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gaby:
Ooops, I just saw you registered this moniker today for this purpose.

I don't think I have the time to waste here...

The last comment before this actually helped me to go check your profile.

I've been disappointed one too many times trying to assist people here. Never again.

Good luck to you guys.

chairman please don't conclude like that. Try confirm first then go ahead help the poor girl if na genuine. Poverty has really eaten deep in some family in Nigeria.

Never be discourage please.

gaby:
Ooops, I just saw you registered this moniker today for this purpose.

I don't think I have the time to waste here...

The last comment before this actually helped me to go check your profile.

I've been disappointed one too many times trying to assist people here. Never again.

Good luck to you guys.

Oga no one forced you to promise to help in the first place, why you come dey do audio promises for here? Must you type? if you know you aren't going to help in the first place, I'll advise you shut tha f#ck up.

Since she have learn how to sow, you guys should just manage and buy her machine, once she starts earning money from it, she will no longer be a burden and she can finance her education from there.

Richy4:
The immigration idea is not a bad one...in my opinion.. I'm glad that at her age she got an idea of what she wanted... Don't let anyone kill the dream of that young girl...

Seriously my mother doesn't want to reason with me. She thinks giving her out for marriage will help situation of things. I understand the burden is too much and heavy for us to carry considering our income. Nonetheless, i will not support her idea of giving her out for marriage.

That's babaric

VoidLife7:
my younger brother has attempted to enlist twice with his WAEC result but wasn't successful. I myself had tried with my degree certificate but couldn't make itto the end

Btw, i reside in Lagos

Grace is following the girl.. let her try and she'll get enlisted successfully...

That lil girl is the key to your family's financial breakthrough... Don't let your mom kill it...


However why can't your mom get married to d said man?

gaby:
Cry no more.

She wants to go to school, she'd definitely go to school.

I'll sponsor her to whatever level she wishes to go to as part of my impacting lives project.
DM me..

May God richly bless you in abundance...

Women supporting women by marrying her off. Nice idea.But come ooh. Women on this forum are fucking broke. So non of you could volunteer to help out your fellow woman? You women only talk Cho Cho Cho without any action. Make Una help your fellow woman before her mum marries her off. Make Una no dey wait for a men to come bail Una gender out. Shame on Una.Lol .Where is Jennyclay? She don hide abi? If nah to call men broke she for be the first to comment. Broke Akwunas wey full here.

gaby:
Ooops, I just saw you registered this moniker today for this purpose.

I don't think I have the time to waste here...

The last comment before this actually helped me to go check your profile.

I've been disappointed one too many times trying to assist people here. Never again.

Good luck to you guys.

Should he provide u with proofs, help the little girl please...

saintruky:
Should he provide u with proofs, help the little girl please...

So non of the women here can help her abi? Must it be a man? Tomorrow now he will be tagged a mugu.

If your religion is Islam then you don’t have a say but if none then you can help her. Speaking from experience

Justbehave:
So non of the women here can help her abi? Must it be a man? Tomorrow now he will be tagged a mugu.

Normally women hardly help themselves....

saintruky:
Normally women hardly help themselves....

But they will be here calling men broke.Its a shame that they can't even come together to help their fellow woman. Lol. This is a nice opportunity to prove to us that truly women can support women. No be by talking. I'm waiting.

Justbehave:
So non of the women here can help her abi? Must it be a man? Tomorrow now he will be tagged a mugu.

It's too early in the morning to be on NL
Majority of the women here actually work, and are at work this morning.
Anyway, the story is still suspect until it's verified

eyinjuege:
It's too early in the morning to be on NL
Majority of the women here actually work, and are at work this morning.
Anyway, the story is still suspect until it's verified

Ooh. Now you all are at work. But if it's about a rape post against a man Una no go dey for work.Lol

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Her ( your little sister) idea of going to the Navy,and from there into tertiary institution is a bomb.

Let her opt for that.
And any that wants to help her, help her out in this decision, and connect her, and let her be helped from there.

Justbehave:
Ooh. Now you all are at work. But if it's about a rape post against a man Una no go dey for work.Lol

People are busy, especially this early in the morning.
This is the time you're running about at work, not break time that you can quickly check NL and be commenting
But how is a rape post anything to be defensive about?
You should feel ashamed as a man when you see posts of fellow men raping defenceless victims.
Your voice should even be the loudest condemning it, if you're not a rapist or rape apologist.

Your little sister's idea of enrolling in the navy is a very brilliant one.
Please let any one who wants to help, help her into getting into the navy.And from there she may enter into some institution to improve on her C.V.

VoidLife7:
Good day all,


Please i need your sincere input to this subject matter


I am from an average family of 6 living in Lagos. My father is a surveyor, while my mother a petty trader. My mother lost his younger brother's wife after child birth, through cesarian surgery.. My mum was the only female amongst 4 siblings, she was beseeched to look after the infant and her little brother. That was how my parents began nurturing these kids. I could recall vividly how my dad often supply the house with baby food so she could be properly fed. I saw how my dad and mum took turns at mid night looking after her. My dad lost his only sister four years after and he was given the responsibility to look after her last baby who was almost 2 years. I lost my dad 2015 when the little girl was 10, her brother 12 and the other child was just 8. My mum had 4 biological kids, 3 boys and a girl. The girl was the first child, happily married with kids. I have an elder brother and a younger brother. I was intermediate my brothers. Till date, these children acknowledged my parents as their biological parents. They never knew we aren't blood from same parents. We all had same surname. The little girl wrote her WAEC last year and cleared all her papers with distinctions and credit. She had the intention to study law or foreign languages.


