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Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by gfelo(m): 10:18am On Mar 13, 2023
nobody is promise tomorrow bro
lereinter:
Marry at any age as if he's the owner of his soul
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by Generalwoodz(m): 10:19am On Mar 13, 2023
cry
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by imagrg(m): 10:56am On Mar 13, 2023
Don't marry yet.

Invest it on POS business and later get married.
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by Galaxydon1(m): 12:25pm On Mar 13, 2023
frozen70:
Stop this nonsense and plan for the of yourself
they should stop insulting peter obi
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by lereinter(m): 12:48pm On Mar 13, 2023
gfelo:
nobody is promise tomorrow bro
Yes

That's why the Bible said number your days
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by MikeofAfrica: 12:56pm On Mar 13, 2023
frozen70:
I think you should get married and start raising a family while you plan of getting a car and buying a land

The last two can wait
But the first one can't wait because of age

You dont expect to keep paying school fees, especially university fees at 70yrs of your age if you don't settle down to marry now
Opportunities like the contract that he got sometimes come once in a lifetime. Hence I will disagree with your opinion.

He should use the #2.5 million to establish a business. If he believes that UBER is the most profitable business in his locality, then that is fine.

The business will act as a pillar that will carry his marriage when he decides to get married. Getting married without a stable source of income is like building a house without any pillar.

There are men who got married at age of 25 but had their first child at 40. Hence we cannot fast forward our destiny through early marriage.

Once he has a lucrative business, he can use the insurance scheme of one of the banks to save the entire school fees of his kids even before they are born.
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by MikeofAfrica: 1:11pm On Mar 13, 2023
Hopemanfx:
I am 38yrs this year. I have been huzzling to get myself up. things have not been easy for me. I recently got a contract that pays me close to 2.5m. I am confused about whether I should go and marry since age is not on my side or if, I should invest the money on property like land or buy a car for uberhuh?? need your advice.
I will only advice you to get married at this point if you have a lady that has a good business or earns a good salary.

If you don't have such a lady, then forget about marriage and invest the #2.5 m in a business. Ensure that you take your time to learn the business before investing in it. UBER can be profitable if you understand the terrian.

It is this business that will act as a pillar when you get married. The financial pillar will make you to have a happy marriage where you will earn your respect.

Without laying this pillar, you and your wife will be fighting everyday at home when the #2.5 m finishes and you fail to get another contract.

Buying a land is also good but it should be a future plan after you have achieve the other two- business and marriage.
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by Goldmaxx(f): 1:27pm On Mar 13, 2023
tayo60:
You must be daft and a nonentity for this statement. Why are you Igbos abusive and bittered? Always displaying your stupidity on every thread. Any little thing, you people will start to abuse Yorubas, no wonder your region is as backward as in 1900. E dey pain Una say we are now your president and you go cry tired.
You're birds of same feathers... How do you even know he's igbo
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by Hopemanfx(op): 2:29pm On Mar 13, 2023
MikeofAfrica:
I will only advice you to get married at this point if you have a lady that has a good business or earns a good salary.

If you don't have such a lady, then forget about marriage and invest the #2.5 m in a business. Ensure that you take your time to learn the business before investing in it. UBER can be profitable if you understand the terrian.

It is this business that will act as a pillar when you get married. The financial pillar will make you to have a happy marriage where you will earn your respect.

Without laying this pillar, you and your wife will be fighting everyday at home when the #2.5 m finishes and you fail to get another contract.

Buying a land is also good but it should be a future plan after you have achieve the other two- business and marriage.
thanks for your advice
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by Johnjustice: 2:59pm On Mar 13, 2023
Hopemanfx:
I am 38yrs this year. I have been huzzling to get myself up. things have not been easy for me. I recently got a contract that pays me close to 2.5m. I am confused about whether I should go and marry since age is not on my side or if, I should invest the money on property like land or buy a car for uberhuh?? need your advice.
Your IQ is like that of a 3 year old kid.
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by frozen70(f): 3:09pm On Mar 13, 2023
MikeofAfrica:
Opportunities like the contract that he got sometimes come once in a lifetime. Hence I will disagree with your opinion.

He should use the #2.5 million to establish a business. If he believes that UBER is the most profitable business in his locality, then that is fine.

The business will act as a pillar that will carry his marriage when he decides to get married. Getting married without a stable source of income is like building a house without any pillar.

There are men who got married at age of 25 but had their first child at 40. Hence we cannot fast forward our destiny through early marriage.

Once he has a lucrative business, he can use the insurance scheme of one of the banks to save the entire school fees of his kids even before they are born.
Ok naw
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by frozen70(f): 3:12pm On Mar 13, 2023
Galaxydon1:
they should stop insulting peter obi
He doesn't even respond to their ranting
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by Rrchrd(m): 4:16pm On Mar 13, 2023
Mmm bro buy land or car
Don't used it for marriage bc after marriage children will come & the load will increase except your future wife have sth doing
Re: Am Confused Between Marriage, Car Or Land. Which Should I Go For?? by Rodimi20000000:
Yes
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