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Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 7:14pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Timiolutomi:1. Let me guess, you are one of those who will claim to can see into people's lives? 2. Jesus Christ never said the Spirit of God was a gift, so I am not certain where you get your warped narrative regarding His person from. Also, Jesus Christ explained in His teachings that those who are not Holy cannot have the Helper, so how can the Helper be a gift to guide just about anyone in your narrative of who He is? 3. WOW... you folks don't read at all, and you certainly don't reason the things of God, do you? In Genesis 2 vs 16, God expressed marriage as a holy union between a man and a woman meaning the agreement was dependent on the man and woman being of equal standing before God. Then in Genesis 3 vs 16 -22 — God's judgment against Adam for the sins against God — God cursed the woman in marriage rendering unholy, and no longer of God the agreement as a result of the curse. God washed His hands off of marriage — that which is unholy cannot glorify or honor God. So, how can the Holy Spirit of God guide that which is Unholy to begin with? Make una dey lie small small abeg! 4. You cannot help but wrap your lies around the many mentions of God, can you? So, God wey talk say that you must accept His Word, obey His Truth - John 8 vs 31 - 36 -, and use the understanding you have — reason logically that which you know — in order to receive more understanding from Him- Matthew 25 vs 29 & Matthew 13 vs 13 & Matthew 4 vs 22 - 25 , na what? Liar? |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Gandoki87: 7:17pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:You de take nairaland advise comot for husband house because of debts abi, did he beat u? De play 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 7:20pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Gandoki87:1. Is that also the only reason a man can leave his marriage — only if his wife beats him? |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 7:27pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:Have you yet to figure out that many of these individuals are not mentally OK up there? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Jecint: 7:42pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Are you the horseband? ETTTTUBRUTTE: |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 7:42pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Jecint:
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Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 8:24pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Obedinho130:Honestly bro, I'm yet to understand why it's legal. That thing is highly destructive |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Timiolutomi: 8:32pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: No you guessed wrong, I'm not a prophet oga. I leave you to your understanding, enjoy. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 8:37pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Timiolutomi:1. Oh! What is boldly and clearly expressed in scripture is my understanding, yet you feel it OK to continue instead to spew gibberish that has no scriptural basis? |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Darlingme(f): 9:20pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
Ramanto:I'm willing to support with little as well. Who is handling it? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by babzo(m): 12:24am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The Bible is filled with many verses that say the Holy Spirit is a gift. Acts 2: 38 Luke 11 13 Amongst others |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 12:37am On Mar 23, 2023 |
babzo:1. Luke 11 vs 13 does not state that the Holy Spirit is a gift as He is only given to those who prove themselves through the doing of much work that they are in fact of Jesus Christ - John 8 vs 31 - 36 & John 14 vs 15 - 27 & John 15 vs 25-26 & John 16 vs 4-16. The Holy Spirit is a stand-in for Jesus Christ Himself in the lives of His followers and He is not a gift, in much the same way that Jesus Christ Himself was not a gift. Now, to be born of the spirit— which is not to be confused with the Holy Spirit—, however, one can consider that spirit a gift given to all those who believe and are born again as a result. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Darlingme(f): 3:18am On Mar 23, 2023 |
@Amayabor1 and @gaby, it's not nice throwing insult at each other this way. Those arguing about the holy spirit, Jesus and the bible, Pls convert the effort to helping the @op. Don't deray her post. I can't believe I took my time to read everything on this post. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 4:05am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Darlingme:1. I happen to believe OP needs to read about how God has no hand at all in what she is going through and how God will not magically make it all better because God never promised any man such a thing. I truly believe that one of the greatest evils perpetrated against married women in Nigeria is the idea that God has a hand in their marriage and will somehow make it all well again if they would pray and fast endlessly to Him. All of these rituals are for nothing since God made it clear that He has no hand in all of it. I don't want OP, and others in her situation, like many of our miserable mothers, and married women out there parading churches year after year praying and fasting in vain for God to come down and fix their bad/damaged marriages or husbands. Many of the same men, including pastors, mogs, prophets, etc., who feed our women with these lies almost never practice what they preach, and this is because they are well aware of their lies. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by idomytin(m): 5:18am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Your husband is in gambling and drugs. He takes sex enhancers drugs and other hard drugs... Just find out and thank me later. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Sunnyski: 7:22am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: I'm not scaring you but pointing out the reality to you. You will forever remain married to your husband until death do you part ☺ |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by juman(m): 7:22am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Gandoki87: So she should put up with the useless man that cannot control and manage his finance like adult? A man that perpetually throws money away and called it addiction. The husband may continue the habit in the next many decades. I have seen useless men like that. The woman would cry and cry forever if she stay with deranged man like that. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by babzo(m): 7:58am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Everything God gives us is a gift including life and Jesus himself. You either earn something by what you do or you are given without deserving it. " For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life" John 3: 16. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 1:29pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
babzo:1. It seems to don't like to let God speak for Himself, do you? God never said Jesus Christ was a gift. As a matter of fact, He explicitly stated that it is only those who are willing to submit themselves to Him in order to obey His teachings and commandments that will benefit from His Love in Jesus Christ- John 15 vs 9 -11 - so how can Jesus Christ be a gift? Even Jesus Christ made it clear in His sermons that only those who make themselves worthy of Him can have Him and His Heaven - Matthew 10 vs 34 - 38. So how can He be considered a gift. Even the verse you quoted indicates that it is only those who believe... not just anyone ... can have the eternal life which He offers --- the first salvation--- , and even after that, only who stand faithful -- in continuous submission and obedience to His teachings and commandments-- until the end, will be saved - the second salvation found from sin , Matthew 10 vs 22 & Matthew 24 vs 12 - 13 & Mark 13 vs 13. . |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by babzo(m): 2:58pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: A gift is something given by a giver on his own terms and undeserved. Anything you get that is not a gift is earned, you worked for it. Again. God speaks: "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus " Romans 6:23 " For by Grace you have been saved through faith and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God." Ephesians 2:8 We are free to receive God's gift or to reject it. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 3:03pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
babzo:1. So when Jesus Christ said that those who do not obey Him are not worthy of Him , He didn't mean that they first had to be deserving of Him before they could have Him? 2. God didn't say any of that which you quoted, mind you. Last I checked, those there are supposedly the views of a man called Paul and even he made clear in his epistles that his words aren't meant to serve as a replacement or alternative to the Words of Jesus Christ, the Gospel Himself. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by FriendsAndFans(m): 3:10pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I don't know why but I have been laughing since. Behind all you questions, there is one fact that abounds; you have a great sense of humor... How's the week been |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by babzo(m): 3:28pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: From what you wrote above, I understand you better now; we are obviously coming from two completely different viewpoints. I ll stop here. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Ramanto(m): 3:52pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
Darlingme:Maybe she should create a thread for that. I'll be willing to help 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Nobody: 10:24pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
Ramanto:Alright. I will do that. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 10:29pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
FriendsAndFans:So far, so good! |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Darlingme(f): 7:58am On Mar 24, 2023 |
@all, it's time to show her love. Sometimes, it's not only counseling and advice that some people need. Little help can heal them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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