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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 11:30am On Mar 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
I don't agree with this bro, a broke man should rather look for money and leave women. These women needs maintenance and how do you do that when you are broke? Let's talk reality my bro
Dindondin what do you think about this?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 11:32am On Mar 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
You are derailing please. We don't derail here, it's strictly on the pills. We don't quote trolls and F Monika's here as well bro. It's like you are new on our thread bro?
im not new to this thread. i have been lusting over u since the time of ur zzor moniker

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 25, 2023
Abba114:
im not new to this thread. i have been lusting over u since the time of ur zzor moniker
What Is zzo bro? Are you trying to be funny? Please don't derail. Let's overdose on the pills

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 11:41am On Mar 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
What Is zzo bro? Are you trying to be funny? Please don't derail. Let's overdose on the pills
i dont need to overdose any pill i just wanna feel me drowning in ur wet puna

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:03pm On Mar 25, 2023
Remember guys, we don’t quote trolls here

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by okrikaboi: 12:16pm On Mar 25, 2023
Red pill wey no get money na junkie

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 25, 2023
okrikaboi:
Red pill wey no get money na junkie
Please explain
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dindondin(m): 12:46pm On Mar 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Dindondin what do you think about this?
The person is right. However, my opinion is based on whether you are broke or rich

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PeggySandas(f): 1:53pm On Mar 25, 2023
okrikaboi:
My ex little sister has promised me a good time next week. She chatted me up and started with pleading with me to take her sister back. Then all of a sudden asked for my lil bros number. Note my brother is tall handsome and fair skinned before I knew it she gave me a call at the background I noticed she was pretending to talk to her boyfriend because my ex was there. She then left were my ex was and then started teasing me saying she was in my area but I wasn't around that she only met my brother but he's shy, I made it clear that I'm in independent and no longer in my mom's house. She told me she'd like to visit my new place next week and "chill". Now I want to control myself but damn this girl fine to the finish. My ex is alluring,,, an Igbo girl she looks like Arya starr but with yansh and bwest the little sister that wants to collect preeq is plumpy with very shallow mind worse than my ex. I have been celibate for a while now just focusing on my dreams and now free kpekus has landed. One thing I learned from my conversations with women is that they never want to hear the truth even Drake and the already made guys still lie to this women. I also noticed that during the time I was dating my ex she has been lying to everyone else that I have money grin me wey hungry wan kill that year. I was surprised when her sister was telling me today that she knows how much I loved and took care of her sister grin Girl wey dey collect outside dey use help two of us. I've heard it's dangerous to fuq two sisters o but this girl is fine like two people. I said I should ask for advice here let it not be that I'm thinking with my d!CK alone.

How old are you?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by okrikaboi: 1:57pm On Mar 25, 2023
PeggySandas:


How old are you?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 25, 2023

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:00pm On Mar 25, 2023
Eazzii:
Hello there. You got a nigga confused.
Are you gay or a tranny?
Don’t derail our thread sir. You can contribute strictly on our redpill nuggets

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:34pm On Mar 25, 2023
.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iTroll: 5:25pm On Mar 25, 2023
Another troll
I sha hope you get a higher purpose in life than trolling a board filled with strangers and get an actual life

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by chenny360(m): 6:04pm On Mar 25, 2023
Do you know how many guys this girl have faked orgasm for in the past... or which kind thing be this...

You can never Satisfy a LovePeddler.. today tomorrow or anytime.. that's for those of my fellow men trying to do the unthinkable by impressing women on bed.. u killing yourself..


One day now this girl will said she have washed her body clean with the holy spirit for her next husband...
Then one morons simp. will say nobody is perfect and wifed her... tueh.....

