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Esoresor:
She’ll support the man and help him manage his wealth but this does not mean they are gold diggers

Sister, If you can manage wealth then take a loan, start a small business and manage it well and become wealthy yourself..
it’s very simple .

Billionaire2:
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Sister, If you can manage wealth then take a loan, start a small business and manage it well and become wealthy yourself..
it’s very simple .

You are a bully. That’s how you all bully women here

Esoresor:
You are a bully. That’s how you all bully women here

Well, those words are inspirational to virtuous women, bullying to gold diggers .

google the words ‘pseudologia fantastica’
stop hiding under the umbrella of ‘women’ to feel offended and attract sympathy.
it’s never late .. if you want a rich life style, work hard and become rich

Billionaire2:
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Sister, If you can manage wealth then take a loan, start a small business and manage it well and become wealthy yourself..
it’s very simple .

abi ooh,wealth manager😂😂😂

I don't know what some women feel like, because u just have breast and yansh with one wide smelly pussy u feel that u no longer have to work for money,u just sit and wait for the man to do all the work,that is why most women end up getting into abusive marriages, because when u are jobless how do you expect ur man to see u with respect and at the end of the day u will still be shouting stupid feminism and asking for equal rights,God know say me they is no where I would marry a jobless woman not for any reason, stupid self entitled prostitute and whores looking at marriage as a retirement plan,this one is even saying she will be helping the man manage his money,as if he has not been managing it well before u met him, mtcheew,I no blame u,it is the stupid men that end up marrying jobless whores like u I blame

Postinor:
I don't know what some women feel like, because u just have breast and yansh with one wide smelly pussy u feel that u no longer have to work for money,u just sit and wait for the man to do all the work,that is why most women end up getting into abusive marriages, because when u are jobless how do you expect ur man to see u with respect and at the end of the day u will still be shouting stupid feminism and asking for equal rights,God know say me they is no where I would marry a jobless woman not for any reason, stupid self entitled prostitute and whores looking at marriage as a retirement plan,this one is even saying she will be helping the man manage his money,as if he has not been managing it well before u met him, mtcheew,I no blame u,it is the stupid men that end up marrying jobless whores like u I blame

Please leave here, I opened the thread for a discussion with sound minds, don’t spoil it for me.

Billionaire2:


Well, those words are inspirational to virtuous women, bullying to gold diggers .

google the words ‘pseudologia fantastica’
stop hiding under the umbrella of ‘women’ to feel offended and attract sympathy.
it’s never late .. if you want a rich life style, work hard and become rich

Stop deviating, only one person has been able to contribute reasonably, the rest of you are consumed by bitterness

Esoresor:
Stop deviating, only one person has been able to contribute reasonably, the rest of you are consumed by bitterness

Lol @ bitterness !
Sister I’m watching Villarreal match while kids are playing around me. it’s all joy here 👌

Esoresor:
I for example can not date or marry an average man because i won’t be able to cope, so I ask does that makes me a bad woman? What if I have other very good qualities? Why do men see women who wants to be with only rich men as bad or leeches while ignoring her other very good qualities?

I dunno about rich man, but avoid nigerian men.
Sadists the majority of them.

Sure there are a few good apples but you are better off pitching your tent outside of the Nigerian borders to save yourself the stress.

Boo cooking dinner for us both, which naij man will do that for you?

advanceDNA:


How did we get to this point where its okay for someone to date or marry a person just for money.??.. we now have pple that tell men that have no right to have feelings until their accounts have lots of zero....that they must make money before they can deserve women that have nothing.....and we also have pple like u that justifies these dirty superficial women...

Its absurd

Very very absurd

shaybebaby:

I dunno about rich man, but avoid nigerian men.
Sadists the majority of them.

Sure there are a few good apples but you are better off pitching your tent outside of the Nigerian borders to save yourself the stress.

Boo cooking dinner for us both, which naij man will do that for you?

They are very vile and vindictive
Imagine been poor and still wicked at the same time.

