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Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 11:48am On Mar 22, 2023 |
Nackzy:Gambling is not a sin. It is instead a mental illness and most gamblers already aware of their problem by the time they become adults. Prayer does not heal gambling instead a change of lifestyle, and a commitment to it does. If Prayer was the key to gambling, then the millions of gamblers who attend your churches should have been free from it by now. Also, it is wickedness when a gambler goes on to marry and then afflict other human beings, including children, with his burden. That is not love but wickedness. This man is not a victim. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by SaturnNick(m): 11:50am On Mar 22, 2023 |
EmekaBlue: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 11:50am On Mar 22, 2023 |
Charlestotle22:Has pastor himself been able to counsel and pray his way out of all of the troubles in his own life, including his own possible addictions? Why should she drown her youth like many of the 100s of 1000s of women out there who are still fasting and praying , so many years later, for God to do what God never said He would do? |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Nackzy: 11:54am On Mar 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Wouldn't even advise my enemy to venture into gambling |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 11:55am On Mar 22, 2023 |
Sirchiboy:Do you know why over 90% of Nigerians live below the poverty line today? It is because in their foolishness, they continue to listen to and embrace such lies as the one you attempted to feed this OP here. Her husband is a future millionaire and the devil is to blame for his life of spending so she should stay as his enabler in what is sheer wickedness? You folks are unbelievable! |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Nobody: 11:56am On Mar 22, 2023 |
imagrg:gbam |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 12:00pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
mechanics:According to God, He does not answer the prayers of sinners, not even their prayers of forgiveness. God made it pretty clear that He does not answer all prayers. As a matter of fact, He made it known that the prayers of the unrighteous are an abomination to Him. So, where do you get your special narrative regarding God from? 2. So many testimonies yet 10s of millions who attend your churches do so year after year praying for the same exact things. Millions of women have spent most of their youth fasting and praying in your churches for God to resolve their same marriage problems with no end in sight and you are here to compare your handful of mostly tweaked stories you call testimonies with reality? You think God is a joke? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by AutoRedux: 1:18pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Run while you can. People like him don’t change. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by apstpaulg1: 1:22pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Thats the reality in marriage madam. The moment you think you have it bad, there is someone else by the conner, wishing his/her burden was as light as yours. Meaning, thier case is worse. Marriage is for bether for worse. Through thick and thin. Never guaranteed to be a bed of roses.. Even is it were to be, even roses have thorns. I tuely symphatize with you on this. Try seeing a well qualified marriage counselor, whilst still holding on to hope in God, for a turnaround in especially your husbands lifestyle. Be mindfull healthwise too. So you do not develop psychosomatic deseases, like depression. Pray, because if there be a mouth to pray, there is also a God to answer. Your pain today, will become your strength tomorrow. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by mechanics(m): 1:25pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
[quote author=Kobojunkie post=121970002] According to God, He does not answer the prayers of sinners, not even their prayers of forgiveness. God made it pretty clear that He does not answer all prayers. As a matter of fact, He made it known that the prayers of the unrighteous are an abomination to Him. So, where do you get your special narrative regarding God from? We are saying the same thing. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by mercy87(f): 1:54pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
They will blame her now for choosing him but if she didn't marry him, they would laugh at her that she is single. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 1:56pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
mechanics:Stop lying! We are not saying the same thing. If we were then you would understand why it is wrong to ask OP to pray for her marriage and her husband.. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by DrDunamis(m): 2:18pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: What about your husband's family and relatives? Isn't there someone with authority in his life that could caution him or sit him down and speak with him? When he's asleep open his phone and find out what he's hiding. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by achimendy(m): 2:18pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Hmmmm, bet9ja don finish your husband o. You better take off. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by mechanics(m): 2:30pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You just said that God does not answer the prayer of a sinner, is that not what I said, check my messages, I don't agree with what you said, prayer is the key to any problem, if you don't believe, stick to your own belief. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 2:39pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
mechanics:You claimed God answers all prayers but that ain't what God said. He instead said He only answers the prayers of those who are HOLY and judging from the fact that no one in all of your churches can boast of having all of their prayers answered by God, it means that even with their few testimonies here and there, a ratio no different from that obtained by those who don't even believe in God at all, it means that your churches are filled with sinners. God never said prayer is the key. Instead, He definitely stated that it is only by Obedience that one can get through to Him. So wherever it is you continue to get your particular narrative regarding God from, it ain't from scripture at all. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Nobody: 2:51pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
