive and expensive. There are very few exemptions though, we can't generalize. They only consider a youthful girl when they want to get married because men like to be respected even when they behave foolishly, they don't like to be confronted when they are wrong.

But I have noticed these days too that most young men not mind a woman's age as much as they use to because of the economy hardship (forget love) they don't want a liability anymore. If a man has an older lady that is attractive and takes care of her own bills they tend to fall and marry her over their younger pucci.

Basically my dear, make money as a girl before thinking about marriage.

Anal? Never it's a little too far unless you want to monetize your body maybe. I will discourage any girl, anytime

Eliza101:
Thank you for your answer, that's what i'm focused on making my own money and being in an open relationship.