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AndrewTate(m): 7:43pm On Mar 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Troll yen yen yen all the time. Wicked soul with a dark heart. AndrewTate please respond to my last question
You must be really enjoying your time to shine on this thread grin grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 7:56pm On Mar 25, 2023
MJBOLT:
never gets old grin



Wahala wahala wahala😯😊.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:00pm On Mar 25, 2023
AndrewTate:
You must be really enjoying your time to shine on this thread grin grin grin
Yes I enjoyed my time grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:13pm On Mar 25, 2023
Meedon:


😂 😂 😂 😂

I was discussing with a female about responsibility in the home, and she mentioned that her uncle shares duties with his wife at home. She said, if the wife is cooking, her uncle will be washing clothes (all the clothes in the house, including her panties and underwears). What surprise me is that, the uncle is the one asking his wife to drop her panties, that he is a good washer of female panties.


Radaradacheesy.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 9:03pm On Mar 25, 2023
😆.. Don’t save her, put yourself first.. #trp

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 9:06pm On Mar 25, 2023
PhillipPHD:
If she’s unable to get wett naturally for you, then she’s just tolerating you.

Bottomline: if you need lubricants to fucc, you’re a simpp.


Wahala wahala wahala🙂. This is extreme though.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 9:39pm On Mar 25, 2023
Ahuitzotl:
This song was the anthem of my best mate, he's in the US now, back in the day, yeah remember him blasting this over the speaker while he had us over to his house for some gaming on his PS2....He and some of my other mates where so redpilled that young and were getting pussies from every angle, Nigeria then was quite simplistic not like the hell it is now. It was the period I saw someone toast a girl in the afternoon and f**Ked her in a football field somewhere in Dolphin Estate in the evening...sh**t was so out of this world and well before our time that I was shocked..2003-2004-2005...What a time to be alive and redpilled for some of my mates, it was like being a wolf amongst chicken. As for me, I was a stupid f**king simp stuck in a Oneitis that led to nowhere except dodging all the pussies that where thrown at me because of my close relationships with my redpilled mates..they had all the fun...damn!




My friend phvcked a girl in an uncompleted building😯🙂. It is not good to be a simp🙂. Ubunja, you do well.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by incandescentena: 9:50pm On Mar 25, 2023
Prinnce1:
Am not getting married period.... Whatever this op is posting here is pure undiluted truth. I respect all the redpillers for enlightening us on daily basis in case we want to flip and fall back into simping.

There is a time Don jazzy was doing give away on Instagram and one lady commented " do and marry so that you will reduce this your generosity " had to read it more than a zillion time to understand what she meant, ladies only come into our lives to control what we worked and toiled day and night for. God will help us.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 10:15pm On Mar 25, 2023
I was recently asked, "Do you advocate cold approach or just wait to be choosen?"


Just like cold call in sales, i believe Cold approach is when you approach a woman who's totally unaware of you initially like on the street, bustop or something. While waiting to be choosen, is basically waiting to get choosing signal, as in, interest signs before making an attempt.

So do I advocate cold approach

When we think of cold approach, we think of a guy who basically set out of the house with the intention of wooing women, and then he's seen approaching a woman who seems generally NOT open to interactions. For example approaching a woman hurrying down the street heading to work or something important. When you approach her, of course you are gonna get a negative reaction. As you can see the problem isn't that she's not interested you, it's that she's not just interested in any social interactions at that moment.

If you are looking to start a serious relationship, you need to share things in common with the girl and you need to see her couple of times. With the typical cold approach, there's high probability that you aren't going to share things in common with the random girl you're cold approaching.

And in recent times, due to insecurities, most women would feel unsafe to be approach by a random stranger.

And aside that...when you cold approach a stranger, if you aren't asking for direction or time, then it's automatically assume you wanna beg for money. And by default you tend to get ignored or get dismissed quickly. It's difficult to overcome that stereotype unless you look very attractive. And even if you look attractive, she natural tend to find it weird and uncomfortable because you are a total stranger to her.

Many times, a woman defensive instinct is high when she's walking alone quickly down the street and as a result, she's more likely to reject you as default responses; it does matter how good your so called "game" is.


