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Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by EagleEyes306(op): 3:36am On Feb 12, 2023
Hello Familylanders,

I have alpha thalassemia traits. The doctor advised if choose to marry an African lady, the lady should go for a test to confirm she is not a thalassemia carrier like me.

I have done some online research concerning compatibility of AS and and a thalassemia carrier but I couldn't find much information. In one article a doctor said they can get married but recommended genetic counselling. I would like to get more information on the subject matter.

https://www.icliniq.com/qa/beta-thalassemia/is-it-too-risky-for-me-to-marry-someone-with-sickle-cell-trait-if-i-have-beta-thalassemia-trait

Qualified professionals, please share your views.

Thank you.
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Nobody: 5:31am On Feb 12, 2023
If you actually pray very well before getting married, you might realize that your destined wife might have an incompatible genotype with you.

That is, you might be As and she would be As.



If you are sick as a true christian, what will be revealed to you would be to bless water and drink for a cure.



Science and Gods purpose in life is like oil and water, they can never mix.


I'm a living witness
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by EagleEyes306(op): 6:06am On Feb 12, 2023
AbdulMagaji:
If you actually pray very well before getting married, you might realize that your destined wife might have an incompatible genotype with you.

That is, you might be As and she would be As.



If you are sick as a true christian, what will be revealed to you would be to bless water and drink for a cure.



Science and Gods purpose in life is like oil and water, they can never mix.


I'm a living witness
Thanks for your reply. My genotype is AA.
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Zihno: 6:13am On Feb 12, 2023
AbdulMagaji:
If you actually pray very well before getting married, you might realize that your destined wife might have an incompatible genotype with you.

That is, you might be As and she would be As.



If you are sick as a true christian, what will be revealed to you would be to bless water and drink for a cure.



Science and Gods purpose in life is like oil and water, they can never mix.


I'm a living witness
Shut up!
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by michlins(m): 6:16am On Feb 12, 2023
AbdulMagaji:
If you actually pray very well before getting married, you might realize that your destined wife might have an incompatible genotype with you.

That is, you might be As and she would be As.



If you are sick as a true christian, what will be revealed to you would be to bless water and drink for a cure.



Science and Gods purpose in life is like oil and water, they can never mix.


I'm a living witness
everyday, there's a new nonsense to read on nairaland. You don represent today
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Sikay19(m): 8:12am On Feb 12, 2023
michlins:
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Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Nobody: 11:08am On Feb 12, 2023
AbdulMagaji:
If you actually pray very well before getting married, you might realize that your destined wife might have an incompatible genotype with you.

That is, you might be As and she would be As.



If you are sick as a true christian, what will be revealed to you would be to bless water and drink for a cure.



Science and Gods purpose in life is like oil and water, they can never mix.


I'm a living witness
You are daft, Christianity does not say we shouldn't use our common sense, that is why God gave us free will, get sense.
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Nobody:
Op I had to google the meaning to understand your ailment, and nowhere does it say that it is life threatening, since you are AA, of course you can marry any other blood group, cos I don't see any damning effect it will cause.
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Feb 12, 2023
Jovialjune1:
You are daft, Christianity does not say we shouldn't use our common sense, that is why God gave us free will, get sense.
Some of us have made grave mistakes in this life by taking decisions on our own without consulting the creator in prayers.

God ways is opposite that of man.


Please don't fall into our trap.
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 12, 2023
AbdulMagaji:
Some of us have made grave mistakes in this life by taking decisions on our own without consulting the creator in prayers.

God ways is opposite that of man.


Please don't fall into our trap.
The Bible says "Watch and Pray" "Faith without works is dead"

You don't fold your arms and expect manna from heaven because you prayed,

"He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from God" meaning you should use wisdom and sense to choose your spouse, then pray for God's blessings and favour.
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Feb 12, 2023
Jovialjune1:
The Bible says "Watch and Pray" "Faith without works is dead"

You don't fold your arms and expect manna from heaven because you prayed,

"He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from God" meaning you should use wisdom and sense to choose your spouse, then pray for God's blessings and favour.
See how you are typing like you can command a stone to move.



Reminder: God ways is never the ways of Man
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Feb 12, 2023
michlins:
everyday, there's a new nonsense to read on nairaland. You don represent today
Proverb 3 vs 5-8

5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
7 Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil.
8 This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones.
Re: Is It Advisable For AS To Marry A Thalassemia Carrier? by EagleEyes306(op): 3:10pm On Feb 12, 2023
Jovialjune1:
Op I had to google the meaning to understand your ailment, and nowhere does it say that it is life threatening, since you are AA, of course you can marry any other blood group, cos I don't see any damning effect it will cause.
Thanks for your reply. It is not an ailment, analogous to the way sickle cell carriers (AS) live normal lives but there is a 25% chance of their kids suffering if two carriers get married. I am not very clear about is what will happen if I get married to an AS who is not a thalassemia carrier.
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