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Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by BRATISLAVA: 3:08pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
pocohantas: I guess. It's the same reason they are happy to post AI generated images of women, but are terrified to and dare not post that of AI generated men. Right now, marriages are crashing left and right and center, because the women get unattractive once married. People who look like lizards in jackets saying so. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by omooba969(m): 3:09pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
one9ner: Fixed 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by pocohantas(f): 3:10pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Hahahahahahahaha! With their pot bellies and tiny waist. You would think it is not them wearing singlets that have holes and big hideous shorts. It just has to be women. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by UmbrateethO4: 3:12pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
FuckTheMod:son of an armed robber giving quotation |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by harmony75: 3:12pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
There's nothing like loosing attraction it is just that either one true color starts to show that there was no real lOve by one of them in the first place. Marriage is not one sided 50/50 |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by sircatherine45(m): 3:14pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
element of "see finish" |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by omooba969(m): 3:15pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
vacanci: I want to believe you guys are in your thirties. 1 Like
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Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by BRATISLAVA: 3:16pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
pocohantas: They're delusional, illogical and amusing all at once. We need to normalize scrutinizing and dictating what the bodies of men should look like, especially in marriage, and shame them if they fall short. They have no right to grow fat and spread beyond one economy seat on a local flight. There are many male models, but these guys will never look at them as what men should look like. A fat/ugly/malnourished/vagrant/short/smelly guy insisting that women should look like pohn stars. They never cease to amaze. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 3:19pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Bluezy13: You're apt. You are an obvious Adventurer. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Women marry solely for look. Men, on the contrary , marry cuz they think it's the fastest way to unending sex. Men aren't attracted to these women they marry in the first place. You'll see a very good looking man with an ugly woman. People should only marry for look,not for commitment, compatibility ot anything,but for look. If a woman marry a good looking man, the marriage will work and it will last |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by IntroTech: 3:21pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
handsomeyitayo: The human nature loves variety. Know this and know peace. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by MoneyMustBMade(m): 3:23pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Remove beauty and fake social media fake lifestyle before choosing a partner.. Is a life time something, sometimes people over package what they are not and end up attracting wrong partner. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 3:24pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
vacanci: This is Absolutely Intriguing. Liked, Shared and Followed. People need to understand That The IDEA OF MARRIAGE is ENDURING AND ENJOYING EACH OTHER No Matter The Conditions for The Sake of Your Own Children. This is the reason it is very important that one marries a person that you can TOLERATE At Almost ALL TIMES. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: But Men are generally good looking than women. I've never seen a woman dating an ugly man, but 95% of women are ugly and they date better men. Marriage should Only revolve around look. Women should stop looking at any other requirements in a man other than handsome face and good body. It doesn't matter whether the man is a good man, respectful or not. If he's good looking and disrespectful, it's okay. |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by BRATISLAVA: 3:26pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
LarochelE: Men don't look better than women. 98% of men are ugly. There are many women dating very ugly men, because men feel entitled to having beautiful women even when they are nothing to write home about. You will see a fat slob who wants to marry a model, a weak looking man demanding a hot bride. And the women don't judge them because of the their society. If marriage only revolved around looks, ugly men like Ned and a lot of the commenters here wouldn't be married. So many other ugly, unfit men would be single till death if women judged them the same way men judge the appearance of women. But men want to judge women only by looks. You can see how they claim all their marriages are failing because of the woman's look. They care nothing about her character or anything else, just her looks, since it's the most important thing to them. It's clear that men are liars, hypocrites and deluded. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by omooba969(m): 3:27pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Evergreen12345: For some men, that wrapper is an invitation for quickie you know. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 3:27pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
IntroTech: Liked, Shared and Followed. Abundant Peace Be Unto You For This Soothing Relief. |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by toprealman: 3:27pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Most stop making effort in a lot of things. You discover some hidden truths. Horrible hygiene and some weird dirty habits. A lot of things 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by vacanci: 3:27pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
omooba969: No. My wife will be 43 this year and i am way older than her 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by omooba969(m): 3:28pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
vacanci: Beautiful 👌 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by IntroTech: 3:33pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