As a matter of fact, If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes around the streets trying to cold approach every girl he encounter.

My biggest beef against cold approaching is that it's a time wasting behavior...I value my time more than anything else. Time that you are suppose to spend learning a skill or building your business... instead you waste it, trawling the streets in search of pussy.


Ok, chill. Now, I've thrown lots of shades at cold approach,
you might think "since cold approach doesn't really make sense, so are you saying the way forward is just wait to be choosen"

Relax bro.

So do I advocate "just wait to be choosen."?

That is, waiting to get choosing signal (interest signs) before making an attempt to initiate a conversation with her.

One of the most common choosen signals is when she makes strong eye contact with you. Basically, she catches your eye and hold strong eye contact for few seconds. A woman who’s chooses you will often meet your eyes, look away, then look back again.


I mean, approaching a lady who gives you choosing signals is specifically always a great idea, and always useful.

My first issue with Choosing signals is that it can be tricky and can sometimes be misleading. Sometimes you can get choosing signals from a lady that actually has no interest in you. This happens a lot.

Another problem with waiting to be choosing is that you'll naturally tend to miss out on a lot of interest signs if you are inexperienced and you lack social awareness. This is because women are good at pretending and hiding their interest.
Women have a way of stylishly checking you out without you noticing, so sometimes she has already giving you choosing signals, but you didn't realise.

Just like we said earlier that If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes about the streets trying to cold approach every girl he sees on the road. This is even worse for choosing signals: you don't want to be that guy who goes about the streets desperately looking at girls eyes and trying to maintain eye contact with them because you looking for choosing signals. That's a low status behavior.



Another issue with choosing signals is that it mostly come from less attractive girls. A Lady who is very beautiful and sexy have big egos, and you will rarely catch her checking out a guy.

Most highly attractive ladies have more social value, and so they feel very "entitled" and they walk around wearing a saucy and "I don't care" facial expression; they expect you to be given them choosing signals and not the other way around.


I have said this before on this thread: the vast majority of the time, only 10% of men tend to get good amount of "obvious" choosing signals, that's the men who are famous, rich or very handsome and physically appealing.

But the rest of men will only get those "obvious" choosing signals once in a blue moon.

So if you want to get more "obvious" choosen signals from women, First, max out your looks, money and status... That's the best advice.

But in general, if you want to get more sexual opportunities, just waiting to be choosing signal isn't an efficient method.


*Takes a deep breath*


Now you are thinking, "you said cold approach is a waste of time but you are still beefing on ' just waiting to be choosen'..... Dude, seriously, what's your deal "

Ok, relax...tighten your seatbelt....we are just starting...

Remember, one big issue with cold approach is, you tend to indiscriminately approach a woman who's totally unaware of you. Worse, if she's a feminist or totally psycho, she might tag that as sexual harassment: and this might affect your reputation as a guy.

But approaching a girl is cooler and more natural if you are in an environment of similar interests with the girl, where being social is natural expected, so she won't find it weird to be approached by someone she doesn't know. For example, environment like club, school, church, higher institution, Seminars, training centers, party or any social gathering where networking and social interaction is expected and encouraged.

And remember we said cold approaching is a time wasting behavior, but you can make it more time effective if you can naturally fit it in your daily life. Instead of roaming the streets in a never-ending search for pussy like a jobless loser, you can simply approach girls while you go about your normal daily routine. For example, while coming back from lectures, office or work, you initiate conversation with that attractive girl who seems to also going your way. Or while shopping at the mall, you talk to that cute girl who's shopping near you.

If you noticed, I didn't say, wait to get choosing signals before you talk to the girl. Putting it bluntly: just waiting to be choosing is a submissive mindset.

Every time you meet a new woman, she's either one of these category:

#1. She interested in you. #2. She isn't interested in you

Most times, the guy who settle for the idea of "just wait to be chosen" is the guy who is greatly scared getting rejected by the woman in #2 category. He doesn't want to inconvenient or upset her. He doesn't want this woman to think poorly of him.

