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toujurs:
I have a savings of 3m, i have budgeted for marriage. I hope to spend less, so i can use the balance for something else, but with the way things are getting high. So guy, start saving.

iamademorlar:
I tapped into your grace sir...
My own wedding is comin up this year also and things are very tight at the moment
I'm prayin for grace and favor

TheOldGods:
na mumu dey do church wedding nah. Anything legal in marriage should never be done ever. As a man, for you own peace and happiness. If the marriage goes south

Blueelf:
While I don't doubt the existence of miracles, your post could be misleading as well

One Needs to plan and also recognize that after wedding comes marriage proper which is a big gulper of funds

Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k. Isn't a child play o

Bro 800k

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

Romanoff:
It was loud enough for us o.

We kuku no too like people (crowd).

All we did was to convince our families that it was what we wanted.

Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

Romanoff:
So married people shouldn't have a profile picture on social media?

Okay. Noted sir.

FriendsAndFans:
I am planning on getting married this year, so i want to seek guidance from married folks how they were able to raise funds to sponsor their introduction and wedding.

i dont have a partner yet, i just want to plan ahead.

Clash01:
I did my wedding on 15 of this month after I have given my inlaws what the requested for. We proceeded to wed on a Sunday during church service and na Donuts and soft drinks we share. Everything was almost 50k. But if you see my pictures ehn you think say we spend millions.

Romanoff:
What wrong signal and according to who?

Is Nairaland a dating site?

seanwilliam:
out of that savings, don’t use more than 1m for wedding no matter what . Na beg I Dey beg u. U can’t have the worst wedding same way you can’t have the best ,

Olachase:
I bought baby ram for 10k and rear it for good 5years 😁😁

I set 10k to my mom in osun she supplies me garri and yam flower

I sent 10k to my wife mom in Ondo she supplies us palm oli and pepper

Inside the bride price list items that we brought, her mom still returned 80% of items, I love my wife family

Buh I don't like my wife for one thing she doesn't have power to make pounded yam

And she doesn't like me for one thing she said I nake like machine 😁😁😁

Hidemyface:
If you have the fund to do the wedding do it. Mine was a bit tight cause the expected fund didn't come in but at the dying minute. Looking back, glad I took that challenge to give my woman the kind of wedding she wanted even when I was not very stable to have that kind of wedding. Ended up spending about 15million naira on the wedding with little support from friends.

Dear aspiring husbands, don't listen to jokes and caricatures of your fellow men/women telling you to go get married cause they won't fund it rather let it be your decision solely.

Innobee99:
It's done already brother. We can't wait until we become billionaire before we marry, that day may never come. U will give testimonies soon

jeromestarks:
Imagine what men go through just to pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws.

Do not go through such stress just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact (virgin) by a boy who didn't even know her parents not to mention paying bride price on her.

A woman who has given her best (virginity) to another man should not expect the best from you.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market. Never marry such a woman. Just fvck her and let others continue fvcking her.


Do not allow any family sell a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men to you as a bride. She isn't a bride anymore cus she has no pride left in her. No glory left in her, she's now a cargo of bad news.


Only a fool will suffer to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men. Are you the fool?



Finally, fvck any girl you want but it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman and marry. Better to suffer to find a virgin woman and have a lasting peaceful home than to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men and SUFFER IN YOUR MARRIAGE.


No hymen, NO COMMITMENT.

LincolnOnyeabor:
Why save when you can do what is called Lagos Marriage??

Zeewirld:
...Is your wife's sister a good girl? How old is she?

Zeewirld:
..And if it doesn't go south nko?

Zeewirld:
..And if it doesn't go south nko?

Lastpharoah33:
Are you for real like now?

Nickisindigo:
I subscribe to this concept

Rubeshi:
I spent nothing close to 3million that was 2017 for for my wedding.
I had many side hustle that period.

ednut1:
Court marriage costs less than 50k. Dont be stupid and unfortunate.

jessylaurel:
I robbed the bank. Mtchewwwww

Hidemyface:
If you have the fund to do the wedding do it. Mine was a bit tight cause the expected fund didn't come in but at the dying minute. Looking back, glad I took that challenge to give my woman the kind of wedding she wanted even when I was not very stable to have that kind of wedding. Ended up spending about 15million naira on the wedding with little support from friends.

Dear aspiring husbands, don't listen to jokes and caricatures of your fellow men/women telling you to go get married cause they won't fund it rather let it be your decision solely.

silvermania:
madam... runs still dey ur eyes

SamuelAnyawu:
I got married late last year. It wasn't funny at all bro.

Tho cut your coat to your finance oh.

1) Don't assume people will support financially.
2) Don't assume people will spray you cash.
3) Never take a loan or make half payments, ensure on the wedding day you ain't owing anyone ( DJ, MC, Food, Deco, etc)