Lawyer Shares Before And After Photos Of Herself 6 Years After Walking Out Of Her Marriage

Olasumbo, a Nigerian lawyer, has gone online to talk about the marriage she left.

She took to Twitter to share before and after photos showing her amazing transformation six years after walking out on her marriage with her two children.

The 30-year-old mother of two shared her story via Twitter when she celebrated Mother's Day on Sunday, March 19, 2023.

“This is what I looked like when I walked out of my marriage in 2017 with two toddlers. I just clocked 30, I was mentally,
emotionally and financially drained. I was tired and i knew i had to walk away. Did i know what i was going to do next? No but i walked,” she wrote.

"Okay let me tell you why it looks all shitty, I left my marriage clueless about the next thing to do but knew I had to run for my life yet I has no family support. I was not lucky to come from a stable family background, my ex saw this and capitalised on it.

"The marriage was 4 years old as at when it officially ended but it was dead from the beginning. I know the judginas will ask if I didn't see the red flag...well story for another day but well the deed has been done and now I have two kids who had no fault.

"My entire desire was to protect my kids. I mean they know nothing about the folly and stupidity of the parents that brought them to this world. I saved up and got my own apartment. I remember crying so much the first night I moved into my new home. I was scared.

"I had never gone on this kind of journey before and i don't know how to walk this path. I was totally confused and clueless. I was more afraid for my kids, scared they would suffer which i do not want, what if they fall sick and I can't take care of them? So many what ifs.

"All these was in 2017....this is 2023 and yes it has not been a smooth journey...my life has taken a pause because I was not opportune to have a family support and I had to learn, unlearn and relearn on my own. My career has suffered so much. Yes.

"My wants, desires has all been pushed to the base because I can't afford all at once so my kids come first..it has not been an easy ride doing this alone, no single financial support from the man who bore them even though he has 100% access to these kids.

“I look back today and ask myself if it is all worth it and Yes I am happy I made that decision. I am proud of the pains, the tears, the laughter. I am proud for holding myself strong despite the stigma and backlash that comes with being a single mom. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ME.”

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I m here for you

She for the streets now.

Small girl with big god... Only streets can relate

The difference is crystal clear...

Good one
Next

All thanks to clitocurrency.

Madam you were fine and looked younger on the before picture. The other difference is you used bad camera to snap the first picture.

When these young wives see their husbands grinding to provide for their household, they think it's easy and their females selfishness start acting up. This man is not giving me time, he is not spending time on me. Blah blah blah.

When they now leave they can't even woman up and bear their loads.

See the frog above saying she is worn out providing for her own children plus career.

Learn to respect and honour your men

Nice one sapa

So what's the source of this transformation ma?
Who is bankrolling you?
Someone should pls have compassion on me and my situation and send me something to feed pls. I haven't eaten for days now. I am ashamed saying this because I know I will be bashed and heavily lampooned but this is the situation at the moment. Nobody to even share my predicament with. I'm sorry, help me pls

Good for her,marriage with a Nigeria man is like being in bondage,thank God she was wise enough to leave that hell called marriage,never take bullshit from any Nigeria man in the name of marriage.

Nothing changed in her life. All I see is photo editing and filters.

If you don't want to lose out of this life, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman and marry. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

Life first
If you die today, that man go marry another woman tomorrow

Marry these kind of girls at your own peril..


Your children will still look like the original her if her gene is dominat in them.


Say no the fake nyash, boobs and artificial skin products of all kind.

The children most def had their fathers skin tone

Women no dey know things are planned in the head before acting out.... They only learn the hard way...

She don go she don see

ExAngel007:
"My entire desire was to protect my kids. I mean they know nothing about the folly and stupidity of the parents that brought them to this world. I saved up and got my own apartment. I remember crying so much the first night I moved into my new home. I was scared. "I had never gone on this kind of journey before and i don't know how to walk this path. I was totally confused and clueless. I was more afraid for my kids, scared they would suffer which i do not want, what if they fall sick and I can't take care of them? So many what ifs.

"All these was in 2017....this is 2023 and yes it has not been a smooth journey...my life has taken a pause because I was not opportune to have a family support and I had to learn, unlearn and relearn on my own. My career has suffered so much. Yes. "My wants, desires has all been pushed to the base because I can't afford all at once so my kids come first..it has not been an easy ride doing this alone, no single financial support from the man who bore them even though he has 100% access to these kids. “I look back today and ask myself if it is all worth it and Yes I am happy I made that decision. I am proud of the pains, the tears, the laughter. I am proud for holding myself strong despite the stigma and backlash that comes with being a single mom.

Marriage indeed doesn't need to be a do-or-die affair abeg!

labake1:
■ Life first. If you die today, that man go marry another woman tomorrow

Drop your body with your parents to take care of how they see fit too!

I think I'm happy for her. Whatever it takes to make one feel better as far as it doesn't hurt the next person.

Also, many men too should be better off. They should start taking responsibility.

Editing, lighting, possibly bleaching, excessive makeup, strategic pose, good dresses, etc. I mean, congrats on being a lawyer, but I see no changes look-wise. Oya if it is sure for you, go wash your face, let's see your natural looks. Lol.

Real changes

Even my 5 years ago pictures are different. People will put on weight, dress better and generally have a better standard of living as the years go by, all things being equal.

Anyway, I condemn a bad marriage and no one should be in an unhappy marriage if it can't be resolved.

Believe this gender at your own peril. Her exhusband has 100% access to the children yet he contributes 0% to their wellbeing. So all the time he has gone to visit them, he never bought one loaf of bread? He has not for once bought them Christmas cloth? He has not for once bought food that they follow chop? He has not for once carried them in his hands and asked them how are you? This idiot thinks she can deceive everyone on social media but I tell her this, those children will be the first to resent her. Even before we social media family members start cursing her, her two daughters will curse her for lying against their father.

dawnomike:
The difference is crystal clear...

What difference? Even in her husband's house, she can still be like this by now. As we age, we become better which is why we have throwback pictures. Check her pictures in 2010 when she was in her papa house, her 2017 pictures will be better than them. They should deceiving themselves.

nicerod:
Nice one sapa

😎

Nonexisting1:
Believe this gender at your own peril. Her exhusband has 100% access to the children yet he contributes 0% to their wellbeing. So all the time he has gone to visit them, he never bought one loaf of bread? He has not for once bought them Christmas cloth? He has not for once bought food that they follow chop? He has not for once carried them in his hands and asked them how are you? This idiot thinks she can deceive everyone on social media but I tell her this, those children will be the first to resent her. Even before we social media family members start cursing her, her two daughters will curse her for lying against their father.

It appears you know them more than we do. Are you the man's neighbors?

change is the only constant thing in life

I guess the purpose is to encourage others who are afraid to do so.

Men are always the problem until it is time for DNA

She looked better 5 years ago.

Caro white can't change the narrative of -"black is beautiful"

Looked like a dark skin Yara Shahidi in the first picture. Too bad many of us don’t appreciate our nature-given complexion.