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Have you ever wondered why the people you shared the best memories with, those ones you day dreamed of a perfect life with always are nowhere to be found once’s you reach that point? Everyone you suddenly know are strangers, no where are all the people you planned this beautiful life you’re now living with? You dreamed of this day with them now the day has come and like where the fuckkkkk is all my childhood friends??

This mostly happens when everyone you know keep moving forward or you keep moving while leaving everyone you know behind. at some stage, envy will set in and people will grow to resent each other.

this life, if you're lucky to have 3 real friends sef gan you're lucky.. those people that you call friends are just like the people you meet at the bus while everyone alights at different destination. only few people will be going to the same location as yours

Thats why I feel Better to roll alone . It can be very lonely tho

Reminderz:
This mostly happens when everyone you know keep moving forward or you keep moving while leaving everyone you know behind. at some stage, envy will set in and people will grow to resent each other.

this life, if you're lucky to have 3 real friends sef gan you're lucky.. those people that you call friends are just like the people you meet at the bus while everyone alights at different destination. only few people will be going to the same location as yours

You are right, all my friends are moving forward in life and am not so i decided to cut them off and be alone, i miss them sha but it is better this way at least make i figure out what the hell is wrong with me alone

Life happens and sincerely it quite Humbling.

During undergraduate days, there are guy we consider unserious but then in the Labour market they were lucky and are doing fine.

The seemingly serious ones are not doing too badly but then not as good as the ones we considered unserious.

Some did MSc and got good jobs afterwards while some never got good jobs still trying to start up one business or the other.

The fact is Life is Humbling, so be grateful for all you have and nerve Think your Paddy was Lazy.
Eccl.9:1

Autobot05:
Thats why I feel Better to roll alone . It can be very lonely tho

yes very lonely but heartbreaks,pretense,unnecessary disappointment and expectations will be reduced...You are not attached to anyone trying to manipulate you for thier own gains.. Truth be told,Only a handful of friends can be really loyal..
The key is to take as a learning phase to understand you as a person. The more you understand You,the easier it becomes to dodge psychological and emotional bullet..
For example,I am a details and intuitive person.I can sense energy,decode body-language.

lymelyte:
yes very lonely but heartbreaks,pretense,unnecessary disappointment and expectations will be reduced...You are not attached to anyone trying to manipulate you for thier own gains.. Truth be told,Only a handful of friends can be really loyal..
The key is to take as a learning phase to understand you as a person. The more you understand You,the easier it becomes to dodge psychological and emotional bullet..
For example,I am a details and intuitive person.I can sense energy,decode body-language.

On point sir
I can detect people too ... from their words and behaviors. I have no problems with cutting off people once I detect that negativity