My dear enjoy. You have got a handsome son,good life,love and everything wretchs on nairaland desire

Never look back at the ugly faces of naija men.lots of love

Is a rich man avoiding poor or average girls bad ??
Are your brothers rich?
Is your father and your uncles rich??

shaybebaby:

I dunno about rich man, but avoid nigerian men.
Sadists the majority of them.

Sure there are a few good apples but you are better off pitching your tent outside of the Nigerian borders to save yourself the stress.

Boo cooking dinner for us both, which naij man will do that for you?

Thanks for this. Very bitter towards women

emmaodet:


Very very absurd

but it has never been absurd when nairaland men were insulting and shaming and abusing women 30+ women,single moms,non virgins etc for almost half a decade.

This dishonesty is usually associated with broke young and frustrated men. But for you that has made it in life and has his act together,I did not expect it from you. Tell your brothers the truth.

You can't join 20s old in this tomfoolery,laughing with them and going down to their level for you without ever telling them the truth but treating them with kids gloves

Autobot05:
Is a rich man avoiding poor or average girls bad ??
Are your brothers rich?
Is your father and your uncles rich??

Financial strength of women has never been an attraction for men. Don’t deviate from the topic please

Esoresor:
Financial strength of women has never been an attraction for men. Don’t deviate from the topic please

Says who ?
Are you a man ? Answer the questions

Autobot05:


Says who ?
Are you a man ? Answer the questions

Meaning you didn’t even read the topic

Esoresor:
Meaning you didn’t even read the topic

I read it and switched the genders ... if you didn't notice , smartass

You couldn't answer my question because you found out your topic makes zero sense actually

Bullythebully:

They are very vile and vindictive
Imagine been poor and still wicked at the same time.

My dear enjoy. You have got a handsome son,good life,love and everything wretchs like datedboy will wish.

Never look back at the ugly faces of naija men.lots of love

Thanks Sis, I will ALWAYS advocate team interracial or non naij because for what most women get out of mingling with them, it ain't worth it.

Me look back ke? Haven't looked at a naija man in over 2 decades.

And I dey always look themwith their delusions of how life dey be for women if women reject them but do not want to talk lest it seems like bragging.

But let me audio some little snippets, my man loves my son like his own pikin, my son's dad and him get along, as the boy dey collect from im papa, he dey collect from his step-dad. Minimum of two holidays a year, one with papa and another with mama and step papa.

I have a child from a previous marriage, yes! But my man moved away from his family, re-arranged work so he could be with me and my child ( and he earns more than I do before dem talk say he is after money).

So sis, all that single mama talk no dey worry me but it's worth stating my experience so other chicks know that there are men out there that will worship the ground you walk on, provide to the best of their ability, spoil you with all they have AND remain monogamous, share your burdens with you, contribute financially and emotionally, be all hands on deck both on the home front and beyond.

Autobot05:


I read it and switched the genders ... if you didn't notice , smartass

You couldn't answer my question because you found out your topic makes zero sense actually

It makes zero sense to you because you don’t feel the heat of bitterness towards women who feels they can only cope with a rich man and the derogatory names tagged to them even though they have other outstanding good qualities

Esoresor:
It makes zero sense to you because you don’t feel the heat of bitterness towards women who feels they can only cope with a rich man and the derogatory names tagged to them even though they have other outstanding good qualities

Use yourself as an example... what good qualities can you offer a man that decided to marry you . Let's assume the man is rich

Esoresor:
Thanks for this. Very bitter towards women

Sis find a nice white brother. I'm telling you, you will not look back.

I remember one of my exes, we were both working, he'd run me a bath before I woke up, breakfast made, give me money for lunch and THEN turn up to take me out for lunch on my lunch break.

Sometimes we confuse money for care, but as the average naija man does not have joy or care in their bones, that's why we women think money is the measure because without it, what else is there to enjoy?

Joyless bunch the lot of them!

Find your happy girl.

Autobot05:


Use yourself as an example... what good qualities can you offer a man that decided to marry you . Let's assume the man is rich

I have every good qualities a man needs. Maybe you should state the good qualities you expect from a woman so I can tackle you better

advanceDNA:


Oh please!!!.....its okay for women to broke shame men earning small decent living for themselves , telling them they have no right love or start a small family ..... but its not okay for for men to in turn call out these women .... shior!!!

ur asslicking behavior reek so bad i can almost smell it through the phone...