Dude, in a nutshell, you are huge pussy.

One reason why my behavior is highly confident and self-assured (and I'm enjoying romantic success) is because I don't mind inconveniencing and upsetting the woman in #2 category: I actually want them to reject me. Who cares if they think poorly of me. I need to get them out of the way as soon as possible.

The funny thing is, when you learn to face your (social) fears with women, you naturally learn more about women body language and non-verbal signals. Waiting for choosing signals won't help you understand women. Reading redpill advise won't teach you anything about women.

The rugged looking illiterate boy who has just spend 6 month at mechanic workshop as more experience and knowledge about car and automobile than 10 mechanical engineering graduate put together. This is because this because the mechanic illiterate boy, is getting going under cars, getting his body dirty and trying to fix cars.

I know buddy who's a totally cocky, he has smash more pussy than 10 repill community guys put together. And this buddy doesn't even know what redpill, game and shit test is. This is because this cocky buddy of mine isn't waiting for choosing signals from women before he take action. He's isn't waiting for permission.



Experience has taught me that women decide quickly whether they are interested in a guy or not... This why my approach (shameless approach) is to quickly take action and find out if she has any interest in me... once I see that there's some interest, I'll pull the triggers and build up her interest & sexual comfortableness.....

I'm not waiting for choosing signals(interest signs), instead I take action and provoke interest signs from her.

The lady I am currently seeing didn't give me any choosen signals; she had a tough "I don't care" facial expression, but as I confidently go over and start talking to her, she opened up and started giving me choosen signals.

When I ask her why she put up a tough/harsh looks initially, she is like "Wow, seriously?? I didn't know I was putting on that look"

If I was waiting for choosing signals, she'd be gone.

Life is all about taking calculated risks: you can not just wait for some sign from the universe to make your move. Let me assure you this: some of your peak experiences will come from girls who didn't give choosen signals at first.






Waiting = feminine = submissive.

Taking action = Masculine = Dominant

Feminine wait around and hope something happens....

Masculine take action and make something happen. The choice is yours.


There's a proverb that says, if you want women to lick your balls, you have to grow some balls.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 11:14pm On Mar 25, 2023
What usually gets me tired is that girls are kind of dumb when chatting to them via whatsapp, if you want to escalate they will start forming "I don't know what you are saying."

Is there any ways you can write or shed more light on escalation.

Your piece is great.


Pukkalolo:
I was recently asked, "Do you advocate cold approach or just wait to be choosen?"


Just like cold call in sales, i believe Cold approach is when you approach a woman who's totally unaware of you initially like on the street, bustop or something. While waiting to be choosen, is basically waiting to get choosing signal, as in, interest signs before making an attempt.

So do I advocate cold approach

When we think of cold approach, we think of a guy who basically set out of the house with the intention of wooing women, and then he's seen approaching a woman who seems generally NOT open to interactions. For example approaching a woman hurrying down the street heading to work or something important. When you approach her, of course you are gonna get a negative reaction. As you can see the problem isn't that she's not interested you, it's that she's not just interested in any social interactions at that moment.

If you are looking to start a serious relationship, you need to share things in common with the girl and you need to see her couple of times. With the typical cold approach, there's high probability that you aren't going to share things in common with the random girl you're cold approaching.

And in recent times, due to insecurities, most women would feel unsafe to be approach by a random stranger.

And aside that...when you cold approach a stranger, if you aren't asking for direction or time, then it's automatically assume you wanna beg for money. And by default you tend to get ignored or get dismissed quickly. It's difficult to overcome that stereotype unless you look very attractive. And even if you look attractive, she natural tend to find it weird and uncomfortable because you are a total stranger to her.

Many times, a woman defensive instinct is high when she's walking alone quickly down the street and as a result, she's more likely to reject you as default responses; it does matter how good your so called "game" is.


As a matter of fact, If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes around the streets trying to cold approach every girl he encounter.

