Adexgentle005:
That’s just the fact! When I was a bachelor, I know how much I spend and save every month. Fast forward to when I got married, it’s all about bills, bills and bills.

I just checked my OPay transaction history and I couldn’t believe how much I’ve spent in just two months.

This thing called marriage is just responsibility and nothing more. If you are not financially stable or you have other side hustle that bring extra money,please don’t get married.

My 2 cents!

Beolly:

Well I'm not against it, if you earn two million in a month I don't think that's too much to pay 1 million per term but imagine someone who earns 400-500k sending his kids to school that costs 700k/term. Although I'm not yet married, paper qualifications are gradually becoming useless. For me summer holidays will be the right time to enroll my kids into Tech schools for the young ones or any other training geared towards learning soft skills.

Ishilove:

Young lady, you are a character

pocohantas:


I was shocked to see the 100k but I restrained myself because fingers are not equal. I am not sure I can do 50k in a month _less than $100. Maybe that is why I am a gold-digger. I wouldn’t like my husband to create thread over 50k a month. 😩

pocohantas:


When he was a bachelor he spent less than 50k on feeding. Na ribs go full this one body.

Adexgentle005:
Exactly what I’m talking about. Thank God I’m not doing salary job, I wonder what would have become of me. All the things I’ve acquired so far like land and all that I got them when I was still a bachelor. Imagine buying land now when I’m married. It’s not just easy at all.

Isabi4lov:
No be only sharp sharp na panasharp 😜

Adexgentle005:
I could have kids without getting married. What’s meeting with expectations of life? And yes I would be a happier single man at my age. I’m still young!

Adexgentle005:
Lol all this lies for what nah?

Raalsalghul:


You guys are just been riled up over nothing. Seriously!

And so what if he spends 50k or 20k monthly as a bachelor or married man?

Did he steal from anybody or commit fraud?

Is that not what his pocket can carry or are we going to pretend everyone's finances are the same?

Are all fingers equal Pocohantas, Acidosis, Ishilove?

Is Nigeria not the poverty capital of the world
again.

Do you know how hmany couples are probably living below that in this country.

myami:
why you like cruise? Are you this playful in real life?

Ishilove:

Young lady, you are a character

djon78:



Bro shoe get size
What of the ones that pay 2-3 mill a term.

Forget the quality of education gotten can't be compared to cheaper ones

Still parents are paying them

Prayer na make God steady bless hustle so these kinds of expenses are easily met.

We never talk summer holidays oo
Taking 4 children with there mum for summer vacation to the UK, or US or Dubai how much alone you think there air ticket alone go cost? Still men dey run am for this street

Just pray Baba God to double your hustle

To be a man no be a days job

IyaebeTheGreat:
And who told you it’s normal to have kids without getting married, which religion permits that? You won’t be young forever,and since you started early believe me you’ll be glad you did at the later stage of your life. Just endure the current situation of the country and be hopeful that it won’t last forever. I understand the angle you are coming from.

GreyLaw:


100k? Bro, even when I was in Nigeria sometimes I spent 500k per month on parents and siblings and I wasn't married. I had some side business aside the roughly 360k per month I was earning then.

There is responsibility everywhere. In African coming from a large family can be demanding.

Sumerians:


Forget capping.

No be this Same Nigeria wey we gather dey.

As if one doesn't know how most of these monies are made. There is no any stupid praying. You Evil People should stop involving Almighty God in your evils.

Na person wey never waka and see things with all these Nigeria Wealthy/Rich guys go dey open mouth dey surprise or get carried away for all these Capping wey you dey cap. No money, I repeat, No Nigerian Wealthy/Rich Man money fit Move me. My own be say just enjoy your Loot/Idan quietly.

E just be say person no need dey dry every clothes for outside. I'm out of here.

myami:
at least you are enjoying free sex

efewizey:
Marriage no favor us men. Na women jare. Make we no they deceive ourselves. Why are there many divorce cases in the world. Men eyes don open to see the truth. Some women are in that marriage for the benefits. Once that is no longer as they projected they will nag and make your life a living hell. 90% of nigerian women believe a man should carry all their responsibility. Even your father won't do that. Las Las make everybody just do the one them fit do. Life no get manual.

Adexgentle005:
Nothing like experience. I’m just taming the young ones to know that marriage is not sort of an achievement but a big responsibility!

djon78:


A point is coming in Nigeria where divorce rate may get worse than the West own. Also many will be shinning from getting married. Because our women depends so much on men but at same time makes life a living hell for our men

At least women still works for West but here many depends on there men, and still won't appreciate there men's sacrifices, seeing it more as there right.

Wise women support and appreciate there man, which encourages the men to if possible give themselves for there wives and children.

