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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Akuruoulo(m): 2:46pm On Feb 05, 2023
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Shvtty mentality.. Lord of what? The ring! Is she your slave!
😂
Each spouse will have different strengths and weaknesses - don’t get stuck in culturally ‘normative’ gender roles or expectations..

Two equal adults join together in a partnership and together decide how to run their house and lives...It works... A marriage isn’t an organisation that needs a leader or head...it’s a relationship between two adults...
Don't be dvmb!😂

I repeat women aren't object or your slaves that you can Lord over!🙄

Women are not different from kids.
Most are not useful other than to bear kids.

They are just adult kids.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Maybeta(m): 2:50pm On Feb 05, 2023
Apt!!!!!!
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Akuruoulo(m): 2:50pm On Feb 05, 2023
Jennyclay:
Not Every husband is worth it. An irresponsible, stingy, uncaring mistake of a man is not worth the prestige of being called a husband talk more of "Lord"

So, men that beat their wife should be called lord? undecided

Men that don't spend money on their wife and children should be called lord? undecided

Men that cheat on their wife should be called lord? undecided

This Yeye businessman should keep shut and face his nonsense business


I won't cheat but will marry as many wives as possible.

A man who beat a woman shouldn't be called a Lord, but a woman who abuses a man should be called a queen. Thankew
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by lailo: 2:51pm On Feb 05, 2023
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Shvtty mentality.. Lord of what? The ring! Is she your slave!
😂
Each spouse will have different strengths and weaknesses - don’t get stuck in culturally ‘normative’ gender roles or expectations..

Two equal adults join together in a partnership and together decide how to run their house and lives...It works... A marriage isn’t an organisation that needs a leader or head...it’s a relationship between two adults...
Don't be dvmb!😂

I repeat women aren't object or your slaves that you can Lord over!🙄
Couples who see marriage as partnership don't enjoy it. It is a union of two adults where both parties don't contribute equal quota and don't command equal respect. To me, the man is not necessarily a dick-wielding human being but the major stake holder in the relationship. Marriage gives birth to family which comprises of the head, the help-meet and the children. Their roles and stakes in the family are different. Being the head doesn't connote master or boss and being the help-meet doesn't connote servant or slave. The recent restructuring in marriage is what is aiding high rate of divorce. Chose the one u believe in and enjoy it.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by DREAMHOMES6970(m): 2:52pm On Feb 05, 2023
simplepee:
They should be our lord and also our FRIEND abeg. Na marry I marry no be war I go for.

I’m not for gender equality but we deserve respect as much as men. A marriage with mutual respect and where both parties play their role will hardly hit the rock.

Unfortunately, these days everybody is mad😂.
Better pikin. Oil dey ur head, and ur marriage will never crash
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Nobody: 2:56pm On Feb 05, 2023
God bless you brother! There is no two ways about it. Sadly, our leaders I mean so called leaders who have no insight nor for sightseeing are making it difficult for RESPONSIBLE men to even be a Lord these days. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Nobody: 3:01pm On Feb 05, 2023
I am not the lord to my wife. Why the F would i want to be a lord to her.
Poor dude. Must have married a village illiterate girl.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by ahnie: 3:04pm On Feb 05, 2023
Skyview01:
I am not the lord to my wife. Why the F would i want to be a lord to her.
Poor dude. Must have married a village illiterate girl.
Here's a real husband.
If to say polyandry dey permitted for naija I for marry you.

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed,where the feelings is supposed to be mutual.



Kudoz to you once again.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by DriveByKiller: 3:06pm On Feb 05, 2023
Jennyclay:
Irresponsible men everywhere!

Biko, don't quote me again! I'm not in your level.
jennyclay, the snowflake with a democratic pussy.. You're as witless as a Christmas laugh.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by sharone21(f): 3:07pm On Feb 05, 2023
The Lord and King that I know is a VERY loving and thoughtful one.

So, if my husband be like that one, I will be the happiest.

He is correct in saying that Christ is the Head just like man and the body of Christ ( Church) is the woman ... That is why a man MUST love a woman more so that in marriage he will not be debating everything he needs to help his wife do.