My biggest beef against cold approaching is that it's a time wasting behavior...I value my time more than anything else. Time that you are suppose to spend learning a skill or building your business... instead you waste it, trawling the streets in search of pussy.


Ok, chill. Now, I've thrown lots of shades at cold approach,
you might think "since cold approach doesn't really make sense, so are you saying the way forward is just wait to be choosen"

Relax bro.

So do I advocate "just wait to be choosen."?

That is, waiting to get choosing signal (interest signs) before making an attempt to initiate a conversation with her.

One of the most common choosen signals is when she makes strong eye contact with you. Basically, she catches your eye and hold strong eye contact for few seconds. A woman who’s chooses you will often meet your eyes, look away, then look back again.


I mean, approaching a lady who gives you choosing signals is specifically always a great idea, and always useful.

My first issue with Choosing signals is that it can be tricky and can sometimes be misleading. Sometimes you can get choosing signals from a lady that actually has no interest in you. This happens a lot.

Another problem with waiting to be choosing is that you'll naturally tend to miss out on a lot of interest signs if you are inexperienced and you lack social awareness. This is because women are good at pretending and hiding their interest.
Women have a way of stylishly checking you out without you noticing, so sometimes she has already giving you choosing signals, but you didn't realise.

Just like we said earlier that If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes about the streets trying to cold approach every girl he sees on the road. This is even worse for choosing signals: you don't want to be that guy who goes about the streets desperately looking at girls eyes and trying to maintain eye contact with them because you looking for choosing signals. That's a low status behavior.



Another issue with choosing signals is that it mostly come from less attractive girls. A Lady who is very beautiful and sexy have big egos, and you will rarely catch her checking out a guy.

Most highly attractive ladies have more social value, and so they feel very "entitled" and they walk around wearing a saucy and "I don't care" facial expression; they expect you to be given them choosing signals and not the other way around.


I have said this before on this thread: the vast majority of the time, only 10% of men tend to get good amount of "obvious" choosing signals, that's the men who are famous, rich or very handsome and physically appealing.

But the rest of men will only get those "obvious" choosing signals once in a blue moon.

So if you want to get more "obvious" choosen signals from women, First, max out your looks, money and status... That's the best advice.

But in general, if you want to get more sexual opportunities, just waiting to be choosing signal isn't an efficient method.


*Takes a deep breath*


Now you are thinking, "you said cold approach is a waste of time but you are still beefing on ' just waiting to be choosen'..... Dude, seriously, what's your deal "

Ok, relax...tighten your seatbelt....we are just starting...

Remember, one big issue with cold approach is, you tend to indiscriminately approach a woman who's totally unaware of you. Worse, if she's a feminist or totally psycho, she might tag that as sexual harassment: and this might affect your reputation as a guy.

But approaching a girl is cooler and more natural if you are in an environment of similar interests with the girl, where being social is natural expected, so she won't find it weird to be approached by someone she doesn't know. For example, environment like club, school, church, higher institution, Seminars, training centers, party or any social gathering where networking and social interaction is expected and encouraged.

And remember we said cold approaching is a time wasting behavior, but you can make it more time effective if you can naturally fit it in your daily life. Instead of roaming the streets in a never-ending search for pussy like a jobless loser, you can simply approach girls while you go about your normal daily routine. For example, while coming back from lectures, office or work, you initiate conversation with that attractive girl who seems to also going your way. Or while shopping at the mall, you talk to that cute girl who's shopping near you.

If you noticed, I didn't say, wait to get choosing signals before you talk to the girl. Putting it bluntly: just waiting to be choosing is a submissive mindset.

Every time you meet a new woman, she's either one of these category:

#1. She interested in you. #2. She isn't interested in you

Most times, the guy who settle for the idea of "just wait to be chosen" is the guy who is greatly scared getting rejected by the woman in #2 category. He doesn't want to inconvenient or upset her. He doesn't want this woman to think poorly of him.

