Plot twist the writer will do same

DaddyFreeze2020:


Stop tagging a whole State in Nigeria for the misdeeds of 1 or 2 persons.

It’s a lot more than just two people.

My issue with married men who cheat is when they label their single male friends as irresponsible.

Cheat oh (na you and your wife get problem), but don't label me as irresponsible.

Moral deficiency syndrome.

Ireportlive:




Strange world...

Single girls now love married men better

Hotel, guesthouses , lodges make most of their money from short rest and lodging of cheating partners

Igando magistrate court has more divorce case due to cheating than any other cases including fruad and robbery



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Most of them are APC urchins. No morals whatsoever

Lived in US for more than 20 years , visited Lagos , the article is correct, almost all my married friends have girlfriends , even the single ladies don’t care if u are married , they only want someone that’s financially okay,

Lagos has higher numbers of girls many girls do runs married and single in Lagos

Go and sleep, cheats are everywhere.

Nazgul:

Men don't sleep with themselves...they do it with women.



Both parties meet, the girl takes her money while the man gains access to her body...it's just a transaction with both parties benefiting from each other.

If more ladies embrace hard work and good morals, men would learn self control. Cos if there are no cheap ladies to open their legs for a price, Randy men would have no one to offer cash to.

So western ladies who cheat, too, are lazy? Good morals extend to both parties. The onus for cheating is on the married man - who vowed to respect the sanctity of marriage. It is not the spinster's duty to respect another's man marriage. Most importantly, it is men who demand sex. Simple economics dictates that there has to be a supply, as demand cannot exist in a vacuum. If Nigerian men learn to respect their marital vows and rather spend the money on their families, cheating will reduce.

Also, biology says men, not women, need sex almost daily due to the hormone - testosterone. That very hormone means the average man is always hor.ny every day compared to women. Buyers dictate what sellers will sell. No buyer, no seller.

Dear Op, this is a global menace, the only thing stopping European, American, some Asian men from exhibiting their dog nature is their laws and their divorce law that favor women most times.



Go to any country in Africa, the most randy men are the European, American, Canadian, Asian expatriates who came to Africa to work without their spouses. When they arrive Africa or migrate outside their countries in Europe, America, etc, they feel so free that they go on rampage with women.


White expatriates are the highest patronizers of hawwkers in Africa.



But in Nigeria, the laws are weak, all thanks to confused system of government being practiced in Nigeria which mixes Islamic doctrines with Christianity and Traditional laws, causing huge confusion in Nigeria.



Don't blame Nigerians.



Generally all man (female and male) are sexually bankrupt by nature, women are only gifted with a higher self control for sex which makes them withhold their sexual fantasies until they come across the man of their dreams

adeola1097:
I don’t know about other states but for this Lagos, Gbogbo wa kan dora wa ni (All of us just dey f*vck each other) , both married, unmarried and single.

The high level of infidelity going on in this state is alarming that no one cares again. Everyone is just waiting for his/her turn to put a ring on it and cheat freely.

Even Men that get married these days just do so to escape either being called Irresponsible or they just conform to their parent’s wishes.

And I think there’s a notion now that women these days prefer married men to single guys so it’s an open field out there.

Na waa ooo

[quote author=Nazgul post=120252944]
Men don't sleep with themselves...they do it with women.

These Randy men are slaves to sex, while the girls they're after are slaves to money.

The men believe that once you attain certain level of financial stability legally or illegally, you can bed any girl of your choice. The girls believe that once a man attains certain level of financial stability he's man enough to ask them out. The man works hard to make money, the girl works hard to look more beautiful and sexy.

Both parties meet, the girl takes her money while the man gains access to her body...it's just a transaction with both parties benefiting from each other.

If more ladies embrace hard work and good morals, men would learn self control. Cos if there are no cheap ladies to open their legs for a price, Randy men would have no one to offer cash to



I really don't comment on people's opinion but whoever you are,my brethren you have spoken very well.
Your comment is a summary of the rat race we find ourselves.
More wisdom to your brain my brethren

PlayMaker14:
Not just Lagosians alone, 64.38% of South West men are notorious cheaters...

My brief stay in Ogun, Ondo, Oyo and Lagos State made me see how those dudes cheat with pride.

And when you try to advise them, they'll rebuke you and tell you to go and get married.

How did you arrive at your 64.38%?

Hmmmm........

Na wah o.

Another gay Lord trying to deceive fools

Nice write up bro!

You are witty!

We on same boat on this, same age group and circumstance, me too surrounded by all these cheating married people and keep advising me to marry up

Seun:
Written by Shaka Phillip-Jonson

https://twitter.com/beejonson/status/1615880886414614528

[quote author=Faiththatworks post=120255984][/quote]

The men believe that once you attain certain level of financial stability legally or illegally, you can bed any girl of your choice.

Very true. That's the mentality of most philandering men in Nigeria.

Like you said, the ladies on the other hand are just some glorified prostitutes

gaby:
Lol

The hypocrisy that we live as a people will make you keep shaking your head in disgust to no end.

Fornicators, liars, cheaters, adulterers/adulteresses, scammers, pedophiles, prostitutes/brostitues. All of the above listed are dignified and qualified as nothing serious for a sin but they'll a request for the head of someone whose own sin is being 'gay', according to them.

The laughable hypocrisy is the reason why I am always speaking up against the evil hate for gays.

I'm not better than them in any way.