MessiahOfAfrica: You're welcome. |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by FavouredNK: 3:34pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
I can only give you these three tips from experience, it has and is still working for me like magic. 1. Marry your friend 2. Always remember what attracted you to each other the very first time and don't let it die off completely in your marriage 3. Spice up your marriage from time to time and keep yourselves a little upgraded not stagnant and backwards 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by uuzba(m): 3:34pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
omooba969:Well, know whom you marry before agreeing to marry the person. If not, just break it off quickly and go away. . Call it kid or whatever. But it is still on this NL website that we have read countless stories of married men bashing their wives. Complete men with hand and leg and fully developed bodies. |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Faposky95: 3:35pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
...the ladies start becoming more matured...more men like..... |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by cescky(m): 3:36pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
handsomeyitayo: 90% of people marry with their eyes...whom they find attractive... man is a spirit being...you have to marry whom resonates with your spirit not your eyes....the one who resonates with your spirit you will always love her and find her attractive, especially when shes in her worst state..the one people marry with their eyes after the sex...their spirit man starts yearning for more...because they. didnt follow their spirit, and their spirit isnt satisfied, so they seek this fufilment by cheating outisde, and looking for the fuflfilment.... learn to listen to your inner voice and spirit, its the voice of God. you shouldn't enter an institution God created with your hand, use his hand to enter 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by DaddyCoool: 3:37pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
pocohantas: No, not at all. That's just how life is generally. If you "love" someone, chances are they'll be after someone else who doesn't "love" them, who'd be after someone else (possibly you!), and so on. Sexual attraction wanes for at least one of the partners after years of marriage. Screenshots below say same 1 Like
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Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
naijapikin2: I agree with you small. But when a man gets to a certain age and lives an unhealthy lifestyle, even if the wife fine pass mammy water and she still dey maintain herself well, the man's 'tool' may not show interest like before. A lot of men in their 50's and 60's, who used to be super-charged with testosterone while younger, now rely on Viagra before they can have uninterrupted power supply! When such men wake up in the morning, their tool does not greet them good morning like before. The senior citizens who are wise exercise regularly, stop smoking, cut down on the intake of alcohol, salt, sugar, carbohydrates, palm oil (yes palm oil!), butter, fried foods, and everything that can increase bad cholesterol in the blood. The bad cholesterol is a wax-like substance that prevents blood from reaching the 'tool', and we know that blood is what is needed to have a strong network. They eat a lot of vegetables like efo riro, ugwu, garlic, onions, cabbage, carrots, cucumbers etc. They eat unripe plantain, oily fish, beans, chilly pepper(yes chilly pepper), avocado pear. They drink basil tea, ginger tea, zobo without sugar. They take watermelon in moderation. They drink blended dates, tiger nuts and coconut. They boil watermelon and lemon/lime juice (you can refrigerate the drink), taking a sip or two before bed. They maintain a healthy weight. Chairman, if any senior citizen is disciplined enough to do these, they will thank me later. I have spoken from experience. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by josite: 3:40pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Abusive words. Unpaid embarrassing bills, Dirtiness, and frustrating sex finally removes sexual apetite so extras must be sought outside. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by DaddyCoool: 3:43pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
vacanci: Well, studies and screenshot below say you are a very rare exception indeed, or misreading, or... (no offense) lying
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Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by DaddyCoool: 3:45pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Twoclans: Not really. See screenshot above |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: It's women who have delusional standards. He mustmust be tall, six pack , good looking, rich, earning 6 figures and all that. But Men lack standard, just have pussy and men will invest in women. What else does women bring to the table in marriage if not their ass and breast? Do you think women will matter in this world of male dominance and competitiveness if God do not give them vagina? (I leave you to think about this). Men build women. Gave them civilization. Train them in school. Find them jobs and still help them do these jobs all because of pussy. A woman that is nobody can easily get upgraded and far ahead in life by a man all because of her vagina. And you still think men asking women to have only beauty quality is delusional? Even, this beauty we're talking about, Nigerian women fall short of it. Go around. Look at couples. Look at their wife. Can you genuinely say these women are beautiful? Their men look way better than them even with all the Money men spend to make women comfortable in this world. The day men no longer value vagina and have another substitute is the day you truly get to know how Men make women's life better than it should actually be. Women are generally ugly than women. Men work to get their beauty, get in shape in gym, but women are believe to be born with beauty. And this beauty is lacking among today's women. When you even look at a woman unclothedness, you get disgusted and question yourself if this is what you've been chasing all this while. It's just the urge that keep men chasing and wanting women Which bring the question, what do women bring to marriage?? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by TOPCRUISE(m): 3:48pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
When my crush got married I no longer find her attractive. She now looks like a step mum to me. |
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