Dude, in a nutshell, you are huge pussy.

One reason why my behavior is highly confident and self-assured (and I'm enjoying romantic success) is because I don't mind inconveniencing and upsetting the woman in #2 category: I actually want them to reject me. Who cares if they think poorly of me. I need to get them out of the way as soon as possible.

The funny thing is, when you learn to face your (social) fears with women, you naturally learn more about women body language and non-verbal signals. Waiting for choosing signals won't help you understand women. Reading redpill advise won't teach you anything about women.

The rugged looking illiterate boy who has just spend 6 month at mechanic workshop as more experience and knowledge about car and automobile than 10 mechanical engineering graduate put together. This is because this because the mechanic illiterate boy, is getting going under cars, getting his body dirty and trying to fix cars.

I know buddy who's a totally cocky, he has smash more pussy than 10 repill community guys put together. And this buddy doesn't even know what redpill, game and shit test is. This is because this cocky buddy of mine isn't waiting for choosing signals from women before he take action. He's isn't waiting for permission.



Experience has taught me that women decide quickly whether they are interested in a guy or not... This why my approach (shameless approach) is to quickly take action and find out if she has any interest in me... once I see that there's some interest, I'll pull the triggers and build up her interest & sexual comfortableness.....

I'm not waiting for choosing signals(interest signs), instead I take action and provoke interest signs from her.

The lady I am currently seeing didn't give me any choosen signals; she had a tough "I don't care" facial expression, but as I confidently go over and start talking to her, she opened up and started giving me choosen signals.

When I ask her why she put up a tough/harsh looks initially, she is like "Wow, seriously?? I didn't know I was putting on that look"

If I was waiting for choosing signals, she'd be gone.

Life is all about taking calculated risks: you can not just wait for some sign from the universe to make your move. Let me assure you this: some of your peak experiences will come from girls who didn't give choosen signals at first.






Waiting = feminine = submissive.

Taking action = Masculine = Dominant

Feminine wait around and hope something happens....

Masculine take action and make something happen. The choice is yours.


There's a proverb that says, if you want women to lick your balls, you have to grow some balls.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 12:00am On Mar 26, 2023
The mouth is meant for eating healthy & nutritious meals. kiss

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 12:06am On Mar 26, 2023
luminouz:
CaveAdullam won last year hands down but this year is Jeshal's. Dude is spitting so many hard pills and it's kinda hot to swallow. Imma keep swallowing it regardless.

*A pill a day keeps the simp-fever away*



Like he is out of this planet🙂. Why did he deactivate though?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by joeeee240(m): 12:15am On Mar 26, 2023
ashewoboy:





My friend phvcked a girl in an uncompleted building😯🙂. It is not good to be a simp🙂. Ubunja, you do well.

The problem with most of these is that the girls are not hot or classy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 12:30am On Mar 26, 2023
Women of value are found in the place(s) of improvement, not in the place(s) of hedonism.

👌

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 12:33am On Mar 26, 2023
Time is man's best friend. cool

Don't make it your enemy, by wasting it.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by joeeee240(m): 12:46am On Mar 26, 2023
Pukkalolo:
I was recently asked, "Do you advocate cold approach or just wait to be choosen?"


Just like cold call in sales, i believe Cold approach is when you approach a woman who's totally unaware of you initially like on the street, bustop or something. While waiting to be choosen, is basically waiting to get choosing signal, as in, interest signs before making an attempt.

So do I advocate cold approach

When we think of cold approach, we think of a guy who basically set out of the house with the intention of wooing women, and then he's seen approaching a woman who seems generally NOT open to interactions. For example approaching a woman hurrying down the street heading to work or something important. When you approach her, of course you are gonna get a negative reaction. As you can see the problem isn't that she's not interested you, it's that she's not just interested in any social interactions at that moment.

If you are looking to start a serious relationship, you need to share things in common with the girl and you need to see her couple of times. With the typical cold approach, there's high probability that you aren't going to share things in common with the random girl you're cold approaching.