We all get our own for body.

Since we can't help it, lets live and let live.

Nobody stops any one from being gay.
The problem with gay people is that they try to push and shove their gay orientation down our throats. No one cares about what you do behind closed doors,but please,keep it at that. Stop bringing it to the public for us to see and then preach to us about how we must accept you as gay.

You see , the other sins as you called them as things done behind closed doors and the practitioners have never insisted that the public should accept them. They do it behind closed doors. They never clamour, protest or even claiming rights.

Therefore, tell your gay people to bleep their anus all they want,but they must do so within the confines of their rooms and privacy.

DaddyFreeze2020:


Stop tagging a whole State in Nigeria for the misdeeds of 1 or 2 persons.

Seun, what Saka Philip Jonson wrote is the truth.
For anyone that speaks against it, they ll call the person names. Especially if it's a woman correcting a man.
Our society is the result of the majority of sick people we have
And men are the most sick!

Seun:
Written by Shaka Phillip-Jonson

https://twitter.com/beejonson/status/1615880886414614528

no big deal

Seun:
Written by Shaka Phillip-Jonson

https://twitter.com/beejonson/status/1615880886414614528

You are so right.

True. How married men constantly disrespect their partners by cheating infuriates me. Stop cheating, it's unfair to the faithful partner.

Seun:
Written by Shaka Phillip-Jonson

https://twitter.com/beejonson/status/1615880886414614528

Nicely put. Only very immature people do that... Criticizing those who aren't married, yet these creeps sleep with anything in skirts.

A man can get married any time or choose to engage in co-parenting.

Ogbeni, Your friends don't represent Average Lagosians. Your friends represent your friends.

na wa oooo


As a married man
The OP is actually right.
But I have a lot of side-chic for a reason and I am very very very happy.

Seun:
Written by Shaka Phillip-Jonson

https://twitter.com/beejonson/status/1615880886414614528

from my own observation alot of nigerians marry for the wrong reasons ,some just to fill among ,some to escape poverty .When they now get into marriage proper the happiness is soon short lived and reality begins to play ,hence while you see alot of men flirting without regard all over the place just to get their mind off the mess they have gotten themselves into ,then for the women the quest for money to sponsor their wannabe life style let them prey on this men and the circle continues

Klass99:


You made very valid points, however the text in bold cracked me up big time.

Try being a single and hard working woman with a moral compass in Lasgidi, earning a good living through honest means, then you will quickly learn that it is not necessarily about women embracing hard work and good morals. Rather, it is about the randiness, lack of self control and selfish desires of men.

I strongly disagree with this...

There are countless single women I've come across in Lagos who live a decent life without having to succumb to the advances of randy men. I even have one as a flat mate, she goes to work and comes back home everyday without any tale of drama from randy men.

There's a saying that goes thus...a mad man dresses the way he does because of his mindset. If you're getting unnecessary disturbance from irresponsible randy men, then look inwardly, the problem lies within you and not them. They're seeing you as a sex object Maybe because of how you dress, or talk or act.

I've seen girls slap randy men publicly for acting like goats towards them. The reality of the matter is that no man would play the role of a nuisance before you unless you allow him to.

Klass99:

The article/original post didn't lie about the shenanigans of married men in Naija. All the times I have been pursued by married men in Lasgidi I was minding my business and staying in my lane. They love to claim that single ladies are the ones who chase them (which may be true) but that hasn't been my personal experience.

Lol...Even the blind would tell you that hook-up has increased in this our generation. Our actresses openly admits that married men are sweeter.

Girls openly come out to shame broke men even here on Nairaland and boast of how they only date rich and married men. If you're crucifying married men for being randy, isn't it wise to crucify lazy girls for encouraging their randyness by willingly submitting their bodies to them?

Klass99:

As previously stated, most see single women as their private playground where anything goes. I once confided in a co-worker about the alarming frequency at which married men chase me and she suggested I pray it must be spiritual, if I am mostly attracting married men.

I told her to hold it there! There is nothing spiritual about this and nothing wrong with me either, there is just an unfortunate rise in the number of married men who have no qualms with side chics and exploring their polygamous nature while trampling all over the institution of marriage...... like the article said.

How many times have men told us on this forum that they are polygamous in nature? And you say it's easier to gain access to our bodies than your gender's? Don't make me laugh Naz.

My dear, as a woman, men would always come to you. That's the way life was configured. A male chicken would chase his female counterpart, likewise a male goat, dog...etc.

However, the response you give to them determines the kind of girl you are.

adeola1097:
I don’t know about other states but for this Lagos, Gbogbo wa kan dora wa ni (All of us just dey f*vck each other) , both married, unmarried and single.

The high level of infidelity going on in this state is alarming that no one cares again. Everyone is just waiting for his/her turn to put a ring on it and cheat freely.

Even Men that get married these days just do so to escape either being called Irresponsible or they just conform to their parent’s wishes.

And I think there’s a notion now that women these days prefer married men to single guys so it’s an open field out there.

LMAO... "Gbogbo wa kan dora wa ni?"

What of the legendary Abuja and
PH marriages (a.k.a co-habitations and sexual cheatings going on... on purely transactional levels)?

Nazgul:

These Randy men are slaves to sex, while the girls they're after are slaves to money.

Both parties meet, the girl takes her money while the man gains access to her body...it's just a transaction with both parties benefiting from each other.

This is just the reality of the situation!