tunwumi:
You sounded bitter from the heart like a product of broken home that is now on another broken home herself

Staywithbina:
The only difference I see in the last picture is someone who wants to live to please the society ...enjoy Sha ,I no fit fall for this kind women and if u re leaving , u won't leave with any of my kids ,u will have to start your life afresh , even court will not make me not take my kids ..if some of u men know the real motive when this girls are getting married to u,u guys will be careful,some just wanna feel among,some just wanna have kids that will take care of them at old age,some are carrying another man's child and need a man to be responsible for it,some just Wana ,many women in ur homes just wanna answer mrs and don't really care about the ethics of marriage

elipheleh:
Madam you were fine and looked younger on the before picture. The other difference is you used bad camera to snap the first picture.

When these young wives see their husbands grinding to provide for their household, they think it's easy and their females selfishness start acting up. This man is not giving me time, he is not spending time on me. Blah blah blah.

When they now leave they can't even woman up and bear their loads.

See the frog above saying she is worn out providing for her own children plus career.

Learn to respect and honour your men

Nonexisting1:
Believe this gender at your own peril. Her exhusband has 100% access to the children yet he contributes 0% to their wellbeing. So all the time he has gone to visit them, he never bought one loaf of bread? He has not for once bought them Christmas cloth? He has not for once bought food that they follow chop? He has not for once carried them in his hands and asked them how are you? This idiot thinks she can deceive everyone on social media but I tell her this, those children will be the first to resent her. Even before we social media family members start cursing her, her two daughters will curse her for lying against their father.

Honeybadgerxx:
All thanks to clitocurrency.

occfx:


Yes the agenda is much... But I blame the men sometimes for not looking deep. There is always a mother like girl around you. Thats the type every one should marry but No, they want queen of England so that, every man will bow when their wife come out.

ExAngel007:
Lawyer Shares Before And After Photos Of Herself 6 Years After Walking Out Of Her Marriage

Olasumbo, a Nigerian lawyer, has gone online to talk about the marriage she left.

She took to Twitter to share before and after photos showing her amazing transformation six years after walking out on her marriage with her two children.

The 30-year-old mother of two shared her story via Twitter when she celebrated Mother's Day on Sunday, March 19, 2023.

“This is what I looked like when I walked out of my marriage in 2017 with two toddlers. I just clocked 30, I was mentally,
emotionally and financially drained. I was tired and i knew i had to walk away. Did i know what i was going to do next? No but i walked,” she wrote.

"Okay let me tell you why it looks all shitty, I left my marriage clueless about the next thing to do but knew I had to run for my life yet I has no family support. I was not lucky to come from a stable family background, my ex saw this and capitalised on it.

"The marriage was 4 years old as at when it officially ended but it was dead from the beginning. I know the judginas will ask if I didn't see the red flag...well story for another day but well the deed has been done and now I have two kids who had no fault.

"My entire desire was to protect my kids. I mean they know nothing about the folly and stupidity of the parents that brought them to this world. I saved up and got my own apartment. I remember crying so much the first night I moved into my new home. I was scared.

"I had never gone on this kind of journey before and i don't know how to walk this path. I was totally confused and clueless. I was more afraid for my kids, scared they would suffer which i do not want, what if they fall sick and I can't take care of them? So many what ifs.

"All these was in 2017....this is 2023 and yes it has not been a smooth journey...my life has taken a pause because I was not opportune to have a family support and I had to learn, unlearn and relearn on my own. My career has suffered so much. Yes.

"My wants, desires has all been pushed to the base because I can't afford all at once so my kids come first..it has not been an easy ride doing this alone, no single financial support from the man who bore them even though he has 100% access to these kids.

“I look back today and ask myself if it is all worth it and Yes I am happy I made that decision. I am proud of the pains, the tears, the laughter. I am proud for holding myself strong despite the stigma and backlash that comes with being a single mom. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ME.”

https://www.tori.ng/news/230638/nigerian-lawyer-shares-before-and-after-photos-of.html

virginprincess:
Good for her,marriage with a Nigeria man is like being in bondage,thank God she was wise enough to leave that hell called marriage,never take bullshit from any Nigeria man in the name of marriage.

ExAngel007:
Lawyer Shares Before And After Photos Of Herself 6 Years After Walking Out Of Her Marriage

Olasumbo, a Nigerian lawyer, has gone online to talk about the marriage she left.

She took to Twitter to share before and after photos showing her amazing transformation six years after walking out on her marriage with her two children.

The 30-year-old mother of two shared her story via Twitter when she celebrated Mother's Day on Sunday, March 19, 2023.

“This is what I looked like when I walked out of my marriage in 2017 with two toddlers. I just clocked 30, I was mentally,
emotionally and financially drained. I was tired and i knew i had to walk away. Did i know what i was going to do next? No but i walked,” she wrote.

"Okay let me tell you why it looks all shitty, I left my marriage clueless about the next thing to do but knew I had to run for my life yet I has no family support. I was not lucky to come from a stable family background, my ex saw this and capitalised on it.

