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Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 9:20pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
hi guys oo, i just hope I never enter once chance like this oo, based on things i have read and heard about girlfriends/wifes being disloyal and promiscuous I just hope that what I observed yesterday isnt a part of it. I am in Canada for schooling, should be back to Nigeria in few months. I and my gf dey normall video chat, so yesterday I hung out with some friends, while at the smoking side of the bar, I called my gf twice on whats app, infact both of her phones, she didnt pick, a minute later she called me back on video call, there was no light so her room was dark and there was no fuel to power her gen of that time. few seconds into the video chat, I heard a sound like someone hit leg on a chair or something few meters away, the moment the sound was heard, she looked right to observe, her face went right for at least 8 seconds, so I asked what sound was that, she said what sound, I was like but i heard a sound now and u also heard it too thus ur looking right to observe, she said there is no sound oo, I said but u heard it and u moved ur head to check cos she was laying down on her bed, she replied and said "you mean I looked like this" turning her head left ways, in which she initially turned her head right ways, that moment I felt she was being manipulative like she didnt know she turned her head left ways when she heard the sound. This may sound stupid and awkward to some, but a very deep instinct in me says something aint right. So I said she should put on her torch from the other phone to go look whats going on, she became reluctant and kept saying she opened the window for air to come in and putting on the torch to go check will make people outside see her room, common u live at the top floor and no building faces ur room that could lead to someone seeing you. I said so u arent bothered about the awkward sound u heard, she said theres no sound, ok stand up and let me see what might have fallen or what not, omo she dragged the issue and didnt stand, she only turned her camera around the room knowing fully well the sound came from the living room. My suspicion could be wrong, but to satisfy your partner is proving their suspicion wrong, and as far was the whole thing went, she didnt put any effort in proving me wrong. Could I be having a serious relationship with a cheat like this? Cos after the convo, i said i will call u once i get home, and thats how it always is, she wont call, she'd wait for my call, but seconds after the convo, she started bombarding me with video calls whereas i was already shooting pool, i picked and i was like but we concluded we'd talk later, she was now like i just wanted to see what ur doing, that also gave her away like she's famzing guilty conscience. 2 Likes |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by invinzible1: 9:45pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
interim4: Better face Canada squarely and look for someone there 16 Likes |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Karleb(m): 10:15pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
My unprofessional advice is: it's a game and two can play. 1 Like |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Kobojunkie: 10:21pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
interim4:Who's the one paying for your schooling in Canada? Na that person I pity pass. 15 Likes |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by BigDick70inch(m): 10:40pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
interim4: LoL.... The bitter truth is her interim pussy fucker was trying to sneak outta the room.... But unfortunately.....he kicked something 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by GOFRONT(m): 11:13pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
The tumbu wey dey chop your yam dey reside in your yam. 4 Likes |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by mylove4God(f): 11:43pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Ain't you also having fun over there or will still have when the opportunity comes. She might be innocent or not but don't let that bother you for now. Concentrate on your studies and also make money. She will always put you ahead among the others( that is if she is truly cheating) 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by akube34: 12:15am On Feb 21, 2023 |
interim4:bro she Dey cheat. Just do something. Do not tell her when you’re coming back to the country . Or give her a far date. Just surprise her, and when you see her, check her phone immediately. If she hesitates to give you her fone, know say dem Dey knack am. Even after checking the phone and you find nothing, make sure she stays with you for a couple of hours to observe her phone calls and chat. This way, even if she deletes her chats regularly, you will still figure out cus the other guy go Dey chat or call am. 5 Likes |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Foodqueen(f): 1:37am On Feb 21, 2023 |
So u aren't coming home to vote obi... Ur instinct don't lie. except.....you want to choose the lie. 4 Likes |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by sisisioge: 1:59am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Legends of the street....I wish you good luck fa. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 2:20am On Feb 21, 2023 |
GOFRONT: If I can deduce, you mean sey na person wey dey stay for that same compound dey inside that house? I could be wrong oo, but there are incidences like this where turning your thoughts towards: i dont mind or it might not be what am thinking could just be what is happening, its a funny world. |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 2:24am On Feb 21, 2023 |