So she's just knowing or he started after marriage? Do wtv it takes to be happy cos that man will not change especially when ur there to clean up his mess. Some men dey Sha. Gamble done enter bone marrow... tufia |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Timiolutomi: 3:07pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: What sort of theory is that? That God has washed his hands out of marriage Lol... You are cunning with your response, and I can see that you are making deliberate attempt to disqualify what is proven Biblically, by attempting to use a supporting Bible verse that does not correlate with the topic to prove a point that does not not exist. Anyways, I do not have words with you... I have given the woman an advice base on how I was led to do so... The Holy Spirit will direct her on what advice to follow. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 3:10pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Timiolutomi:1. I didn't write what is clearly written in Genesis 3 vs 16-22. That message is 1000s of years old. That you think it theory means your problem is with believing in God, none of mine. 2. What you gave her were lies wrapped around the mentions of God. Stop rambling about a Spirit you know nothing of abeg! How can a Spirit that Jesus Christ said only those who are Holy can have guide a woman who never even mentioned she believed in God in all of her OP? |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by 1stGenAmerican(f): 3:29pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Drameeja: But you’re in Nigeria harassing me about a supposed Western collapse and pointing fingers at government criminals here on the other side of the Atlantic? I can get up from my desk right now, drive to a bank and use an atm or see a teller to withdraw all the cash I want and need, can you? You’re in a country that has already collapsed and instead of trying to pick it the hell up for the sake of your future generations, you’re obsessing over another person in another place that is enjoying a quality of life that you’ll never taste? You look crazy and deranged to anyone with even a child’s sense. Generator fumes and your empty belly have apparently taken a toll on your sanity. I have nothing to do with your life being pitiful. Instead of harassing me, a woman that is a stranger to you, take your ass over and harass your male leaders that are squandering away all of your birthrights. I hate so called men who act like sissies and harass women while cowering to other men. Leave me alone and go fill potholes in the road or go build something. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by 1stGenAmerican(f): 3:34pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Eteka1: Shouldn’t she talk to her pastor for help with food and items that her child needs before she thinks about talking to him about counseling her husband? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Timiolutomi: 3:39pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I can see where you are coming from now. First, I think your Christianity denomination is reflecting in what you say. Secondly, your assumptions are that she didn't mention that she believe in God. Let it be clear, that the Holy Spirit is a gift and can only be received like a gift. If truly she doesn't believe in God, which I doubt, then by the virtue of my extension that "The Holy Spirit will guide her" and she truly accept that the Holy spirit will guide her, then she will receive the gift of the Holy spirit. (You can read that again) You kept screaming "Lies" but your supposed truth does not have basis. And thank God, in the Gen. 3:16 that you quote, the Bible specifically lay it out that the "woman's desire will be for her husband" How come God said that,and you still claim that God has washed his hands off marriage? Thats contradictory. God only gave fresh instructions to the marriage institution, and thats all. So let the woman be led by the spirit of God to exercise her desire to her husband... She has even proven to the world already that her desire is for her husband, and that is why she came here to ask for advice from us. She wanted change, and if you are one of the people advising her to leave her husband, then your wish have failed. Because She will know by the virtue of the Holy spirit which advice to follow. And to correct you on the matter that "Only those who are Holy can have the Holy Spirit"... Abeg, if they are already Holy, then why do they still need the Holy Spirit? The problem is, some of you take the Bible literally, meanwhile, you are not suppose to approach the Bible with a logical format, you need to open up your spirit to understand what it says. The Holy spirit make Holy wherever it occupies, it does not need the place to be already Holy okay. You can also read that again. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by maasoap(m): 3:54pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Romanoff: Just know that they will never agree with her decision to leave. This is Nigeria, that's the reality. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:36pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Drameeja: Here on the internet, specifically Nairaland, for anyone in the world to see, is a Nigerian man who is actually laughing and boasting about his home country being called a shithole by a White man while exalting other country’s leaders, men who wouldn’t piss on him if he was on fire. People no longer have any pride or shame and now enjoy celebrating mediocrity yet they go to other countries and complain about not getting any respect. You can’t make this kind of stuff up. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Rhozabeth(m): 4:40pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
As much as I do not support divorce or separation, i think you need to take a break from the marriage to figure out ur life and ket him figure out his! |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by mechanics(m): 5:10pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Won't argue with you on this, stick to your belief. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by timesupreloaded: 5:45pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:Liar liar. Who still uses ATM in 2023? People go months without holding money. Even for the least amount of things you use your card. A fake lawyer and a great liar goes hand in hand. Withdraw which cash? You don't have money and have never withdrawn $10,000 in your whole life. You are a hungry girl looking for man to buy you the latest purse and shoe. Everybody in Nigeria has 3million naira solar in their house, nobody uses generator unless your poor and wretched family down here. You have to leave this forum cos you continue to irritate me and any attempt to increase my temper you will be delt with MADically |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Obedinho130: 6:16pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
naijainstinct:Gambling makes you question your sanity. I believe gambling shouldn't be legal in the first place. |
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Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Emmanuel909090: 6:32pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
I feel for you |
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