Once we start to disrespect the Bible, problem starts and the woman suffers more.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by ASAPFERG: 3:08pm On Feb 05, 2023
Pwettylinda:

May death fall on your stupid family
2023 Will be year of agony in tour family
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Justbehave(m): 3:10pm On Feb 05, 2023
ahnie:
Here's a real husband.
If to say polyandry dey permitted for naija I for marry you.

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed,where the feelings is supposed to be mutual.



Kudoz to you once again.

But your pastor can be your lord while your husband can't ? I just dey Una. Baby daddies like us is the way.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Nobody: 3:15pm On Feb 05, 2023
ahnie:
Here's a real husband.
If to say polyandry dey permitted for naija I for marry you.

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed,where the feelings is supposed to be mutual.

You know nothing about marriage my dear. I courted and married when you are probably a teenager.
I have more experience in marriage than that dude dishing out advice from his anus.

Do not listen to him.





Kudoz to you once again.

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by ahnie: 3:15pm On Feb 05, 2023
Justbehave:
But your pastor can be your lord while your husband can't ? I just dey Una. Baby daddies like us is the way.
My husband knows that no pastor can colonized me,I m not a yes sir yes sir pastor kinda lady.

I nor be the type wey pastor fit run street,na dem dey even fear me,na women wey give pastors chance to break their homes na them nor get sense.

By the way....how re your lil darlings doing.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Nobody: 3:16pm On Feb 05, 2023
ahnie:
Here's a real husband.
If to say polyandry dey permitted for naija I for marry you.

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed,where the feelings is supposed to be mutual.



Kudoz to you once again.


Thanks Ahnie.

I am one of your biggest fans and i follow all your threads.
I like hard working, strong and independent women.

Your husband should be lucky to have a wife who is industrious, hardworking and can think outside the box.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Ishilove: 3:16pm On Feb 05, 2023
ahnie:
Make una dey use una useless fat blubby mothers at home as examples to practice docility in marriages.


Are your useless mother's submissive to your crazy father's?yellow socks and slippers boys with Mercedes Benz colored tinted strands want to tell people how to run their marriages.

Most of una nor be una papa be una real father's.

Make una go check una family ancestral lineages,the idol wey una papa serve con abandoned naim hold una stagnated.

I wonder how you i.diots come online to form Andrew Tate meanwhile dem never pay una mama dowry even in their twilight's.

Foolish punters

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Nobody: 3:20pm On Feb 05, 2023
Akuruoulo:


Women are not different from kids.
Most are not useful other than to bear kids.

They are just adult kids.

Yeah, I know you learned that from your "ADULT KID" mother, right? Remember, by your own submission, your mother is not different from a kid.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Justbehave(m): 3:24pm On Feb 05, 2023
ahnie:

My husband knows that no pastor can colonized me,I m not a yes sir yes sir pastor kinda lady.

I nor be the type wey pastor fit run street,na dem dey even fear me,na women wey give pastors chance to break their homes na them nor get sense.

By the way....how re your lil darlings doing.
Ok ooh. No wahala. My kids are doing well.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Emmanuel909090: 3:31pm On Feb 05, 2023
Jennyclay:
Not Every husband is worth it. An irresponsible, stingy, uncaring mistake of a man is not worth the prestige of being called a husband talk more of "Lord"

So, men that beat their wife should be called lord? undecided

Men that don't spend money on their wife and children should be called lord? undecided

Men that cheat on their wife should be called lord? undecided

This Yeye businessman should keep shut and face his nonsense business


Only fools will take you serious.

Look at the advice coming from a fool that posted this below.