I enrolled her in fashion designing immediately after her secondary school, as she had shown interest. It's less than a year she got enrolled and she's already sewing styles. She's heading to become a seamstress in the not too distant future. She also makes hair. Though not professional and she never learnt it.


My mum summoned me last month informing me she'd be giving my little sister out for marriage once she clocks 18 by May this year. She claimed i had been teaching in private school earning 30k monthly and my elder brother working in a factory earning 35k. We got bills to pay for ourselves and the kids. She asserted that the burden is already taken a toll on us. I and my elder brother are the ones supporting the family with accommodation, feeding, school fees et al. My mum claimed there was no money to pursue her education. We couldn't even afford to get her a sewing machine. The little girl suggested she get enlisted into the Nigeria navy or Immigration Service with her WAEC result, and also as a fashion designer. Perhaps, that could enable her pursue her law degree in subsequent time as an officer. My mum wasn't convince with her idea. She claimed there was no one to help her get enlisted successfully. She insisted in giving her out to a 43 years old divorces whose wife had abandoned with 3 kids. My mum was so ignorance enough to believed giving her out for marriage will help lessen our burden😭


I felt like giving my mum good hot slap having realised the reason i got summoned. I felt the burden is really weighing her down, making her think otherwise. I had kept my mum at arm length since then. Hopefully, that'd propel her have a change of mind. I sincerely got her plight though but that shouldn't be an option. She seems not to understand her decision would destroy the girl's life completely. She claimed it wasn't her fault. She sincerely wish we are capable of looking after the children, then she'd support her dreams and aspirations. She believed when there's no money, you shouldn't be found discussing anything that requires money. I've been so down ever since then. She claimed i i hadn't saved myself yet and i was worried saving someone else. She's my sister and i can't leave her behind. She never treated her badly for a day though and nobody knows she wasn't her biological child. If for instance, anyone come up tomorrow informing her or her siblings that my parents aren't their biological parents, they'd never pay attention to it. I was even threatening to report her to the family but she claimed the family can't do nothing. This little girl has good plans, dreams and aspirations but my mum wants to cut it short and shattered due to our challenges.


Please i need advice going forward. I really want to keep my family together🙏❤

eyinjuege:
People are busy, especially this early in the morning.
This is the time you're running about at work, not break time that you can quickly check NL and be commenting
But how is a rape post anything to be defensive about?
You should feel ashamed as a man when you see posts of fellow men raping defenceless victims.
Your voice should even be the loudest condemning it, if you're not a rapist or rape apologist.

I'm not busy. I have people working for me so it's non of your business if I decide to spend my time here.My money still comes. It's a big shame that you all claim to be working and making money but cannot help your fellow minor who is about to be married off due to hunger. Lol. The men that offered to help were not busy abi? Tueh on you.

Justbehave:
I'm not busy. I have people working for me so it's non of your business if I decide to spend my time here.My money still comes. It's a big shame that you all claim to be working and making money but cannot help your fellow minor who is about to be married off due to hunger. Lol. The men that offered to help were not busy abi? Tueh on you.

Don't be pained women on NL call out rapists.
Rapists deserve the death penalty and they will surely get their comeuppance.
Only one man offered help, which he has withdrawn as he is not convinced the story is true.
But being the ever generous minor you are, you can step in to help a fellow minor.

eyinjuege:
Don't be pained women on NL call out rapists.
Rapists deserve the death penalty and they will surely get their comeuppance.
Only one man offered help, which he has withdrawn as he is not convinced the story is true.
But being the ever generous minor you are, you can step in to help a fellow minor.

Lol. No woman offered to help. Chaii. Shame.I can see you are no longer busy as soon as I mentioned rape. Shameless akwuna busy sucking dick.

faithfull18:
Keep applying, the key is never to give up, getting State/Federal jobs with a degree most times requires connection - True but junior positions, some people get without connection.

Which part of Lagos?

I will. Thanks for your advice

I live in morogbo, along Badagry expressway

Justbehave:
Lol. No woman offered to help. Chaii. Shame.I can see you are no longer busy as soon as I mentioned rape. Shameless akwuna busy sucking dick.

I'm not working today, which is why you will find me here this morning.
I understand you're the son of a thousand fathers.
You don't have to project your mother's whoring behaviour on the ladies on NL.
I know it's difficult being the son of a professional prostitute, passed around from room to room, witnessing different dicks in your mother.
Therapy will help you. Being an incel will not take away your pain

eyinjuege:
I'm not working today, which is why you will find me here this morning.
I understand you're the son of a thousand fathers.
You don't have to project your mother's whoring behaviour on the ladies on NL.
I know it's difficult being the son of a professional prostitute, passed around from room to room, witnessing different dicks in your mother.
Therapy will help you. Being an incel will not take away your pain

Help your fellow woman and stop talking. Save her from the trauma of being married off to a divorcee who will end up raping her. Help her and stop Cho Cho Cho.Say no to rape.
So now you are not working today? Lol. We all know you have no job so be calming down.