And in recent times, due to insecurities, most women would feel unsafe to be approach by a random stranger.

And aside that...when you cold approach a stranger, if you aren't asking for direction or time, then it's automatically assume you wanna beg for money. And by default you tend to get ignored or get dismissed quickly. It's difficult to overcome that stereotype unless you look very attractive. And even if you look attractive, she natural tend to find it weird and uncomfortable because you are a total stranger to her.

Many times, a woman defensive instinct is high when she's walking alone quickly down the street and as a result, she's more likely to reject you as default responses; it does matter how good your so called "game" is.


As a matter of fact, If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes around the streets trying to cold approach every girl he encounter.

My biggest beef against cold approaching is that it's a time wasting behavior...I value my time more than anything else. Time that you are suppose to spend learning a skill or building your business... instead you waste it, trawling the streets in search of pussy.


Ok, chill. Now, I've thrown lots of shades at cold approach,
you might think "since cold approach doesn't really make sense, so are you saying the way forward is just wait to be choosen"

Relax bro.

So do I advocate "just wait to be choosen."?

That is, waiting to get choosing signal (interest signs) before making an attempt to initiate a conversation with her.

One of the most common choosen signals is when she makes strong eye contact with you. Basically, she catches your eye and hold strong eye contact for few seconds. A woman who’s chooses you will often meet your eyes, look away, then look back again.


I mean, approaching a lady who gives you choosing signals is specifically always a great idea, and always useful.

My first issue with Choosing signals is that it can be tricky and can sometimes be misleading. Sometimes you can get choosing signals from a lady that actually has no interest in you. This happens a lot.

Another problem with waiting to be choosing is that you'll naturally tend to miss out on a lot of interest signs if you are inexperienced and you lack social awareness. This is because women are good at pretending and hiding their interest.
Women have a way of stylishly checking you out without you noticing, so sometimes she has already giving you choosing signals, but you didn't realise.

Just like we said earlier that If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes about the streets trying to cold approach every girl he sees on the road. This is even worse for choosing signals: you don't want to be that guy who goes about the streets desperately looking at girls eyes and trying to maintain eye contact with them because you looking for choosing signals. That's a low status behavior.



Another issue with choosing signals is that it mostly come from less attractive girls. A Lady who is very beautiful and sexy have big egos, and you will rarely catch her checking out a guy.

Most highly attractive ladies have more social value, and so they feel very "entitled" and they walk around wearing a saucy and "I don't care" facial expression; they expect you to be given them choosing signals and not the other way around.


I have said this before on this thread: the vast majority of the time, only 10% of men tend to get good amount of "obvious" choosing signals, that's the men who are famous, rich or very handsome and physically appealing.

But the rest of men will only get those "obvious" choosing signals once in a blue moon.

So if you want to get more "obvious" choosen signals from women, First, max out your looks, money and status... That's the best advice.

But in general, if you want to get more sexual opportunities, just waiting to be choosing signal isn't an efficient method.


*Takes a deep breath*


Now you are thinking, "you said cold approach is a waste of time but you are still beefing on ' just waiting to be choosen'..... Dude, seriously, what's your deal "

Ok, relax...tighten your seatbelt....we are just starting...

Remember, one big issue with cold approach is, you tend to indiscriminately approach a woman who's totally unaware of you. Worse, if she's a feminist or totally psycho, she might tag that as sexual harassment: and this might affect your reputation as a guy.

But approaching a girl is cooler and more natural if you are in an environment of similar interests with the girl, where being social is natural expected, so she won't find it weird to be approached by someone she doesn't know. For example, environment like club, school, church, higher institution, Seminars, training centers, party or any social gathering where networking and social interaction is expected and encouraged.

And remember we said cold approaching is a time wasting behavior, but you can make it more time effective if you can naturally fit it in your daily life. Instead of roaming the streets in a never-ending search for pussy like a jobless loser, you can simply approach girls while you go about your normal daily routine. For example, while coming back from lectures, office or work, you initiate conversation with that attractive girl who seems to also going your way. Or while shopping at the mall, you talk to that cute girl who's shopping near you.