"Elderly Men Are More Romantic Than The So Called Young Men"

Sleeping around with men your grand father's age.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by letitrainnow(m): 3:36pm On Feb 05, 2023
Okay thanks for your time
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:37pm On Feb 05, 2023
Men and women are EQUAL. It is only in Christian marriages that man is the head. Head means he leads, HE IS NOT A LORD. Sarah called Abraham Lord because Abraham deserved it, I don't think there is any Nigerian man that deserves to be called Lord, I could be wrong though. Besides, in biblical times, men were the sole providers, so the wives accorded them more respect, otherwise no food in the house or divorce. In our world of today, women are contributing financially to their marital homes, some are even leading the home financially. Today's Women know their worth, they know their success isn't tied to a man or marriage. They are not afraid of divorce. So if you are a man, take your wife as your friend and companion, unless you are not ready to have a successful marriage. The women too should respect and submit to good husband's'. cuz I don't think a bad husband deserves respect.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Ishilove: 3:41pm On Feb 05, 2023
indigenous234:
Funny enough, I told my wife (my brother's wife) the same thing and she took it badly. This is nothing but the truth and I agree 💯.

Your husband ceased being your (Boy) friend and became your personal lord and savior the day he paid your bride price and made you his wife. ( Argue all you want).


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You own husband may be your personal Lord and saviour, but mine isn't. Jesus Christ is my personal Lord and saviour.

Argue with your keypad

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Akharmony: 3:43pm On Feb 05, 2023
The truth is bitter but He is called Husband for a reason. .
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by don3e(m): 3:45pm On Feb 05, 2023
We have let irrelevant things take the vital part of our lives.
Your Wife is your wife as your Husband is your husband.
Two became one (The only mathematics equation that prove scientists wrong cos' scientists never factor love in their equation)
Do you know we have different kinds of Lords as we have different kinds of Ladies? See the following:
1.Jesus as Lord and Friend
Jesus is Lord yet He is a Friend (John 15:14: "Ye are my Friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you"wink
2.God as a Father and Friend
Father Abraham was refered to as "Friend of God" in James 2:23.
3.The Egyptian as Lord and not friend
The Egyptian were lord over the Israelites but they were not friends Exo.1:13, 2Chr 20:7?
What is relevant?
Husband that enjoys his marriage does not only work as Lord but equally Love: for Lord+Love is needed to go together from the husband. While Wife can only give submissiveness to her Husband.
When you love, she become submissive towards you as the Lord over her.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by GloriousGbola: 3:48pm On Feb 05, 2023
Ishilove:

You own husband may be your personal Lord and saviour, but mine isn't. Jesus Christ is my personal Lord and saviour.

Argue with your keypad

Checkmate - he is or was sha a man 😈

Now get me my sandwich🏒
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Pwettylinda(f): 3:49pm On Feb 05, 2023
ASAPFERG:
2023 Will be year of agony in tour family

Hahah fool wish your family and you life of Tinubu and APC amen
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by ProtonX: 3:54pm On Feb 05, 2023
Nonsense
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Pinkyposh(f): 3:55pm On Feb 05, 2023
Once they touch small change, they will start talking nonsense

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by ASAPFERG: 3:55pm On Feb 05, 2023
Pwettylinda:


Hahah fool wish your family and you life of Tinubu and APC amen
shutup you this bloody animal grin
You shall cry this year..
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Exceed15: 4:03pm On Feb 05, 2023
PlayMaker14:
God bless this comrade for me...

Gone are those days when women call their Husbands sweet names like "Nnanyi", Oko mi, My Crown and My Lord" and treat them as such

Feminism has come to preach equality in marriage and destroyed the sanity.

Recently, I saw a post where one disrespectful fellow was addressing her husband as her "Bestie" on TikTok and rubbing his bald head while the full grown SIMP smiled for the camera.

Let's not even go far, some Old Layers here who feels there should be equality in marriage, delegating house chores to a full grown man to carry out. Imagine that!!!

Mind you, most of these Old Layers are not virgins, some are rickety hens that have laid several eggs, but they are clamouring for equality with their Overstretched Community Pussies.


Na God go help us.

Oil dey ur head bro.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Exceed15: 4:06pm On Feb 05, 2023
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Shvtty mentality.. Lord of what? The ring! Is she your slave!
😂
Each spouse will have different strengths and weaknesses - don’t get stuck in culturally ‘normative’ gender roles or expectations..

Two equal adults join together in a partnership and together decide how to run their house and lives...It works... A marriage isn’t an organisation that needs a leader or head...it’s a relationship between two adults...
Don't be dvmb!😂

I repeat women aren't object or your slaves that you can Lord over!🙄

U aren't getting the point..

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