"The marriage was 4 years old as at when it officially ended but it was dead from the beginning. I know the judginas will ask if I didn't see the red flag...well story for another day but well the deed has been done and now I have two kids who had no fault.

"My entire desire was to protect my kids. I mean they know nothing about the folly and stupidity of the parents that brought them to this world. I saved up and got my own apartment. I remember crying so much the first night I moved into my new home. I was scared.

"I had never gone on this kind of journey before and i don't know how to walk this path. I was totally confused and clueless. I was more afraid for my kids, scared they would suffer which i do not want, what if they fall sick and I can't take care of them? So many what ifs.

"All these was in 2017....this is 2023 and yes it has not been a smooth journey...my life has taken a pause because I was not opportune to have a family support and I had to learn, unlearn and relearn on my own. My career has suffered so much. Yes.

"My wants, desires has all been pushed to the base because I can't afford all at once so my kids come first..it has not been an easy ride doing this alone, no single financial support from the man who bore them even though he has 100% access to these kids.

“I look back today and ask myself if it is all worth it and Yes I am happy I made that decision. I am proud of the pains, the tears, the laughter. I am proud for holding myself strong despite the stigma and backlash that comes with being a single mom. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ME.”

https://www.tori.ng/news/230638/nigerian-lawyer-shares-before-and-after-photos-of.html

ExAngel007:
Lawyer Shares Before And After Photos Of Herself 6 Years After Walking Out Of Her Marriage

Olasumbo, a Nigerian lawyer, has gone online to talk about the marriage she left.

She took to Twitter to share before and after photos showing her amazing transformation six years after walking out on her marriage with her two children.

The 30-year-old mother of two shared her story via Twitter when she celebrated Mother's Day on Sunday, March 19, 2023.

“This is what I looked like when I walked out of my marriage in 2017 with two toddlers. I just clocked 30, I was mentally,
emotionally and financially drained. I was tired and i knew i had to walk away. Did i know what i was going to do next? No but i walked,” she wrote.

"Okay let me tell you why it looks all shitty, I left my marriage clueless about the next thing to do but knew I had to run for my life yet I has no family support. I was not lucky to come from a stable family background, my ex saw this and capitalised on it.

"The marriage was 4 years old as at when it officially ended but it was dead from the beginning. I know the judginas will ask if I didn't see the red flag...well story for another day but well the deed has been done and now I have two kids who had no fault.

"My entire desire was to protect my kids. I mean they know nothing about the folly and stupidity of the parents that brought them to this world. I saved up and got my own apartment. I remember crying so much the first night I moved into my new home. I was scared.

"I had never gone on this kind of journey before and i don't know how to walk this path. I was totally confused and clueless. I was more afraid for my kids, scared they would suffer which i do not want, what if they fall sick and I can't take care of them? So many what ifs.

"All these was in 2017....this is 2023 and yes it has not been a smooth journey...my life has taken a pause because I was not opportune to have a family support and I had to learn, unlearn and relearn on my own. My career has suffered so much. Yes.

"My wants, desires has all been pushed to the base because I can't afford all at once so my kids come first..it has not been an easy ride doing this alone, no single financial support from the man who bore them even though he has 100% access to these kids.

“I look back today and ask myself if it is all worth it and Yes I am happy I made that decision. I am proud of the pains, the tears, the laughter. I am proud for holding myself strong despite the stigma and backlash that comes with being a single mom. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ME.”

https://www.tori.ng/news/230638/nigerian-lawyer-shares-before-and-after-photos-of.html

royalfly:


I feel like insulting you

Exceed15:


I advise to stay out of marriage. You can still become all you want. Beside do u know the cause of the break up? May be man Is the one thanking God for leaving a toxic wife.

abbey621:


It's the number one thing a man needs to provide along with being loyal. Every other thing can be worked on or improved with time. Y'all always looking for a complete package without asking how do I complete my man. Same goes for men who wants a caring loving motherly wife but at the same time she must never get fat or old........DELUSIONS UPON DELUSIONS

elipheleh:
Madam you were fine and looked younger on the before picture. The other difference is you used bad camera to snap the first picture.

When these young wives see their husbands grinding to provide for their household, they think it's easy and their females selfishness start acting up. This man is not giving me time, he is not spending time on me. Blah blah blah.

When they now leave they can't even woman up and bear their loads.

See the frog above saying she is worn out providing for her own children plus career.

Learn to respect and honour your men

tunwumi:
You sounded bitter from the heart like a product of broken home that is now on another broken home herself

virginprincess:
Go on,there is nothing you would say here that your gender hasn't said to me before on this forum.

Nnemuka:
I know she must look like a mad woman before...
Nigerian men pls make una improve naa

virginprincess:
Good for her,marriage with a Nigeria man is like being in bondage,thank God she was wise enough to leave that hell called marriage,never take bullshit from any Nigeria man in the name of marriage.

Zonefree:
She looked better 5 years ago.

labake1:
Life first
If you die today, that man go marry another woman tomorrow