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My brother another man don de carry her go where she no know....just look 4 anoda fiancee

It’s the pregnancy that’s giving her cold feet… why not stick with the pre introduction then do all necessary things after the birth of the baby…

SmartGadgetz:
First confirm the pregnancy if it's yours or not. After then, I want you to understand that marriage must not be one sided, nobody is doing nobody a favour here.

if she isn't lady, focus on nurturing the pregnancy but bear it in the back of your mind that you mustn't marry her because she had a baby with you. Just saying. If she is not corperating or starts to misbehave, tell her plain that you can't tolerate it and if it persists, marry your other girl that is ready. Don't wait for no one. I hate mind games.

I really like that intro advice, Same thing that first came to my mind on reading this write up.

Aklee4994:
Don’t let me say kobo is always wrong with his comment but Na senseless being be the guy...someone is telling me he’s a female moniker but I doubt...Is he a female moniker pls

he is a lady.

the werey just dey disguise

tiswell:
he is a lady.

the werey just dey disguise

Thanks for this awareness and fact

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji( not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria, it happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.
I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.
But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

You are in your finals and you have a fiancée?


Bro, pregnancy shouldn't be a reason to get married to the wrong person. Your babe is obviously not ready for marriage. It's obvious you wanted her to be in your future but have you asked yourself for once if you have just been painting pictures in your head?


You can be a responsible father even if you do not marry her.

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji( not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria, it happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.
I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.
But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

The truth is that she has not really prepared her mind whether to settle down or not

And may remove the pregnancy once she is very sure that you are not the one she wants

I think you can just be watching her

frozen70:
The truth is that she has not really prepared her mind whether to settle down or not

And may remove the pregnancy once she is very sure that you are not the one she wants

I think you can just be watching her

You're a seer...
I she has done that..
She called recently to inform me about getting miscarriage.
So sad!

Ehinjuola:
You're a seer...
I she has done that..
She called recently to inform me about getting miscarriage.
So sad!

Ehinjuola:
You're a seer...
I she has done that..
She called recently to inform me about getting miscarriage.
So sad!

Dont mind her she knows what she is doing

Its now left for you to keep hoping you guys will go on or not

frozen70:
Dont mind her she knows what she is doing

Its now left for you to keep hoping you guys will go on or not

To make matter worst..

When I got there this morning, I hardly sit for 5 mins when her ex entered we just greeted n he left promised to come back later..
I was just laughing since, I don't know if I should stay or leave

Though I know him visiting is kinda normal but something is weird n off to me, I haven't figure what its tho.

Ehinjuola:
To make matter worst..

When I got there this morning, I hardly sit for 5 mins when her ex entered we just greeted n he left promised to come back later..
I was just laughing since, I don't know if I should stay or leave

Though I know him visiting is kinda normal but something is weird n off to me, I haven't figure what its tho.

The main issue here is that she is into another relationship

For the fact that she refuse to keep that pregnancy is enough prove that it's not your pregnancy that will hold her into marriage

It is marriage anxiety.

She is asking the right questions. There is a gulf of difference between a girlfriend and a wife.

It will be big mistake to marry a lady based on circumstances like this issue of unwanted pregnancy, you have to sort out the issues with her, mind you no genuine man of God will join you and her when she's already pregnant, that's not what the Bible teaches.

Bear with her or GO TO COURT

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

Bro do you have enough cash. Like are you rich?

..just here to read comments,, i no dey put mouth for relationships matter because wen everywhere go stew u no go update us

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

Please evaluate carefully, pregnancy nor be matraige.

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho)

did anyone ask you for your name in the first place? was this even necessary??

Are you sure the pregnancy is yours?

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

Nothing much. She knows you cannot stand on your own without your parents assistance. She doesn't want a husband who is dependent on his parents and as such will be dancing to their tunes.

She is smart. And she deserves to be with her kind of man.

I only advised you oh. I did not insult you.

Never marry someone because they got pregnant. Even if you will marry, kisten to me young man, let her have that baby and still keep relating. You will know later if its ok to marry or not. Thank me later

Sorry oooo

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

Talk more with her to know what she really wants. Do the intro and forget marriage for now

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

thread carefully bro, women have hormonal imbalance during pregnancy and act weird sometimes.

Nemesis0147:
don’t mind that man…him and Kobojunkie…very anyhow people with their comments!!

That Kobojunkie is an ass pipe

Ehinjuola:
To make matter worst..

When I got there this morning, I hardly sit for 5 mins when her ex entered we just greeted n he left promised to come back later..
I was just laughing since, I don't know if I should stay or leave

Though I know him visiting is kinda normal but something is weird n off to me, I haven't figure what its tho.

What kind of relationship do you guys get yourselves into, for goodness sakes? So, it's normal to you for her ex to be visiting her anyhow?

Men of this generation are damn weak

Are you sure the pregnancy is yours?

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

You want to marry or not for real?
You want her as baby mama?

That's the reason of her prayers.. With your write-up, I can feel her instinct is making her sweat. That is regret. Don't make her sha. Your decision

@Ehinjuola, she might also be feeling for you and not want to make things look like she's hooking you down with the pregnancy.

Only you can calm her down by letting her know that you want her with or without the baby and this baby of yours together is an early blessing you have no regrets about.

Wishing you well - Teemy

What you chase, runs.

What you've captured, it's madness to keep chasing.

Pipe low my boy. You are too young to understand women. Just tell her you feel that there is no need to rush the marriage decision and that you longer want to move on with the marriage.

The cookies will crumble nicely.