If you noticed, I didn't say, wait to get choosing signals before you talk to the girl. Putting it bluntly: just waiting to be choosing is a submissive mindset.

Every time you meet a new woman, she's either one of these category:

#1. She interested in you. #2. She isn't interested in you

Most times, the guy who settle for the idea of "just wait to be chosen" is the guy who is greatly scared getting rejected by the woman in #2 category. He doesn't want to inconvenient or upset her. He doesn't want this woman to think poorly of him.

Dude, in a nutshell, you are huge pussy.

One reason why my behavior is highly confident and self-assured (and I'm enjoying romantic success) is because I don't mind inconveniencing and upsetting the woman in #2 category: I actually want them to reject me. Who cares if they think poorly of me. I need to get them out of the way as soon as possible.

The funny thing is, when you learn to face your (social) fears with women, you naturally learn more about women body language and non-verbal signals. Waiting for choosing signals won't help you understand women. Reading redpill advise won't teach you anything about women.

The rugged looking illiterate boy who has just spend 6 month at mechanic workshop as more experience and knowledge about car and automobile than 10 mechanical engineering graduate put together. This is because this because the mechanic illiterate boy, is getting going under cars, getting his body dirty and trying to fix cars.

I know buddy who's a totally cocky, he has smash more pussy than 10 repill community guys put together. And this buddy doesn't even know what redpill, game and shit test is. This is because this cocky buddy of mine isn't waiting for choosing signals from women before he take action. He's isn't waiting for permission.



Experience has taught me that women decide quickly whether they are interested in a guy or not... This why my approach (shameless approach) is to quickly take action and find out if she has any interest in me... once I see that there's some interest, I'll pull the triggers and build up her interest & sexual comfortableness.....

I'm not waiting for choosing signals(interest signs), instead I take action and provoke interest signs from her.

The lady I am currently seeing didn't give me any choosen signals; she had a tough "I don't care" facial expression, but as I confidently go over and start talking to her, she opened up and started giving me choosen signals.

When I ask her why she put up a tough/harsh looks initially, she is like "Wow, seriously?? I didn't know I was putting on that look"

If I was waiting for choosing signals, she'd be gone.

Life is all about taking calculated risks: you can not just wait for some sign from the universe to make your move. Let me assure you this: some of your peak experiences will come from girls who didn't give choosen signals at first.






Waiting = feminine = submissive.

Taking action = Masculine = Dominant

Feminine wait around and hope something happens....

Masculine take action and make something happen. The choice is yours.


There's a proverb that says, if you want women to lick your balls, you have to grow some balls.

I like using your posts to share and enlighten guys because to a degree you have some game knowledge but with a few mistakes here and there.

So here we go cheesy

First off, cold approach remains the best way to build your skills as a seducer. But there are different types of cold approach.

What you just described is one type called: "mass approaching" where you go about making eye contact with every girl and apporaching most of them

Which of course is a stupìd way to approach cuz you end up burning your reputation to the ground

However, there's a much better way to do it: SCREENING

Which is were you screeñ for girls that are more open for social interactions or giving you approach invitations (choosing signals)

This makes things more calibrated and increases your chances of her fùcking you


Lol i always laugh when someone says when they say they know someone doing better than most in the Rp community. 100% of the time it's cap

I have met very very very good seducers. Both natural guys and pua guys.

The best I've ever seen was a pua. Dude did 25 bangs in a month from cold approach. his avrage is 10 to 15 a month. 85% hot girls
Never met an average guy that has done better ever.

And this doesn't include schools. Universities are WAY easier to get banged. It's so easy i wonder why people struggle there


In summary, cold approach remains the best way to build your game skills. You can make a girl that's not interested become interested

And if you're really good you can build attraction from thin air

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