. its funny ...u even said these broke women will help the rich men manage their money.....is that how rich men grow and manage their money?? did they teach u that in finance management class ?? Jeez!!!

Na so I go make am once I get married mpa emeka take born 5 children, en never still make am and en still deh live for face me I face you house.

It does make you sound bad !!
A rich man is a made man already . You didn’t sweat with him to make the money so therefore you don’t know his secret and he can therefore treat you like a piece of shit !

You want a man with a vision , a goal. And your relationship takes you from that position to an elevated one.

When I met my SO . I was living in the bachelor apartment that I rented from her mum. We got married and stayed in her place for 3 years. Built our own place and when the MIL ( mother I law) passed away , we bought her place .( Paid out her siblings. )
She has her business, I do what I do.
I can never say - all that I have is mine neither can she brag .
That’s the better relationship.

shaybebaby:

Sis find a nice white brother. I'm telling you, you will not look back.

I remember one of my exes, we were both working, he'd run me a bath before I woke up, breakfast made, give me money for lunch and THEN turn up to take me out for lunch on my lunch break.

Sometimes we confuse money for care, but as the average naija man does not have joy or care in their bones, that's why we women think money is the measure because without it, what else is there to enjoy?

Joyless bunch the lot of them!

Find your happy girl.

I’ll see to this because I don’t understand these naija guys anymore. I don’t even know what they want.

Esoresor:
I have every good qualities a man needs Maybe you should state the good qualities you expect from a woman so I can tackle you better

The bolded shows you're delusional because nobody has it all ... but lemme ignore.
Name the qualities lemme confirm if they're meaningful qualities or even qualified to be called "qualities" in the first place

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Esoresor:
I for example can not date or marry an average man because i won’t be able to cope, so I ask does that makes me a bad woman? What if I have other very good qualities? Why do men see women who wants to be with only rich men as bad or leeches while ignoring her other very good qualities?

its not bad at all my dear. But first ask yourself, what do you have to offer a Rich man.

shaybebaby:

I dunno about rich man, but avoid nigerian men.
Sadists the majority of them.

Sure there are a few good apples but you are better off pitching your tent outside of the Nigerian borders to save yourself the stress.

Boo cooking dinner for us both, which naij man will do that for you?

Oh God, when?

Honestly, Nigerian men don't know how to love. I've given up on them. Thank you for this picture, atleast I know there are good men out there worth going for.

shaybebaby:


Thanks Sis, I will ALWAYS advocate team interracial or non naij because for what most women get out of mingling with them, it ain't worth it.

Me look back ke? Haven't looked at a naija man in over 2 decades.

And I dey always look themwith their delusions of how life dey be for women if women reject them but do not want to talk lest it seems like bragging.

But let me audio some little snippets, my man loves my son like his own pikin, my son's dad and him get along, as the boy dey collect from im papa, he dey collect from his step-dad. Minimum of two holidays a year, one with papa and another with mama and step papa.

I have a child from a previous marriage, yes! But my man moved away from his family, re-arranged work so he could be with me and my child ( and he earns more than I do before dem talk say he is after money).

So sis, all that single mama talk no dey worry me but it's worth stating my experience so other chicks know that there are men out there that will worship the ground you walk on, provide to the best of their ability, spoil you with all they have AND remain monogamous, share your burdens with you, contribute financially and emotionally, be all hands on deck both on the home front and beyond.

oh my darling.i will tag women on this post. So that they can learn that the world doesn't revolve around the dictates low value men that exist on nairaland and their evil predictions and wishes for women.
Spread your wings and soar high while ignoring this men to oblivion. Love you all

Proserpina:
With a Nigerian man, it's best you marry the one whose wades of cash can wipe your tears. Tears is inevitable.

Don't suffer in all ways

That's for the lesson. I agree! If you must date one, let him be rich. Money would make the suffering bearable. When he's misbehaving, you take yourself on a vacation with your girlfriends.