Bible no dey lie

Proverbs 14 vs 1 every wise woman builds her home, but the foolish plucks it down with her hands


We have been breeding plenty foolish ones

juniorstar:

No drop money for upkeep and your wife toiletries you go know say sex isn't free.

djon78:



Bros there are many rich wealthy guys that made there money genuine

Not everyone have there hand into one deep shi.t or the other

Many are making there money in a legit way

Canceling Baba God, is not the way to God because God actually blesses and smiles on ones hustle

But it starts with a clean mind towards your fellow human being

Like you dey do now, tagging all man evil. This kind mindset doesn't breed success cause you may be envying or tagging someone with clean hands, which Almighty no go like

People dey do bad things no means say everybody dey bad. Good people still full

If you develop good mindset, success won't be far away from you because success is actually what can you see. What light, information do you have?
Not just see with just your natural eyes but what patterns can you notice

Success is first from the mind
Once your mind can grasp it, in no distant time it will manifest for real life.

That's the secret of many rich men
They see what others couldn't see and cashed out.

So work on your mind

Nigeria with it's multiheaded wahala is so much filled with opportunities.
Nigeria is a hidden economic global super power. A country with potential to be a 6 trillion dollars economy, only below United States and China, if the resources are channeled well

But because majority of people can't see this, will be complaining, cursing, but those that have seen the potential are already sharpening there knifes to take there share

There is so much opportunities in the entire globe right now, since before man began to exist, but only those with eyes can see it.

unbiased2021:


Lies ? Why the hell do I need to lie ? This is a faceless forum.
Spending 100k in two months is not spending money at all.

The picture below is my opay transactions. Only for spending. Take a look at some of the daily expenses.
E be like broke people plenty for this platform

pocohantas:


When he was a bachelor he spent less than 50k on feeding. Na ribs go full this one body.

Adexgentle005:
I bought my first land when I was a bachelor. You probably still in your parent house eating your mom’s food. I have got investment already. I eat whatever I want. Party all night. I was even more chubby then than now. The joke is on you!

Sumerians:


From this your Comment. I'm absolutely sure you are still below 30years of age.

Besides I stopped reading at the first paragraph.

Lol this one is explaining Shiiit to someone who works with the CBN on how SUCCESS is achieved in Nigeria.

E even mentioned he is not successful which isn't me lol.

Hopefully someday you will grow up and if you will fortunate enough to and understand how life works and what life entails.

Keep basking in your dreams and illusions.

Fredoh:


Truth be told, as a male, the last time you’ll ever get anything absolutely free was when you were a kid. As a man nothing is for free and nobody gives a f^ck! Your children will most likely remember your wife than you.

djon78:



Bro shoe get size
What of the ones that pay 2-3 mill a term.

Forget the quality of education gotten can't be compared to cheaper ones

Still parents are paying them

Prayer na make God steady bless hustle so these kinds of expenses are easily met.

We never talk summer holidays oo
Taking 4 children with there mum for summer vacation to the UK, or US or Dubai how much alone you think there air ticket alone go cost? Still men dey run am for this street

Just pray Baba God to double your hustle

To be a man no be a days job

sgtponzihater1:
There is no marriage in heaven. Your wife and you will have no attachment in heaven as husband and wife. Live your life like heaven is the goal. Do what you can, and leave the ones you can't.

Modern marriage favours women in most cases, as men give the best part of their resources servicing the home and these women in the name of being a man.

Men should pray at all times, never enter marriage only out of emotions and be intentional. If the woman shows the slightest sign of disloyalty, the avoid her.

Remember again that all your marriage expenses, dancing etc will end here on earth. Heaven is the goal, and that should be a man's only focus.

This advice goes to women as well.

Your brother

PonziHater

efewizey:


True words bro.but sometimes I wonder how they feel just sitting down and putting all the load on the man. And society will criticize you when you decide you have had enough. Some men are in it for the children if not majority of nigerian women can bring you down with their garbage. Especially if she has a high taste and does not have a job to fund that taste. Na before I wan kill myself with stress. Now I just leave the life as I see am. No matter what u do for them if you like give them 5million last month. The day u don't give them that same amount you go hear word.

djon78:


A point is coming in Nigeria where divorce rate may get worse than the West own. Also many will be shinning from getting married. Because our women depends so much on men but at same time makes life a living hell for our men

At least women still works for West but here many depends on there men, and still won't appreciate there men's sacrifices, seeing it more as there right.

Wise women support and appreciate there man, which encourages the men to if possible give themselves for there wives and children.

Bible no dey lie

Proverbs 14 vs 1 every wise woman builds her home, but the foolish plucks it down with her hands


We have been breeding plenty foolish ones

efewizey:
Marriage no favor us men. Na women jare. Make we no they deceive ourselves. Why are there many divorce cases in the world. Men eyes don open to see the truth. Some women are in that marriage for the benefits. Once that is no longer as they projected they will nag and make your life a living hell. 90% of nigerian women believe a man should carry all their responsibility. Even your father won't do that. Las Las make everybody just do the one them fit do. Life no get manual.

Adexgentle005:
Yes I do. Is marriage all about having kids?