A divorcee with three kids.

gaby:
Cry no more.

She wants to go to school, she'd definitely go to school.

I'll sponsor her to whatever level she wishes to go to as part of my impacting lives project.
DM me..

God bless you Sir. May you be lifted always as you uplift others🙏

gaby:
Ooops, I just saw you registered this moniker today for this purpose.

I don't think I have the time to waste here...

The last comment before this actually helped me to go check your profile.

I've been disappointed one too many times trying to assist people here. Never again.

Good luck to you guys.

My boss,if you were moved in your spirit to help her out,do it not withstanding that it's a new account. Once you get to confirm the authencity of the story. Help her out. Your blessings would surely increase tremendously. Right now I'm not even financially bouyant,and also out of Job for now. But I made a promise that when I start having kids,I would also adopt a less privileged kid. So help me God

Youngsage:
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Don't conclude that way my niggar,let's try to verify things first before tagging people liars,scammers or fraudsters. Your statement could hinder someone that genuinely wants to help. Remember you don't have an evidence. The young man is open to verification,so the least you/we can do first is verify before crucifying

VoidLife7:
Good day all,


Please i need your sincere input to this subject matter


I am from an average family of 6 living in Lagos. My father is a surveyor, while my mother a petty trader. My mother lost his younger brother's wife after child birth, through cesarian surgery.. My mum was the only female amongst 4 siblings, she was beseeched to look after the infant and her little brother. That was how my parents began nurturing these kids. I could recall vividly how my dad often supply the house with baby food so she could be properly fed. I saw how my dad and mum took turns at mid night looking after her. My dad lost his only sister four years after and he was given the responsibility to look after her last baby who was almost 2 years. I lost my dad 2015 when the little girl was 10, her brother 12 and the other child was just 8. My mum had 4 biological kids, 3 boys and a girl. The girl was the first child, happily married with kids. I have an elder brother and a younger brother. I was intermediate my brothers. Till date, these children acknowledged my parents as their biological parents. They never knew we aren't blood from same parents. We all had same surname. The little girl wrote her WAEC last year and cleared all her papers with distinctions and credit. She had the intention to study law or foreign languages.


I enrolled her in fashion designing immediately after her secondary school, as she had shown interest. It's less than a year she got enrolled and she's already sewing styles. She's heading to become a seamstress in the not too distant future. She also makes hair. Though not professional and she never learnt it.


My mum summoned me last month informing me she'd be giving my little sister out for marriage once she clocks 18 by May this year. She claimed i had been teaching in private school earning 30k monthly and my elder brother working in a factory earning 35k. We got bills to pay for ourselves and the kids. She asserted that the burden is already taken a toll on us. I and my elder brother are the ones supporting the family with accommodation, feeding, school fees et al. My mum claimed there was no money to pursue her education. We couldn't even afford to get her a sewing machine. The little girl suggested she get enlisted into the Nigeria navy or Immigration Service with her WAEC result, and also as a fashion designer. Perhaps, that could enable her pursue her law degree in subsequent time as an officer. My mum wasn't convince with her idea. She claimed there was no one to help her get enlisted successfully. She insisted in giving her out to a 43 years old divorces whose wife had abandoned with 3 kids. My mum was so ignorance enough to believed giving her out for marriage will help lessen our burden😭


I felt like giving my mum good hot slap having realised the reason i got summoned. I felt the burden is really weighing her down, making her think otherwise. I had kept my mum at arm length since then. Hopefully, that'd propel her have a change of mind. I sincerely got her plight though but that shouldn't be an option. She seems not to understand her decision would destroy the girl's life completely. She claimed it wasn't her fault. She sincerely wish we are capable of looking after the children, then she'd support her dreams and aspirations. She believed when there's no money, you shouldn't be found discussing anything that requires money. I've been so down ever since then. She claimed i i hadn't saved myself yet and i was worried saving someone else. She's my sister and i can't leave her behind. She never treated her badly for a day though and nobody knows she wasn't her biological child. If for instance, anyone come up tomorrow informing her or her siblings that my parents aren't their biological parents, they'd never pay attention to it. I was even threatening to report her to the family but she claimed the family can't do nothing. This little girl has good plans, dreams and aspirations but my mum wants to cut it short and shattered due to our challenges.


Please i need advice going forward. I really want to keep my family together🙏❤

I sent you a mail, please reply.

VoidLife7:
I can give you my main account if you insist. I was too ashamed using my main account to post what my family are going through. I have told you I'd give out any evidence down to my abode. I have nothing to hide to anyone who's willing to support this young girl and her brother

PM me

Regex:
I sent you a mail, please reply.

I have replied. Thanks.

amdman:
PM me

I sent you a mail