BigDick70inch: Well i doubt if this was the actual scenario. I called her twice on both phones, she didnt pick, she then called back a minute later on audio whats app, so i switched to video. She was on her bed at this moment, but from what i observed the sound came from the living room, it was dark so the person probably hit something that wasnt seen. So it seems like b4 she called back, she had asked the person to step out. But mehn body dey pepper me like this, its a sweet and sour feeling. Inside life. And this kind level now, if person dey there, the kind fucking wey go dey go down, if i fit see the view, i fit use am mastur. |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by hayor2015: 7:52am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Sickobeatz: 7:56am On Feb 21, 2023 |
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Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Kobojunkie: 8:26am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Sickobeatz:You should go speak to a mental health counselor asap so you can forgive yourself of the foolishness of your past and move on to making choices afterwards.. |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Guderian(m): 8:40am On Feb 21, 2023 |
It's Better to not get into sth you are not sure of. The distance is very far, so there are more tendencies to cheat. If you also seeing other ladies i dont think you can judge her for it 1 Like |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Saintmary(f): 9:32am On Feb 21, 2023 |
interim4: You want to masturbate to the view of someone having sex with your girlfriend! This story is fake. 4 Likes |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by immanuelsize: 11:56am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Saintmary:seconded! |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 12:56pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
Guderian: I already engaged her, but not officially, its a serious relationship. I understand the tendencies of cheating when it comes to long distance relationships. I am not seeing other ladies as I consider my engagement to her as a serious one that will lead to marriage. Also she was the one that suggested buying a Love Machine to keep her company when shes Hot, and we both do video sex while using her Love Machine, though i have always thought she would still need the real thing. |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 1:11pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
Saintmary: Sis, its me just catching cruise, it isnt a fake story, i was feeling bad that very day, but the situation has gotten worse now as the whole thing is dawning on me as i type. I havent been able to eat properly. My saying all those things is to convert my anger and sadness to cruise, which eventually sound stupid. I am broken, but i gotta piece the pieces. 1 Like |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 1:12pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
invinzible1: Really hard, 3 years relationship, and she has been loyal for as long as I can observe. Here is boring, if i was single, to get a girl here will take time. People mind their business here, where approaching a lady can be termed harassment 1 Like |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Saintmary(f): 2:14pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
interim4: If you've not invested too much in the relationship, you can move on easily. End the relationship fast, tell her it's over, then move on. |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 2:39pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
Saintmary: Unfortunately i have invested far more than expected. |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by satandeterrible: 4:37pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
interim4:Oga don't be a victim of sunk cost fallacy. Why ever you spent is nothing compared to the fact of dating a hopeless cheat that'll cause you irreparable damage in the future. Use your sense nwokem. No dy act like a headless puppy. Mumu. Better don't move things forward with that cheat of a girl. Better to be alone than to wife a cheat. If you don't follow my advice. You'll regret it immensely in the future. Mark my words. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 6:00pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
satandeterrible: I dun tell am sey i nor deydo again, and i said i am giving her 3 months to move off d property, cos na me pay rent and na my name dey agreement. No wonder when we wanted to collect the apartment, the agent told us that its better we present ourselves as couples not assingles cos the landlady wants couple. You said it doesnt matter that we should use a single name and that her name should be on it. I was pissed, at that moment something such as this came to mind that she may eventually bring someone into the house , and i might find out thereby sending her packing, but as long as sey na her name dey there, i cant do nothing, so Insisted that my name be on the agreement, we had a 2 days fight over this until she succumbed. I am glad I didnt make that mistake. 4 Likes |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by satandeterrible: 6:20pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
interim4:Nice one bro. |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by invinzible1: 7:12pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
interim4:Then just trust her |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 9:20pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
invinzible1: huh? which kind trust? blind trust? 1 Like |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by invinzible1: 6:22am On Feb 22, 2023 |
interim4:Leave you said no, then trust her you don't want too. You can't be in the middle else you will give yourself ache in your heart 1 Like |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4: 10:30am On Feb 22, 2023 |
invinzible1: When was it that i stated that i was not leaving her? |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Gloriagee(f): 11:24am On Feb 22, 2023 |
lwkmd Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by Nobody: 11:52am On Feb 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 2 Likes |
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